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Ok so for new years i want to go to a party but my mom wants to tlak to the parents and its wicked embarresing i dont want her to what can i do. also all the girls are going to someones house afterwards besides me cuz i wasnt invited how do i get them to invite me without inviting myself? (link)
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hey!
to get invited you should start hanging with these girls. to make them think that you're "one of them". later on they'll realize that you want to hang with them so they'll invite you to their party!!!:) GOOD LUCK hppe u do get invited
***HERSHEY WISHES HUGS AND KISSES***
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alright so here it is. I'm going out with this girl and i had my first kiss with her and like all the rest of my kisses and i like really really really like her right and we went to the movies for a christmas date and i realized that i thought i really loved her and now i cant sleep and all i can do is think of her. And i get this feeling that ive never felt. And i want to now if this is like real love because i can see myself getting married with her and everything. (link)
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a brother from another mother...... i'm a gurl(heheehahahaha) it's okay 2 have feelings 4 this gurl. and think about her evry single minute of eternity. it's perferctly natural!!! i don't exactly understand what your asking but don't gurantee she's going 2 be in your future. stay with her. you'll be happy even if you guyz don't end up being "together 4ever" GOOD LUCK
thanx 4 writing!!!!)
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You know those movies that show a 12 or 13 year old kid with a girl his same age? They're young and cute and share their first kiss with eachother. Like the one in 8 crazy nigts! Well, I get this feeling that lots of girls my age have had that fantasy childhood, and well, i just haven't! In my town the only oppurtunity for those kind of relationships is with the school boys. The only place you can really get to know them is at school. Not throught sports or clubs and whatnot.They're mostly jerks though. I'm 13 and I really can't accept that i'll never have that fantasy realtionship. I think I'm pretty (as told by some boys at camp), I'm very confident in myself when it comes to my body, I'm pretty friendly, and I have a sense of humor. I do tend to get cranky with boys who try to be funny. HELP MEE!! (link)
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a sista from another mother!! it's okay i know what you mean. i'm also 13yrs.old and haven't even gotten my 1st kiss yet. you'll get yours sooner or later. don't be so eager let it be a surprise i guranteee you you'll be happy. you'll find the right path to true luv someday:)
thanx 4 writing!! good luck
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okay...im a 7th grade girl...and mi 2 "friends" arent friends anymore..i mean they have been friends sinse i knew them...they used to be so close..now they talk about eachother and stuff..and it is really mean..but one of them isnt doing anything wrong..i mean okay one of them was making fun of the other because her grandma has a fake boob cause she has breast cancer..IS THAT NOT MEAN...but i mean i want them to be friends again...what shoould i do to help them be friends again?~~~HELP ME!~~~ (link)
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heyyyy!
even though your'e kind of in the middle, your doing the right thing by trying to bring them back together!!:) well i do have some ideas of ways you could bring them back together!:)
YOU COULD:
1. invite both of them to the movies, just don't tell both of them that the other one is coming.
2.talk to each of them seperately and tell them that their hurting you by making you be in the middle.
3. you could have a sleepover and invite them both. they'll be so caught up in the fun that they won't realize that they're "enemies" and they'll become friends.
4.ask them both why they stopped being friends. then you could bring up all the memories that they use to have together. they'll realize that there friendship waz something good that they cherished and it shouldn't be ruined!!!!
i HOPED i helped:) thanx 4 writing GOOD LUCK!!!
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i'm a junior and guy. my friends usually like to have parties or get togethers, and i usually can't go because something comes up or i have other plans. with this group of friends, they are good guys, generally stay out of trouble, but the one day i couldn't go, i decided not to because i had to work on a project. the next day i heard one of the guys was rushed into a hospital because he was drinking too much. i dont like drinking, never have, and would like not to. so if they do invite me to a get together, should i just decline? i don't want to be left out of the loop, but personally i don't like drinking, don't really mind if others do though. what should i do...avoid it completely? will rate (link)
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wat's up?
your a pretty smart guy. it's alright if you have other plans(more important)and you can't hang with your guys! and it's alright to go to that party just don't drink. don't feel like your being pressured from your own FRIENDS. they shouldn't because they're your friends and your friends should let you feel comfortable and unpressured!!!!! thanx 4 writing!!!
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One of my friends likes this guys and wants to date him, so we have all been trying to get them together. the thing is whenever we all go to the movies or whatever her best friend is always all over him. her best friend just got out of a relationship and is taking it pretty hard. lately she has been hanging out with my friend's crush (just her and him)
I was wondering whether anyone thinks that she would go for the guy. I mean normally i dont think she would, but she isnt in the best mental state. what do i do?
ps: the guy likes them both
Thanks!
