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Alright well a little while ago I found out that this girl I know gave head to my now boyfriend 5 days before we started going out (we have been going out for about 8 days now) even though it was before we were going out for some reason its still bothering me. Any suggestions on how I could make it not bother me?
x0 love maddie (link)
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i think you should talk to your boyfriend and tell him how this is bothering you. if he is a true boyfriend im sure he would understand. you know? so i would tell him, :" something is kinda bothering me, wwell i found out this girl gave you head a few days before we were going out. i think you should have told me. its really bothering me." im sure he will understand. what might be bothering you is you might think he might still have feelings for this girl. i think you should ask him. it is worth a try. if he gets mad at you for asking then he is not worth it, you know?
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Soo I told this boy I liked him and he said he liked me. But then he said he doesnt want to be gf/bf he just wanted to be "together" but if I wanted to go out with him then he would. I'm confused whether or not he REALLY likes me.Also I was supposed to hang out with him tomorrow and he said he asked his mom and she said no..he's like "I asked if we could do anything tomorrow and she said no ask her if you want" but just the way he is it sorta leads me to believe he doesnt want to hang out.His mom usually lets him do anything.But he also lives 45 minutes away so I dont know. I don't know if I'm just really paranoid that he really doesn;t like me or what. He said he really wanted to hang out though.Can you tell me if he really likes me or he's just sorta taking advantage of me and wants to see other girls while hes with me? please help me! :'( (link)
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i think you shoulkd talk to him about it. be like, " do you really wanna hang out with me or what? or are you just using me for other girls or somthing? why dont you wanna hang out?" something like that. you said his mom lets him do most things, so why wouldn't she let him chill with you? i would talk to him about it.
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any one know any cool like cheer songs.. well not cheer songs but remix songs to put on myspace ? thnx (link)
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there are some really hot mixes out right now. or you could just download your own mix. but some really hot mixes out are:
wait (the whisper song)by the ying yang twins- REMIX
get it poppin'by fat joe- REMIX
Golddigger by kanya west -REMIX
and like, look for a song you like then add a mix to it or find your favorite song with the mix already in it.
good luck!!
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I am supposed to be hanging out with a kid I like and that likes me. I went out with him 3 times before but he's changed a little since that. We're supposed to hang out at my cousins house with her boyfriend too. What I wanna know is what if he asks to do anything with me (I want to by the way) but i'd feel a little uncomfortable infront of my cousin :-/..and it's at her house..what do I do?? (link)
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if he wants to do something with you infront of your ciz then just be like, "maybe we should be alone, wanna go in the other room?" and tell your cuz you and him will be right back and to stay right there. i know thats lying but if u really like this guy then, what could happen?
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OK there's a real problem in our school and it's sorta weird. If you get called a whore, people in my school take it as a compliment. Does anyone think this is very disturbing? Oh yea, and the people in our school who are popular are the sluts and the girls and guys who drink in school. I sorta wanna know how to stop this. Thanks! (link)
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if some one calls another person a whore then just be like oh my gosh why would you want to be a whore? and stuff like that. if u hear someone say it to another just be like, oh my gosh why would you say that?thats horrible!! something like that.
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1-i was reading some of your other ?s and there was something about the 6 second ab workout...wtf is that??? i would like to try it- so can you tell me about it or like some websites or something??
2- i caught my friend making out with my ex...i dont like him anymore, but we were going steady((haha such an old term, but like he gave me his class ring and everything...)) for like a yr and a half...i saw the whole thing- it was at a party- they were sitting down tlkin and then she kinda touched his chest and then she just jumped on him and made out with him...and is it just me or is it normal that friends are supposed to stay away from other friends ex's? me and my ex are still really close and we hang out all the time...i asked him about it and he said that there was nothing going on and i believe him...but my friend didnt even tell me or apoligize...cuz i KNOW she saw me staring at her after they made out.....i NEED help!!! :[ (link)
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1)well fot the 6 second abs, it is a great thing, its something you use to get more fit. (look on the directions to see what to do bc its really hard to explain, you will get a DVD to watch that shows you step-by-step so dont worry) it really works, you can find it at dicks sporting goods, modells, some sport or exersize store.
