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I think I have hair on my nose! One girl even asked do I shave it! How do I get rid of it? It's only in like the bottom across the nose.
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well if you shave than the hair will grow back twice as thick and twice as dark i would eighter pluck them or get them waxed or they have a hair removal kit thats painless nair, and other products like that that you can find in any pharmacy good luck i hope i helped my inbox is always open if you need advice
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well i have only had sex twice.
the second time was last night and we didnt really go all the way.
he was too drunk to..you know.. get hard but we did other stuff.
he put it in me like twice but that was it and it didnt even go all the way in.
he fingered me really hard and since then i have been bleeding a little bit down there.
i know its not my period because i just got off like a week ago.
and im kind of swollen and sore.
and ive had to pee ALOT.
is this normal and do you think that i might be pregnant?
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no i dont think your pregent if his semen didnt actually go in your virgina than no your not pregnet but about the being sore and fingering thing i would wait until the sore ness clears before you do anything else because you dont want to permetnly damage your virgina you know and make sure he knows what hes doing lol hope i helped
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i am going to a sweet 16 in april. i know everyone is going to be dancing like they do at "clubs" but i dont know how to like dance in "clubs" i only dance when the dance is taught to me. like classes. how do people dance? what should i do? p.s my boyfriend will be there. (link)
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sometimes they have dance videos or if your in a area that has a gym some gym has hip hop classes or if that doesnt help find somebody that you can trust and who knows how to dance and let them to teach you i hope i helped really just move to the music do what you do
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ok so me and my best guy friend are really close. he has a girlfriend who is also a good friend of mine. last summer i started liking my guy friend and then i found out he was going out with my other friend and i was completely devestated yet happy for them because they make a cute couple. they've had their problems but at the moment they're stable in their relationship. when his girlfriend isn't around me and my best guy friend have cuddled at parties and he's smacked my ass and we've had phone sex a couple times. when she is around he'll cuddle with both of us and i know my girl-friend is fine with that because she knows that im not the boyfriend stealing type. but now im worried that i really love my guy friend as more than a friend. we've told each other that we love each other but it was just friendship love. sometimes when we're online he'll treat me like his girlfriend and call me baby and love but as soon as his girlfriend comes online he'll pay more attention to her because i know he really loves her. my problem is that i really feel this need that i have to tell him i love him because i've already made a mistake by not telling him before he had a girlfriend. i don't want him to break up with his girlfriend and go out with me because i could never do that to my friend. what should i do??? (link)
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ok first of all your both wrong because your both flirting shes your friend and his gurlfriend but any way hes playing mind games hes making it harder on you to get over him so this is what i would do i would tell him how you feel plain and simple you already lost your chance but you finally got a second chance so be fair to his gurlfriend him and yourself you never know he could leave her for you she'll thank you in the long run and your'll have your man or he can not feel the same but it might hurt but at least you know how he feels and it'll help you get over him the truth will set you free i rather know and take the conquenses than go on and being left out in the dark i hope i helped and sorry if i confused you my inbox is always open goodluck
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Here goes:
I’m 14/f and my best friend is 14/m and gay. We’ve been friends for over a year which is the longest time my bff [let’s call him Chris] has kept anyone as a best friend. But anywhos, I have this very frivolous and talkative personality when I’m around people but that’s a problem…Chris doesn’t want to talk about serious things with me. He goes to 2 other people and that kind of hurts me. But then I can’t blame him but I still want to be the person he turns to when he has a problem and not just a person he sees as all talkative and clumsy. Is there any way I can maybe steer him to talk to me about serious things without actually sitting down and talking to him about it? Thanks =]
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its clear that he doesnt trust maybe you should ask why he doesnt trust you sure you may talk alot but that doesnt mean your'll go spilling the beans you know if theres no trust than theres really no relationship you know so explain to him that it hurts that he doesnt trust and if he still contiunes to treat you the way he does than play at his own game its his problem hell loose a really good friend because of his immautrue actions i hope i helped goodluck my inbox is always open
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What is the most important thing when you look for love?
