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Well my neighbor who is like my best friend is throwin' hints that he likes me or whateva, but he won't come out and say it. When I ask him questions to kinda "trap" him into tellin' me he always comes out with something for us either to start arguing or to get off the phone. How can I get him to tell me how he really feel?
He's already telling you how he feels. If you are looking for proof, it's in everytime that he changes the subject or tries to get out of the conversation. Why not try going out to do things that you both like to hang out more and see if he'd be willing to tell you then. With him, I imagine he's shy, you might have to be the one to make the move or ask him out.
There is this guy that i really like, but he is my friend's brother. I like him so much, but he is in a whole different grade. He goes to church and he plays basketball. i even had a dream about him, and in it he gave me this beautiful necklace. i wish SO MUCH that it would really happen. i want him to notice me (not by me staring idiotically at him) on his own terms, but how? i see him every morning in the gym and all i can do is stare at him. what do i do?
signed
broken
Okay, he plays basketball. Do you? Even if you don't why not when you do see him or notice him playing by himself ask if you can have a one on one game. If you actually like to play basketball that is. If not you're going to have to try talking to him about a subject he is very into, if not that one that he's passionate about. If you get any person talking about something they truly have feelings about, they'll talk for a while. (Gives you reason to stare.) But in all, you have to start the conversation, as stated below. Just a word of caution, being as this is your friends brother. If they don't know, I'd let them know and find out how they feel about it, that might impact your friendship with them.
Okay heres the deal. I met this girl at school, and she is in 11th grade. I'm in 9th. Anyways Shes really nice and we talked and stuff, eventually she decided to call me her 'brother'. And well the other night I went to a concert with her.. and well I realized that I like her.. and i don't know what to do because If i ask her out or something she might think i'm weird because were 'siblings'. also, she will graduate after next year.. If we do get into a relationship will it even work? And i'm afraid that if we to end up going out and something happens between us. I might lose one of my best friends.
You only live once, so i'm told. With that being said there are those of us that are willing to risk it all for just a small portion of true well being and those that rather stay in a comfortable place not to disrupt things. You need to evaluate the whole thing. Is it going to be worth it to you, if you make this declaration and it doens't work, or changes things. If you can deal with that yourself then I think you are ready to let her know. If you aren't sure, as you have so many questions with things in this post, I'd say let it be. Take what you can get from the relationship you have now. To some something is better than nothing at all.
There is this guy that I really like ALOT, and me and him are constantly flirting and he is always trying to grab my hand and stuff, and he is always like i like you so much, and when i'm like jokingly like dang i'm cool and it's cause i'm so dang cute and he is like yeah you are, and he keeps telling ME, MY friends, and HIS friends that he is going to ask me out and he still hasn't. What is his problem, is he procrastinating or just teasing me please help.
:&hearts Alix
His problem is that he doens't know how to do it even though he's telling everyone he's going to do it. It could be that he found a comfortable place with having told everyone and he already did ask you? I can't say that for sure though if you say he's still talking about asking you out. I would take a venture to guess he's a very private or shy person, and to actually bring that out to you when it's only you two, is kind of hard for him.
Under COLUMN SETTINGS there's a thing called PAGE LINKS, what is it? What's the code for it? And what does it do? Thank you :o)
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That is actually to set the color for the hyperlinks on your column. Any links on your page will be set to that color. I'm not sure about the code, but the color or the input is a color in hex.
I use Mozilla Firefox, and for some reason my homepage (my.yahoo.com) won't show up. It says it doesn't exist, but when I try my other computer, everything works fine. I tried going to google and typing in yahoo.com, and I get a link, but it still won't show up, and the operations are timing out.
What can I do to make it work again?
Thanks.
You could try first cleaning out your cache. In the control panel go to Internet Options. There you want to delete cookies. Also try deleting offline content. Once you do that open up Firefox again and try going to yahoo.com, sign in. From there it should be set to allow you to get to your my.yahoo.com page.
i am a femal n im 13 ok well theres this guy in 3 of my classes n we always talk n mess with each other but theres a problem he has a girl friend now one of my friends asked if he liked me n all he siad was i have a gurlfriend but he never siad he didnt like me soo how do i now if he does like me of not if soo wut should i do please help!
If he's said that he has a girlfriend now, that means even if he were interested he's not going to give her up. If he likes you but you realize that he's not going to give her up, would you want to know? If so do go and ask him straight up. But don't be surprised if he just says he's not going to do anything about it. I would think that you would want him to stay with her though, I mean after all that shows how commited he is to relationships he's in or her. I say just go with what you have and maybe something will come of it, but don't hope too much.
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Hey peoples, um i waz wondering, why do i lose my apitite at publik places like school and stuff? latly i have been eating less to... im not anerexic im like 160somthin to 170 pounds.... if you could help that would be sooo great, i rate 5s!
If you talking about losing apitite as an overall problem, no matter where you are, you might want to consider if you recently stopped being active. Where you in any sports? I know when I was active like that I ate a lot more than what I would normally eat. If you are worried about it and haven't been active with something like that, why not give that a try and see how it might change things for you. It doesn't even have to be a sport but just do a workout.
