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What does it mean if you and your boyfriend are talking and you tell him you feel you dont meet up to his standards and he goes in otherwords you feel you arent good enough for me? so you say yeah your correct and he says if anything your to good for me... is that a bad or good thing? or does it just mean like dont let it get to you its not bad its not good its just a whatever thing.

That is a good thing! He is complimenting you in a big way! At the same time, he is trying to make you feel better about your relationship with him. This is a sign of a budding relationship. Congratulations!

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Haha yeah i'd say i just like helping people out really. Keep up the good work buddy!

Thanks, you too!

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JW you look a bit older then that how many questions have you answered.. im over 300 or so

I dont know, I just started today.

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Someone told me it sucks to have cotton mouth... i dont believe it means that...

Well, the cottonmouth is a snake indegenous to the south-central area. Around Texas and Oklahoma ETC. http://www.wf.net/~snake/moccasin.htm

Lets see what comes up when we look up cottonmouth in urbandictionary.com

They say it is when your mouth gets dry from smoking too much pot. http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=cotton+mouth&f=1

Glad to be of some help!

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Whats cotton mouth?

A snake.

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Marijuana is obviously one of the most popular illigal drugs. but is it really a bad thing? I have personal experiences and well to tell truth, it doesnt really hinder your judgement, nor does it make you feel invincible. All marijuana does is make you really goofy. Ppl say that car accidents happen alot due to marijuana. what these ppl over look is that those kids that are in the accidents are also drunk. which is what really hinders and clouds your judgement.
Is there actually any REAL physical harm that will come from marijuana, aside from the obvious?

Marijuana is sort of in the gray zone of illegality. Sure you can get in trouble with the law by smoking it, but in canada, the consequences are much lower. I really do not know if other physical harm could come out of smoking the reefer besides lung cancer etc.

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i dont know what is wrong with me i can literally jsut finish a meal, and want to eat again.. i have been diagpnised with mild depression does that have anything to do with this? Please help me i think i am geting really... fat.. i weigh 135 pounds and i just hate how i look..

please lend me some friendly advice..

~*~cj~*~

Something that helped me lose weight was the Atkins diet. I know its a little Cliche, but it works! I used to be around 215 and I dropped down to 180 within about 3 months.

The depression may have something to do with your eating patterns. Maybe you should talk to your doctor about getting an anti-depressant or something of that nature.

Hope this helps!

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hi again. ok. i have this friend and she is soo nuce and i love her to death but, weve grown in different directions. Shes become like a major punk and tells me all this stuff i dont want to hear. She wants me to do all sorts of stuff with her and i want to its just hard to decide what to do because shes not all that great of an influence. what should i do??

If she is sort of pushing you around physically and verbally, maybe there is something going on in her life. You should subtly hint at her to sort of draw her in so you can talk about what you do and dont like about her.

But if it is a little more serious, if she is in a way abusing you, you should probaly reconsider her being one of your close friends.

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I'm in the 5th grade and going to be in 6th next year and I like someone whp is going to be in 1st uh help

Go get Michael Jacksons advice, he seems to do very well at dealing with 1st Graders.

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teal isnt in the rainbow right? You told me to paint rainbow but now does that rainbow include the full spectrum of colours or just your standard rainbow with the 6 main colours we all know and love?

Well, the rainbow color spectrum in consisted of 6 differnt root colors, and when the colors blend together, there is a little bit of a different color. And it is spelled COLOR!!! :D

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I know what you're thinking RIGHT NOW

Me too! :D

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aRE yOU mARRIED

Not yet, thanks for asking though :P

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I work at the dairy section in a supermarket and I hate milk products. I know you have to have a lot of dairy to be healthy but I hate it - is it possible for me to absorb, like a sponge, some of the dairy when I am stacking shelves and such?

No, the human body is not porous enough to absorb something like milk from an unopened carton. Oh, can you send me a pound of sharp cheddar? :D

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I've heard of them but I've never seen one, are computers extremely rare?

Yes, infact the only one in existance is in the smithsonian right now. It has a net value of over A HUNDRED MILLION DOLLARS MUAHAHAHAHAHA.

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Am I really annoying you? Is your mental health in jeopardy?

*jeopardy music*

I'm pretty bored right now.

Of course your not annoying me :) And no, my mental health is not in jeopardy, but in DOUBLE JEOPARDY DUN DUN DUNNN. :P

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Still bored.

What makes a plant - a plant, because a tree isn't really a plant, its a tree.

Or does photosynthesis constitute plantness?

A tree is part of the plant family. Mainly because, photosynthesis does constitute plantess. Anything that grows and buds that cannot think for itself is considered a plant. :)

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What colour should I paint my room - I like green, but come on, a green room - IS SUCHA THING TRULY PLAUSIBLE!

I'm bored.

Well, paint it whatever color your heart desires. You can paint it all the colors of the rainbow if you want! You just gotta go with the flow. :)

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I'm addicted to YOU and I don't really want to stop.

Seems like you are suffering from a pretty bad case of love-sickness. I have it too, our cases sound remarkably familiar! :)

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i just got into a fight with my best friend and i know i am wrong but write at the same time and then my best friend told me our other friend said goodbye forever meaning killed herself and i just dont know how to deal with any of this i know my best friend will read this becuase she is a collumnist on here but can anyone help me please?
~*~ Rachael ~*~

Call her up, or e-mail her and confront her directly about the arguement you two got into. If she is really your best friend, then she should understand your side of the story. Getting into arguements with friends is tough, but the link you two share should be strong enough that you can confront her about it and try to work things out.

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i really really have a problem with kissing my boyfriend. we've been going out for quite a while now and we've only reached a hug. i really do wanna kiss him and he wants to kiss me but we're both so nervous. everyone says it will come naturally but we're both too nervous for it ever to come.

One of your options, is to muster up some courage and actually confront him about it verbally. And if he feels the same way and wants to kiss you, then go for it!

Another approach to it could be to go to a movie with him, sort of cuddle alot with him, and when he drops you off at home, just lean over and give him a nice smack on the lips.

Once you get past this barrier once, it will be easier to do it as time goes on.

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