ask kick_me



read advice get advice make favorite read feedback advicenators



heyhey im a 14 year old very very bored person lol um i thought i wud rather waste my time giving advice to ppl but dont get me wrong if u mess with me in anyway tht will tick me of piss me off i will serious make your life miserable...ahh i hate ppl who are useless seriously all they have to talk bout or complain about is how thei cell phone color doesnt match their outfits...now questions like those i will give adive to but it wont be a very happy comment...ok now im goin
peace~
oh and yes tht is my pic...my friend made it black and white for me
Website: *sumsum*
Gender: Female
Location: america
Occupation: blah
Age: 14
AIM: dreamsdoncomtrue@aol.com
Yahoo: hartof_dreams486@yahoo.com
MSN: moonlight_shadow2000@hotmail.com
Member Since: July 9, 2006
Answers: 141
Last Update: May 26, 2007
Visitors: 7688


HI,
I was just wondering what kinda chat websites are there?? Like yahoo, myspace, me.com, msn, and aol. Just stuff like that. Please anwser this question if you have an anwser. Thanks!! (link)
there is hi5.com piczo.com there is um lets see jurnal.com and you get to chat with people but you have to make like your own page like myspace...there is cokemusic.com and i cant remember anymore sorry


Hey, guys, can you help me pick out a new screename to make? I like very original screenames, usually with no numbers. But 0's are okay for o's. Right now my screename is just my name. Idk if this helps, but a few of my interests are Skateboarding brands (any, but volcom especially), Ashley Parker Angel (His Songs, so don't suggest ashparkanggirl or something like that). My friend suggested "volcom baby.." (with a number) and I like that but idk if I want a number.

Anyway, any help is fine, even different, original screenames, are fine. Anything funky & different. Thanks! (link)
how about volcum_angel_baby or without underscore or maybe aubry_volcum_baby or lol or to make it stupid in a funny way ashley_park_your_angels! or or volcum_angel thigns like that just combined them


ok, my mom is obsessed with myspace. and it's not like she has her own myspace. i suggested she gets one but she doesn't want to because she thinks that she shouldn't have one and she says she only wants to play on mine. she spends her time there. she starts changing my music, looking at different layouts, adding music videos and putting pictures on it. and sometimes, she doesn't even ask my permission! she puts things on and says its a suprise and sometimes she even acts like she's not doing anything wrong. she says that she's my secretary and it'sr really making me more and more mad. she comes home and checks my myspace! i really need some advice! i'm 15/f (link)
ok try telling her to make her own myspace...and if she says what she usually says tell her because she bothers you on her myspace that you feel a bit invaded and it would be better if she would just stop going on your myspace or make her own because you want to control yours because you feel you myspace...and truely your only own little space of your own...tell her all of that


I have been dating 'Fred' for 3 weeks now. We normally talk every day for like an hour, but recently Fred has been very 'busy'. Once he just didn't want to talk to me and other times he just had some stupid excuse. He never calls me back or anything like that. I haven't seen him in a while, either. He says he is not mad at me or anything like that, but for some reason I get the feeling that he is avoiding me. Am I overreacting or should I actually say something? Because I honestly don't know what's going on, and I can't help but be slightly worried. (link)
ok this is what you should do sit him down and let everything i mean everything out and hopefully he will open up to and if nothing chages after that just you know dont call be hard to get and then he will be the one calling


I'm about 5'5" and fourteen years old and I really want to be an abercrombie kids model because I think it would be fun and I really love abercrombie. Does anyone think I would make it? Visit www.myspace.com/xoxokelli to see pics. I just got my braces off so that should help I think. Hah. (link)
ha ha ha well i got to be ohnest you look like one of the kids who would be an abercrombie kids model so y not give t a shoot if you make it thts great! but if you dont its ok abercrombie isnt the only brand with teenager models so give other brands a shoot if abercrombie doesnt work for you...and dont give up after 3 or 4 brands you willl make it


what kind of home excercise can i do to get stronger im kinda in shape but i need more results. i dont want a miracle just something i can handle and that is better than push ups (i have 25lbs dumbells and bicept curl is getting too easy) also what kind of stuff should i eat
-im a 16yr old male
-thanks (link)
well i know you wanted home exorcise but why dont you just go to the gym...or if you dont want you should get a protein powder and make it at home..u know just mix with milk...but in order to drink that and have a affect on you, you have to work out..i mean seriously...not like an hour today and next month do the same...no and basketball and football that always tightens your body and makes you feel like crap i know...but its real good for your body..but im warning you if your gonna seriously exercise and the protein drink and everything dont stop for like 3 or 4 months that will make your musules smaller oh and dont exercis more than 5 days a week its not good to overexercise your body..trust me i know..well good luck oh sorry one more thing steriods dont take them....they make you strong but have seriously nasty side affects


Iam 17 years old and my breasts are still growning is this normal? (link)
yea thats natural a girls body will keep developing and changing until she is 21...then again we could always get fat by eating like a monster..but that is a differnt problem...alright well just dont worry


