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I'm outgoing and I love to do outdoor stuff. Thanx for asking me questions and I hope u love my answers. I love pigs and cows. They rock all sox!=-)

~*nick name's*~:sammich=chelsea,and ham=amber
~*fav. movies*~a walk to remember=chelsea, slcpunk,donnie darko=amber
~*fav.colors*~green=chelsea,and blue=amber
~*ok since its 2 sn's then we have to do it in this section*~iDONTknow1792=amber yupyep05=chelsea

O and yall look at this poem and no I didn't write this one!:


Anna Joe
The kid no one really knows
Just sat
She was kind of fat
Every day people would critize
About her size
I was the only one who heard her crys
Her endless sighs
I never knew
What she was about to do
It was a misty Monday
I wish she found have found another way
We walked in
Right before she commited her sin
They laughed at her and called her fat
And there I sat
Wanting it to stop
I could have fought
Before I could think
In just one blink
She reached in her shirt
Everyone screamed as shots beamed
Up and down each row
Then it came to me and she said no
I was in shock
Then came a knock
Hurried,
In her head
There everyone sat dead
I burst in tears
Because I had no more peers
I could have stopped this all
I heard voices down the hall
Terrified yells
And there i was
Just because
I did'nt call her fat....
But I just sat
I let her cry,
wanting to die
And it just might be
Because of me
Everyones dead
And poor Anna shot herself in the head

advice

Okay im like 12 and i have this boyfriend that we'll call danny, i wanna kiss him so bad but i don't wanna make the move. I want him to. What should i do? I really love him!
-wanna kiss
p.s.
i rate real good!

I say that u should give him another month and then tell him how u feel. Keep us updated!Thanx much!
~Chelsea~

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i need to know how to make a good peanut butter and jelly sandwich

ummumummmm...... try using peanut butter and jelly, not just bread,lol.jk
Thanx much!
~Chelsea~

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but the bad thing is...i dont kno him name?!?!

Are you kidding? Man ummm........ u gots a problem then. Were ne of ur friends with you that might know his name?

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but what do i say when i call him?

Say hey, may i talk to _______ . Then start a convo like, i had a lot of fun with you and i'd like to do it again. Stuff like that. Talk to me whenever you need me. I'm here for that! Thanx much!
~Chelsea~

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i met this guy at adventureland (he was REALLY hott!!) in des moines and i got his # but i dont want to call it cuz im afraid that its the wrong number! but then again the area code and the first 3 numbers were from the area that we were located in...what should i do? call him or not?
-confuzzled!

Try and call him. Take the chance, he's probably waiting right by the phone for you!Thanx much!
~Chelsea~

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There is this guy,Josh I like him and he likes me. I know it sounds like theres no problem with that but weve gone out 2 times already and hes gone out with like all my friends ( well but jessica lol). I think the longest realiship was like 2 weeks. He is like never satisfid. He also likes my other two friends.I dont want to get hurt and i dont want my best friend jessica to get hurt, and we both like him and likes us!! I dont know what to do!! plzz help i rate!!

I just wanna say, Hi Kelli! Did you think you could get past me? lol.... Okay, why don't you try comfronting him or letting him come to you. I feel soo sorry for jess(lol)!!!!!!!!! I knew it was you! Thanx much!hehehehehehe!!!!!!!.......
~Chelsea~

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I'm 15 right now and I'll be 16 this September. I am fixing to start high school 9th or 10th not sure since I was getting homeschooled. I want to go back to normal school though. Ok so I know I'm like all pretty and I have no problems with the way I look. So see the problem is girls have a problem with me. They are all like wanting to kick my but and crap for no reason and saying crap like "oh get a tan" and blah. What should I do? I think girls are totally jealous of me. I am afraid of going back to school because I wanna stay out og trouble now. Basically I'm wanting to go back to school to get friends and stuff. Since I'm getting homeschooled I lost all of mine. I am thinking about getting a job this year maybe I'll meet people then. What would u do?

Just ignore those girls and find friends. If you can try to be friends with them too. I hope you find a good job too! Thanx much!
~Chelsea~

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hey well i think you should all read this..just think before you act.

