has anyone ever tried it? is it any good? it comes in huuuge bottles so i need to know
It helps damaged hair become thicker and soft. I've used it for 3 months last year and i got amazing results. but you have to remember, it strengthens hair and makes it -thicker- [since it was originally made for horses XD] I had to get my hair thinned out a couple of times. The conditioner is really great. I don't believe it protects your hair as well as heat protective sprays or keratin mist. I've straightened and blow dried my hair enough to realize that.
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Okay, here it goes. I am here because i have a huge problem with my ex boyfriend. me and him were having issuses before we broke up, and he made it seem like he wasn't really interested in me that much. he would say he loved me but then he would kind of hurt me. like walk past me with another girl "claiming he was looking for me" or he wouldn't call me when i asked, and then text me 3 HOURS later. just stuipd annoying things like that. and i would always see him and hear about him and this other girl. they are "bestfriends." it got me really mad so i broke it off with him. i told him it was only a break. i think he knows he can just have me back since i said it was a break so he doesn't have to work for me. i told him in order to get back with me he has to show me that he really cares. and he kind of has, kind of hasn't. like he will call sometimes, but honestly he hasn't proved much to me. we hung out last weekend and he told me that he wanted to go back out and he loved me, but it just seems like he wants the easy way out..or in the relationship. we are hanging out again, and i really want to go back out but im not sure if i will just have another repeat of him not caring, and have to go through this whole mess again. what do you think i should do (if you were in my position)?
He's not making much effort at all. You could decide to get back together and stay stuck in that rut for so long waiting for a change that won't happen. You need to play hard to get or imply somehow that he can't just get back with you so easily. You can talk to him and ask him why he acts this way and that. Bring up the calling incident and ask what happened. But to me, he SOUNDS like he wants to be in a relationship. He probably likes the idea of it but he doesn't seem ready for it and the commitment. Maybe he's afraid, nervous, busy, etc. He's not really showing he cares. If he wasn't going to call you, a simple text would have been nice. Maybe something is going on with him at home, school, with himself or friends, or with some other girl sadly. Just try to open him up and find out what's going on. Maybe he's the type to not.. show that he cares. It's a struggle for some people and maybe this effort he's making is something huge for himself while it's little compared to you. So if you want to get back together, talk things through and make things clear before. But if talking doesn't open his eyes to how he is.. I would just break it off. Maybe that would make him realize something and if not, you'll find someone a lot better than that.
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okay so im 16 and well ive never had my first kiss. whenever that subject comes up with even some of my closer friends they are surprised to find that i havnt yet. i mean, guys like me and stuff and ive had 2 boyfriends-the first tried to kiss me after i broke up with him and the second i gave a long time and he never did anythin. not that that's the reason i broke up with them of course ha, just saying...
i mean i dont think it has anything to do with how i look... and i have gotten a few opportunities but it was just with people that i didnt really like so i didnt want them to think i did of course. i dont really like to lead people on.
so i guess i just wanna know is that normal for a girl who's 16 to not even have a first kiss yet??
It's normal. You're just waiting for the right person and there's nothing wrong with it. I don't think it has anything to do with you. if anything, it's the guys who are waiting. it really depends on how long you're with them. i'll give it like a month and if they haven't even tried to kiss you, they are probably shy. :]
my friend is 18 and hasn't had her first kiss yet.
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my hair was probably down to the middle of/almost under my boobs. and it was getting split ends so i went to this really nice haircutting place and they took so much off. it probably has atleast an inch off when i asked for a half. i have really wavy hair & they layered it too, so it looks even more shorter. i hate it when my hairs short.
how much does hair grow in a month!? :(
Well at least your hair is healthier now. Split ends seem to slow down hair growth. So don't dye, blowdry, straighten or put too much product in your hair. If you must, then go out and buy a vitamin called Biotin. It makes your hair healthier as well as nails and skin. My hair grew a lot without the trouble of split ends.
It depends on the person but it will take like 3-4 months to see any difference in length.
I've found using banana clips or pulling back the first layer of hair.. makes my hair look longer.