I told this kid that knows my boyfriend that my boyfriend poped my cherry and we had oral sex on a.i.m. So before i could tell him i was lieing he signed off! Now i'm scared he is going to tell my boyfriend. The only way i can think of to fix the problem is if the kid signs back on a.i.m and i tell him i was joking. What should I do? And what if he tells my boyfriend? (link)
ok 1. im not trying to be rude but you shouldnt have said any of that now the guy has this whole sltty image of you...and yes that is a bad thing unless you like being a slut to people...2.ew who tells other guys tht my boyfriend poped my cherry...wow 3.ok u should not worry this much about it...tell your boyfriend what happend and that you were jokin tell him first so he doesnt hear it from someone else and then when the aim guy comes on tell him your were messing around alright well bye


for english summer reading i have to read a biography on any modern american figure. one of my friends in doing marilyn monroe. any ideas of people i could do that would be interesting? (link)
plenty of people there is mohamed ali, erin brookavich (dont kno if i spelt it right) martin luther king jr, um cindy lauper , whitney huston, madonna, james brown, stevie wonder, ray charles , elvis preasly, micheal jordon , bill cosby well iran out of people...sorry really tired


This is going to be kinda hard to explain, so bare with me. You know how theres certain people that have really nice personalities and you just adore them, well I'm not one of those people. I guess people don't find my personality to be "likeable." I CAN'T bring up conversations with people I don't really know, and if I do, it ends up being an awkward silence. My best friend's brother thinks I'm so boring and then my best friends brother thinks her other friend is really nice and cool and fun to be around. What can I do to make people wanna talk to me more and hang out with me and like my personality? I think I'm boring too. And I know I have to be myself because that's obvious but I need more detail. (link)
hey
well heres what ill start with...you should never change yourself for anyone even popularity you can always improve your self but never change yourself..ok try to be extremly funny people love to laugh and love people who make them laugh seriously you just have to stand out more ....keep it cool and funny and wild at the same time dont be the funny like make fun of everyone you see funny....that is just a slap in the face for you there...unless someone made fun of you first them you do the whole dissing/funny thing to them dont try to hard people will quikly notice that and will hate you for it....well good luck


I really HATE my voice, (my talking voice)! One of my friends has the most soothing voice in the world and I just ask her random questions just so I can hear her talk. I sound like a chip munk because my voice is high and its just weird. And sometimes when I'm nervous, I studder when I talk. Like my moms friend asked me, "do you want me to take you home?" and I answered "I don't know if home my mom is." I was SUPPOSED to say "I don't know if my mom is home." When I'm nervous I mix up my words or I studder and can't get them out of my mouth!!! I try so hard to say my words right and I do it slow, but it doesn't come out right. And my I can almost always talk perfect but like a few times I couldn't. So my 2 questions are........

1. How can I make my talking voice more deep but not to deep and more soothing and pretty? Like is there anything I can do, or will I have to deal with my squeaky high voice?

2. What can I do so when I get nervous and talk, I won't mix up my words and studder? (link)
that first answer that you got was a good idea or you can for your voice drink warm honey i know it sounds gross but it might loosen your throught a little bit so it may have an affect on you voice wich you shouldnt hate dont worry about your voice your still gonna grow and change and grow and change and so will your voice and everything you just have to wait..and about you mix ups dont worry everyone mixes up i think its funny when i mix up i just start laughing then it takes me a while to fix myself because of how much i laugh...just take it in as a joke humor it or if you really hate it just when your nervous take a deap breath with will give you time to think about what you want to say then say it doesnt matter if it takes you 2 or 3 more seconds longer to answer that way its just practice until you finally get it and dont need to take deap breaths anymore just relax cool down loosen up i hope i helped bye


Muh bestest friend and me are having lots of fights latley cause her boyfriend is having sex with her, and doing crack and stuff. he's like 14, shes only 12. i'm 13 though. i dont like her being around him but she always sticks up for him, this has been happening lots for almost four monthz, how can i get hur back i miss hur! (link)
well that's just...you said she is 12 and she has had sex...by any chance does she know if he has a disease..what if she has something...and also she is 12!!!!! that is dangerous you have to remind her that this boy doent care about her obiously from the way you put it..he is pretty much using her and he does crack....oh god you seriously have to get your friend away from him tell her ...show her your question you put here show her how worried you are about her and if she doesnt care just tell it to her striaght between you of him and if she picks him forget it leave her you wait she wil be running back to you after he ditches her and you will be there to help her and tell her to learn from her mistakes seriously you should also stay away from him these type of boys are mean and agressive becareful good luck i hope i helped bye