I would like to be more spiritualy intact with myself?
Id like to maybe start yogo but i duno what kind of things to do!
Any tips on how I can become more spiritualy intact?
please
There are several different things you might mean when you say spiritually intact. If it's a type of medatating you are looking to do, sure yoga can help but it doesn't have to be the only way or thing you do. I realize the last person said to go and buy a video for that, I would say if you think you are going to enjoy it and use it, go ahead. If not find someone or somewhere you might be able to borrow one just to try it out. Other you can just sit yourself down and do breathing excersices. Most of the time when you are doing these things you want to try to keep your mind clear.
ok well .. i have a best friend lets just say her names (debby) and we have been best friends since last year and i have this ex best friend (lila).. well my parents have never liked lila they said i was really mean when i was aroudn her and my attitude changed around them abd she caused soem problems.. so i had to quit haning around her.. and now lila is hanging out with my best friend debby and i know she is doing it on purpose because she use to hate debby and plus she has liek no friends at all.. well now i cant hang around debby because lila is always around her and i am always left out.. so my ? is do i still hang aroudn them even i hate her so much or do i just leave them all alone until she stops hanging around her..
If you could, I would suggest talking to debby over the situation or friendship you and lila once had. Letting her know in that way that you two can't really hang out with her and she may look at things differently and make time to hang out with you once again.
What are some good exercises to do in the winter? I know like in warmer seasons you can go outside and play sports and stuff, but when its cold out being outside is not very enjoyable. But I need to keep my work-out going but I'm not one to do crunches or anything more stuff that is fun to do and burns calories. What are some options/activities?
Your best bet for excersizes in the winter is like a gym or Ymca/Ywca kind of place. They have pleanty of activities for you to choose from to keep active. If you thinking of just staying around the house, then it might be an idea to look into getting one of them excersize steps, medicine ball, or similar items that don't take too much space but can help you out.
ok well I have been talking to myslef since I was about 6 or 7 and I seriously feel like I'm talking to someone else. I ask myself questions and then give myself an answer all out loud. When I think these I can't come to a solution, but when I talk to myself out loud I feel like another person is talking to me. I find myself looking in magazines and saying out loud and pointing as if I'm giving another person a visual "I'm her."(on that I also find myself choosing who I am in a movie show anything even books... what could that mean) And then I sit in my room and I act out diffent things talking to myself and then talking as if I'm another person and I can get so into it that I get angry or upset I can even cry example: (I have done this) i say "I love you so much" then "I don't know if this will last so let's not kid ourselves and continue with this" then my throat starts to close up and I get so into i say more and more and start feeling the emotions one would feel if this were actaully happening and then I just keep on talking to myself. Is this normal? If not what is it? I'm 13
Seeing yourself in a movie/book or anything like that is not something to be worried about, we all do it at one point or another in our life. As for talking out loud and it helping you find answer instead of thinking it through...I would say it's not too different. The reason I say that is because you realize more of things, for some, when you are vocal about them. I am not a type of person that can just call out emotions as you described in your example, so I can't say too much on that part. I do say that you can use that as a talent if you thinking of trying to go into acting. Not sure if I was very helpful but I have been known to find myself in movies/books that I'm using as entertainment quite often so that I know is okay.
ok well i have a boyfriend and we've been together for 3 months since today. and lately i haven't been sure of what to do. ok well i will show you a conversation with a guy friend of mine instead of type it all because it says it all in the conversation:
Me: i have alot of friends we offer to give me drugs for free but i say no though it gets really tempting
Friend: dont
Me: i won't next time i get tempted i shall think of you because weirdly when i think of (boyfriend name) i want to do it even more.....
Me: and i don't know why
Friend: wow
Friend: weird
Me: i'm confused does that mean i don't like him?
Friend: im guessing yes
Me: i don't know
Me: sometimes i think i do sometimes i think i don't
Me: i keep wanting to ask him for a little break to see if i still like him or if i want someone else but like i don't want to be mean and i don't like regret as i had said before
Friend: oh
Me: but like he's getting really serious about me...
Friend: ask him to slow down then
Me: ah i'm confused
Me: i think i like him and i dont think i like him i dont want a relationship but i do want a relationship and think he's gunna dump me but i also thinks he's not and i tihnk i want a break but i also think i dont
Friend: wow
Me: i'm bad at relationships :-\
Me: i sound like a bad girlfriend
Friend: no
Me: yes i do
Friend: no u dont
Me: i' have 54 ex boyfriends
Friend: u count?
