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Hey ya'll! My name's ~*Heather*~ and somehow you've stumbled upon my column! Congrats! :P Well, I'm 18 years old and I live in Missouri with my mom and my beautiful cat Corey. :D



Some of my ~*Likes*~ are the beach, exercising, cosmetics, strawberries, cats, this site, Subway, 24, tv, movies, alterative and trance music, teen magazines, shopping, tanning, cheerleading, CSI: Miami, crime shows, The O.C., cartoons, Jennifer Love Hewitt, Britney Spears, and Hilary Duff!



Some of my ~*Dislikes*~ are arrogance, ignorance, ppul who caint spewl, cottage cheese, Vanilla Coke, bosiness, co-dependence, being yelled at, being treated like an idiot.



Please don't be hesitant to ask me a question! I'll be happy to answer anything you bring to me! Add me to your favorites if you like and I'll add you back!

advice

umm.. dont think im stupid for asking this but i just wanna be safe and sure. if a girl is on birth control, does the guy still need to wear a condom wen they do it?

A guy doesn't really NEED to but I think it's better to be safe than sorry. So if you do have sex and are on the birth control just have the guy wear a condom...in case. :)

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i need a new bra..where would you suggest i get one? what kidn should i get?

http://www.victoriassecret.com

Every girl should have a VS bra. Doesn't matter what type, whatever one you think you need most.

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i have beauty marks like mole things on my back and in the summer i am scared to wear a bathing suit and a tank top because i am scared that people and freinds will make fun of me.what should i do ?

You shouldn't be scared that people will make fun of you. There's nothing wrong with moles aka BEAUTY marks. They're called beauty marks for a reason hun :P

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erk.... there's a banquet in honor of one thing or another (i wasn't really paying attention to what the heck my dad was saying) and there will be dancing. my boyfriend says he would love the honor of having the first slow dance with me. one problem is... i'm not sure how to slow dance. i mean i know where to hands go... but the feet positioning and the movement just kind of gets me. >_< please don't make fun of me. please help.

What I do is just move my feet back and forth. lol I think that's what most people do unless I'm wrong. Why don't you ask your boyfriend to help you? I'm sure he wouldn't mind practicing with you. :)

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Can Sex keep you in shape?

Yes. You can burn calories having sex.

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hey. im starting to go thru puberty and develop my breats but the question is how long will it FULLY take them to develop. theyve been the same for lyk 4 months and there not growing. and no, i kno that they still have a lot more to grow cuz no normal person could have boobs this small. but anyways how long will it take them to develop FULLY. please help!

Actually, it does take awhile hun...for most people. And actually I bet normal people do have boobs as small or smaller than yours. If they're NORMAL they do. But just be patient. When they finally grow out you'll be happy. :)

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hey. how long does the pleasure last when ur having sex? i hope it lasts longer then masterbating cuz the pleasure only lasts lyk 15 seconds when i masturbate. i rate high!

Actually it's different for everybody. If the person you're having sex with isn't so good and not really pleasing you then it might not last long, but if they are good...that's a whole other story. For some people, masturbating is more pleasurable than sex which is why they do it so often but don't let that change your mind about sex.

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k well school starts 2morrow and i dunno wut 2 wear i m in jr. high and i have light skin and strawberry blonde hair. I have a straightener and a curling iron and all that good stuff but i just dont know wut 2 do. I guess my style is kind of sporty, but really girly. Please help me!

I think you should wear a cute floral print skirt (knee length or a little higher but not mini) and a solid t-shirt to match it. Maybe with some cute flip flops too. Wear some sparkly pink lip gloss. Wet N Wild has some for about $2-$3 and it's called Glassy Gloss. It's perfect! Also do your hair up in maybe a cute french braid and put a LITTLE bit of hair glitter in. I hope I helped!

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well i had my period.. n they were like all the symptoms n everything so im sure i had it.. but ive missed my period date?? idk wats going on.. i tried to wait a few extra days but its been like 4-5 days n i sitll havent gotten it? its my 2nd time getting my period so i dunno is that normal? im not very close with my mom.. so i cant really talk to ehr about it.. i dunno what to do! helppp!! ((n i havent been having sex lol so it cant be that))

I'm sure you're just having an irregular period. There's probably nothing to worry about, it happens to alot of girls.

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what is a good product to use to make your hair less frizzy?..i am kinda looking for something that i can rub into my hair when its when they blowdry it and not have to take as much time to straighten it..i guess something that blocks against humidity and frizzies if that makes sense

There's Frizz Ease forgot who it's by. And there's also a Thermasilk product my old boyfriend bought me because he didn't like my hair. lol Also, when I was at my sister's I tried her John Frieda Blonde stuff...I think it's for Smoothing and Softening....but if you are a brunette I'm sure they have one for them. But it smoothed my hair alot, and I couldn't see any frizzies!

