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The usual crush questions..


Question Posted Sunday August 21 2005, 12:40 am

Hi everyone. 16/f.

There's this guy who I know from an extracurriculur (that's a hard one to spell) drama class. We never get to talk in class much, but I had to give him my email as he had to email me a script he'd wrote 9and he didn't have enough copies) Well, he emailed me almost immediately and told me he couldn't get the script until he went to his dads place, and then he started asking me all these questions about myself. Well, we've been emailing back and forth quite a bit.. and now I'm not used where to go from here. He's a bit older than me.. 19 turning 20.. but I can't help but hope he's somewhat interested. What should I do now? Just keep going as it is or make a subtle move? And do you think he's just being friendly or there's something there?

Thanks everyone.


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GroovyChick answered Monday August 22 2005, 7:52 am:
I couldn't tell you if he is being friendly or theres something there, what u should do is ask him if he does like you. if so keep giong if not then you could be friends. y u asking for advice when you should follow your heart and what it is telling you. hope i helped.

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miZzhOllistermOdelX3 answered Sunday August 21 2005, 2:25 pm:
i dont think he was just being friendly. When guys start asking questions it usually means they're interested in you. I think you should get to know him better .. why not ask him to go to get a cup of coffe? Or even just meet up and talk somewhere. I dont think the age is that big of a deal unless you're not feeling comfortable around him. Like something isnt right. Then just go with your feeling and just stay friends. There are alot of messed up people out there ..
hope i helped you out !!

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just1girl answered Sunday August 21 2005, 12:43 pm:
i think he is intrested when a guy wants to know about you he is definitly intrested you should make a move before somone else nabs him -Amanda

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xWhiteTigerx answered Sunday August 21 2005, 7:14 am:
well u should get to know him more and if you all ready do know him enough that you know you wanna go out with him then GO FOR IT! oh and about the other question about if he is being friendly ,it all depend on what he is saying good look xxx

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vilelove answered Sunday August 21 2005, 12:49 am:
Hi. ...I think it's a little bit of both. He's just being friendly but... he's also getting interested. Like, maybe he was KIND OF interested and then he decided to befriendly and got even MORE interested and now he is interested OR he started out being friendly but when he started talking to you he became interested (I mean... you did start emailing each other back and forward). I think you should make a move. I don't think you have anything to loose by it. He probably sees you as a new possibility. If you want to let a few time pass it's ok, but if he still hasn't made a move of you just don't let too many time pass because then he might just think of you as a friend. Right now he might be kind of interested and kind of just being friendly but if you make a move he will become intrigued and when you guys are together he will get to know you more and be even more interested. You could wait to see if he asks you out but... it's risky. He might end up seeing you as just a friend. I would tell you go for it, make a move.

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ChOcOLoLo answered Sunday August 21 2005, 12:49 am:
Hey there! I think he's not just being friendly, there really is something there. He asked questions to get to know you more, and that really shows that he is interested in you. Um, I suggest that right now, keep on talking and emailing each other because the more you get to know each other, you will become friends, and it is better to be friends with someone before being lovers. Being friends first kind of builds a stronger foundation in long-term relationships because you guys already have mutual trust for each other. Good luck! I am really excited for you! =D hehe.

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