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im amanda. im 16 && if you ask me a question ill kinda help you. i wont be bitchy, unless youre bitchy first, so ya.
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Has anyone seen the movie The Day After Tomorro?
Well after those horrible tsunamis that killed like 120,000 people...i got thinking. Then i was watching the weather channel last night and i saw that texas had a lot of rain..then 12.5 inches of snow..and then tomorro its supposed to be 80 degrees! I live in ny and our winter is extremely mild..only like 5 inches of snow in TOTAL for the whollle winter so far. And it might reach 50 degrees in a few days! Does anyone think we are heading in the direction of where the Day After Tomorro went? or something less drastic?Its kinda scary...Global warming... (link)
i live in texas and the weather here is always crazy. theres this saying and its "if you dont like the weather in texas, wait five minutes and it will change" which is about right lol


ok this may be long.
theres the boy hes in 12th grade. Im in 10th and i knew him since 9th grade. well this year he found out that i kind of liked him. and he didnt stop talking to me or acting different. untill he knew for sure i liked him. and now that ive had people go up to him and see if he has a girlfriend and stuff, when he sees me he smiles so big. and he used to hide it and now he lets it show. he always talks to me and messes with me and when i dont say hi to him he askes me why and stuff and he thinks sometimes im mad at him and when i tell him im not he goes oh good because i wouldn't want you mad at me. and he talks to me no matter whose around. and it doesnt matter who hes talking to he'll always say hi to me or something. with a smile. and i jus want to know if he likes me or what? and i had my friend that ask if he had a girlfriend and he said no then she asked him "well do u like amanda? would u ever go with her?" she said he just got the biggest smile on his face. he didnt say nothing but just smiled really big. would you people say he likes me? and what should i do?

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i think he likes you. it sounds like he does. just talk to him about it. and goodluck!!!


My sister was raped and killed about a year ago ( we havent found out who it is yet but they're still looking)and I lately I have been see her well her ghost and she always says some thing but I cant hear her like she just moves her lips and I want to tell my mom but I'm afriad she will put me in some kind a hospital or something but about a week ago my sister came back and she made me fallow her some how I mean she walked through the wall and I just had to fallow her and when I did it I found an old beat down house and I really really wont to show it to some one because I think it might be the guy that killed her (link)
tell your mom about this. you never know what could happen. and if she does say something like "youre crazy" or something like that then just drop it but otherwise just tell her. good luck i hope you find her killer


alright...well I am going out with this guy and me and him have only been going out since friday (12-17). well he always says how much he is in love with me and I don't understand that at all, I mean I haven't even been with him that long!well we went shopping and got eachother x-mas presents but he only told me one thing he got me which was DIAMOND EARRINGS from this fricken expensive jewelry store. Well he got me something else and he told my friend but she won't tell me but she was really excited about it. I think he went way OVERBOARD and i didn't want him to buy me anything but of course he did. I do not know how to react when we exchange gifts tomorrow because I'm going be like holy crap!! So I have no idea what to do and how to react to that lol! (link)
just thank him (just make sure you dont let your jaw drop for too long lol). he obviously wants to make you happy, so just let him know that you appreciate, but if your uncomfortable with how much hegot you just be lik "i really appreciate it, and i love what you got me, but you dint ahve to get me this much." good luck!


Do you neciserrily have to think a guy is cute to like them? Like can you be attracted to just there personality and still have a crush on them? (link)
of course you can jsut like a guy for his personality!!


I have a pretty big emergancy...
My boyfriend gave me a hicky like 30 minutes ago and I was wondering if theres ANYWAY to help speed the process of it disapearing?
please help if my parents see this then i'll get killed!
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put cover up on it. or i've heard ice works too, since a hickey is just like a bruise. you could also hide it by wearing scarves or collared shirt or something. good luck, hope you dont get caught!


i have a best friend [a guy] his name is chris. Well chris goes out with my EX bestfriend taylor. they are TOALLY different hes the skater type and shes the preppy bitch. i love chris with all my heart and i dont wanna him going out with this low life. taylor is already cheating on him and im sick of it. i told him but he doesnt care. and i really love him alot [ as a best friend] i mean i would think that he would listen to me but he doesnt and that makes me so mad because we are suppost to be best friends.. what do i do? (link)
try talking to him about it. and if he doesnt listen dont push it. but if/when he gets hurt by her just be there for him


ok well for xmas my bf wants the avenged seventhfold cd and i have tried EVERYWHERE ive tried target, best buy, hot topic, fye, sam goody, circut city, cd warhouse i mean everywhere and i cant find it they either only have their newer one or they ran out do you know anywhere else to look? PLEASE HELP I ONLY HAVE A FEW DAYS!!! (link)
try ordering it online and do like the overnight shipping. it might cost more but at least it'll be worth it. i hope you get it!


I need help dumping my b/f of 1 week..I mean he is cool but I don't feel a *spark* when I'm around him or even talking to him! He is one of my friends and I'd like to keep it that way.. but I dont really wanna date him anymore.. can you help me please??

-Molly

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just be like..."i really like you. but only as a friend. im really sorry, but i still want to be friends" or something along those lines. hope i helped and good luck.


well i guess me and Tim are together and we have been for about a month, we talk evertynight on the phone and i know he means everything he says because they arent cheezy and he doesnt say he loves me, and i like that because every other guy i dated was like that so he knows what hes talkin about. well we always hangiut and we both really like eachother but he hasnt asked me out and i know he wants to because he told his friend? do you think hes scared or embarrassed, even thought he acts perfectly fine around me? well and a other thing.. im really not trying to sound stuck up, im not like that but my first kiss was when i was 12 and ive been hooking up since but now that we`re 15 he never kissed a girl until me.. and i really dont care about that but he really cannot kiss and i feel bad?i like cant even keep my balance.. im not gunna leave him but is there anything i could do? should i just kiss him when we are layin down how id do it? haha i sound so snobby

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he wasprobably just a litle nervous, so jsut take it slow with him, and he'll get better with practice. *wink wink* haha! goodluck!