2)ok well first of all if i was your friend i would have asked You first or told you and apoligized after i did it. i think you should talk to your friend, say "hey!that was my ex! its really wrong for you as my friend to hooking up with my ex!" (something like that) some think that there is a rule where u cant go out or do anything with ppls ex's and some dont think that. it depends how much this girl is your friend. is she is a really close friend, it was really wrong of her, if shes just an "oh hey, bye" friend that it was still wrong, but nothing to hate her about. its ok to hate her right now. it was sooo wrong of her. talk to her. it will help
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good luck!!
brunettecutie**
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well my ex boyfriends birthday is coming up and we decided we were gonna spend the day together after school or the following day together! weve been broken up for almost 7 months now! ya i know a really long time! but through it all weve been like best of friends and we talk all the time! and weve hung out twice this summer! well he does tell me he knows we both want to be together but it wont work right now because he is dating another girl but they arent going out cause she cant have a boyfriend! and even after being broke up hes like i love u and i always will! and just last night he said he missed us! and i still really care about him! but anyways for his bday i wanna do something really cute! i was already thinking about making him a cake and decorating it all cute and getting him a card! but i was trying to think of something else special i could do to show him how much i care! any ideas? thanks so much! (link)
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i have some really good ideas for you!!
maybe you can make him a mix CD with love songs and all his favorite songs. your idea is really good so maybe you could maybe make him a cake that says i love you forever" or something like that. you could take him out for the day and take him to all his favortie stores then go out to dinner. maybe you two can rent a nice movie and make home-made popcorn or something. anything like that would be soo cute!!
good luck!!
brunettecutie**
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okay so tomorow im going to this girls house, we have liked eachother for 3 yrs and are going out, i am gonna get there at like early in the morning while she is still asleep, i was going to make her breakfast in bed but she doesnt realy eat breakfast cuz she has a weak stomach. I really want to do something sweet so she wakes up to a wonderful surprise and realizes how much i care about her, any great suggestions would be nice...thank you! (link)
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maybe ypu can decorate the house. i have the perfect idea. ok well while she is still in bed, through rose flower petals leading to the room you are in and have a "light" breakfast waiting for her. if not breakfast then a nice romantic movie and home made popcorn. spend the whole day with her telling her how much you love her.
brunettecutie**
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is it true that lice is attracted to clean heads?
thanks (link)
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yes. they like clean heads better bc it is easier for them to move around your head. if your hair is dirty then they dont like it bc its harder for them to move around in. so to fully anwser your question, yes lice are attracted to clean heads.
brunettecutie**
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So my boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half on August 23rd. We decided that we would just get each other something small and $25 or less.. but I have no idea what I should do and I'm stumped.. If you have any ideas, please let me know.. thanks a bunch! (link)
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u could get him a cd with alot of love songs on it and maybe the first song you two have ever danced to. or get him a CD with all of his favorite songs. you can never go wrong with music.
