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last year i was talking to this kid. and i guess we some what hooked up. but it really was nothing.
then my friend started talking to him and they've been close until recent. they were together all summer [what she says] and he says like four days.
now hes saying hes wanted to hook up with me since last year blah blah blah. and now he considers me girlfriend material. and he says he likes me a little.
would you hook up with him if you were in this situation?
well honestly no one on here can anwser this for you; seeing as you didnt tell us anything about him. and it depends on if your frined likes him.
honestly from waht i hear he just wants to hook up with you. as in hes playing you. i wouldnt.
ugh i want to lose weight..i feel kinda bad about how i look evryday i lost weight over the summer but now i have gained it all back and maybe even a little more i sometimes just cant control my eating!..i want to lose most of it by february but i want to look a bit thinner by monday 2 days which through all i have been through i know is impossible but i dont know why i keep getting this in my head..i am gonna start soon to lose weight again......how do i deal with my emotions and how do i stop myself from eating alot?
thanks so much it means alot!
ok first you need to believe that you can do this.
you need to set a goal;
first you need to purchase anything that will be needed; lowfat foods, workout tapes, etc.
next you need to set your goal saying starting on xx/xx/xx i will start my diet. mark it everywhere.
on that day you stop eating 'fatty foods' & work out and such.
make a plan for that day and get some people to support you.
it will work out fine. please dont crash diet thats a realllly dangerous path to loose a little weight. also when you being eating you get all the weight back.
what happened with christina aguilera and eminem? Why did they fight? AND WHEN? WHAT YEAR? and how did it happen?????
... asking all the questions about christina isnt importanant. were not a magazine were an ADVICE site, meaning ask for advice.
go google your questions.
my speakers are plugged in my computer
but i dont hear any sound at all!!!!
I CANT EVEN WATCH VIDEOS ON YOUTUBE!
and i cant listen to music!
What do i do? How do i hear again?
unmute the volume on your comouter?
make sure their plugged in the right spot and completly pushed in.
turn up the vol. on the speakers.
and turn them on.
i just got verizon and i have the internet. when i try to login to myspace on my phone i type my email and password and then i click go, and then i scroll down and it says you must be logged in to do that! and i know my password and email are right, because it says "hello andrea" so it knows its me haha. this happened on my qwest phone too, so i dont think its verizon. what should i do to be able to log in? thanks!
you need to register on myspace or something.
idk on my old pre pay phone i did this. its not even that good.
i wouldnt do it honestly, cant you go a coule hours without myspace?
Well, my bf has a little drinking problem. Its not all the time, but when he starts he cant stop, but hes not dependant on drinking. He doesnt do it all the time. Well, one time he said he went to a poker party. I went out to a club with my girlfriends. While i was there, i danced with my girls. Well, this particular club had like little beds with a sheer curtain around it for people to hook up. Well, i saw this girl getting a little friskey with a guy, like shed known him for a while, well they closed the big black curtain, but before that she took off her clothes and so did he. I thought i saw my boyfriends face so i ran up there and i peeked through the black curtain. I saw the back of the guys head having sex with the girl, well he had long brown hair like my bf. I didnt want to seem like a pervert if it wasnt my bf, so i crept to the other side and saw it was my bf!!! I ripped open the curtains and was like WTF JAKE and hes like katie, come join, i love threesomes! and i was like WERE OVER. The next day he called me and didnt remember anything at all! I told him about it, and hes like well i was at my friends but i started drinking, and we ended up at the club...then all black, then i woke up in the club with no shirt on. I dont know what to do. I was like well were over, and he showed up with flowers, the next day with candy, the next with a diamond necklace. I think he really wants me back. Should i take him back, or kick him to the curb??
honestly dont take him back. he could do this more than once; even when he's sober. hes trying to buy you back with expensive nice things. yeah its nice now till you see him cheating and this process continues. and while hes doing this at night he could be doing the same thing and the next morning bring you this stuff. also he could be lieing he could be saying i dont remember and remember every detail you never know. it just matters on how much you trust this guy. dont let anyone on here make descisions for you though.