But I think it's good that they layered your hair and cut it shorter, especially for wavy hair. It's just a lot healthier and I'm sure your hair looks amazing at the length.
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* be prepared, its kinda long.
ohk, so my best friend, who i have known for about a year and a half, we've been really rocky lately.
let me explain:
she is a VERY clingy person. she will cling to 2-3 people for long periods of time. it annoys the shit outta me, but i live with it. we're friends. ive tried telling her, but whenever i try, she always gets so mad + gets VERY defensive. so wuht should i do about THAT problem?
wait, theres more.
2 weeks ago, she had a movie night, she didnt invite me, + she always does, i didnt do anything to her, i wasnt mad at her or anything, + she invited kids who she barely talked to, which i really didnt undertstand. i texted her asking her, + she was just all pissed off, so i just didnt text her anymore.
we rarely talk anymore, + if we do, its alkward. wuht should i do about THAT problem?
theres more:
++ then, we were on the bus coming back from a basketball game, this girl, asked me, "hows yer boyfriend emily?!, i said really good, and then my friend pipes in, and goes, "EW, HES SO UGLY!" + she said much more stuff about that, and i got REALLY mad. wuht should i do about THAT?
two more things:
im nothing but a friend, and a good person to her, and all she does is treat me like shit, so i told her, that ive never gotten so much disrespect from a person, no one has ever treated me with so much disrespect like she does, and that she should be ashamed of the way she treats me. was that good to say?
+ one more thing:
we are going to philladelphia, for a class trip, and i wanted to room with her, so i asked her, she said yes, and then she got put with me, and got all pissed off, because i guess she had already made arrangements with her other friends, which she didnt because i was the first one that asked her, and she keeps denying it. + she wouldn't talk to me + she got all pissed.
wuht should i do about THAT?
thats it, but from wuht i have observed, if she needs to cling to people, shes really insecure, + has low self esteem.
but, i need some help + peoples opinions.
thanks SO much everyone.
She probably doesn't realize she's clingy. People change a lot and they probably don't even notice to what extent. So even if you bring it up, of course it will upset her in some way. No one likes to be called clingy because it sounds so bad like I'MALWAYSINYOURFACE. Since you are best friends, she probably doesn't see it as being clingy. You just have to let that go because she won't side with you when you're calling her clingy.
I think you should just let her go. If she doesn't consider your feelings, she's not really a friend. It's not bad to not invite you because like you said, she's 'clingy' so maybe she thought you wanted a break or time to yourself. So you can try talking to her about that or just forget it happened.
Don't listen to what others say about your relationships. It's their opinion, not yours. It's okay to defend but don't get so angry about it really. People always say things about my boyfriend but I never listen or gave them any reaction so they gave up. Now they are jealous. haha
For the class trip.. you are just rooming with her .. It doesn't mean you have to be close, talk or anything. Just keep space within and talk when it's necessary because she's probably still angry at what you said. We all have different opinions of ourselves so i'm sure she believes you are wrong.
If you don't see your friendship getting better in time, then don't bother with it anymore. Best friends come and go. You just have to learn to deal with it and realize it's not your problem but theirs. They need to realize they have problems and stop avoiding it. I'm sure in time.. she will notice other people leaving.
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17/f.
Okay I was wondering if condom is actually effective against pregnancy... I mean i heard its 99.9% on the commercial but i think that is load of b.s. I heard that way more people get pregnant even if they do use condom... Not that im saying im going to have sex or anything but for the future reference... Is is good? or is sponge better??? Can you use sponge and condom at same time? because i heard you can't use pills and patch at same time because you will overdose... so I was wondering if you use sponge and condom at same time, something bad's gonna happen like condom's gonna break or something... I am also worried about that... I mean how can a piece of thin rubber not rip???? Sorry for asking childish question but yes i need to know kind of soon...