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really only you can answer that question can be a beatitful yet it can be painfull we dont always love who we should so try to stick to the people who can love you back who makes you laugh smile and you know who wont try to hurt you because finding someone you love and who loves you back is not always the case i know you cant help who you fall in love with but try to love wisley i hope i helped my inbox is always open if you need help i would love to hear from you goodluck
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I steal and I cheat and i LIE and I hack and do bunch of illegal stuff and i ususally do this to the people that actually trust me (which isnt a lot of people these days) and i don't know how to stop it or what to do, i want to becoma a good person with good karma, bu it just doesn't work. Has anyone ever turned their life around COMPLETELY? for the better.. and how'd you do it? (link)
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yes there has been many people who changed there life around but it doesnt happen over night its gonna take time and committment its all in your head when you feel your self lie or cheat think twice find something else remeber the truth is not always pleasent and people will not always like what you tell them beleive me but at least you cant be considered a lier i know all this is easier said than done but as long as your committed to it you can do it remeber its all in your head and its takes a real man or real women to turn themselves around and learn from there mistakes trust me i hope i helped my inbox is always open if you need my help goodluck
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im a 14 year old guy i just got into high school and i can't stop thinking about girls there is this hot cheerleader in my science and i keep undressing her with my eyes and ive been haveing very dirty dreams about her wut should i do? (link)
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dont worry about it its completly natural just as lont as you dont act on it if the partys unwilling but dont worry theres really nothing you can do your 14 your going through purberty it happens all the time hey im a 17 year old female and still have fantansys and sometimes undress people with my eyes lol its completely natural your'll get out of the habbit and if you dont than embrass it and sometime if the sexual tension gets to be to much when your along masterbate its completly normal and natural i find it helps with the dreams hope i didint confuse you and i hope i helped goodluck my inbox is open all the time if you need help
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okay so a few months ago i noticed that i had stretchmarks on my boobs. i thought they would go away after a while, but it's 6 months later and THEY'RE STILL NOT GONE! i've told my mom about them and she says that they will go away over time, but i want them to go away as soon as possible. i don't know what to do about them. they are really dark and make me self-concious. cause when we're changing in the locker room for gym, you can see them cause they like go above my bra. any help?
thanks - kate (link)
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its completely natural and your moms right there go away or lightem up so you really wont be able to notice them
alot of gurls have the same problem its called purberty try coco butter it helps stretch marks or they have this stretch mark cream that you can find at rite aid wal-mart and excords hope i helped good luck
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hey,
well i'm going to a sleepover, and we probably won't sleep, but ths morning my period came again and i thought it wouldn't till the 26th but its still irregular. and i was just going to wear a tampon because odds are we won't sleep that much and i think if we do sleep we'd go to sleep at like 3a/m and i have to leave at 10. so that's 7 hours. so i think i'll be okay. but what are some suggestions on how to handle this. just wear a tampon and change it ever 6-7 hours? because i refuse to wear a pad to a sleepover eww. hah
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honestly to me its really not a big a deal if the sleepover is with a couple of your gurl friends every gurl gets there period its completely natural so just do what you always do change your tampon or whatever you use and if theres guys there than do what you would do normally but with more caution you know no getting down and dirty lol but goodluck
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Maybe I'm just a person who feels this way, but when I give advice, half the people don't even respond to me, like give me a rating. Of course I know it's their decision to rate, but I really don't appreciate the fact that I spend a good amount of time answering a question, and the person doesn't rate me. Does anybody else feel this way? (link)
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yes and sometimes i feel i get under rated but thats there decision you know i may not always like it but i love giving advice so i guess you gotta take the good with the bad
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Well, I've been going out with my boyfriend for a month and half, about. I like him a lot, and my friend likes his brother a lot too. Both my friend and I found out yesterday, out of the blue, that they`re both moving to the state neighboring us. For me, its hared enough to see him because I have a strict father. I don't know I can handle him moving away because I'd never see him. I want to break up with him because I think its best, but he said theres a chance he might come back here if he doesn't like the new school. I don't want to break up with him now, just in case he comes back,but I don't wanna wait because then he might think I found someone else. I have no idea what I should do. Any advice?
