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why do doves or birds fly together
most of the time in a V shape
hahaaaha
i actually know the answer to this.
it's so that they can move further in a shorter amount of time. the front bird is the leader, and when he gets tired, he moves to the back and someone takes his place. it's smarter than 12 or so birds flying alone, and less tiring.
does mascara expire? if so when do i know if it is? its not in the package?
also every how many mopnths shud i throw away a mascara .. like.. when shud i replace my old mascaras?
you should replace your mascara every three months to avoid eye infections (EYE STYE. THEY HURT.)
Well this is an odd question..
But I was wondering on average how long is a dream period?
dreams typically, although some seem like they last for hours, last for 2 minutes or less, surprisingly. some can last for longer in a typical night, though.
is it poosible to have a smokey eye without wearing eyeshadow? if yes, how?
honestly, i don't think so, but you MIGHT be able to apply heavy eyeliner and smudge it for a smokey eye look. it wouldn't look as good though -- might even make you look goth cause of it's intensity.
the reason why we use eye shadow to do the smokey eye look is so that the change is gradual. it's lighest right under your eyebrows (pale, white), darker in the grease (grey), and darkest on your lids, pure black right above your lashline.
if you used eyeliner , it might work but you could only apply eyeliner upto halfway up your eyelid or it'll look like WAY too much makeup.
try it. see if it works. it might just end up looking like smudged eyeliner.
whats up with what i heard about BRUSHing your lips with a tooth brush to take off..... what.. take off what? i forgot
can anyone tell me whats the deal with the tooth brush and your LIPS?
also, does this trick work for lipstick:
"if you want your lip color long lsting, apply your lipstick/lipgloss and blot it with blotting paper & then re-apply"
does that even work.. isnt it a waste of lipgloss?
take off the dead skin cells so that your lipstick does cake and your lip gloss goes on smooth. after you brush your lips, apply a lot of chapstick & you'll have really soft lips.
mmm. well for lipstick that trick DEFINITELY works cause the lipstick gets INTO your lips. like it's not just a layer on top, so the color lasts longer. it works for lipgloss less often cause lip gloss comes on and off easily. it might work if the color is really different than your natural lip color, but most girls don't go really drastic with their lip colors cause it looks unnatural.
i also wanted to add that it works cause you're rubbing the color into your lips, not wiping it off. works better for lipstick as i mentioned before
i was watching LB today and it was da prom episoe; stephen's senior year and KRISTIN WAS LIKE " this is like our 4th prom being together"
she meant as DATES.
but there kristin was a junior, how could thery have 4 proms together is you can only be a senior ONCE?
ISNT IT ONLY SENIORS THAT GET PROMS?!?
stephen wasnt always a senior so he cant ask HER (kristin) to be "his date"?
true or false
proms only happen one time in your high school year (which is senior year), unless you get asked by a senior every year.. right i dont get it..
isnt prom only for seniors?!
i hope you get it and i didnt confuse you!
my school has junior prom. also, yeah, unless you get asked by a senior every year. but many schools nationwide have proms throughout high school.
http://www.sallybeauty.com/beyond-the-zone-straight-shot-balm/SBS-140658,default,pd.html
can this straighten my hair?
i'm going to be honest with you and tell you that no one can tell you for sure cause it alll depends on your hair type. i'm thinking it won't because...
1.) most creams, sprays, and shampoos that claim they can straighten your hair... can't. you need a hair straightener (i recommend the chi straightener. i've been using mine for oh idk maybe 5 -6 years and it STILL works!) or be a really good hair dryist hahaha if that's a word in order to get true straight hair.
2.) it's only $4.
if your hair is SORTA straight but you want it STICK straight, it MIGHT work.... but if your hair is curly, not a chance. if you're asian your hair might be more naturally straight than most other people, so it might do you some good. like me, for example. my hair is straight everywhere except the ends curl out awkwardly (like a 60s haircut!) and so i straighten my hair for like 2 minutes and it looks great.
I go days without pooping. Sorry to be gross.. but it's definitely not healthy.
Any suggestions on regulating my digestive system?
you have IBS and need more fiber. IBS is irritable bowel syndrome.
