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Is 19 too young to be having sex? Just a note I think premarital sex is perfectly okay as long as you're responsible.
The reason I am asking this is because I want to get my Gardisil shot, and my mom would know about it, and she believes that the only people that get it are those who are sexually active or will be in the near future.
I live at home (except I go to school out of state). What should I do when she questions my reasons for getting the shot? Should I tell her I'm sexually active and I want to protect myself? I'm just kind of in a tough situation right now because I have a boyfriend, whom I'm keeping a secret from my family (he's black, and I don't know how my family would react to that). I told my mom a bit about him, and that we are bests friends, and that yes I do spend the night at his place every once in a while but we don't do anything (which is a lie, but I figured my mom can just assume whatever she assumes).
Yup, so what should I do? Tell my mom I'm sexually active, or keep lying to her about it. I mean 19 isn't too young to have sex, right?
(and just a note, I'm on birth control and we use condoms, so no lectures). Oh and if it matters, he is 23. (link)
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look im gonna cut to the chase your 19 you should have sex whenever you want and be honest with your mother but... tell her about your boy friend tell her anything she wants to know. but why does it matter what your family thinks about black people you shouldnt care. if you really love him then you shouldnt care for teir opinion of him
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i feel like a failure as a girlfriend. i'm always sad and i can't help it. and because of this, i think my boyfriend is growing tired of having to constantly ask me if i'm feeling okay and then trying to cheer me up. i would also find this very tiring. i don't want to lose him, and i can fake a smile for a certain length of time, so how can i spice things up in our relationship? we don't have sex often, maybe once a month or less. but when we do, is there something i could do to make it better for him? are there some activities we could do that would be really fun for both of us? thanks for any help. (link)
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look i feel bad for your situation cheering him up in general would be a beter soloution. but in the bedroom try foreplay or more oral or toys... see what you and him like. but try keeping up in general dont be sad HAVE FUN do fun stuff together keep upbeat. for more advice for the bedroom ask me anything ill help
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im so tired of being the girl people call the slut.
im not. im 14/f and have only been out with two guys.
i dont dress slutty nor do i act it, im quite hippy so often im maxy dresses. i dont swear and even a virgin, i dont get why people call me a slut.
i hang out with alot of guys but thats only cause the girls do the same thing every lunch.
what can i do to make people see im not who they think i am, i have a brain and am quite reserved.
can you please not say hanging out with the girls more, because i was bullied by them last year and dont really want to start it again. thanks (link)
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WHY DO YOU CARE????? look forget them i dont care what people say to me you shouldnt either. people are jerks and always will be... just ignore it and dont let it get to you do your own thing
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I have been married for 22 years and am still married after a 3 1/2 year separation. I have been living with another man for 2 1/2 years. He is very good to me but I haven't been able to set a date for our wedding. I still think about my husband a lot. I'm so confused. I'm not sure I know what love is or ever did. The new man has lied to me about minor things but still a lie is a lie. That's something my husband never did. He says he's changed and will never say mean things to me again but everytime he gets mad he does it again. Everyone says its because he's still hurting. What do u think? Please ask any ? 'S you'd like. I need help. (link)
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alright im here to help you seem special ussually i get questions like this but i ussually answer call JERRY SPRINGER! but with you ill help. ok the kid will be a kid not much you can do about that. that has nothing to do with the 2 men. look who do you love more yo;u cant love people the same...