THanks in advance :D
I think it's effective as long as you use it properly. I've had friends who have had sex for years and never became pregnant with 'perfect use'. If you think you tore the condom..always check for any holes by putting water in the condom and lightly squeezing it. Then you can get the morning after pill. I think you have to be 17 for that. Condoms are good especially if you buy the lubricated ones with spermicidal. I'm not fond of female condoms or anything that I have to shove up there.. because you know, you can't really see up there to see if you put it in correctly. Not really willing to risk it. So if anything, pills and condoms are the best thing. So you know when you're going to have your period and it's like an added shield. A condom is pretty durable even during rough sex. Some guy was actually able to put a condom on his head and blow it up like balloon until it popped, so it stretches pretty far until it can break. haha I don't know anything about the sponge.. but yeah you can buy a condom at every age.
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14/f
i have pubes down there... and i've tried nair and a razor to get rid of them .. it works but afterwards it itches down there really bad and i want to know of any suggestions on how i can get rid of them without the itching sensation
You're not supposed to use nair down there. you usually get rashes or itching. you can apply a non fragrance lotion or take allergy medicine. i've tried everything before and sometimes lotion makes it worse. so the medicine gives me like instant relief xD
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*16 female*
my friend wants to know about spermicidal condoms...
what are they? and whats so special about them?
Spermicides are chemical products that "kill" sperm to prevent pregnancy. They can come in foams, jelly, etc and you can insert it in before sex It's best to use lubricated condoms with spermicide. I've heard that it physically blocks the sperm from getting to the egg. Also it has a very small perfect use failure percentage. Just to be on the safe side.
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ok... so im in new york for spring break and my boyfirend is home with his friends and stuff... well my sisters went out to the casino for one her 18th bday... and im here babysitting my neice and nephew and i got bored soo i got on his facebook.. and i was reading old messages between him and his ex and it was weird sexual comments and he told me they never really did much with her and by the messages it didnt seem that way and some of the stuff he said to her he has said to me... and he also sent one of hjis oer girlfriends he said he didnt really like that much he dropped flowers off on her porch... and like he acts like when he spends money on me he only does it to be nice... not because he wants to just cz he wants to be nice and i dont care if he spends money on me but the fact that he acts like im just his last priority... and i spent $75 on his gift for our three months and like 90 for christmas he didnt really seem like he liked it or appreciated it... and it bugs me that i read the messages and saw he does the same with me that he did with the other... idk i just felt really hurt by it even though i know it was in the past... but it still hurt nme to read it and im scared to talk to him about it because i dont want to fight while he is with his friends and im not going to be back till next weekend... im just hurt and dont know what to do and idk how he will act if i told him i read his messages even though he reads mine all the time... and he gets mad if i have pictures of guy friends and ex boyfriednds which i dont cz i took them down for him but he has a ton on his facebook of them kissing... and with ex girlfriends and he would get sooo mad if i ahd them on mine... i really dont know what to do!!! i dont want to lose him but being around him i wont want to be physical cz i would be thinking about that and i would have to tell him.... please help cz i bald my eyes out when i saw these messages...
When your boyfriend is ... controlling you about what to do on your site, it's kinda messed up. It's also worse when you decide to give passwords to each other because you will sneak on and read messages. Even if you say you won't, you will still be curious and one day go through it.. and read something you do not like. You need to talk to him and set him straight about your issues. From my experience, the guys that control or either get mad at you over these small things.. usually are jealous or have no self confidence.. They feel like they need to restrict you, to keep you. I was with a guy like that.. it was a very long unhappy relationship.
I don't know any guy that keeps pictures of their ex up, especially KISSING? Did you even ask him to take them down? That you don't like it and that he gets mad when you put a picture up of a guy FRIEND. He shouldn't do that. I would NOT care what he thought about any pictures i put up.. considering his pictures. It's not even bad so you can put pictures up to get a conversation starting. I mean it's just your guy friends, he should know that it doesn't mean anything else.
You really need to talk to him. You don't have to bring up going through his messages. Just tell him you don't want to be his last priority and that you want to be appreciated because sometimes he doesn't show it. Don't buy him expensive gifts either, especially so early in a relationship. I've been with my boyfriend for over a year.. we haven't spent more then $50 on each other yet. Small gifts are great and you wouldn't have to worry about them liking the gift.. if the money was worth it.. etc
Btw, if you are happy.. do not read his messages. I'm warning you. I've been there and done that. It will bother you until you bring it up and it causes all sorts of drama. He's going to say different things about his ex to you since he's with you. Of course he's going to say sexual things to his girlfriends, whether he did anything with them or not. His opinion changes since he's with you..
