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Does anyone here have permantely(sp?)straight hair aka chemically straight hair?
i want to ask you some questions
Hey, well i personally didnt end up getting it. When i was at the salon, i asked pretty much every question there was because i was looking into getting it done. If you want to ask, id be happy to answer.
I need advice for awesome birthday present ideas. Like big presents..like a side kick..ect i already have a laptop so not that. thanks
Hey, well what about some jewelry from tiffanys?
http://www.tiffany.com
boyfriends dad caught us together (not the first time), well we were in his room with the door locked. when his dad opened it, he told my boyfriend to leave.. with me. Basically, hes not allowed to see me for two months. I dont know what to do, i fucking love this boy so much, we've been together for over a year. But we cant sneak around to see eachother, thats how we got caught. I can either break up with him or just not see him for the whole summer. I'm really upset by this, and his father doesn't speak english so talking to him is out of the question. But i cant go two months without seeing him.. i love it when he hugs me or sends me cute little textmessages. My parents dont care about me, only he does. I dont know what to do. Help or advice or opinions please :(
Hey, well you pretty much already gave yourself the two options. You can either just keep texting and talking without seeing each other or break up. You guys could try going on a break. You could hvae your boyfriend try and talk to him, sice he probably knows the other language and a way of communicating with him better. Thats really it. Im sorry.
so i need some advice on hair. i'm getting super tired of my hair and i want to get it cut. it's medium length, like a little past my shoulders. i have an oval face shape. if you could please send me links of pictures of hair that looks good on oval faces i'd verrry much appreciate it :]
and actually i'm going to grow it out so long styles are a possibility too
thanks :]
Hey, well why not play with your hair a little. Add some highlights. Go to your local CVS first and buy semi permanet hair dye and have your mom highlight it. They will give you a highlighting comb and stuff. Semi permanent means that it will fade out everytime that you wash it. If you like it enough, have the salon professional do it. also try sidebangs or just bangs.
I'm really mad right now. I wont get into details but today has just NOT been going my way. I used to be a cutter and smoker. I'm only 15 and I quit both a long time ago and really don't want to start one or even both again. Right now I'm really stressed and mad. Anyone have any tips for me?
kthnx.
Hey, well manicures and pedicures always let out stress for me. Also massages and facials work wonders.
what should i get my best friend for her birthday?
specifics:
-shes turning 17
-and i dont want to get her something like a friendship neclace or braclet, something else.
any ideas? thanks!
Hey, make a cute little scrapbook or slideshow of you two and your memories. Write you guys little inside jokes in them and stuff.
how do you know if you are being annoying while texting? or know if the person is actually interested? how do you know when the person you're talking to doesn't want to talk to you?
Hey, well you tell just the way that you tell if someone is interested in talking to you on aim or myspace. You take a look at there responses. If the question you asked definately could be more than a one word answer and thy gave you just a one word answer, you know that there not interested.
i heard this song on the radio.. its a rap/hip hop song.
the beginning is like talkin kinda and it says 'can i get 5 dollars in 1's?'
and then the chorus is like "can get you anything you need for 500 dollars"
i googled it but i cant find anything
its a guy singin
Hey, i know that song! Its Blak Jak feat. T-Pain -- Ball Out ($500)
can anyone please get me the lyrics for the song blueberrys for the pack???
Hey, do you mean "blueberry yum yum" by ludacris?
http://www.azlyrics.com/lyrics/ludacris/blueberryyumyum.html
its me shannon AGAIN lol.
the other day i was planning on making out with my boyfriend and i thought about it.
idk how to makeout.
and i feel really weird for asking this
so dont give me crap pleaseee
Hey, well there is no right or wrong way to makeout, as long as your not slobery. Do cute things like play with his hair while making out with him. Also change up the placement of your hands. Put them on his neck, head, back etc.
does anyone know any diet pills that are effective and that 14 year olds can buy? and that are also not too too expensive? i need to lose some weight and what i'm doing is not working out.
and i'm probably ruining my body but i don;t care anymore. 121 pounds is too much for me.
anyone who can offer any advice thank you very much :]
Hey, well it depends on your height on what a good weight for you would be. If your 5`0 a good weight for you is 100 pounds. everytime you go up in height, you add 5 pounds. So like 5`1 = 105 and 5`2 = 110 etc. By the way, this is according to my doctor.
hi i'm 14 want my breasts to grow im a size 34A oh and for all the guys is that big? how do i make them bigger without padded or water bras or implants thanks (haven't started my period)
Hey, well 34A is pretty much the average size for 14 year olds. Theres no way to make them bigger, you just have to wait. The only way to make them appear bigger is pushup bras, padded bras, or water bras, and you said you were against those. So either love what you have, or wear those types of bras.
My thighs are HUGE! I'm a size 0 at abercrombie & fitch/ hollister in pants and jeans, but i really wanna get smaller thighs.
how can i do so?
Hey, thats exactly me, haha. Theres nothing that you can do to make your thighs smaller in a healthy way. Working out will just gain you muscle and make them even bigger. Just embrace them & love them because its what youve got and what God wanted to you have.
What are some hair brands, that are just like Color Pulse (loreal). I love color pulse, but I want to try something new, any ideas?
hey, well im guessing that your talking about hair dye. If so, try clairol. Its permanent, not semi-permanent.