Ok,my friend really likes this guy who used to liek her too(he still might but were not sure) anyways...then went out on a date a while back and it went well and they saw eachother all the time afterwards. he totally led her on and then when she asked him if there was gonna be something more he said he just wanted to stay friends which broke her heart. Anyways then they didnt talk much for a little while and they just started talking again and she asked him what happened with their whole situationa and he told her why he said friends instead of something more. He said he was scared or something because of his past relationship and he didnt kow what was going to ahppen but he apologized for it and everything. He is a very sweet guy and she really likes him but he likes someone else now but she wants to fight for him because she thinks there is still something there. She keeps asking me if she should fight for him or if she should just move on! what should i tell her? because i told her if you really like him thne u should fight for him but he did break your heart so maybe you should just move on. plz help.
thx!
if he doesnt like her. she should back off, maybe if she keeps talking the flame could respark. haa, if he likes her, fight for it.
dont make desciions for her!
13/F
I was talkign about dating Corwin. He and i are just friends now... Well... Were. He came up to me and my friends saying we were being really loud. Then, he walked away from us down the hall and disappeared. Well, my friends started saying rude things, I told them yea, whatever, just hush. Well, it turns out. He must have super hearing because heard the other girls. Now, he thinks we aren't his friends. He says it's all an act. I tired to tell him we're still friends, but he doesn't believe us. It makes me sad. Corwin is really cool and all, but I dont' want him to be alone again. What do I do???
Ok, he's just being male haha. I would wait a day or two, then tell him everything you told us. If he doesn't believe you, it's his problem. I know it hurts to hear that, but it's true. Just forget about him. [:
my moms ipod is all screwed up if u dont wanna play a song so u skip iti t keeps skipping every song . its not on the setting like shffle or repeat or anything. its just annoying. any ideas why it isnt working.
I would reset it.
Hold down the middle button [the one you click to select stuff] It will delete everything off your iPod, just plug it back into iTunes and let it all upload and try again. If that doesn't work take it to your local Apple Store and explain the problem in full details, bring the iPod and show them the problem. They should replace it, but it's not going to be one of the new iPods, it will be the same iPod model.
13/F
Okay, so in my religion, we believe in reincarnation, ghosts, and God and da Devil. Like, we believe each person if given 3 lives from God and a Destiny/Fate choosen by both the Devil and God. We also believe that our lives are different each time to serve God or the Devil. I'm a follower of God. Well, I just don't know the name of my religion. It confuses me a lot. Does anybody know what the name of my religion might be?
MORE DETAILS ON MY RELIGION: We believe some of the stuff in the bible. Like Adam and Eve, but we don't believe any of the lame stuff that we think are lies. BUT ANYWAY, you kinda get my religion, just please tell me the name of it because it's for homework things. Also, because I wanna know. I've already tried googling, if you ask. NOTHING. JUST PELASE HELP!
Personally, I would just ask my mother, father, siblings, any one you know who you attend church with. Or, when you hand in your homework just say "Sorry, I don't know the name of the religion"
So I'm in my first year of college. I've met lots of new people. The only friends I've made consist of my roommate and suite mates. I have met plenty of acquaintances around campus that I chat with occasionally, but that's it. My question is, how can I find people to actually hang out with instead of just people to talk to? How do you know when it's okay to ask someone if they want to get together and hang out for the first time?
I have no problem talking to new people, I just have issues finding people I can actually hang out with (i.e. go to the movies, go out to dinner, go bowling, etc.).
My main problem is that I don't drink. It seems like all the people at my college like to do is drink drink drink. And I'm not like that. Sure, I've been to a couple parties, but all I do is stand in the corner while everyone gets wasted and plays beer pong.
I went and got an office job on campus in hopes that I would get to know a few of my co-workers as friends, but since my job involves being on the phone all the time, I cannot get to know any of them as much as I would have hoped. I joined a couple academic clubs, but I can never attend the meetings because they conflict with my classes. I always go to the library or the campus cafe to do homework so I can be in public and maybe meet someone there, but it never happens.
I seriously don't know what to do anymore. I end up going home nearly every other weekend because I have NOTHING to do at school. How do I make some friends? I thought it would be easy, but I seriously can't. It's starting to make me depressed because I end up just sitting around in my room.
