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you can email me: xasktiffany@yahoo.comI like dancing, music, Jake Gyllenhaal, t-shirts, comedy, summer nights, funny movies, and photography.
I hate perfectionists, although I can be one, people who edit their pictures with peace signs and dumb quotes, and flies.
I like giving advice. I don't know if I'm any good at it. Nobody has told me either way.
Ask me whatever, I'll do what I can to help you out.
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from huntington beach california
im a minor,16
how would i get transportation there with no adult?
and what would the costs be
You can probably get a bus there.
Just look up your local bus schedulings. I know its not much help, but thats what you should do.
xxtiffany
i downloaded the adobe trail thing.
but i still dont know how to use it to just have my eyes stay the same color while everything else is turned to black and white
can you tell me how
Haha, sure!
First go up to 'layer'(should be up on the bar that has like file, edit, window, enhance, help, etc) and select "duplicate layer"
Then make the second layer black and white
Then use the eraser tool to erase anything you want in color, and VIOLA!
(if you want to save it to upload it to facebook/myspace, make sure you save it as a jpeg format)
hope this helps!
xxtiffany
okk soo my bf thinks in a couple months if i was comfortable with it i could give him a hj the thing is i dont think i will (ok im like 99% SURE) i wont but he doesnt know that lol and we would be 5 months into our relationship and best friends fr like 2 years but anyway i was wondering how does a girl give a guy a hj and any tips on what guys really like because i have no CLUE how to and if i happen too and for the future whenever i decide to i would really like to know HOW lol...thanks!
Can't go into detail here, google search it.
xxtiffany
i didnt know what topic to put this under but heree it goes.
i was wondering if anyone knew how to make a picture like all cool the way certain things are colored.
i saw this one girls picture and it was in black and white, but her eyes were blue and all pretty. that was the only thing colored.
so does anyone know how to do that?!!
THANKS SO SO MUCH
You have to get Adobe photoshop.
It costs a lot, but there are trial downloads here.
http://www.adobe.com/products/photoshop/index.html
xxtiffany
So to delete your website history i know you have to go to tools, and then like internet options. But one problem, i can't find the thing that says "tools." THANKS.
At the top of your internet window, it says:
file, edit, view, history, bookmarks, then tools.
haha
xxtiffany
My birthday is on Easter So my boyfriend bought me a rabbit, "Derby". He's a 10 week old Rex/English Angora male. which i've had for three days now. I keep Derby in my room, and he chews the metal bars on his cage around 1 in the morning. It's so loud so I let him out of the cage to roam around my room at night. I want to keep him in my room and to stay in his cage at night. How do I get him to stop chewing on the bars? I bought him apple branch sticks at the pet store so he could chew on those but he doesn't like them.
I bought him a little house that looks like an igloo but he doesn't like to go in it. Do you think he might eventually go in it if I leave it in there?
Also, Since he's a male and hes only 10 weeks old, should I get him neutered? If so, at what age and how much would it cost? I live in Florida if that helps.
Thanks!
Happy early birthday, mine is today! :O)
Try giving him fresh veggies to chew on, or buy him some toys.
If you want to get him neutered, you can call up a local vet and ask them for all of the details.
xxtiffany
My History teacher was talking about Kosovo [Serbia], and some guy says [as a joke] 'So we probably shouldn't go there during spring break?' [Since tons of countries are getting involved, rioting, ect.] She also briefly mentioned something about a website where you can go and see the places where the government doesn't want you to visit to. She didn't mention anything else about it because the bell had just rung.
I'm really not too sure of what to search for on Google, and I'm getting pretty weird results..
Does anyone know of a site like this?
I have never heard of a site, but the easiest thing to do would be to ask your teacher.
xxtiffany
Okay so my boyfriend and I dry hump or whatever. And we realized that he might actually go in me a little bit so that might be bad...But he wears boxers and bball shorts, and i wear nothing. Weve done that before and I have continued to get my period so I believe its okay as long as you dont do it for too long.... And well we did that in the hottub the other night and i had nothing on and he had his swimsuit (mesh and then fabric) and we didnt do it for that long, so how bad can that be?
should we stop? or is there a safer way to do that same thing but not using a condom, maybe something else?
What you are doing can cause pregnancy, especially in a hot tub.
Try using a condom, or if you don't want that, birth control pills.
xxtiffany
* be prepared, its kinda long.
ohk, so my best friend, who i have known for about a year and a half, we've been really rocky lately.
let me explain:
she is a VERY clingy person. she will cling to 2-3 people for long periods of time. it annoys the shit outta me, but i live with it. we're friends. ive tried telling her, but whenever i try, she always gets so mad + gets VERY defensive. so wuht should i do about THAT problem?
wait, theres more.