Okay, everytime I try to log into myspace it doesn't let me go anywhere besides myspace.com. It does not let me go to the page that shows if you have comments or not. I had a friend check if it was deleted and it's not. I'm not really sure what to do. It's driving me crazy. I tried going on at a friend's house yesterday and I got on. I'm thinking it's my computer but I don't know how to fix it! Sorry if that's wicked confusing, it's hard to explain but I tried the best I could. Thank you!
Hey, try going to http://www.vtunnel.com and then logging into myspace.
How can I get my hair like Ashley Tisdale has in this picture?
http://srtking.tripod.com/sitebuildercontent/sitebuilderpictures/.pond/pat473.jpg.w300h451.jpg
Hey, well my friend does the following; it might not work cause your hair types are probably differnent.
1) She curls her hair with a tight curling iron.
2) She lightly straightens over the curls.
Its that simple. I hope it works on you.
ok, so I can't pick up my report card from the school because I have to be away and the vice principal said it's ok for a friend to pick up my report card if I give him the permission note. But I don't know what I should write on the note, does it have to be professional?
Hey, well i think that it should be professional. I only say this because i think that he wont take it seriously if its not. You should write it and then sign it. Also have your mom sign it.
ok so normally im good at knowing weather a guy likes someone or not but i have this friend. we're good friends, not best friends but i've been able to cry on his shoulder a few times. ok so all year he's been in a relationship so i never really looked at him as more than a friend because im not the type to steal a boyfriend. ok so me and a few of my friends were at his house the other night and we were in his hot tub and he put his shoulder around me. and at first its like oh ok w/e because he's just a friend but then he started pulling me closer and telling the other guys in the hot tub "now this is how you be romantic" and when he'd leave he'd say "dont miss me too much" and flirt with me and stuff but then he says that he's finally free from a relationship and loves being single so i dont know if he likes me or not, i like him a little but if he liked me then i would like to start a relationship. oh by the way he liked me back in 7th grade when we were 12. im 15 now and he's 16. oh by the way he's got a smokin body. lol so i dont know what to do
Hey, well i wouldnt jump right into a relationship with him. I would definately let him know that your interested in him and like him tho. Then wait about a week and see if he still is interested in you and flirts with you. If he is and he doesnt loose interest, go for it.
I've had a lot of professions in the past I DREAMED of doing. But realized I'd never be good enough to pursue them. Don't lecture me on that, that's not what I'm talking about.
Doing advicenators, and even it's as simple as just answering people's questions, I love doing it. I love helping my friends with their problems as well.
Which led me into thinking.. wow, I would LOVE to be a counselor/psychatrist(Sorry for spelling.)
Okay, and a couple days ago, I told my boyfriend one of my advice column entries, but it's one where it didn't really involve much advice, just thought, and I made it into a funny/sarcastic answer. He thought I was serious about it and didn't think it was good advice. Anyways, I told him today about my idea for the counseling/phystrist[sp] thing. And he was like "People would hate you, the ones who think they dont need help." And I was like, "Well, I'll help realize they need help and do my best to help! Haha." And then he was like, "No offense.. but you're not the best at giving advice."
Is he serious??
Or is it just because of the one entry I told him about??
He's never had problems to come to me about, so I never have given him advice.
I'm about to ask my friends if they think I'd be a good counselor/pshytrist.[sp!ack.]
Anyways, what do you think?
My advice column is Genrawks2, by the way.
Bleh, sorry for length.
And I know it's pathetic that I can't even spell the profession I wish to pursue. Lmfao.
Psyhtrist?
Phsycrist?
Oh god. >_< Maybe it's a sign that I'm not fit for it.
x SORRY FOR THE LENGTH!!VERY VERY SORRY. kasdfj
Hey, well i just took the time to read your column. I actually really like your advice! I think that you should show your boyfriend your whole entire column and let him read some more of your advice. That way he can see the funny answers and the meaningful ones. Why dont you ask your boyfriend yourself why he thinks that you would make a bad advice giver. He is your boyfriend, so communication shouldnt be a problem.
Okay this guy is really nice and all but he goes to my church not my school so I usually see him twice a week, he is in a private school with my church too. I went there before and yeah now I like him. And we don't usually talk. There was an activity and we went rollerskating he ran into me once and my friend said it looked like he did it on purpose but I really have no idea. I don't know whether he likes me or not and I think he might a little though. He has talked to him a couple times. I need to find a way to talk to him without just going up randomly. Please help me I am really confused. Any advice whatsoever would be appriciated!
Hey, well im not sure what you mean by going up to talk to him without it being random. No matter what, its going to be random if you go up and talk to him when you two dont usually talk. I think you might mean it not being "random" because you guys have something to talk about. If so, talk about the roller skating night or other activitys with your church. You could also talk about the church itself and maybe get into talking about what his school is like and how he likes it there. Just get to know him and ask the type of questions that you would to anyone that you just met. Just go for it, the worst thing that could happen is that it wouldnt go to well, but at least you try. Also if something does go wrong, youll be upset, but youll be able to sleep much better and not be left wondering. What i mean by that is, if you dont go for it, youll never know what could have/would have happened between you two.