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I Honestly think I am in love!! I know most people say it's an UNDESCRIBABLE feeling! But if you can describe you perspective of love to me, PLEASE do (link)
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what is love? love is a chemical, physical,and emotional devotion.... passion that we cant hold back. that is the technical version of saying you are very sexually atracted to them and you cant live without them... you become addicted to them like a drug they are on your mind just about all the time. i love my girlfriend
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Okay... I have a question. I am fifteen now, but I was fourteen at the time, and my bf was sixteen. When we were dating I was what you would call "whipped". I basically let my bf do whatever he wanted, except when he asked for a hand job. I kept telling him no, no, no. But one night we were hanging out and making out on the couch. We were getting pretty into it and all of the sudden he just pulled down his shorts, grabbed my hand, put it on his you know what, and started moving my hand with his hand. It happened so quick, it took me a second to realize what was going on and when I did I pulled my hand away and started crying. I never even talked to him about it after that... but now that were broken up it keeps coming back to me and I don't know why. It wasn't that bad was it?? I don't know what to do... why is this bothering me so muchh??? (link)
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because you didnt want to do it look he is a jerk and you derserve better find someone else that understands you and really loves you for you. it wasnt that bad i agree but still it was probbly your first and that is probbly why its on your mind
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I'm so tired of people seeing me as a toy, and of me letting them treat me like shit. My last bf broke up with me and told me he saw me as a doll. A small pretty girl that let him "play" whenever he wanted. And was more liked when she wasn't talking. Teachers have even told me to "rely on my looks" or "marry rich". I try hard in school... I don't know what I do that makes people see me this way... I know I'm not a naturally assertive person but is that really why I'm getting treated like this?? I don't understand... How can I get people to take me seriously? How can I get a back bone? (link)
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look im sorry but i dont put up with that crap and neither does my girlfriend look you are just really prissy and preppy thats what they are saying he didnt take the relationship seriouisly find someone who loves you for you
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any guys or girls have tips on how to give good head? i dont really like giving it but i want my partner to be happy and i would love to know how to do it well. please any and all tips you have. (link)
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look i am a dude and my girlfriend gives me bj's be creative it isn't really something you can do badly
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i want to makeout with a girl but idk how>plzz help?
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it comes natural.... move in slow ask permission first if it is both of your first... together anyways.... trust me im good with girls.
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I have a 2002 Nissan Altima with two types of security systems. One is the Nissan Vehicle Immobilizer System-NVIS and the second is a Vehicle Security System. My question is regarding disconnecting the battery. If I disconnect it, will the alarms go off? When I go to reconnect the battery, will all the computer memories and alarms be the same and work properly? I also have keyless entry. (link)
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the alarm wont go off and everything will be the same relax
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I am 14/f. I baby sit this 7 yr old little boy, and his dad was my dad's frat buddy in college so both our families are really close. When other people are around the kid is fine...but when I am babysitting him by myself, he becomes super toilet boy. He talks to me about the toilet. He puts stickers on the toilet paper. He throws things in the toilet, nothing big that would clog it but still...he even sits down on the toilet with his pants up but with the seat so he falls in and calls me in to fish him out. It's too awkward to tell my folks or his what he's doing, but I don't know how to deal with this crazy kid...what should I do? I make really good money for this btw and definitely don't want to lose out on that. (link)
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well you should probably tell his parents or lock the bathroom door or just tell him its a nono and reward him for not doing it ( like a snack or something like a game) anything else?
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Okay so if you are a guy then you can help me. What arehings guys like it when you call them or tell them something? Thanks!! Help me asap k? K! Thankss (link)
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im a guy and my girlfriend calls me alot of things insider jokes can make great nicknames or just things to call him in general. try telling him what you are wearing guys like that and sometimes it turns them on... they will pay attention and talk longer when they are turned on to... so try to make a nickname for him... anything else?
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16/f
Hey everyone, I was just wondering if anyone has ever tried the Singing Success program by Brett Manning? I'm trying to increase my range and strengthen my voice and I was wondering if his program has worked for anyone. I have a decent range but once I start to sing high I have to shift into kindof a breathy-falsetto and I want to know how I can increase my range so I don't have to do that. I was recently approached to be in my friend's band and I would like my voice to be as strong as possible. I'm really interested in the program but I do want a few opinions from people who have tried it first.
Any advice? And have you tried Brett's program?
Thank you so much!:) (link)
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i have never done the program but i am a very good sing i sing in a band ( backstreet d-12) and if you go do these warm ups every day you will widen your range do your normal scale start medeium like tenor or alto and go from medium to as high as you can and go down as low as you can but do it through the scale WWHWWWHW (Wholes,Halfs) whole and half steps basic singing
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Hi there. 15-F.
Alright. I think I sing DECENTLY? But not toooo well. And I'd like to try and change that.
