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today i found out that my friend might be belimic and annorexic. i dont want her to hurt herself. i was thinking that i should tell the school counselor and maybe that would help... is this a good idea ? i really am worried about her.




also, she just started so i think i can help her ahead of time. (link)
no, its a horrible idea. beacuse you stated that she 'might' be bulemic or anorexic, therefore, you dont know that its true. you might end up spreading a nasty rumor.


My goodnesss. Ochies so I broke a tiny piece off form the corner of a cpu and i glued it with super glue. That's not the prob though. I got super glue all over my figners! AHH. I can't get it off. I tried warm water and soap. Finger nail polish. And it still wont come off.

Are there ANY other ways? If not, how logn will it take the SUPER SUPER glue to come off?!?! (link)
wait- if your fingers were all super-glued up, then how did you type this up?. . . . .


Ok, so, this guy who really likes me is 19 (born feb. 1987), and i really like him too, but i'm only 16( Dec. 1989), do you think this age difference is too much right now, i mean like he can drink (i'm in Canada), and stuff, and it's almost 3 years, should i wait a little and then go out with him, or is that not too big of a deal? My last boyfriend was 4 almost 5 years older, and it turned out he was in like a common law marriage and stuff, so i may be paranois with this, but let me know:) (link)
i, myself prefer older guys too. i dont think theres anything wrong with going out with him, as long as the both of you are comfortable and happy. thats all that really matters, right? good luck.


Alright I purchased a dress to my homecomming
[which is on the 30th]
And it has a 50's feel to it. So I was thinking for my hair I could do a classic fiftys up-do or hairstyle in general.
My hair is kind of short
http://i8.photobucket.com/albums/a47/xRadPotatos/MADDYY4.jpg

so could any one give me any ideas
[preferebly pictures]
of styles that I could do with my length? (link)
i think it looks pretty cute just down. i mean, u culd add sumthn sparkly and pretty to it, and maybe sum highlights would look cute, but i think its cute.


my best friend just asked me out today and i said yes and usually we talk ALOT on aim but im scared that there will just be an awkward silence tomorrow wen i see him at school because he is in 2 of my classes. i REALLY suck at making conversation so do you have any tips or things we could talk about?

thanks in advance (link)
talk about the same things you would have when you were 'just friends'- thats the great thing about being friends with someone before going out with them- that first meeting awkward moment has already been covered when you met as friends. just dont act differently, and be yourself. good luck!


I havent drank plain milk for as long as i can remember. Like a full glass. I can use it for cereal but thats about it. i can Drink strawberry milk without a problem. i eat dairy products such as cheese but drinking plain white milk makes me sick and gag pretty much.

--when i do drink strawbeery milk its the kind that is pre-made.

would this be a sign of lactose and tolerant.

idk this is kind of everywhere sorry.

thanks (link)
no way, lactose intolerance makes a person unable to eat dairy products due to getting sick to their stomach every time they do. just feeling sick, and feeling like gagging isnt quite what happens. and you drink strawberry milk- which is milk- but with strawberry flavoring. if you were lactose intolerant, your body wouldnt like milk at all, flavored or not.


Okay, so the other day I (stupidly) asked my boyfriend if I was a good kisser or not.
His answer? 'Your kisses are animalistic and primal' which I'm thinkin' is good, right?
Then he said, 'It's much more visceral kissing you comapred to other girls I've been with.....'
Ummmmm - WTF?! I've got no idea what that means!
Is that a good thing? Does he like kissing me?
I'z confused! Please help!:) (link)
aski him to rephrase thw answer in english, please, becuase i dont even know what it is that hes trying to say! lol.


Ok well this guy i know well is a man whore basically but i got to know him for like a year and i really like fell inlove with him i mean he is a real funny guy and i knew at that point he wasnt just trying to get in my pants...then we started having an interest in eachother then like around year later we had sex and it happens all the time now but like im not going on with him cuz we both dont want to have bf or a gf but he goes out on the weekends and fucks random girls...but idk if hes in love with me probably not but does that make me a hoe that im still fucking this guy bc im inlove with him knowing he probably isnt inlove with me and that he goes and be's a hoe on the weekends? (link)
well, bluntly said- i dont think this makes you anything but extremely naive, and playing as just another girl in his game. the only way to really make it clear to you would be to use what you sed against you. "im not going on with him cuz we both dont want to have bf or a gf but he goes out on the weekends and fucks random girls..."- if you know about those random girls, and know what hes doing- who's to say that to those girls youre not just a 'random girl'- any girl who likes being put in that situation has a serious problem. i dont think you should be so hard on yourself by asking if that made you a ho. youre jsut as bad as him in this scenario because youe both taking part in it. i hate to be the bearer of bad news, but he most definetely does NOT love you, and dont let him ever try and tell you otherwise. someone who loved someone else wouldnt go around sleepin with other people. truth of the matter is, i know you can do better. people are probably going to bash you on this question- but dont let what they say get to you. just learn from it, and get away from the situation youve found yourself in.


I didn't know exactly where to go to ask my question, but i found this site. I've been having cramping/bleeding/small blood clots and I'm pregnant. I was at the hospital the other night and they said that either I'm having a misscarriage or it's too early to see my baby on ultersound because they saw nothing. I'm suppose to be going back to get more blood taken from me to check my pregnancy level, see if it doubles or not but, I've been reading on other internet sites that sometimes bleeding/cramping doesn't mean misscarriage. I just really want to know if it could be something else, and how is it to early to see my baby? I mean how early could I be? (link)
well, i know one thing for a fact, and that is, that youre not going to get great advice from people on this site. your best bet would be to ask your doctor these queestions. after all ,hes the one that went to school, am i right? sorry if im not much of help, but i know that any time your bleeding during pregnancy, it cant be anything good, and only your doctor can truly find out what is wrong with you.


i like my bestfriends neighbor, he kind of likes me, problem is were both really shy and never talk, when i see him at school, we dont say anything and when i hang out at my bestfriends house and he comes over we hardly ever talk, what can i do? i really want to date this guy but we cant get closer if we never talk (link)
its all right there in your last sstatement- you answered the question yourself " we cant get closer if we never talk". just open up, and tell your self that if you really want this guy- someone's gotta make a first move. eventually- youll work up enough to start a really stable conversation and build up from there. good luck.


