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i am 15 years old and i have a boyfriend and i dont take other peoples boyfriends away (like lostgrl616 thinks i do) man what a great friend she is?but i have a newphew and he is 2 years old and i have one brother and he is getting married in augest which his soon to be wife also has a child and he is also 2years old i like to play softball and hang out with friends and ride my four wheeler look at cars go to the movces shop and i have 9 piercings all im my ears and i want my nose pierced and also my belly button but i hope you can understand a little bit more about me and people call me desirae or desi or des

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Is it true that if you eat a lot of healthy snacks during the day, rather than meals, you'll loose weight? Also, I always feel so tired and weak. What kind of foods give you energy?

you have to eat healthy snakes and have your 3 meals maybe get some enery drinks like amp or adrenalin hope i helped
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O-k my boyfriend is so cool.... but lately he's been acting differently. as if he wants more from me!! what should I do?

well it depends on how long you guys have been going out if it is like 4 months or something then do more stuff but it also depends on how old you are so yeah i hope i helped do what you want to do he probley does want more
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My dog is a doghound, (doxen!) and she's drooling and acting a little...hm...WEE WOO WEE WHOO!!
What do you think is wrong??

maybe old timers for dogs or it just needs a mate or sumthing hope i helped
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My friend and I have to make up a dance for our school's talent show and i know this is the gayest question but:

Which Ciara song is better: 1,2 step or Goodies?

thanx.
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1,2,step is much better because you can get more dance moves in with that beat maybe look at the video for some ideas hope i helped
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I was hanging out with a group of my friends the other day after school. We were just hanging out having a good time and one of my friends pulls out a joint and lights it. She started passing it around our group of friends and everyone took a puff of it but me. I basically just stood there confused. These innocent girls that I had known since I was 6 years old had just lit up a joint and smoked it. I am completely disgusted by drugs and drinking and I will never do it because it's the worst thing you can do to yourself. They started making fun of me that I wouldn't smoke it. I wasn't hurt that they were making fun of me, but I was just hurt at their stupidity for smoking it. I don't know what to do. They've been my friends for a very long time and have always been loyal to me, but this is something I can't handle. What should I do? Should I tell them they should stop? I'm so confused! Please help.

yeah tell them how you feel about it if they are that good of friends then they should stop for you but if they dont stop then i think that you should forget about them and go find other friends to hang out with hope i helped
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i already asked a question like yesterday but this is a lil different.

im 16.f and my best friend is 13. im gin out w/ her older brother. she says evey thing i do involves her. i totally disagree and i think i wand to do things on my own w/o her "approval". she does not like me and her brother together and she wants me to "take a break" or break up with him or something and i kep telling her no and she keeps asking. what do i tell her?

well if she is your friend she should be happy for you with whoever you are going out with so tell her that she should be happy for you no matter what and that you would like her to just sit aside a little while you are going out with her brother hope i helped
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I was wondering if there was any type of food you could eat to make your boobs bigger
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i know you are asking for you boobs to be bigger but if you eat a lot of corn bread it makes your butt bigger but for boobs just bread and milk i guess
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my friend is 6 months pregnant and shes only 13 but i dont knw wot to do. i know i shudnt get involved but i'm the only person shes told and she has no intention of telling any1 else. her bf's a prik so he aint worth telling. i jus dont want sumthing to happen to her or the baby when i cud of helped by telling somebody. i dont want enyfin to happen but i dont want to loose a m8!

one of my friends had moved and got pregnet didnt want to tell anyone and her baby is due feb.14,05 and she didnt want to tell anyone either and then she did her mom and dad were happy just not at the age she is i think you should get involved people will start to notice as she keeps gaining weight and she probley eats alot more so i think people will catch on and in the long run she will thank you for saying something because i dont think that she wants anything to happen to that baby either so go tell someone she will forgive you cause you are being a good friend and is it a boy or a girl?
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what do u do when all ur friends turn on you

if all your friends turn on you then they arent very good friends so i think that you should just let them go and hang out with differnet people
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i have this guy in my class he is like my best guy friend ever. all of the girls in fourth grade drool over him but i really like him. i think that the girls that like him just like him because of his looks but i like his personality too.. but i dont want 2 tell him that i like him or our friendship as friends will get really weird wat should i do?

u r n 4th grade you shouldnt be worring about guys hasnt your mom ever told you you were to young to have a boyfriend wait another year then ask us this question
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How lond does weed stay in your system. because iwant to apply for this job but there doing a drug test and i dont know when to take the application. i smoked yesterday.
thursday January 20, 2005

well weed stays in your system for about 3 months so it depends when you want to apply for the job
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So first of all, im 14/f and im also bi-. A couple days ago, my girlfriend broke up with me. 0- heart break in less than 5 days. My friend, let's call her Kristin, she also dated my ex g/f who we'll call Gabby. So to clarify, Gabby broke up with me two days ago. Kristin also went out with Gabby about 2 months ago. To complicate things some more, I went out with Kristin over 1/2 a year ago. Well at first, Kristin objected my relationship with Gabby and thats why Gabby broke up with me. She didnt want to come between me and Kristin. Just today however, me and Kristin start gettting real close again in her room right? And that's when she want to know if i want to get back together. I told her i only wanted to stay friends because i still have to go figure some things out. Before i knew it though, i was all over her, and now, i dont even remember how, im suddenly going back out with her. Kristin hurt me a lot when we went out before, but she says she changed. I dont know whether or not i should believe her though. I still have feelings for Gabby, but i also like Kristin. But right now i think i got burned by the flames of love too much so im going to wait until i heal. I dont think i can handle being with anybody right now. Another factor i almost forgot, my other best friend, lets call him Landon, he is in love with Kristin, and i woulnt want her coming in between me and Landon's friendship. It may seem quite repetitive and Deja vu like, but i dont know. For crying out loud, if i already have doubts though, what are the possibilities that it would really last long. I dont know what to do, given the situation placed above. I really need help though. What should i do?!!??!?

hey well one of me friends is bi so well if you arent over gabby then i dont think that you should be messing with that other girl because you dont want to be like her and hurt her like she has hurt you and i dont think that she has changed and if you want your friend to be happy then let landon go with kristin because whats the point if you are with kristin if you dont love her and you love gabby? hope i helped
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I recently asked people whether i shud go out with tom or declan! i decided to go out with tom but his three best friends have text me saying he doesn't like me anymore. its really annoying and messing my head up because he told me he still liked me and he told my best friend he still liked me aswell! i dont what to do? any ideas of what i shud do?

well his friends are just being gay have you ever thougfht that maybe his friends like you and they want you to break up with him so they can try and get with you and if that is true then break up with his ass and go with that other kid you cant go wrong hope i helped
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okay, im a lesbian, and im 14 years old. i want to get with girl but im not sure how to approach one. There's also the complication that they may not swing that way. How do i join the dating world and how do i ask a girl out?

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ok maybe like if you can go into a gay chat room they will tell you how because they have had the most experinces and not us straight people i dont think that there is anything wrong with being gay my friend is gay but so maybe ask around in a gay chat room i am sure that they will help you alot otherwise be yourself dont be nervous i hope i helped
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My friends popular friends don't like me much, so they told her I said I didn't like her. She believed it and now won't talk to me and I was supposed to go to a dance tonight but now am all depressed in my room. Also she's my one and only best friend. What should I do?

hey if they are going to believe them and not you then she isnt a good friend but just try to talk to her if she is your true friend and helps you she should be able to trust you of what you said and not what other people said to make you mad. i really hope i helped people do this to people all the time so i hope you feel better and i hope your friend doesnt stay mad at you for something you didnt say.
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