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Lovers and Friends..
So first of all, im 14/f and im also bi-. A couple days ago, my girlfriend broke up with me. 0- heart break in less than 5 days. My friend, let's call her Kristin, she also dated my ex g/f who we'll call Gabby. So to clarify, Gabby broke up with me two days ago. Kristin also went out with Gabby about 2 months ago. To complicate things some more, I went out with Kristin over 1/2 a year ago. Well at first, Kristin objected my relationship with Gabby and thats why Gabby broke up with me. She didnt want to come between me and Kristin. Just today however, me and Kristin start gettting real close again in her room right? And that's when she want to know if i want to get back together. I told her i only wanted to stay friends because i still have to go figure some things out. Before i knew it though, i was all over her, and now, i dont even remember how, im suddenly going back out with her. Kristin hurt me a lot when we went out before, but she says she changed. I dont know whether or not i should believe her though. I still have feelings for Gabby, but i also like Kristin. But right now i think i got burned by the flames of love too much so im going to wait until i heal. I dont think i can handle being with anybody right now. Another factor i almost forgot, my other best friend, lets call him Landon, he is in love with Kristin, and i woulnt want her coming in between me and Landon's friendship. It may seem quite repetitive and Deja vu like, but i dont know. For crying out loud, if i already have doubts though, what are the possibilities that it would really last long. I dont know what to do, given the situation placed above. I really need help though. What should i do?!!??!?
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hey well one of me friends is bi so well if you arent over gabby then i dont think that you should be messing with that other girl because you dont want to be like her and hurt her like she has hurt you and i dont think that she has changed and if you want your friend to be happy then let landon go with kristin because whats the point if you are with kristin if you dont love her and you love gabby? hope i helped
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maybe you should try it out with a guy for a lil while. and then if things dont work out with him then you can talk to kristen or somthing.
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If you are having doubts alreay its not meant to be. And you just need to go with what your gut is telling you and that seems like a no. It seems like you still have feelings for gabby. Maybe you should try to reconcile things with her first. Good luck!!
♥ Katie
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This is a bit confusing but I'll try to get to the point. So, you went out with both of these girls and they keep breaking up with you, right? If I were you, I'd forget about both of these girls and find yourself a women! I mean, it seems like their just breaking your heart over and over again. I'm sure you can do a lot better and I'm sure there is other girls that want to be with you. Don't worry, theres always more fish in the sea!
♥ Krissy
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