2 weeks ago, she had a movie night, she didnt invite me, + she always does, i didnt do anything to her, i wasnt mad at her or anything, + she invited kids who she barely talked to, which i really didnt undertstand. i texted her asking her, + she was just all pissed off, so i just didnt text her anymore.
we rarely talk anymore, + if we do, its alkward. wuht should i do about THAT problem?
theres more:
++ then, we were on the bus coming back from a basketball game, this girl, asked me, "hows yer boyfriend emily?!, i said really good, and then my friend pipes in, and goes, "EW, HES SO UGLY!" + she said much more stuff about that, and i got REALLY mad. wuht should i do about THAT?
two more things:
im nothing but a friend, and a good person to her, and all she does is treat me like shit, so i told her, that ive never gotten so much disrespect from a person, no one has ever treated me with so much disrespect like she does, and that she should be ashamed of the way she treats me. was that good to say?
+ one more thing:
we are going to philladelphia, for a class trip, and i wanted to room with her, so i asked her, she said yes, and then she got put with me, and got all pissed off, because i guess she had already made arrangements with her other friends, which she didnt because i was the first one that asked her, and she keeps denying it. + she wouldn't talk to me + she got all pissed.
wuht should i do about THAT?
thats it, but from wuht i have observed, if she needs to cling to people, shes really insecure, + has low self esteem.
but, i need some help + peoples opinions.
thanks SO much everyone.
This girl has a problem. Some kind of emotional or social problem.
I think you should just leave her alone, apparently she doesn't want to be your friend right now. Maybe because you told her she was too clingy she tried to make some new friends.
I say, you don't stop being friends with her, but wipe the slate clean, so to speak. Just forget everything that has happened and tell her how you feel. Don't bring up ALL of these examples, she'll feel like shes being attacked. Tell her you feel like she doesn't want to be friends anymore, and you don't understand why
Hope I helped
xxtiffany
Next year I'm going to be taking a Social Psych class in school and I was wondering if anyone knew any websites that had stuff all about it, like an example of what I want is:
When two people are holding hands, the person who is holding their hand on top is the more dominant one in the relationship.
I want to know stuff like that.
Thanks! :)
http://www.socialpsychology.org/expts.htm
I just google searched it, and it gave me tons of web sites.
xxtiffany
what happens when you need an abortion and go to planned parenthood? do you have to pay? thanks
Abortions aren't free.
Please don't have an abortion, its murder.
Give the baby up for adoption if you aren't ready for one yourself.
xxtiffany
Hey, well i'm 15/f. I just got my hair cut. It pretty much sits on my shoulders. But I have absolutly nothing cute to do with it. Everytime I try curling my hair, it never stays. No matter how much hairspray I put on it, it doesn't stay. About the only thing cute that I know how to do with it is scrunch it, or put it in a little pony tail. What else can I do though? Another problem I have with it is that since it does sit on my shoulders, it flips out at the ends which really bothers me, since I'm like a super profectionest. Also, my part. I like my part to not look straight, but not really messy. I just like to peice it out where different peices cross over. But I ALWAYS get frustrated and really mad because it never looks how I want it to look. Once again, I'm a HUGE profectionest(sp?). AND, my bangs. They never lay how I want them to. I can only put certain bangs on one side because of the "way they grow" as my mom says... I really want my bangs to look like this:
http://www.daemonstv.com/wp-content/uploads/2007/12/ot5_haley_3_089ra-7aac6252-t3.thumbnail.jpg
btw, that's about the length of my hair too. So can someone please help? Like can someone tell me some styles, and tips about everything I'm having problems with? Websites would also be super helpful. Thanks so much!!
Try pig tails, two french braids, straightening it, a half pony tail.
Scrunching it is cute too, and have you tried rollers on your hair to make it curl, like overnight?
xxtiffany
16/f
I have long (midback), wavy, thick hair. I straighten my hair about 2-3 times a week. My current straightener (http://www.folica.com/Maxiglide_Hair__d1778.html) just isn't working anymore. It leaves my hair straight, yeah, but a less defined straight. I'm looking for a straightener that will leave my hair pin straight and that will show off my angles and layers.
Any straightener ideas?
Get the chi, its the most amazing hair straightener out there :)
xxtiffany
A few weeks ago I noticed 2 little lumps just under my arm, right by my armpit.
I started itching insanely all over my upper body... my arms, stomache, underarms, breasts, sides.. and occasionly on my legs.. and then I discovered 2 more of the little bumps/spots one right on the side of my boob, and one a little further down and more towards my back.
All 4 lumps are on my right hand side. They are all now kind of flaky where i have been scratching?
I am going to go to the doctors about this but they cannot fit me in until thursday so I was wondering if anyone could tell me what possibilitys it could be?
I just read something Hodgkins lymphoma and i am now kind of worrying. I am probably being stupid.