Do what you want. Put pictures up because his are far worse than any guy friend, you know? Don't get upset for the messages. it's in the past and shouldn't be brought up again. if anything, you should delete his old messages so you won't come across those again.
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What would be the best position if you like sex more rough then gentle? what gives the guy the deepest penetration and what would would pleasure him the most or be best for both us?
http://ezinearticles.com/?Best-Sexual-Position-for-Deep-Penetration-and-Ultimate-Satisfaction&id=509772
Or you can try being on top, it gives him a deeper penetration than missionary.
Make sure you are flexible enough for the first one though.
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Okay so, my eyebrows don't match, but my bangs cover my right one (I have bangs that I part on the side). About a year ago or so, I was really stupid & shaved my eyebrows, because I didn't have any tweezers. And to make matters worse, I used scissors & trimmed my right one a little. Yeah, I was pretty stupid, I know. Haha; but seriously, no one has really noticed it, but it's just something that really gets on my nerves, because I always worrry that someone is going to notice them. My left one is like,, really short kinda, & my brother always bugs me & says, "When ya gonna let your eyebrows grow back out?"
I can't go to a professional, because there isn't one around where I am, & plus my mom prolly won't take me. And, I'm currently trying the vaseline thing, but it's not quite helping the way I want...Please help? Even though they're just eyebrows, it's kinda causing a loss of self-esteem, & I'm known as the confident person. : [
I would post a pic, but I don't know how.?
Go to a drug store and search for Ardell Brow & Lash Grow Accelerator Treatment Gel or anything with a 'Brow Grow Accelerator Gel'. It's rather cheap but it works. I've gone through horrible eyebrows and back again so I know how you feel.
Penciling them in is the worst thing you could do unless you can find the right shade and apply it lightly.. without getting harsh, obvious drawn on eyebrows. Use your bangs to come them up. Trim your bangs if you have to.
Use a powder [or eyeshadow] closest to your shade and apply it.
Here are some videos/tutorials to fill in eyebrows:
http://lizz1901.blogspot.com/2008/01/live-eyebrow-tutorial.html
http://www.makeupfix.net/2008/01/tutorial-eyebrows-are-sisters-not-twins.html
I think using powder is a lot less noticeable[harsh] than pencil.
So even though the stray hairs may bother you.. grow your eyebrows out and use the gel at least 2 times a day. You may pluck the obvious stray hairs so you can try to maintain your shape again. Don't pluck the top of your eyebrow though. Bad idea.
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okay im a 15 year old female and well im thinking about starting to shave "down there" but i have one question.. do you need to shave all the hair off or just like the bikini line.. also i shave my legs but i was talking to all my friends and they shave their whole leg like up to where shorts usually go and well i only shave up to my kneee. should i start shaving my whole leg? answers would be appreciated thanks :]
Do what you want to feel comfortable. You can shave it all, do the bikini line for starters or just trim it. I've been shaving my whole leg for years and it does not get darker/thicker. if the hair is dark for you or you don't see a problem then don't do because they do it. I used to shave my legs a lot because I never went out in the sun so I got rather pale.. and the hair showed up more. But when I get tan.. there's almost no point in shaving.
Just be careful for razor burn.
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What would be a good colour that would represent Medusa, or be her complimentary colour?
I usually think Medusa is a green or gray character. So I'll have to agree with a dark purple or a dark green as a complimentary colour..
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is earnie from george lopez's accent fake? because when he talks, it sounds like hes faking it.
well I think it's a little too thick. I saw him on another show, X-files.. a slight accent was there but not as noticeable as in George Lopez.
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15/Female [Asian]
I have naturally straight hair [very long] and I'm absoultely tired of that. How can I get hair like this; http://www.fresnobeehive.com/archives/upload/2007/05/taylor.jpg or http://www.jeremycowart.com/photo_images/0000/2349/h22.jpg I was thinking a permanent wave but as I read online, it causes hair damage but I've never died or added any chemicals to my hair. Should I get my hair permed? Oh, and if I do get a perm can I straighten my hair again? [Of course after a few weeks.]