try adding benefiber to your foods and drinks and you should do fine. not many foods are extremely fiber-rich, so try benefiber
Hi, I'm from the UK, hope you can help! I began dating a guy a few months ago through facebook (However, he is from my hometown and I did already know him). He is 26 and im 25 and he lives about 2.5 hours away from me. We got on so well in every way, we are perfect for each other, but the distance was a stuggle. We were emailing and texting every day, but only getting to see each other every 2 weeks which was really hard. He wanted to move back but couldnt find a job in his profession. Then about 6 weeks ago he rang up and said we should not see each other anymore as its too hard as he is skint, falling behind in his job (he has a professional job) and hates the idea of me paying to go up there all the time. He insisted he still really liked me, but i was sceptical. That was around 6 weeks ago and i was gutted, since then we have emailed around once a week, until last week when he text me saying he would be home on the weekend...would i like to meet for a drink? So i met him on Sat and we were together all night, and things were exactly the same - we still got on so well and he said things like if he lived here he would be saying 'l love you' by now! It was so nice, then Sunday he said he would try and come down in two weeks time...i just dont know waht to do though, im worried he'll change his mind again etc. He's text me a couple of times since the weekend, but nothing yesterday(its wednesday now), but it's so confusing. He is a nice, genuine person so i know he isnt using me. My friend said perhaps i should move up there, but i dont feel that i know him well enough and would be scared. Long distance is really hard, but i really, really like, even love him. It's taken so long to find someone I like, usually I just date and end up finishing with them pretty soon after. I hate feeling like this, it's so much easier when I don't like anyone and am single! Sorry for babbling on so much, but i would appreciate your advice - thank you!x
aw sweetheart. that's really tough. but it's great that you're still in touch. it seems as though he's really into you, and he cares so much about you that he doesn't want you to waste money meeting up with him.
honestly, i wouldn't move unless you're absolutely positive that you want to. it's a big step and, financially, you might have some problems. you'll be ten times more upset if things don't work out AND you spent money on moving.
don't worry too much about what he said, but i think you should both try to meet up in a place halfway from each of you. like at a pizza place or get some coffee so that you don't always have to spend money and neither does he.
all the best, and hope everything works out
I started my period a few days ago. I'm not sure if I just never noticed this before but I weighed myself after I went to the bathroom when I woke up. Then, a few hours later I weighed myself again because I noticed I was gaining weight and I was 2 lbs heavier after eating breakfast. Is this water weight associated with my period? I don't think I'm eating any more than I usually do. Any suggestions?
you shouldn't weigh yourself more than once a week because the probability of it being accurate is much lower.
when you weigh yourself, calculate it doing a +/- 5 lbs. your weight can shift by upto 5 lbs in water weight.
when you're menstruating, your body gets a little bit more bloated, and because of appetite loss, it sucks up a lott of water. your weight can shift drastically during this period of the month.
honestly, just eat normally. the weight will come off and on during your period. you're not ACTUALLY gaining & losing weight so there's nothing to worry about.
The only person I have left to talk to after everything I've been through...my best friend.
Well, I keep waiting for her to get up and leave like everybody else did. She's away at the moment (like on vacation away) and I wanted so badly to talk to her because I feel like I'm drowning over here. So she never called me back until finally today. I wanted just to pour my guts out to her, but lately when something's bothering me, I just physically can't talk about it. I can't form into words what I'm trying to say. I don't know why, I just can't. So I was trying to tell her but I just kept getting more and more frustrated (mainly with myself) so then I lashed out at her. I hung up on her (something I've never done before in my life), and then she tried calling back but I wouldn't pick up. I was just upset and felt deflated and ugh. And it wasn't even her fault. It was all my fault for getting mad at her and I feel awful about it. And when I feel awful about something, I go to her. But the thing is, I actually don't want to go to her. I almost feel like I don't have the energy to go to her and explain why I'm so upset all the time. Because I don't have the energy to find out why myself.
It's so confusing. Like, what I just typed up there, I could never say. It's easier to type something out than say it, but even then I'm not telling the whole thing because I can't organize my thoughts to just spit it out.
Sorry if this got annoying.
first of all, you weren't annoying. you're going through a rough time in your life and you need some help.
from personal experience, i don't spill my guts to humans in general because every single one i can think of has betrayed me in one way or another. now, i know no one is perfect, but trust is a difficult thing for me.
and that's why i suggest you keep a journal.
benefits of keeping a journal:
1.) you can keep track of your feelings from one day to another. e.g., start out each post with one word describing how you're feeling. gradually, take note of if they're becoming happier
2.) you don't risk someone spilling your secrets, walking out on your life, or betraying your trust.
3.) you don't make your loved ones suffer with you. your journal is your best friend if you keep it updated and when something happens, you tell it.
friends are great, yes, but both you and i have had our share of friendship troubles. you seem so confused. you should definitely still go to her for guidance, but only when you have a specific problem. the rest you can do with you and your diary.
i hope i helped
Ok so first of all I'm a girl and I'm really confused right now. Since I can remember I've always been straight but now I'm second guessing. Well here's the deal:
I masturbate all the time and I get a little turned on when I see nude pictures of girls.
So what does this make me?
