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I really like this one guy aand I know he likes me. How do I tell him how I feel? Should I wait untill he makes the first move because that is what I think I should do. Im to afraid to tell him myself

if u KNOW he likes you go ahead for the move!

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what does cybering mean?

cybering means when people have sex online with words.
hope this helps,
chynna

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does a guy kno when he pops ur cherry or no? iight cuz I wanna have sex wit this guy an he thinks im not a virgin an i am... an i was woundering if he would be able to tell like would it bleed that bad that he would notice or is there some way he would kno cuz i dont wanna make it sound like im lieing i just dont want him to find out someone plzz write back asap..Or e-mail me at Lilfarmerchick75@yahoo.com

*Jess*

yes, actually he will know because u will start bleeding down there.
hope this helps,
chynna

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I have been getting zits ever since the beginning of 7th grade. I really hate it. And I use Clean & Clear to clear them up, but the product doesn't exactly work. Do u know any product that will work? What advice would u give me? I looked at ur Zits link, but i've tried all of that..and i still get zits. Please tell me what products u use! It's hard to walk in school when a lot of boys are staring..

maybe u need to see a dermatoligist if uve tryed everything.they can give u medicine for your skin that no one else can
hope this helps,
chynna

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Do you get tested for HIV/AIDs before sex or after sex? or both? plz help!

both! b4 u ever have sex u needto get tested, knowing that if u r infected u can damage apersons life!if u prove negative then the next time u have it get tested again because u never know who can
hope this helps,
chynna

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im really sensitive at school...if some1 teases me, i take it so hard. then when they reply saying im so sensitive, i feel hurt...is there anything i can say to "my friends" if they insult me..like in a joking way?

like i say: give 'em a taste of their own medicine
hope this helps,
chynna

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HI,
MY MOM JUST RECENTLY LOST HER DAD AND WITHIN 4 YEARS SHE LOST TWO BROTHERS. NOW, SHE WAKES UP AT 11:00 AND THEN GOES BACK TO BED AROUND 1:00. TO ME IT SEEMS LIKE SHE IS ALWAYS SLEEPING. AND I WANT TO DO MORE THINGS WITH HER. CAN YOU HELP ME? PLEASE SUGGEST SOME THINGS I CAN DO TO HELP HER!

SIGNED,
**NEEDS HELP**

it sounds like your mom is suffering from depressin. try making her something she'll love or just help her oput. have a good cry with her or have a good talk. either/oris great
hope this helps,
chynna

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My best friend is pissed off at me just because my science teacher chose my suggestion/idea on my project over my best friend's idea. She is giving me an attitude and is refusing to talk to me. What should I do?

no one needs a friend like that. tell your friend that if they are gonna be mad at your for such a stupid reason that u dont need them
hope this helps,
chynna

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hey im only 15 and everyone thinks i have done like eveerything wit a guy and i want out wit alot of guys and all we did was just kiss on the lips but no make out and my longest relationship was 5 weeks and we didnt do much but anyways my last bf was for 2 weeks and it was 3 weeks ago and he still likes me but i dumped him cuase i didnt wanan make out wit him cause i thought i would be bad at it and now i like him and i wanna make out wit him..and he told eveyrone he wanted to and i dunno wat to do any tips pelase help me

if people think uve done everything with a guy.. why is it? maybe u need to change your ways unless it was a rumor.have a tak with him and then slowly get into the subject of your old relatinship this always works when u wanna find out wether or not he still likes you.if he does go ahead and give it another chance!
hope this helps,
chynna

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If your bf or gf got you a limo for a surprise for like 3 months of going out and it was a boxy kind of limo.. would you care?

no because obiously someones sprung on someone big time!
hope this helps,
chynna

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ok so i have been doing gymnastics for liek 2 years, i have always wanted to be on the high schools team but i have never competed before so im kinda scared, and the girls on the team are really intimidating and rude!! help me!!

give them a taste of their own medicine! try out even if they look intimidating.everyone does something better than someone and im sure u can do things they cant!

hope this helps,
chynna

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i know this isn't really important, but im doing a poll for summer school.. im not in summer skool, but were supposed to be doing this to get ready for our upcoming high skool year, and well here's my poll...

Bush?
or
Kerry?

moderators, plz don't rate this low, it's for skool, also please don't delete this Q!!!!

KERRY ALL THE WAY!
hope this helps,
chynna

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ok, sry if this is real long:
last summer, at the pool i belonged to, there was this guy that i liked. he liked me too i thought bc we would always like give each other stares and stuff but we never actually met. we dont go to the same schools so i didnt see him but once the whole schools year and that was at the freaking vet. so now, ive seen him at the pool again this summer, but i dont think he likes me any more bc he never like looks at me or anything like he used too. i just relized how much i do like him and im really mad that he doesnt like me back (bc im pretty sure he doesnt) does he just not want to show hes """affection""" or does he just not like me and i cant stop thinking about him...I NEED HELP

**and i rate!**

try talking to him
hope this helps,
chynna

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I really am inlove with this boy that my family and i have known since in was 2 years old. we are so in love that i think i want him to be my first. i know about safe sex and all and i am 15 but i am planning on spending my life with this guy. we have everything in common and he is so hansom and sweet, not a jock at all. we really want to be with eachother. but i wonder, does it reall hurt that bad the first time, and how do i get him in the mood for sex?

this depends: has he ever done it?
hope this helps,
chynna

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well my problem is i have this guy friend and i dated him b4 but it didnt work out..well recently i found out from him he still has feelings for me but i dont have feelings like that for him..we're like best friends..well the other day he told me bcuz of his feelings for me we couldnt be friends anymore..but i know if i dated him again id be miserable..plz tell me what to do..i dont want to lose a friend.thankz.
xoxo
in need of advice

tell him that a past relationship should'nt get in the way of friendship
hope this helps,
chynna

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How the hell do you get a tampon it! i have been trying for ever! i even used some KY Jelly and the slender sized ones! i found the hole and all but i just cant get it in! anyone have any tips or anything??!! EMERGANCY!

just stuck it up there, in the most comfortabe spot, and change it when u think its time too

hope this helps,
chynna

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What does Imao mean? I know what idk means but what does this mean? I try to answer questions but these abrevations get in the way of me understanding sometimes. Could someone tell me? Thanks in advance!
advice~gurl

lmao means Laugh My Ass Off
hope this helps,
chynna

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My boyfriend, we'll call him *Bob*, and i always fight...like seriously, we can't get through a day with out fighting about something. but i love him with all my heart...and couldn't break up with him even if i tried...but what should i do? i can't handle all the argueing?

if u ever have a boyfriend that u always fight with theres no solutins. try being friends or take time maybe u'll realize u werent meant for each other
hope this helps,
chynna

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I've always strived for straight hair.. but it never seems to stay straightened.. when ever i flat iron it.. it always goes back to its natural fall.. and when ever i blow dry it straight.. its all poofy.. and i can't get rid of it.. any suggestions on how to get my hair to stay straightened?

i have naturaly curly hair. the only solutin to keep hair straight is to relax it. ask your local hair salon
hope this helps,
chynna

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What does idk stand for?

idk stands for i dont know

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