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The names Julie. i`m 15 years old and love too give advice so just ask me a question and i`ll try to help [:

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I just started updating again. When I see my username in the directory, they don't show my rating with stars anymore. Why?

http://www.advicenators.com/faq.php?f=24

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so i am very uncomfortable about talking to my mom about "girl things". how do i tell my mom that i need a razor? please help i rate 5.

when i talked to my mom i was like 'ew my legs are all hairy' blah blah blah 'i need a razor or something'. if you mom doesnt want you shaving then buy one of those creams that your put on for like 5 min and then wash off.

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heres a simple question, am i weird? i am 13 and i like old songs like by the 4 seasons and i have them on my ipod and stuff. and also ALOT of other oldies or old songs. not just oldies, like stuff from 80's and 70's. and i loved the jersey boys musical. i dont think of myself as a geek. i also love new songs but i love old songs just as much, am i a little.. odd?

your not odd at all. everyone has different tastes in music. you should be happy that you can admit that you listen to that stuff. your music taste will probably change, everyones does but as long as your enjoying what your listening to dont worry about it

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my boyfriend just asked me if i would dip..

but i honestly dont know what that means!!
he said.. you do know what that means right?
and i said yes.. and he goes do you want
to? but i have no idea what that means !!

im 14/f & so clueless.
please help me ASAP
cuz i need to text hiim back!

you chew tobacco
its very bad for you so i wouldnt advise it

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My "best" friend carrie went out with mark, who is one of my other best friends. They broke up after three days because Carrie thought Mark liked me instead and ever since then she has changed a lot. Slowly, she can began being obsessed with being popular, lying, attention, cheating, cussing, and she gradually pushed away all of her friends. After she had lost four best friends, she came to me. I heard Carrie talking talking to one of my friends about me and I confronted her CALMLY about it on IM that day.
Carrie: hey
Me: hi
Me: how come you said I was fat?
Carrie: what the hell? i never said that.
Me: I heard you say it
Carrie: I DIDNT SAY THAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Me: I heard you and so did about three other people so don't lie. I just want to know why u said it.
Carrie: MY FUCKING GOD!!
Me: can you stop cussing?
Carrie: what the fuck?
Me: okayyyy im going to take that as a no
Carrie: you know what? fuck you
Me: I never even did anything to you.
Carrie: WHO GIVES A FUCK IF I CALLED YOU FAT!? GET THE FUCK OVER IT! FUCK YOU
Then she signed off.
An hour later she called me and said "Look, I'm sorry. I never even said that. I would not ever talk about you behind your back."
I didn't even want to listen to her try and lie again so I just said "ok I'm going. bye" and hung up.
A few minutes later, my friend, Samantha, signed on and said that carrie had said something else about me.
Carrie signed on.
Me: wow. you said ANOTHER thing about me? how do I copy you? Normally I could care less if you said it to my face..but you just told me that you never talk about me behind my back.
Carrie: so?
Me: so, you lied AGAIN.
Carrie: w.e.
Me: can you please just go back to normal..everyone wants the old you. you haven't been normal since you and mark broke up.
Carrie: i dont give a fuck
Me: please stop cussing
Me: ok look i was going to invite you to my party but i cant
Carrie: w.e.
Me: i dont want someone cussing in every sentence at my party and i've asked u nicely to stop
Carrie: I DONT GIVE A FUCK!!
Carrie: SHUT-THE-FUCK-UP!!!!! FUCK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Then she signs off and calls me and says, "LOOK I'M SORRY AND YOU CAN'T ACCEPT THAT, THEN SCREW YOU!" and hung up.
Well, what the heck? What kind of apology is that?!?! She's apologized two more times but I don't really think that's enough after what she did..do you?
Should I ever forgive her or just stop being her friend?