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your kind of in the middle right now, just know you can count on me 2 help u out!!!:) well since the 2 girls you've mentioned(bestfriends are going 2 be going at it for a while.) talk to the other girl who just got out of the relationship and tell her that your friend wanted him first! don't say it so harshly just talk 2 her one on one and tell her that your friend wants him badly! since that is her bestfriend she should understand 100%. the guy should choose one. and IF the guy ends up choosing the other girl then tell your friend that there's alwayz going 2 be more fish out in the sea waiting 4 her!!! thanx 4 writing!!! hope everything goes grrrreeeaaaattttt!!
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alright im really confused so anyone who can help me ill rate 5..here goes...kinda long
Okay i have really really liked this boy for like 4 months and over time i have gotten to know him more and when i see him we hang out..(i see him at church) ...but than theres this other girl who likes him also and he flirts with us about the same....but he grabbed her but which made me kind of mad.. but anyways he knowss i like him so he knows i get mad when he says oh "shes so hot" so he does that kind of stuff of purpose like joking around , but than i asked him for his necklace (it was a chain thinging you know?) and he gave it to me...not to have i dont think?..haha..alright well one time i was telling everyone a story and he was there and in the story cause i got in a fight with a girl and he said "oh your sticking up for me" and i siad no but i was and he said oh well i would have kissed you if you were...i dont know if he likes me, doesnt, or is just leading me on...and what do i do??!!? ..HELP. (link)
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a sister from another mother! i have been in this tough position too! it's hard to tell if a boy you really like is playing with your emotions or if he really does like you! i think he is just using you as a flirt buddy not someone he really does like. just start ignoring him now. if he comes running back 2 u then know that he has something 4 u. that;s really special! thanx 4 writing!!! GOOD LUCK!
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Hey Guys, I have a HUGE Problem, I know you guys are probably gonna say "You shouldn't care what people thinks!". Well I need to answer that. I can't help it. It all started when Me and My best friend Amber. We Arn't Like That (Lesbian). She has a Boyfriend and yeah I am Single. We act like sisters though. We 'Sometimes' share a drink (pop, etc.). What I mean by that is. She could be drinking something and then I would ask her if I could have a drink and I would take a drink. Now everyone thinks I'm a Lesbain!! What Can I do To Get Them To Shut Up? I'm Not That WAY!!!!! (link)
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don't ever feel like you are a lesbian!! i know ALOT of people like that at my school. they're always eating or drinking off of eachother! that's okay to do that. well if u really are annoyed by this unwanted attention then stop drinking off of her then. sooner, people will realize that your really straight! or you can like sit with another friend for like a week then go back to your friend. i'm not saying to drop your friend just act like your taking a break from her. then people will finally SHUT UP!!!! thanx 4 writing!!!!
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Ok, so i have this friend named *ang* and she was my friend the whole sumer. I was either talk to her on the phone, she was over, i was over her house, or she was at the pool with me. Ok so when school came, this friendship went down, she turned into a wana be popular girl, anging out with them, and turned into a backstabber. We still stayed friends. So i decided to take dance with *ang* and she was so happy and so was I! So tonight is our dance recitle, and she hates me. She caleld me a bitch, she gets into my email account, but then, after, she just comes back to me. and me being to soft harted i accept her apoligy. If i doont, she gets totaly mad and starts spreading bad rumors. ive told my parents, and ive told teachers, and en talked to her, nothing has worked. please help me solve this problem. (link)
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hey,
feeling blue? well don't let that dumass freakin 2faced bitch break you down even more! just STOP being her friend,S-T-O-P! NO MORE 2ND CHANCES. NO MORE SOFT HEARTEDNESS. let her know that your not no rag that she swipes up everyday! then CHANGE YOUR PASSWORD TO YOUR EMAIL ACCOUNT! if she's still spreading aboutyou then tell the principal on her. your not tattle tailing on her you just don't like what she's doing 2 you.thanx 4 writing!!!