I wouldn't get a perm, it's so old school. You probably won't get the results you like so if you want to play it safe.. Get a body wave or ask for a medium sized barrel. It's not so damaging as a spiral perm. You can wear it curly [mousse] and wavy. I've had mine for awhile now. Yes, you can straighten it but you need to deep condition your hair or use some treatment so it doesn't get dry.
Since you have basically virgin hair, it won't cause too much damage. I'm sure it would look amazing on you rather than it did on me since I abused my hair haha!
So you need to get a hot oil treatment or deep condtioner treatment, anti-frizz serum and mousse!
Remember that they do your bangs [if you have any].. so you'll have to learn how to style those.. by using a curling iron or pinning it back.
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i died my hair recently about 2 weeks ago now maybe 3 i died it blonde but its turned out with ginger strikes it looks quite bad compared to how nice my hair use to be according to everyone else, its getting me really upset, as i care alot about my image. My friends keep saying like i cant bleieve how ginger your hair it and pointing people out and saying its like hers, its aweful! Im not allowed to die it again as it will get in really bad condition. Does the sun make hair colour fade? alot? any tips on how to fade the colour naturally? I heard tomato ketchup but i read that just if your hair truns green from chlorine. My friend said is faded hers loads when it went a gingery colour. but to be honest i dont really trsut it.!
I've been dyeing my hair for 7 years. It's best if you dye your hair again and do a deep conditioner or hot oil treatment. If you dyed it blonde, then you used bleach. So I doubt it will fade back to a normal color since you stripped the color out.
You can try shampooing, leaving it in for an hour or so wrapped in a towel. I've used dish soap and it really does take the color out gradually.. but only if it's a dye, not bleach.
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my cousin is getting married in a few weeks, and she's looking for suggestions of good, slow, romantic songs that aren't sad. So far we've come up with two hopefuls.. "All I Ask Of You" from Phantom of the Opera (just seems too cheesy...) or "Falling Slowly" from the movie "Once". Beyond that we're out of ideas. any suggestions? Gratzi!
How about Bryan Adams - Heaven?
And Baby you're all that I want
When you're lyin' here in my arms
I'm findin' it hard to believe
We're in heaven
And love is all that I need
And I found it there in your heart
It isn't too hard to see
We're in heaven
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okay I really want to know which condom is best for protecting against sperm.(pregnancy wise) and also which one is the worst?
Trojan or Durex. Lubricated and spermicidal are the best to go.
Maybe it's not the worst.. but I heard Trogan ENz -hurts-
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what name of brand coloring dye box or whatever that will color my hair the exactly same color i want?
like i want sandy blonde for my hair and when they dye it, my hair won't be sandy blonde hair, it will be mix cuz of my differnt color, know what i mean? or have to go salon place or what?
You'll have to be experienced with dyeing to be able to get the "right" box. It's so easy to make a mistake.. if you've already dyed your hair, bleached it, permed it, etc.
So just go for the salon. Since they are skilled you will get something close or the exact color you want. :] It's best if you bring pictures and search some place online.. read reviews about it.
http://www.yelp.com/
is good. Type in salon and near what location.
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how do people get their foundation or concealer (w/e i dont really know the difference) to stay on their face so smooth? do people wax their face first? b/c on some people makeup looks too fake and on others it appears to be natural how their skin has no flaws whatsoever.
You use a dab of foundation. Apply it with an sponge evenly. It seems to come out a lot better than using fingers. Use a brush for applying concealer [you can use your foundation]. Use powder [with a brush] to set the makeup.
Experiment with different types of brands or go into a makeup department and get it done there. Ask for tips and such. It took me years to get it right lol.
I use loreal foundation and powder. It gives me a natural look and great coverage too. Powder really helps making it stay on.
I agree with Bare minerals. It's a bit expensive but it's the best thing out there for a flawless, smooth look. If you get the set, there's a CD in there that explains and shows you to apply it on.
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