There's never really signs like "Okay, now it's an appropriate time to ask someone to hangout" just go with your gut instinct. I would make acquaintances with some people in one of your classes. Then I would ask like "Hey want to do the homework together at the library tonight" or something. Also, I'm not sure you would make friends at the library most people are there to do work, not make friends. Try going to some parties, and talk to someone. Don't stand there, it's a two way street. You're going to have to approach someone and I'm sure their not going to be like "YOU DON'T DRINK?! BYE!" Just be yourself. Talk to people. Its difficult, no one said it would be easy, and if they did they said it to make you feel better. As for your current acquaintances ask them if they want to go out for pizza, or something. Also, go to your colleges football games, basketball, hockey, all that.
Just remember to be yourself, and don't act like your still in High School, your in college I'm not saying you do, just a reminder.
i'll be taking my senior trip the first week of june, 2008. everyone except myself and another girl will be eighteen. the oldest going will be 19.
the problem is, all the rental companies only rent to "family groups" and those over 24. as none of us are family or over 24, this creates the problem.
i've seen many groups go on senior trips and stay in houses for a week like we'd like to do. does anyone have ANY tips, websites that will rent to people under 24, or anything helpful? it's greatly aprreciated.
Most places probably do not want to rent to people under a certain age because they don't want kids ruining their places and such. Try a hotel, even though you can only do like, 4 kids at most per room you would still be able to get a room. This previous year in 7th grade we went to Boston Mass., and we stayed in a hotel, only 4 per room [two per bed]. It might cost more though.. like $100 per night.
Last night I was hanging out with this guy and I really was starting to like him. We've been pretty good friends the past couple of years but we've been hanging out alot more recently. We were laying in my bed then starting kissing... he's a horrible kisser. I'm not really sure what my question is. That just really threw me off and I'm all confused now. I really liked him but does anyone agree with me that being a good kisser is kind of a big deal? I'm not sure how I feel anymore or about what to do. We're both 15, turning 16 in a couple of months.
Bad Kissing = Big Turn Off To Most People [Including Me.] haha, Just think about why you like him. Don't think about his bad kissing skills, and help him by kissing him! Practice makes perfect!
Well I was really sad this year so i started writing in diaries and ever since then, any work that needs to be written, I wrote them as how i would talk.
I'm in highschool and now it's a big problem. i used to get like A's but now in highschool the teacher said i need to make it sound like professional. The spelling, grammer and everything is all perfect but the way i write it, it sound slike i'm talking.
What can i do? I'm not used to writing professional format anymore
When writing in a diary or journal try writing in a more proffesional matter. Say someone you know, got in a fist fight and your going to write about it, use an attention grabber like 'School Fights Are Becoming More And More Frequent' or something, and then in the next paragraphs explain what happened.
15/f hello...well, recently in class, the people around me and I were discussing relationships. and then somehow...it got to "hookups." what's the difference? and also..how come when I told people that I've never had a hookup, their reaction was "O_O" lol...? are hookups considered bad or something? thank you in advance [=
Relationships are more long lasting and such. Hookups are like one night stand type things. Having a Hookup can be bad or good; depending on how you feel about it. To me, their bad. To you they might not be. It's personal feelings.
does anyone know where he is currently living?
I Am Pretty Sure, Somewhere Over Seas.
how much will it cost to just buy a new one and then activate that one? like i already have the plan and eveyrthing, how much is it to just buy a new one and activate that one
The Sidekick its self is like 300 Dollars. I'm not sure but my new phone costed 50 Dollars to activate, but its not T-Mobile. So, Really I can't help you there.
so i just got done putting in a code that hides my contact table on my myspace page.
i dont want a table i just want one that says
" add message block" kinda thing where u just click each word and there not in a box with all the others.
ive gone on so many websites but i cant find that.
helllpp =] thanks in advance.
The codes
text here. ex, Message.
Take out all *'s
The URL you can find by going to send your self a message and copy that url. Add your self and get that URL and block your self and copy that url.
okay i already asked a question about this before, but now i have another question. the other day when my bf and i were fighting he grabbed me and started shaking me. so my mom is like totally freaking out about it. she says if he's doing this at 13, its just gonna get worse and he's gonna end up being an abusive wife beater. but my dad says the opposite. he says that my bf is just immature now and hasn't learned how to control his temper, but he'll probably learn how as he gets older. (its not like my parents think we're gonna get married or anything... they're just talking about it in general). so who do you think is right? is this a sign that he's gonna get worse, or is he just immature and he'll get better? and btw he does get really mad sometimes but this is the first time hes ever done something like that.
Either could happen. You can't control it, only he can. You just have to wait and see what happens.
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