This is long, so I'll give 5's to anyone who at least tries.

i dont understand why you would want to be friends with someone like that but okay. why dont you try confronting her in person, that way she cant sign off or run away. if your still fighting then you can try to just drop it and wait a few weeks and see if she changes, maybe shes just still upset about breaking up with her b.f

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what are some REALLY REALLY good books for teen girls. i dont want just a light fluffy book. i want it to have like a really good story n stuff. thanks!

oh i loveee this question !
okay these are books iv read that i liked
Go ask Alice
the perks of being a wallflower
speak
where the red fern grows
breathing underwater
breaking point
twelve
party girl
give a boy a gun
almost lost
a child called it
jays journal
the five people you meet in heaven
the lovely bones
leslies journal
define normal
crooked
stargirl
fade to black
kim: empty inside
cut

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I am divorced, my 15 y.o. son (whose mother has custody) has decided that he doesn't want to spend this Saturday with me. In the past, he has always spent the entire Father's Day weekend with me. In addition, about a week ago, I informed my son that his Uncle (who my son really gets along with - and lives out-of-State) will be having breakfast with us on Saturday. Now, my son says that he wants to celebrate Saturday with his step-father. However, he has never celebrated mother's day with his step-mom. I am enraged and don't know what to do.

getting mad might push him away. maybe you could ask him if he wants to have breakfast with you b.c it would really means alot to you to see him on fathers day. maybe ask him WHY he doesnt want to see you on fathers day. or maybe you guys can hang out together sunday instead

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Well I've known this girl for about a year now and we're really good friends, but I'm starting to like her more than a friend (if you know what I mean.) The only problem is I don't know if I should ask her out or not. If I do and she says "yes", then great, but if she said "no", that would just be really awkward and it would be wierd every time I see her again. So...what should I do?

ask her out b.c you never know what she could say and even if she does say no shes still your friend and if you talk to her it wont be that awkard

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Okay i know a part of this song that a girl sings that goes...

Can you look me in the eye and tell me that you love me now o o o o ....

Please help

i think its
are you happy now-- michelle branch

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how do you cheat in online voting?

i dont think you can cheat in online voting unless its like one vote per account and you creat multiple accounts. and cheating im online voting or any voting is wrong so you shouldnt do it

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well then figure a way out on your own. its hard to tell you if i have no idea what kind of contest your talking about so idk why i got rated a one

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i saw in a magazine ad that teenfreeway.com gives out free stuff, and free shipping too. has anyone ever been to this site and acutally have gotten free stuff? because i dont want to like get something and actually have to pay for it. thanks!

idk but USUALLY theres some kind of gimmic

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how do you make those little hearts by your name when you are asking or answering a question?

& hearts ;

without the spaces

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Is there anything that i can eat every day to loose weight?
I tried the cereal thing, but it doesnt work at all!
Please help!

Hev

drink lots of water. cut down on junk food. eat more fruits and veggies and exercise.

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Does anybody know any ways to learn your lines? like any unique ways or anything?


Hev

you could try like making a little song or something like that.

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what do each of the bases stand for?

like first through home and whatever...as far as like what base a girl and a guy are on?

first is like making out/kissing. second is being felt up. third is handjob/ blowjob.. stuff like that. and home is sex

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What should a 14/f mile time be?

it varies with each person and how in shape they are and if they have asthma ect but i would say the same as herbivore

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can you bleach hair with straight bleach? or is it horrible for your hair?

i think this website will help you out :

http://haircrazy.info/

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well im a diabetic and as some of you may know its sort of bad for diabetics to be out in the sin for a long time
the thing is that i want to get tan without using any of that lotion that makes you look tanner
and i also dont want to go to a tanning booth

any suggetions?

go outside for short periods of time. some of the spray tans work tho and dont turn you orange or anything.

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In the Bible doesn't it say that we shouldn't pray aloud to show off? That instead we should pray in the privacy of our own room? (not the exact words) If that is so then why do people go to church? I'm christain but I don't believe that going to church makes a difference in how we are seen in God's eyes. Everyone pressures me to go to church saying that it will "lead me in the right direction" but I don't think it matters if I go to church or not.


Does it matter?

its a personal choice. church is considered gods homes. people go to church to have some time with god and to pray with their community.

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hi im 13/f. i was wondering if anyone knew a good deodorant or antiperspirent. i sweat under my arms all the time even when its cold and its embarrasing in school can someone give me tips on what to do about it? ill rate high thanks in advance

i hear ban in really good, and it smells amazing.
if that doesnt work then get a stronger kind

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