I'm 13/f.My friend is 13/f too.Here's what happened:
I bought some new clothes for school.I showed my friend while she was at my house.She said my clothes were ugly.She then proceeded to go to my closet.Needless to say,she got my into giving her some pants,a nice leather jacket,a hat,and some make-up.I don't know how she does it!She just begs me for it.So,when I ask to borrow her lipgloss,she says no.I give her all this stuff(unwillingly),and she won't even let me borrow her lipgloss.and,she insults me too.She says I have no style.I want to start out fresh next year.So:Should I dump her because of this,or still be her friend? (link)
oh yea you should get rid of her fast dont even wait for the year to star this girl is nothing but 70% user and 29% anoygin and 1%water seriously im sorry to say she is using you she isnt a true friend she just takes your stuff and assume you dont care because you let her you have to be mean and agressive mentally tell her to pis off if she ever asks for anything again or for you ok well bye


does anyone use that IMVU 3D chat? is it safe for your computer like it doesn't give you a virus or anything right? if anyone on here does use it whats some cool things about it and what can you do? (link)
i dont have it , but most likely it has a virus on it..sorry


I'm a guy and when I talk to my guy friends I can really express myself but when I talk to a friend thats a girl I act all different and shy....now I know when people say guys act different around girls
I need help just expressing myself and I usually and talk about anything but im having some trouble. O if anyone could give me some advice and some topics to talk about to my friends that are girls please tell me. (link)
ha ha ha its alriht girls like shy guys...well girls who arent bitches neways you just got to loosen up a little layback make it cool i dont mean cool as "girls girls how you doin" only sluts like that anyways you kno when someone is talkin about something you can realate to start of like "oh yea,yea i know tht" then sooner or later youll be the conversation be funny and lose its alright for like the first 5 , 10 times you dont get it i mean micheal jordan wasnt born dunking no you can emagine how many years it must have tooken him...i dont mean its gonna take you years i mean its gonna take you some time ok well i hope ive helped you more than ive confused you bye


Hi my name is brandy i am sorry that i did not make my question clear but i was asking for advice on babysitting i want to start but i just dont know how i did the flyers thing like everyone has been telling me but it just is not working for me so do you have any other advice (link)
tell all your friends and let your mom and dad tell all their friend ahh did you put up flyers on in the library try that...try putting flyers in mailboxes but dont do it more than once that might pissthem off ok well maybe you could get another job busboy or a bagboy or work in the library that seems good or in a pet shelter ok bye


Just recently my girlfriend has left me to go back with her old boyfriend. I know that he abuses her phsyically and emotionally,and I treated her like gold. What should I do? and will she ever come back to me? (link)
hey
i know well about your problem mostly because iam a girl i know girls like these but nooffence you were her little toy to get her ex jealous then when they made up and cuddled cuddled with him she dropped you faster than a heart beat which you obiously didnt deserve ...girls like that drive me crazy they dont care if you gave her gold she doesnt care i know those types of girl they like the bad boy hit me baby one more time aha *giggle giggle* type of guys and yes she will come back to you but thats only when bombs drop between them and she will hurt yu again and leave either for him again for for some other fag so she is a waste of time and she isnt worth your feelings im sorry for what she did to you i hope you find someone you desvere bye


well, me and my boyfriend got in a fight because he told me i didnt respect him so i told him to go away. and hes mad at me for saying that to him. and i tryed to apoligize to him but he told me whenever i do that i just make things worse wich makes me even more upset. and last night i told him i loved him but he didnt respond back.hes still mad at me today i tryed to talk to him but i still got nothing. he might be going to jail cuz he had a bench warrent he just left with the cops but they said that his bail is 200$ n he has 200$. But im just not sure on what to do or how to make things better... because hes still mad at me for last night n hes gunna be in a bad mood if he comes back from jail...i just need advice on how to make things better or how to apoligize or anything i would aprecaite it alot. Oh n me n my boyfriend have been together for 5 months


(link)
hey well from the sound of it i think he's over it but trying to play hard to get and you shouldnt take his crap...you tell him that he should have been over that stupid thing by now and if he is still mad then for get it you dont need this leave him....ok i hope everything goes well for you bye


I'm sure all of you know about those promise rings; the ones that say you're waiting for marriage. The most popular is the one that says, "TRUE LOVE WAITS" from James Avery. Well, they're made for the Christian faith. I really want a ring like that but I'm not Christian, I'm Muslim and the crosses on the ring would defiantly not go with my religion. Does anyone where I can get one without the cross (preferably with a crescent moon and star)? Or could I possibly get one specially made from James Avery? (link)
well im muslim too and im telling you that ring with the cross is haram so ya maybe you can have it custome made without the cross...its just a ring you know its not that important..ok bye


I have this really good friend and I've known her for about 3 years. We're really close and all but i feel like I like her a little more then a best friend. I know im not a lesbian because i've had boyfriends and been completely comfortable with them. it's just that my friend is always there for me and always makes me feel better about myself. has anyone ever felt this way about their best friend? Or could i be bi? what do you guys think? (I'm 14/f.) (link)
ok first of all dont believe of take "just_ask_me"'s advice cus he/she is all wrong no ur not bi or les u have have a great friend that you wish you can share with the world i mean your only 14 you dont know if you bi you could be loney and want a guy and the only person that is ther for you is your best friend....oh and dont confront your friend about this she will completely freak and there goes your best friend , alright well i hope you get things straight bye




read advice get advice make favorite read feedback advicenators

<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>

eXTReMe Tracker