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Is it weird that im in 7th grade and havnt had my first kiss yet?? i mean, so many people in my grade have been kissed. Am im like, a freak or something? (link)
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a sister from another mother!! i'm 13/f and in 8th grade and i haven't even gotten my first kiss yet! no need to worry you'll get the loving kiss when it's the right time. all my friends always brag about that too! but i know that when my kiss comes i want it to be special too. and i think your kiss should be special too. thanx 4 writing!!! YOU ARE NOTTTTT A FREAK
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I want to know what I should do! ok there is this guy on my bus, at my school and is kinda of my neighbor. I liked him when I first moved at the school in 5th grade and mow I am in 7th grade and I like him still I used to flirt with him all the time and he used to sit with me on the bus and last year I heard around this time I was told that he liked me my brother is always hanging out with him and my brother asked if he liked me and he said that he thiught I was pretty and he thought I was boring and dont flirt any more but he wants to make out with me and stuff like that I dont get it ? he comes to my house all the time and my parents keep on joking around that he is using my brothe to see me but he goes out and plays and snow boards but my dad wont let me out and play and mow he thinks im boring well i think he is write and at least I could do is flirt with him more I have like once and that was yesterday and he got glassess and i told him that he looked really hot in those and then I thought that was corny so I want to do better my brother keeps on telling me that I need a b/f and I never had one before so I need one before my little brother gets one and he is only 10 my sis got on e befor I did and she is in 6th grade and I know now that I need one so my ? isa how should I flirt with him to start a conversation? I will give everyone a 5 if you answer this long ?. (link)
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if you really really really do like this guy then get to know him a little better. go somewhere with him, like a skating rink or the movies, or just some place to chill out. and if you think your boring then get on the wild side a bit. start being a mystery instead of a book. that means just be like a questioning kind of person. don't let him see you as some rag. if he doesn't want to get with you then just know that there's alwayz going 2 be someone out there 4 u. better yet,just stay friends with him 4 now then if he reconsiders getting with you then say YES!!! thanx 4 writing!!!!
****HERSHEY WISHES HUGS AND KISSES****
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ok i like this guy but i dont really know him all that well what should i do to get him to notice me ? (link)
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to start off easy, why don't u just talk 2 him? that'll probably be hard but u could at least give it a try! don't change your apperance or anything drastic like that. just be yourself! tell him you want to be his friend or as said before just talk to him.
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well me and my bffl went to the mall and met the most awesomest guy there so we planned to go there every weekend to see him.we both like him and he says he likes us both...well i was talking to him on the phone and he said between you to i would pick you but then he acts like he likes her sooooo much...ok my bffls past history is she likes boys..like she is supper boy crazy and if a guy acts like he likes her than she automatcilly likes him back..well i like him sooooo much!! and i dont know if i should go out with him or no because she " likes " him to and because he seems like a player..what do i do?? (link)
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hi,
well a frienship 4ever is way better than a boy getting in between u guys! this is rrrreeeeeeellllly bad. this guy is playing with your emotions between u guys and sooner or later you and your friend will end up split apart. this guy could be a really good friend but don't go ahead and go out with him. it's just NOT worth it!
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okay so me and my boyfriend are perfect for eachother we have been together for almost a year and a half... well he really wanted this snowmoblie coat so i ordered it for his ,, it was $250.00 tho so i dont just wanna give it to him like in wrapping paper i want it to be special but i cant think of anything cute to give it to him for christmas? any ideas (link)
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well you can probably surprise him as he's coming into his house. i don't really know what a snowmobile coat is but i know surprises are greattttttttt! you'll definitely see a smile on his face as he enters the room !!!! GOOD LUCK!!!
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My so-called best friend...K,..was talking about me behind my back. And when I confronted her she was like "OMG I SWEAR I DIDN"T SAY THAT!" Because, her boyfriend, my good friend and ex, just broke up with her and she said that he left her for me. I know that doesn't seem like something to get mad about, but it made me furious! Because, I liked him, and I told her too, and she just forgot about it and omg,...do I have a right to be mad? Should I just forget the whole thing? Thanks in advance!
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hey! it's alright 2 be mad about this. just realize that if you guys get into an argument it's all of the boyfriend's fault. tell your BEST FRIEND why would she talk about you? you never talk about her. just remain friends with this boy. because there is a chance if you get with your ex again this might seperate your relationship with your friend for good! take time to talk with your friend she's probably just confused with everything and just needs a shoulder to cry on. your good friend don't let a boy get in between your friendship.