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Me and my x-boyfriend got back together, and we are going to be in the same class when school starts (Augest 31st). I dumped him cause people were telling me he was cheating on me, but he gave me another chance, what if it doesn't work out? cuz we r gunna be in the same class

Well first, did you ask him if he was cheating on you? And did he admit it or deny it? I think you should try to stick it out, but if you really believe he was cheating on you in your last relationship then I think you should be a little cautious around him. If he stutters when you asked him where you've been, or he enver talks to you that might be a sign. Pull him aside and tell him you don't want him to cheat on you, and that if he does it'll be the end of you two. For good.

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I am, going out with this guy, and in JUly (that time i was nbot going out with him), so anyway i was calling him names, becuse he lied to my friend (Rachel*), so in Augest the guy asked me out and i said yes so Emily, called Rachel and said that I was going out with that guy and she called me a slut. What should I do should i be her friend or no?


*-named changed

This was kind of confusing to read/understand but I think you should just talk to Emily about her calling you a slut. You shouldn't just drop her as a friend like that eventhough what she did was way wrong.

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is wakling just (or close) as good for you as running? like can i loose weight from walking 20 minutes a day or does it have to be running? thanks i rate!!

Walking is just as healthy for you as running. I'm sure if you want twice as much as you would if you ran, you'd lose about the same. Say you run for 20 minutes, walk for 40.

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do people really like stick gerbils or animals in thier buttholes?

That's f***ing sick.

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My friend has been married for 3 years. She and her husband are expecting their first child in December. (It's a boy.) They are trying to pick a name. Her husband really likes the name Jonathan, but he doesn't know that she has an ex-boyfriend named Jonathan. Do you think she should tell him about her ex or just go ahead and name the baby Jonathan anyway?

I think she should tell him. Especially if she's naming the baby AFTER him.

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well im 14 and im not like...ugly actually ppl think im pretty and stuff but thats with make up on...well sometimez it comes off and its just hard to look cute...for me...and lately ive been so unhappy with myself...EVERY gurl i see i want to be..il b like well if i could have her lips id be pretty...i just want like certain features of EVERYONE im so jealous it makes me not have a good time...i just stare @ them..i want ot be them....or i want just ther hair or watever...im so unhappy....wat can i do to stop doing this..and if ur gonna say o think of the good things of urself...i dnt have ne good things..i MAKE them look good...my skin- has freckles and zits...i use make up...my hair...frizzy and wavy-i IRON it with a clothw iron...just everything is fake it seems like...and im stil not that pretty...wat can i do? wats wrong with me?? =(

I know exactly how your'e feeling hunni. Without make-up I look like a friggin freak on showcase! :P lol But seriously, don't worry hun. I KNOW for a fact you have good things...everybody does. And this sounds cheesy but everyone is beautiful, in one way or another. When you go out with your friends, just try and have fun and not worry about what the other girls are wearing, or how their hair looks, or whatever. It doesn't matter. What matters is you. But to make me feel better about myself since I have lo self-estteeem issues sometimes too, I get my nails done. Or ...this might not be "your" thing but I love wearing thongs. They make me feel pretty. If you need any other help, just IM me. :D

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see my friend she always flirts w/ this boy i like and it gets me sooooo mad am i just jealous and should i tell my friend to stop i know she does it on accident but she does it everyday! so help plz

Have you told your friend that you like this boy? If not, you should because she might just be doing it w/o knowing that.

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Hi! She's perfect. She's beautiful, shes smart, she's talented, she's funny. Problem: She's my best friend. I can't tell her how I feel because I don't want to ruin our friendship. I don't want our friendship to end because of how I feel about her. Now, if I was a guy, this wouldn't be so complicated. But I'm not. I'm a girl. And I want to tell her, but I don't know what would happen. Any suggestions? Let me know!!

I'm not sure. Just casually talk with her about you two being together. Say something like "Wouldn't it be weird/funny/whatever if we ever started dating?" Or whatever you wanna put in there. And just see how she reacts. If she doesn't get angry, that's a good sign. And maybe you should tell her.

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i have looong hair that i can't seem to do anything with, it looks nice straight, but i want to SPICE it up a bit, without dying it, ive done that enough



please help meee

Well if you wanna spice it up try curling it. I know you said it looks nice straight, but...

Also try doing some cute hairstyles. Like a french braid, or crimping it. There are some hairstyle websites that I'm sure would help you. Just do a google search for hairstyles or something.

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After putting chap stick,lotion,etc on my lips, my lips are really soft, but when I add lip gloss over it my lips tend to peel. I use Clinique and MAC lip gloss some of those most expensive lip glosses n it still makes my lips peel. Is there anything I can do to not make them peel? Its driving me insane! This is the ONLY thing I cannot figure out!

Try not putting ALL that on your lips and just chapstick. And why do you buy expensive lip gloss anyway, especially if they make your lips peel? Try going to Wal-Mart or K-Mart or something like that.

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