....before you make that first cut remember. You will enjoy this. You will find the blood and pain release addictive. Even though you think you can make a few tiny cuts that aren't deep and will heal easily ...they will get deeper. They will scar. They will take sometimes months to heal!!! And years for the scars to fade! IF you think you can limit the cutting to one area of your body think again...it will spread when you run out of skin. Be prepared to withdraw from others and live in a constant state of shame. Even if you are the most honest person ever to live ....you will find yourself lying to the people you love. You will jerk back from your friends when they touch you as if their hands were dipped in poison. You will be terrified that they will feel something under the cloth of your shirt or because it just plain hurts so much to be touched.
Be prepared to get so out of control you fear your next cut because you don't know how bad it will be. Just wait for 10 cuts to turn into 100....Be prepared for your entire life to revolve around thinking about cutting ..cutting and covering up cutting And just wait till that first time you cut "too deep." And you freak out because the blood won't stop...and you are gaping....and you feel yourself shaking all over. You are having a panic attack and you are terrified but you can't tell anyone. So you sit there alone...praying it will be ok swearing you'll never let it go this far again...But you will and further. Don't worry, you will learn how to take care of your cuts so that you can go deeper and deeper and avoid the ER. And the better you get at treating your cuts the deeper they get.
You will lie to yourself and justify it when you find youself spending 20 , 30 or 50 dollars every time you go the pharmacy. You will feel the flutter of your heartbeat everytime you go to the counter to ring up your order. Butterfly strips...3 or four different kinds of dressings...betadine....antibiotic cream..medical tape..scar reducers.....You will tap your foot impatiently hoping the line will just move and no one will stare at you or wonder why you need all these things. And at the same time secretly hope someone will notice...someone who is standing in line with an armful of the same supplies...someone who understands but of course that never happens.
Medical supplies won't be the only thing you spend all your money on. Be prepared to buy a new wardrobe...longsleeve shirts in summer colors, bracelets, wristbands , boots... gloves..the list goes on and on.
You will start looking at everyone in a differnent way...Scanning their bodies for any signs of Self Injury... just hoping that you might meet someone like you so you don't feel so terribly alone. You wont even think about it ..as your eyes scan their wrists arms...hoping just hoping they will be like you....But they are not. You will see their clean arms and feel terribly ashamed and alone.
You will start doing a lot of things alone. You will always have to wash your laundry in private so know one sees the blood stains on your clothes and towels. You will always be cleaning up the blood..Scrubbing your bathroom floor...wiping the blood of your keyboard....
You won't be able to make it through a day without cutting....Next thing you know you are in a public bathroom somewhere breaking open a scab with a sewing needle that you keep in your wallet for emergancies. When you get really desperate anything will be a cutting tool ...scissors...a car key...a needle ... a paperclip..even a pen. Doesn't matter what it is if you need to cut bad enough you will find something.
Say goodbye to things you took for granted. Like wearing shorts or sandals...pedicures...sleeveless tops.
A normal summer day at the beach or in a swimming pool will become a far off memory for you.
Get ready to itch. Beacuase you will itch and itch ..."so much you will look like you have fleas or a skin disease."
You will become an expert on your body as you destroy it carefully.. You will dream about cutting...you will dream about being exposed. It will haunt you day and night and take over your life. You will wish you never made that first cut because while you absolutely HATE cutting...at the same time you love it and can not live with out of it.

Nothing explains why people cut...... until now. I thank you for sharing this with us and I hope you don't do the cutting. I'll pray for those unlucky and those of whose life is messed up. Thanx much.....
~Chelsea~

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how can i help my best friend through a really tough breakup?

Try some ice-cream and then the movies. Go boy scouting! That's what all my friends do for me. Thank god for them you know? I hope this helps! Thanx much!
~Chelsea~

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i still like my ex boyfriend..how can i get over him and move on?

I just went through this a while ago. Man, it's the worst feeling in the world, ain't it? There's really no way you can get over him. Now I'm with a great guy, but I'm not over my ex. I never will because he was my first love. Thanx much!
~Chelsea~

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I am currently 14 at the moment and there is already a lot of drama in my life, with boyfriends. One of my past boyfriends wich I will call i (guy 1), I was really happy w/him. I've known guy1 since elementary and we didn't really know if we liked eachother so our realashonship kept going off and on. Untill this past year I thought we were going to stay 2getheer for a longer time, but he just went up to me one day and told me it was over w/no reason at all. I was really heartbroken b/c he made me feel so happy. Then another guy, (guy2) came along and made me feel happy for a while. But I broke up w/him after 3 months b/c I was wasn't so sure if I liked him, or if I was just in love w/the fact of having a boyfriend. I was w/guy1 7 differnt times and in between those times i was w/other guys to, but those realashionships never lasted long, they all cheated on me. Now i feel like i'm searching for another guy just like guy1. I have this dream now that guy1 calls me and tells me that he loves me and he wants me back. I still really love him and i've never finihed that dream so i never get to see what i say. I don't know what to do can n-e-one please give me advice?