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I know that 13-year-olds are too young to fall in love. But does that mean you can't say "I love you" to your boyfriend? (link)
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no that does not mean you can't say "i love you" to your boyfriend. if that's the way you feel about him and your positive about those feelings then you should feel free to say it. thanx 4 writing!!!:)
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Okay, i'm 13. I like my friends Josh and John.They are both 13 too. John has a girlfriend but Josh doesn't. Sometimes I think Josh likes me because one time when we were on the way home from playing a concert from school it was around 9p.m and I was tired. I sat with Josh and started falling asleep. Josh then started to hold my hand and tell me to lay my head on his shoulder. In school he would give me hugs and sit with me. The only problem is that I don't know if he likes me and I'm the kind of person who is shy to say that kind of stuff to guys. What should I do? Does he like me? (link)
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wat's up?
since john is taken, then gi for josh.yes it is pretty romantic how he let you lay on him, AND held your hand.if your that shy then go tell one of your closest friends to ask him. most likely i think he'll say yes! because most guys don't do that to girls unless they like her! so you have a big chance right there! :) thanx 4 writing!!
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Hi, I am 15 years old and I am really confused right now. Let me start at the beginning. When I was 13, my best friend at the time (we'll call her Susie) started to like this boy (we'll call him Steven) that I have known my whole life but never really noticed like that. So she sent me to be the messenger and ask him questions for her and eventually he asked his friend to ask her out for him because he "liked her too" (later I found out he was just physically attracted to her). While I was talking to him for her, I fell head over heels in love. So they "went out" (they weren't actually allowed to date, so it was just a title really) for about 2 weeks and then Susie called me and asked me to break up with Steven for her. I was reluctant, but she was my bff at the time so I agreed. I decided to break it to him gently, and when I did, he ended up being really upset. I got to comfort him and console him until he got over her. Now he and I both hate her because of the events that have happened since then, butafter he got over her, I began trying to get him to fall for me. We were talking a lot for a while and I fell even more deeply in love with him. But I only saw him in church (3 times a week) and at church functions, and so after our little social circle (us two, and about 3 other people) fell apart, we stopped talking. I didn't want to talk to him with no excuse because he might find out I like him. So I am still totally in love with him and everytime I see him, hear him, or anything I feel like I'm going to expolode! I have to write poetry to get my feelings out because they're so strong. I have written 20 poems just in the last month! What do you guys think I should do? But before you answer, consider that I am huge, fat, ugly and my self-esteem is very low. Also, both of our parents won't let us go out together or be alone for too long. What can I do? Much love,
*Isa* (link)
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well don't forget about your BFF that's one thing you can't let go of!!! and always believe that you could make it. miracles happen everyday! and you don't have to stop talking to him.does your best friend still have feelings for him? well if she doesn't, then go for it!!!!:) good luck!!!
herhey wishes hugs and kisses
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Okay i know this happends to alot of girls but its happend to me all the time and i want it to stop and i want a guy to take me serusly.....all guys want from me is sex and blowjobs and i want it to stop and i want to have a good relationship with somebody but it just doesn't never happend. for instance my best friend has this brother and i went over there last week and we were getting in to it and i thought that i might acually have a chance and he just says"Don't tell anybody about his" and of corse i know that that means i mean i'm not that stupid but really what should i do.. and i dont' want to sound like a slut but every time a guy asks me for something i give it to them because i just want somebody to love me but there'll all just playing me and playing me........Will i ever find somebody that loves me for me? what should i do? (link)
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hi.
i understand the way you are being treated. no one treats you with respect and the right kind of love. i HOPE your not 15 yrs.old or younger because your at a pretty big risk right now. you don't need sex to find love. the only love you need is the love given by your family and friends! your a good person, don't ruin your life. you only have one life to live, spend your time wisely!!! you will find someone that LOVES YOU. then tell the guys you go out with that you want to be treated with respect, if he don't have respect for you then leave him. everyone deserves to be treated with repect, including you!!! thanx 4 writing
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My friend is really cool and stuff but sometimes she can be a huge pain in the butt. She has a lot of boy troubles. She is kind of mean to most boys and will like hit them and stuff. She still likes boys though. She says that no guys like her because she is fat, short, and ugly. Thats not true at all though she is really pretty. Then she says that everyone likes me(which isn't true) and she says that I'm miss prefect because I'm actually nice to guys. It makes me really mad. how do I tell her in a nice way that She is too mean to guys and that if she is nicer to them she might be able to get a boyfriend. I will rate answers! (link)
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hey!
if your friend is that mean to guys then just tell her straight up! if she wants boys to like her then she will take your advice into consideration. and it won't hurt saying that she brags to much about how she's "ugly." always encourage her and say she's pretty! because she will soon later realize that she is beautiful in the inside and out!
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