Does anyone know any free online things I could try that could help me shape my voice so I sound nice when I try and sing?
If you've tried it, please give reveiws. Thanks! (link)
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alright easy one that i think you would like... listen to music in the shower and sing along to it aloud. try it in the car too. i heard listening to music when you sleep helps to. anything else you want to know?
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Hey ok so my bf and inhave been dating since may 4th... What are sone hints I can talk to him about when we are texting? Like things that will keep us talking and him interested in talking so will can talk for a whole. Also things that will make him laugh too!! :) thanks!!!
~Kaiya
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talk to him about you two... where you will be going in the future and try throwing in a few insider jokes and mayb a cute nickname for him any thing else?
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ok i feel empty without a gf, is there anyway to fill that gap without getting a gf? (link)
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well not many but you could try... im trying to figure this out . you could try dateing around and maybe find someone you like.. or mayb spending more time with friends couple more hours a day
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17/f
at my school there was this really pretty girl that i guess you could say i had a gradeschool crush on, but i'd never go out with her. maybe like kiss her at a party if i was drunk or something but not like have a full on relationship. i don't think of girls that way, i'm totally straight. anyways, i haven't seen her for months, let alone, thought about her, and a few nights ago i had a dream that she and i had sex. like full on sex. clothes off, kissing, etc, without going into too much detail.
why the hell would i have a dream like that when i'd never do that with her, or any other girl? (link)
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look you are a teenage girl and your hormones are still raging but settleing down its normal
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hi
i am 15 almost 16 and i have almost done high school, now i would love to be an animator, or work in CGI, i will have a total of 5 GCSE'S grade A in ICT so...as you can tell i love technology. and i am hoping to go to college,to study it as well,
does anyone know what i need to do to get that sort of job (like qualifications) ???
and is there an animation studios in the united kingdom? (for CGI things like toy story making)
do i need to have practise in the software they use ???
thanks for your time :)
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they are everywhere yes and yes
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i've been going to the gym religiously since i was about 15. i'm 19 now. i've always loved it. once i got into spinning and tried all the classes like zumba i absolutely loved it!! i use to go about 5 times a week. as a matter of fact, when I don't go to the gym, I feel weird, because I'm already used to exercising so much. Lately, I have been experiencing chronic anxiety. I get all these irrational thoughts that something bad is going to happen to my mom if i'm not around her. or that if i leave the house unlocked someone is going to come in and kidnap my grandma. it's really weird. but, i've only been getting it lately. it never use to happen to me before. EVER. it's really irrational and i know it is. But, when that happens to me, my heart starts beating SUPER fast. it will go up to 90 to 110 beats per minute. SUPER SCARY. and then i start getting sad because I don't want it to happen to me and it only makes me more anxious. currently, i'm really trying to get over it and it's getting better. a lot of it has to do with the fact that i use to have an eating disorder and my body is experiencing post traumatic-stress. it also has to do with my menstrual cycle and they gave me some stuff to take for that. but anyway, i wasn't able to make it to the gym for like a week because of my anxiety. when i was there yesterday in my spinning class i had to leave about 15 minutes before the class was over because I got scared of my heart rate. i got the anxiety during the class. so while i exercise my heart rate was at 170 lets say and then it was going faster because i got anxious. i'm so scared to go back and i understand that i need to be ready but this isn't fair. i can't believe that this anxiety is getting in the way of the things i love the most. i know i have to go back to the gym but the thing is that if i push myself too hard i might disappoint myself, you know? i need to do this at a slow and steady pace... so what should i do? how should i go about this? maybe jog outside for like 2 days or a workout video?? i don't know.. i just need some ideas. thanks (link)
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start slow and small build up
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So when he's fingering me, what should I do and say to him to get more excited?
me and my boyfriend have almost been dating a year and were in highschool. But were not ready to have sex yet. But to make the things we do more sexy, I want to tell him that I love the way he fingers me.
Normally I just breathe a little heavier but I need more things to say. (link)
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i just answered this dont repeat it annoys me look guys love it when you moan try to talk really dirty and when he is done if you want to think him by giving him a hand job or blowjob
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