I know u don't wana hear this, but follow your heart. It tells u everything you need to know about love. And don't keep comparing all the other guys to guy1 cause i bet you can do way better! Thanx much!
~Chelsea~

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i know this isn't really important, but im doing a poll for summer school.. im not in summer skool, but were supposed to be doing this to get ready for our upcoming high skool year, and well here's my poll...

Bush?
or
Kerry?

moderators, plz don't rate this low, it's for skool, also please don't delete this Q!!!!

I say Bush rulz! He knows what to do cause he was president when 911 happened and i think he should be there when it's over! Thanx, much!
~Chelsea~

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hey im the one who wrote the poem about the girl who ran away, heres another one:

Your eyes are the color of the sky,after days of rain, hollow and empty, just to cover up the pain.

I want to scream and I want to know, what terrible thing has made you so.....

You hide inside as you let your body take the blame, youre to weak to handle all the shame.

Maybe all could be better , all of this could be through, if youd take the time to listen when I say that I love you.

how was it?

It was great. I'm glad you have a poetic side in your heart. It gives people a way to say words without really saying them. Poems come from the heart, just like yours did! Thanx much!
~Chelsea~

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me and my bf have been goin out for 4 months and like ive kissed him numerous just on the cheek cuz im afraid if i kiss him on the lips he wont kiss me back and ive talked to him about it and he says he doesnt know why he told me he loves me-and i really think he means it and doesnt kiss me...he just doesnt...and hes kissed all his other gf....and i really REALLY do love him- *I RATE*

Maybe he's just shy around girls. And maybe he likes u more and doesn't wanna do ne thing that will upset u. Don't rush him into ne thing and let him come to you. I really hope this helped, o and u don't have to rate me, i just love giving advice.Thanx, much!
~Chelsea~

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My boyfriend, we'll call him *Bob*, and i always fight...like seriously, we can't get through a day with out fighting about something. but i love him with all my heart...and couldn't break up with him even if i tried...but what should i do? i can't handle all the argueing?

It's perfectly normal. All the good couples argue, but that's what brings the both of them closer. So don't worry. You guys are good together!!Thanx much!
~Chelsea~

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hey your advice you give people is great but why do you use different names cuz its weird. i saw like 3 names in your column that are different so i was just curious to know. sorry if i am wasting your time!

no no its ok ur not wastin my time but no me and my friend share this one but i think she got a new one by herself so thats prittey much it and u can tell wen its me cuz i am the one with the nad spellin ~Amber~

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alrighty i need as many people as possible to answer this question for me alright so my bf said he'd call me back and its now 10:36 and he said he would call back at like 9:40 he said... well being that he is at his cousins with like adam, shaun, and nate i think hes just havin fun so thats prolly why he didnt call or something but ... i did kinda be mean when we said goodbye 2 phone calls ago and he said you did sound kind of mean why you said goodbye you were kinda like K bye when i asked him and he said hey can i call you back and thats when this sit. came up but i was like yeah and is like k bye... i was thinkin... smart@$$... but i didnt say that.. that'd be out of line i think... just help me out... should i also send a text to him saying hey just wanted to say goodnight and ill see you later love you (name) alrighty.. plz help

I think u should text him goodnight, and in the morrnin he will prolly call u he was prolly just havein to much fun he just forgot~bye

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what does the word Vain mean? I hear ppl say this and I have not clue

vain means like ur so in love with ur self like conseeded ~Amber~

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does anyone know anything that i can do around the house that will get me $?

Yes you cando chores like dishes,dusting,mow the yard,take out the trash. stuff like that thank you ~Chelsea~

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i was wondering, this lady wants me to babysit about a few hours after i get the braces on(tomorrow)
do u think i'd be up to it
sum of my friends that went to the same place im goin said that it only hurt after the numbness wore off, my sis said it didn't kick in for her until a few days later

do u think i would be up to watchin kids
they aren't hard to handle, one of them will do w/e i want, the other will either be in his backyard(fenced in) or watchin t.v, or on the comp

sumtimes they give me a bit of trouble, but nuttin i can't handle on a regular basis

if not my sis will get the job
i really WANT the money, but if i can't handle it then ill give it to my sis

i was just askin sum1's opinion on the subject

I say hold off cause it will really hurt and you won't be up to watching kids. Things might go wrong so dont take the chance. Thanx, bye!
~Chelsea~

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