Me: i can never decide what i want
Me: no (boyfriend name)asked me how many i've had so i had to find out
Me: i don't rememeber more than half of their names
Me: my longest relationship was 4 months well actually 3 years but i don't like to mention that one
Me: i have no idea what i want out of my life
Me: i can't even figure myself out
Me: how can i know what a guy wants when i can't even tell what i want
Me: grrr
Friend: i got an idea
Friend: have fun with your life
Me: how can i have fun with all this crap
Friend: just forget about it all
Friend: nothings goin to make me not like you
sorry if it was long but i'm not sure what i should do
First I kind of agree with Stephanie in that you need to be alone, as in not in a relationship. If this is how it's been then you have to sit down and figure yourself out first. It seems like you doing that just because you are lonely or feel that you are missing something not being with a guy. But with the amount of time you with any one of them, it's more of you trying to not let it work. Until you can actually find yourself and know who you are, you won't be able to stop doing what you are in that looking to constantly be with someone and yet not letting it get too serious.
i know i am depressed,between family problems,friend problems,and being home sick from my old town.im not the same happy person i was..i just want to become something..should i ask my mom if i could get singing lessons or acting classes? i want to be one of that and im looking forward to going to a collage for singing and acting..and how can i do this how can i become a happy person again? any tips?please help..no one can tell im sad,i hide it..my friends arent good enough to tell that stuff..
First good thing is that you realize that you are, now in order to fix it in a way you have to force yourself to do thing that you find enjoyable. I say force because being depressed will help you find any reason not to do something, so instead of just going with that make yourself get to doing something and it'll take your mind off your current state. Also if you do it enough, you'll find yourself not having to force it and just letting it happen.
Im 15 years old and i have another friend my age. we are both guys and i was wondering if there is any way to tell if he is gay or not. i dont want to just ask him BEcAUSE he might freak out but there has been a lot of signs but then again we all act a little gay now and then. We've been drunk before and he has blacked out and took his shirt off and asked me if i wanted him to be my pillow and of course i said yes because well im in the closet gay and totally have the hotts for him. the same night when he thought i was passed out he stuck my hand down his pants and rubbed it around his cock. Now he could have just been drunk BEcuAUSE he was giggling when he did it but i dont know it felt like he had a boner. i have also been using his stomach as a pillow this week and even laid in his crotch area today. hE'S also the only guy i knwoo who has given me a hug twice this week. i gave him one the first time and he gave me one today so maybe now that he knows i dont mind he"s doing it more> well enough with examples i have two questions> is there any way i can prove he is gay and whats hould i do and im not just going to ask him straight up BEcuAUSE that would be weird. please help me!
Not that this works all the time but you could just start to ask him about different situations involving homosexuality and asking him what he would do in those situations. He might not give you an honest answer though just because he might be scared of saying the wrong thing as well. There really is no sure way of asking without asking.
How do you get rid of all those website URL's in the address bar. You get what im talking about right? Like when you click the arrow next to go all those websites that you go to. Please help theres too many and its irritating.
If using internet explorer, right click on the icon then go to properties. In the first tab you will see a history section. That is where the websites that you visit are stored. Click on clear history. If you don't use that, then go to the control panel from the start menu and look for internet options (that is the same thing you would get).
I've been sitting back and watching this thing unfold and quite frankly it's made me a bit uneasy. If you don't have the intention of marrying her then I don't think you should bother trying to get back with her. I for one would ask her to marry me if I knew she wasn't still in love with you. You really have her around your finger don't you? Because now she doesn't want anything to do with me because she still "loves you". It's not fair to me because I can see myself spending the rest of my life with her. I'm not sure what intentions you have with her right now but hopefully one day she will see what is happening. If not then you better take good care of her because if you don't, I will.
Jack
I guess I really don't see that I have her "around my finger" as you put it.
Your caught up on her aren't u? It's not good for us guys to get caught up on girls like that, i think thats what they want. be careful. maybe its better that you aint with her anymore
Jack
I don't know what to say to this. But I figure if you put it up I should at least give it room in the column.
Since you are a guy I decided to ask you. Do guys prefer having sex with a virgin that is kind of hard to get or a girl thats kind of easy and has been around the block a few times? I was going to date this guy but he said he is tired of easy girls and he wants to find a virgin and have a serious relationship now and it just isn't like him but he has changed i guess. i was just wondering is that how most guys are? Thanks.
Amy
I would say it depends on the guy. For the most part us guys do think it's better to have sex with a virgin. But to be honest to be a guy like you describe, have not been that way before and now is not, I would venture to guess that he got hurt doing what he did. Just one theory. But if a guy truly likes someone and they get along I don't think it really matters either way if they are a virgin or been around. I think it's pretty sad that he won't bother to consider you if that's the only thing he's saying. Again, might be other reasons why he changed his mind like this but that's the first one that comes to mind. I won't say that all guys are like that but a good amount. We get to a certain point where we want a real relationship but that shouldn't mean that the other persons past should matter.
I knew something bad was going to happen. So how are you two doing now? Is this completely over with or what? are you just letting each other go or do you still want to be with her?
*~J.S.~*
How we doing? I'm I guess alright. Can't say it's the same but we still talking. I still want to be with her but we'll see what happens. I mean that in if she decides at any point that it's not worth it, then I won't push on it anymore but yes i'd like to be with her.