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your completly right in every thing if you really dont want to break up with him than say lets go on a breake its putting it in a nice way and honestly the best solution is to go on a break or break up with him because your not going to get to see him and you both can met somebody new or worse one of the to of you could wind up really hurting the other theres a saying for a reason
"LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS NEVER WORK" and i have yet to prove that statement wrong i hope i helped goodluck remeber theres plenty of other fish in the sea my inbox is always open if you need any more advice
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Is it normal for the guy who loves u to check out other girls? because i find it sorta disrespectful but i also hear its normal and im confused.. (link)
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well theres a difference in how he looks at other gurls come on lets face it guy or gurl we all look at the opposite sex or the same sex if thats the way you go but its completley normal but to do it in front of the person is complete disrecpeat and staring hard and for a certin amount of time is just plain being an asshole witch is total disrpeact and wrong so yes its normal to a certian point but to do it right in front of you or and to stare hard is total disrepeat hope i helped my inbox is always open
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Ok, so this girl I like asked me to go to a play with her one night. I was just talking to her on AIM and she says "Hey, do you want to go see Le Miserables with me...?" I was like "Sure...?" So we went to the play and everything and we talked some...But I wanna know if this was a date or not..Please tell... (link)
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it depends did she dress up did she flirt and did you get the vibe that she liked you and if your not sure ask her to go the movies and make it well known to her thats its a date you know your'll never know for sure until you try or ask i hope i helped goodluck
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hey..well i still go to liberty. im a senior now :) (link)
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oh thanx for writting me yeah you do know me good to here from you write any time i am good at advice
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I feel pretty stupid for asking this, but what are all the "bases"? (Ya know, like some guy is bragging "Oh, we made it to 2nd base last night!" (link)
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well in my opion and what i hear is that the bases are
1.french kissing
2.fingering,handjob feeling ect.
3.eating out and giving a blowjob
4.fucking
i hope i helped
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hey i see you go to liberty hiigh school? i do too..you live in sullivan county? IM me on eatapasty if you dont want to have this posted on your column..i wass jw who you were
-melissa (link)
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this is careen is this melissa the one who use to go liberty high i dont really have im
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and i don't know if he likes me or not( i doubt he does..) and the thing is that i dont know if he would like me. He's really close with these other 2 girls..and i get really jealous of them...because idk...he might like them. So how can i get him to like me? I mean i know you can't make someone like you, but can anyone give me tips on how to get a guy to notice you, or like you more? (link)
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talk to him more but make sure you flirt a little you dont only want to be considered a friend and deff make him laugh and also when you talk to him always keep him wanting more make him think of nothing or no one else but you but dont look to desprate and you dont want to come across as sluty and try not to act like your jeleaous and remeber guys want what they usually cant have so play hard to get but not to hard you know and have cofidence because confidence is sexy i hope i helped goodluck my inbox is always open if you need help
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okay so well there this guy i really like. and then i found out one of my close friend likes him too. [she didnt tell me though]. and now she wants him to be her valentine. should i just give up on him or what?
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the question is does your friend know that you like him because if she does than shes raining on your territory but she liked him first than vise versa it also depends on who he fllirts with more you or your friend but rember friends come above all else guys come and go but true friends stay forever i hope i helped p.s.talk to your friend and find out all the facts before you make your decsion you know
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im overweight but also underweight~my arms ar tiny only like 5in around and my wrists are 3 but i can lift 90lbs with my arms~my stomach rightbelow my ribs is big i cant see my feet standing straight but u can see my ribs~my legs are humongus like 23in around my thighs but i can lift 140lbs w/ my legs what kind of exercise should i do~ im to skinny in areas but to fat in others i just wana be average weight all around not skinny not fat what do i do and dont say a doctor they just said im over and under weight in other areas help mee (link)
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if your heavey around the mid section do abs sit ups crunches and waist twist do your ab work outs and do leg rasies and sqauts instead of your fat build mucsle its gonna take time its not gonna happen over night and with your skinny areas work to make them bigger you know one day work on one target area like legs and abs you know ect. good luck i hope i helped
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