What is that mushy brown stuff that comes out of you before it's even close to your period. It just feels really weird and it's not even time for your period. Thank you ! (link)
its just the lining of your uterus preparing for a period. nothnig to worry about. completely normal in most cases.


Ahhh I don't know what's worng with me right now. Lately I've been soo forgetful. Like, school just started a week ago and I've lost my history binder and english notebook. ALREADY. And whenever a friend calls me or something I always forget to call them back. And I'm freaking out about this test I have tomorrow because I can't retain information because I'm forgetting everything! And I always leave my books in other classes. It feels like I'm getting old and having memory problems haha. Idk I'm just really stressed right now and I really don't want to lose anymore things and forget everything. Any idea on what I should do!? thanks. (link)
take a huge deep breath several times a day. it sounds like the only reason youre being so forgetful is because youre speeding around- trying to accomplish too much at once. i think that a good deep breath every now and then would help you out.


Okay, so my gym teacher. I can't begin to tell you how much I will loathe him. ALL my friends and random stragners feel SORRY for me because I have this one gym teacher.

I heard that he's a sexist, likes only the guys and girls who do sports and or are popular. I don't fit into any of those categories. So erm yeah, how or what shall I do to insure that I'll get an A and not a B? I try my best at everything but it does not show very well...
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well, i know that alot of gym teachers can tend to do that- most of the time without even noticing. but let yourself be the jusge of wether or not he favors people- not your friends. all i can tell you after that is that if he IS in fact doing it- you by all means have full permission to go to your dean's office/ counselor's office- and express your opinions to them about this particular teacher. make sure that they know you wish to stay confidential though- if thats wat u want.


Okay so first things first. I live in Mechanicsville VA and I would like to know where to get Converse. I already have a black high top but I must admit, it is starting to fall apart. I've tried Shoe Carnival and the Virgina Center but yeah, it's not a very large section of Coverse and I really want original ones (not fancy decorated ones).

Also I got these pretty pretty and I want to make it so that the shoelaces go horizontally...not criss cross. Does anyone know HOW to make that? I tried to do it but it got all scrunched up and it's extremely hard to put it on... (link)
couldnt tell you about the laces question- but i know ive seen converse all over the place at the mall. try foot locker, famous footwear, etc. youre bound to find the ones you want.



Okay, so I like this guy.
He's still sorta new to the school
I wanna go out with him but nothings progressing beneath the friendship level
I know that he likes me (I'm pretty sure) and I like him back
I don't have his sn, email, phone or anything.
I don't know how to ask for any of them w/o seeming like I'm trying to stalk him or the fact that I like him.
He's popular among the boys (Lacross team) but not much among the girls. I wanna go out with him but I don't know if I should or even how.

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next time youre around him, id start a conversation about blogs ( since they seem to be real popular right about now), and as the conversation deepens, ask him what his URL is. id say thats the best way to hit 2 birds with one stone, ya know?


hey does anyone out there know what does it mean when a guy asks for body shots? as in like pictures of your body (clothed) ???? aghghgh i need to know ASAP!! and what are they thinkg of the person they ask this??? (link)
although ive never been personally asked for body shots of myself ( i think blogs are overrated)- i can tell you one thing- be real careful of who you give pictures to, and what they are of- if you wouldnt want other people to see the pics, then its a good idea not to send them. i think that if a guy is interested in you, he shouldnt have to see graphic pics of you to let you know that he likes you. dont give in.


Ok, I dress very Chici-ish and my friends make fun of my fashion sence what should i tell them? (link)
absolutely nothing. you should never have to explain your stle, or individuality to anyone. if they dont like it, oh well. tell them to stop lookin at ya.


i just got a pallete expander,(it widens your jaw out) and.... i kinda have a lisp,i cant say some letters,im wondering,will the lisp go away after i get used to it? (link)
ive never even heard of a palette expander, but ive got a feeling that the lisp will go away. i mean, i dont understand why a doctor would administer something that would give you a permanent speech impediment, ya know?


I have 3 C's, 2 1 B, and 2 A's. I need help to raise my C's to a higher grade before my parents get a notice.

What are some good study tips?
Also, what is my point average?
Thanks! (link)
i couldnt tell you what your exact grade point average is, however, your grades fall in the 'average' column. i think that the best study advice i could give someone is to just focus. and definetely- if you dont understand what is being taught- to ASK FOR HELP!!!!! i couldnt stress that enough. also, asking each of your teachers about doing extra creadit would be helpful. not all may offer it, but take what you can get. good luck.


hey my name is ellen and my son justin who is 19 years old and he is teaching sunday school at church,but I just found out he he and his girlfriend tessa had unprotected sex about a month ago and there was a big hickey on his neck what should I do?

I want to help me so so bad but when I confronted him about he got mad at me and now he won't speak to please help me help my son thankyou iam really worried. (link)
chances are, that the reason hes acting this way is becuase he knows that what he did was wrong. if he felt that it was right of him to do it, then he wuldnt have a problem talking to you about it. i would more than likely have the church reconsider his teaching sunday school, though; for reasons realated to what hes done.




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