I have a emergency question. The other day my friend said she would tell he who she liked if I told her also. She told me, then I told her. The same day, the guy she liked told her he liked her. I'm 11 by the way. I dont think my crush likes me, but Im not sure. and i told my other friend, and she told me, and i think he likes her also. I feel hated, and really want him to like me. (link)
youre eleven, you have plenty of time to find a boyfriend, so you dont need to worry about that. plus im sure nobody hates you, as long as yu have one good friend you'll be okay.


hey um this is kind of awkward, but i'm 13 going on 14 in a couple of months, and i belive i have met "the one" and he wants to um finger me, and i am totally comfortable with it, but my parents arn't. should i do it behing my parents back, or listen to my parents and not do it at all, but my mom is the one whos conserned my dad doesn't care. i've already talk to them about it, have you ever got fingered of done ti to someone? if not then how old were you when you did it, please.... im so CONFUSED! i'll rate! (link)
wait...whoa. you told your parents? hmm well i guess if youre cool with that lol. but umm i guess if youre reay go for it!


i Asked a question earlier about me datin a 19yr old.....ok......19 i kno but everytime someone says someone who is older than 16 goin out wit a much younger person every one first thinks "RAPE!!!!!" but i kno if i said he would neva do anything to me everyone would tell me that i cant be to sure.....well thats bull because this guy really really really likes me and im sick of hearin that sex is the only thing on his mind.....sorry but you really got to stop thinkin that every olda guy is gonna rape someone..... thanx to those who gave me good advice........i appreciate it.....


>>now ill ask again..sould i listen to my friends?....or go wit wat my heart tells me to? (link)
well i dont know what your friends were saying to you. but theyre just looking out for you. you should listen to them and make sure they know that you care what they say, but when it comes down to it it's youre decision, so be careful. good luck! hope i helped


how do u get tested fo a sti?im worried (link)
gyno, doctor,or somewhere along those lines. good luck.


About a week and a half ago I saw my best friend Dylan over the weekend. We just hung out and went to the mall. We later on went back to his house. When ever I see him we kiss and cuddle and I love it more then anything. My parents picked me up at his house around 10:30 and when I was walking out of the door he told me to call him. I called him the next day 1 time and he didnt pick up. I didnt leave a msg bc I thought that he would see my # and call me back but he didnt. I havent talked to him in over a week and I miss him a lot. I thought by now he would call me, but he hasn't. I am not sure if I should call him because latly it seems like he and I are drifting a part. I live 20 mins away from him so I dont get to see him much. Its like we dont talk, and then I will go in town and see him, we'll chill with eachother, then I will leave and go home and we wont talk for a few weeks. I want to call him but I dont want to be one of those girls that call's the a guy all the time. Its like we are bf/gf, we are only good friends. Should I call him and talk to him and tell him that I miss him? Its kind of a more then friends thing bc I think I am in love with him. What do I do? (link)
you should call him. but definitly dont overdo it, guys hate that. but calling him once in a while isnt gonna hurt. he'll probably be glad to hear from you. hope i helped.


this guy and i are in all of the same classes and everyone says that we flirt and that we need to go out! lately he has always been hanging around me a lot! like there was a chair near some girl but i was sitting somewhere else so he was lying down on the table that was next to me! what should i do? and i was wondering how can i get him to give me a hug? (link)
just give him hug! it sounds like he likes your and im sure he wont mind!


I was wondering if it's possible to get pregnant from swallowing...my boyfriend and I have been messing around so this question came up. Thanks.

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no, you cant


Okay, so today, I went out and bought a CHI straightener. (I had a Hot Tools one, but it's too old. That's why the CHI was purchased.)

Well, I haven't used the CHI yet, and I only bought it because everyone raved about it. So, before buying it I went on amazon.com, and other websites, and looked at customer reviews for the CHI. More than half the reviews said that the CHI broke, and left damage to their hair. The ones that put the CHI down, recommended the 'Sedu' straightener.

I read the reviews for that one, and everyone RAVED over it, just LOVED it. So, I'm curious..did I make a mistake purchasing the CHI? Or does anyone have one..and have any complaints about it?

Does anyone have a Sedu? I just want to know about them both, thank you!

:) Britt (link)
i have a chi and i love it! it works great. it hasnt damaged my hair or anything.i cant tell you anything about a Sedu cause i ve never ehard of it. but the chi works really well. hope i helped!


There is this guy i have liked for a while, but he thinks of me just as a best friend. When i see him do things with other girls i tend to get pretty jealous. He asks me for advice with girls he really likes sometimes, and that kind of hurts my feelings because i like him. I try to make that clear but he just doesn't seem to be getting it. We are both fourteen so i guess i'm not ready for something extremely serious, but i want to go out with him. what do i do? (link)
i say you go for him. tell him (again) that you like him. and i he still doesnt get it try to get one of his other friends to talk to him about it. good luck!


ok well im 13/m and i have feelings for my friend. The problem is that she has been going out with her boyfriend for a long time (year and like a month) andso i've been trying to be there for her and be her friend but now her and her bf are going through some rough times and she doesn't think he likes her anymore. I want to make a move but think that might be taking advantage of her and her situation. Should i go for it? Is it taking advantage of her current situatuion? (link)
right now what you need to be is a really good friend. and just be there for her, she'll really appreciate it. and she'll remember it when you decide to make your move. good luck!




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