But what to you think?
Nobody here can diagnose you.
Your best bet is to wait until Thursday and have your doctor take a look at it. I'd say some sort of rash, but its like all over your body...
Try not to scratch them and make them worse.
xxtiffany
15/f
for the next two weeks i am goin on a diet which basically will have me running on as much fruits, vegetables, fish and water as i want. along with that i will do a 2hour a day excersize routine and i was wondering about how much weight i will loose in two weeks if i stick to the diet.
I am not an expert, and I don't know your body.
It kind of depends on your weight now.
I'd say probably 3-6 pounds.
xxtiffany
Hiii all :) i have a very random question. So im at my cousins house right now, and she told me a scary story she made up, and wanted me to tell one. The thing is, I couldn't come up with one! Im having another sleepover next week with her again, so I'll tell her it then. But does anybody have annyyy ideas for me? Like an outline... I can easily extend the story into a long one, but basic ideas would be sooo nicee! Thank youuu!!
http://www.americanfolklore.net/spooky-stories.html
http://books.google.com/googlebooks/scarystories/
http://www.themoonlitroad.com/
Maybe these will help!
xxtiffany
Can your cherry be popped if you are fingered, or do you have to have sex in order for that to happen?
Your hymen can be broken in many ways, like using tampons. Your hymen can be broken and you can still be a virgin, or have not been fingered.
xxtiffany
I'm a 16 year-old girl and my 15 year old (first) boyfriend says that I should change myself COMPLETELY just for him. And when I asked him why he's still with me and why he doesn't go to someone else he says it's because of all the sexual things he wants to do with me. I'm like..wtf..You don't respect me. You want me to change for YOUR sick pleasures...Well, I'm not going to change. It upsets me...because everything I seem to do, he's not happy with. The way I dress, act...He LOVES the way I look. And that's about it.
I'm on the verge of breaking up with him. We've been together for a month and 2 weeks. Do you think I should give him another chance?
I wouldn't give him another chance. He TOLD you he only wants you sexually, thats a bad sign.
I'm glad you did the right thing by not changing for him. If I was you, I'd break up with him, but its your decision.
xxtiffany
My hair is pretty long (it falls like at my boobs,hah).I have it layered with side bangs.I usually wear it straight.People tell my my hair is pretty and stuff,but I really need a new cut/style.I've had the same hair cut since like 6th grade.I want to keep my hair long.Oh and I have an oval shaped face.And ideas for a cut that would look good on me?
From http://beauty.about.com/od/hairbasics/a/flattering.htm
Oval Face Shapes
The oval face is the most versatile face. You can pull off almost any look -- short, long, straight or wavy. No matter the length of your cut, you'll look best with layers near your cheekbones, lips or chin -- basically whatever feature you want to highlight.
Styles that are flattering and stylish: Chin-skimming bobs, blunt bangs, long, beachy waves (think California surfer girl).
Avoid: Short layers that add height on top of your head. This will make your face appear long. If your hair is thick or curly, avoid a blunt cut. You'll look like a pyramid. For more information, check out this photo gallery of best hairstyles for oval face shapes.
Celebs who share your face shape: Kate Hudson, Jessica Alba, Jada Pinkett Smith
Tools you can't live without: A great curling iron and flatiron to create waves and straighten your sleek locks.
You can just google this too!
xxtiffany
me and my bestie do everything together. i mean EVERYTHING. we have a group of like 25-30 friends that all hang out together and get together weekends and stuff, but me and her are ALWAYS together outside of that and we sometimes just hang out alone of course when we are feeling less social. but well we've been best friends for 5 years now and we've only been through one bump like 2 years ago and it was just a whatever thing. but we are so attached...i dont know what i am going to do when we go off to college. she is way smarter than me so there is like no way we'd go to the same school. and we talk about it sometimes and it usually endes in our reminising about things and becoming sad. will i be able to make a lot of friends in college that i will be compatible with? im the type of person thats going to need someone there to help me cope with everything. of course ill still call my bestie!! but i mean im def gonna need someone to help me through the college life as well and i just need reasurance that i will be able to have that...
Part of going to college is becoming independent.
I had to leave all of my friends to go to a new high school and make all new friends. I still talk to all of my old friends and we hang out. Me and my new friends get along just fine. Plus, if you are getting a dorm, you will have a roommate to help you cope :) In few cases, the roommate sucks, but you still have someone there to talk to and hang out with. My collage brother absolutely loves it. He made all new friends that he hangs out with all the time. Its not just his roommate either, its all the guys on his floor.
As long as you are friendly and yourself, you won't have to worry about making new friends. And nowadays there are SO many ways to keep in touch with your old friends (facebook, myspace, cell phones, aim, texting, etc.)
good luck!
xxtiffany