HELP!! =/
that does not make you a lesbian or bisexual. unless you are physically and emotionally attached to a female, you are straight. you're bicurious, and many girls go through that phase. it's totally normal. see where you stand in a few months. who knows? maybe it's a phase or maybe you're really a bisexual or a lesbian. have fun and don't worry too much about it. you'll figure out your sexuality soon enough
well yah thats what im going to do..but like i say is al good.
ima talk
okayy girll :) all the best
thank you,ima call him today and im gonna see what happens..or i will probably call him tomorrow.
but im really hurt.
we have a yr an 2 months going out,and i dont wanna brake up with him.
i'm so sorry, babe. honestly, it doesn't matter how long you've been going out but how strong your relationship is. you could know someone all your life and still never click.
you don't have to break up right now, but if he's being selfish and ignoring your calls, you have to make sure he respects you as a person and meets your needs
hey whats a cheap but good blush simiar to this and the color? i want a lil bit of shimmer
10 dollars and under please
http://www.coastalscents.com/cfwebstore/images/products/Mineral%20Makup/Blush/NewBlush123_300.jpg
thanks
hey
definitely try the truematch collection by l'oreal. they're not expensive and they have a ton of colors. i honestly recommend going to a store (i go to a place called harmon's beauty) and try out some different colors. remember, just because a good blush looks good in a picture doesn't mean it would look good on your skin. try it out, but definitely the truematch collection.
I am with a girl now that had cheated on her previous boyfriend with me and now i work a 3 week on 3 week off rotation which puts me out of state for weeks at a time and its been eating at me that she might be cheating on me while im away. what should i do? im lost.
first of all, don't doubt her just cause she's cheated on her last boyfriend. maybe she has learned and is a different person now.
second, you have to let her know that it is bothering you. be honest and say that you don't want her cheating on you.
third, if she promises, you have to learn to trust her. how would you like it if everyone always doubted you because you made one mistake? keep it in the back of your mind, and if there are hints that she's cheating, you have to confront her about it.
fourth, which is a must, call her once a day and ask her what she's been upto. if you talk frequently, she'll feel guilty if she does cheat on you.
but before you leave, you have to talk to her about how it's bothering you. learn to be loyal and honest about your feelings with her.
i need help with my dorm room. it is pretty small, but i want a few things to spice it up. mainly these things will be on the walls because i won't be able to have a lot of furniture or anything in such a small space.
-i am a creative, artsy person that likes music, art, poetry, dance intellectual things
-i'm a huge girly girl
-my bedspread has blue and white colors in it so far but i dont want to confine myself to only shades of blue
-i am into tropical things
-i love black
i am kind of all over the place. thus, i dont know how to decorate my dorm!!!! pleaseee help
hey
first off, definitely definitely start with posters and photographs since you said you like art. you can also try cute curtains and lighting. lighting can actually make or break a room. keep it bright and cutesy. pbteen has a lot of good lighting, but really anything nearby. the key is definitely lighting, though.
you can also try buying a cute bright rug to go on the floor. the second most important element is color. although you can't paint the walls, you can, as i said, put posters up, buy curtains, and buy a rug. most importantly, buy good bright lighting. maybe one desk lamp and a floor lamp should do it for you.
i'm 16, and not ready to have sex yet. but i want to masterbate, but feel embarresed. what are some ways to do this with out buying anything. thanks
www.solotouch.com
go to "techniques" on the left panel
ok i been going out wit my boyfriend for a yr and 2 months.
but now he left to the dominican republic..nd everytime i call him he is never there.i dont know what to think,sometimes i think that he is just cheeting on me.because his brother got a myspace and he cheks it every 4 days,then why cant my boyfriend do that and ask why did i called or something..?
omg im confuse nd sad please give me some really good advice,thank you
hey sweetie.
i'm so sorry about your boyfriend. he seems really irresponsible for ignoring you like he is when you care so much about how he's doing. i know it must be hard. how long has he not been responding? if it's been over a week, you have to first give him a real strict talk when he gets back or when you can talk to him again. you have to tell him how much it bothers you and pains you that he's ignoring you and not calling you back or answering his phone. it's very rude and obnoxious. if he says "i'm so sorry i'll never happen again" and it happens again, you need to break up with him. what is a relationship without proper communication and only broken promises?
hope all goes well. feel free to inbox me again if you have anymore questions.
hahaa, my friend was saying something about it, and she saays like you should know what to do in this situation cause its girl code but i dont know anything about it, hahaa. she says all girls know it. so... what is it? and what are examples?
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=girl+code
girl code
a set of useless, bullshit rules that girls use to govern and bully around their friends, girls or guys.
examples of breaking the girl code:
1. you slept with a guy a friend used to like
2. you ask a guy out that you once saw an aquaintance out with a month before
3. you are friends with someone your friend hates
Girl 1: "what did i do wrong?"
Girl 2: "hello!? you fucking broke the girl code rule #27."
Girl 3: "oh, duh, i checked out a guy that you once that was cute. i am so sorry."