brunettecutie**
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I want to loose 8 punds before Augest 17. What can I do? I am so desperate I will do anything. Please no stupid answers! Is it possible? Thx.! (link)
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all you have to do it eat right and exersice alot. well here is what you do, you get some tight pants that dont fit you and are a little too small, and for a few days, eat less and exersize more, and then sooner or later you will fit into those pants and that means you have lost weight. it really helps believe me i have tryed and i am soo happy with how my oants fit!.lol
brunettecutie**
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I've been friends with this guy for about 2 years now, and a few months ago he confessed to me that he really likes me. i told him i wasn't sure about my feelings (beyond friendship) and that i didn't want to rush anything, and he was okay with it. we don't see each other too often, but i enjoy the time we spend together. i'd be ready to take the relationship further because we really are a good match personality-wise and i do like him a lot, but the only thing that bothers me about him are his looks. i hate admitting that to myself and i'm ashamed that i let it stand in my way. he's a really great guy, but physically he's like a 3 on 10! i know i should be able to, well, look past his looks, but it's hard to imagine being more than friends with someone you aren't really attracted to. i'm just so angry with myself...but i can't help it...i can't see myself being able to introduce him to people as my boyfriend or kissing him. it drives me up the wall being unsure of what i want just because he's far from good-looking! i've never thought of myself as shallow; i've been with other guys who couldn't have been considered that cute and it didn't bother me because i liked them for their personality, but this guy is just so far from even that...what's worse is that recently i met another guy who's really cute and who seems interested in me, and even though i don't feel nearly as much of a connection with him as i feel with my other friend, i'm tempted by him because he's just...so much more tempting!! i don't want to hurt anyone and i don't want to make the wrong choice because something stupid is holding me back. sorry for this being so long, but if anyone has any advice i'd appreciate it VERY much! (link)
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i think you should go w/ the first guy bc he seems like a nice guy. you should not be ashamed of him. you just have to think to yourself "you dont find guys like this often and i think i will be really happy with him, so no he doesn't have the best looks, if i love him i will get over that" i dont think looks matter too much in a relationship. all that matters is how much you love them. love will hold you together, not looks. go with your heart and if you do that, everything will turn out for the best.
brunettecutie**
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i like this guy
names dakoda choate hes 1 grade higher than me
i cant stop thinkin about him
he is so sweet to me
he flirts nonstop
he acts like he likes me
i asked him out
and he said: i really can't right now but i promise you i will get there i just have alot on my mind right now
so ok
i wait............ my friend asks him if he likes me not and he says:
look i like girls my age ok?
does that mean he only dates his age
he doesnt like me, he moved away from me, he just wants to be friends,
i think im gonna cry
what do i do about this?! (link)
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if he did that to you he is worth NOTHING. dont cry over him. he is not worth it. now i know thats really not what you want to hear but its true. i know its going to be really hard to forget about him but try to. he is selfish. maybe he does wanna go out w/ girls his own age, then fine, let him do that. hes not worth it and he did not do it bc of you.
brunettecutie**
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female-14- what flirting tips can you give me to let a guy know that i like him. What types of things should i say or even do to him. Im desperate i need help, were both leaving our job in a few weeks i need help now!!Please help me, especially you guys out there, i need tips badly.
Thanks
Lioness (link)
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just be really flirty, like, hey sexy i love your shirt, or you like like a sexy beast with your hair pushed back. try to suduce him as much as possible. play with his hair if you are haning out. tell him stuff he wants to hear from you.
good luck!!
brunettecutie**
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listin, i need to make as much money as fast as i can plz help, im 13 so i cant work at a reastrunt or anything plz help!!!!!!!!! need money quick!!! i rate high!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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offer to watch next doors cats while they are away, offer to babysit on a friday or saterday night. do the dishes, maybe clean the house. anything you could possiblely think of that you could get $ for.
brunettecutie**
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there are these guys that live like 3 doors down from me. (they're super hott 2 haha) They are a couple years older then me but i dont care.. anyways i ALWAYS see them.. but @ the rong times, like when im walking home from babysitting or from the pool with a friend when there is a HUGE group of very good looking guys we hafta walk through. Infact i was walking home the other day and a guy in a car waved to me but i didnt no who he was so i just smiled then i recognized the car in their driveway! The always check me out and smile and stuff (not trying to sound cocky) and i just wanna kno how to like say hi, im very outgoing but i wanna find a good time to do it!! anyone have suggestions (i rate) sorry its so long :-/
-->> girl next door (link)
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maybe you can "pretend" to be on your way somewhere and you gotta get there really fast, you pass them and say something like "hey boys looking good" (look at one of them) "nice shirt you got there" or something like that. and then say something like "oh gotta run, see you around" maybve play hard to get, keep them guessing.
good luck!!
brunettecutie**
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ok my boyfriend who lives in the same town as me went to florida for a month and i really miss him. the day before he left, he slept over and my house and we had so much fun and i didnt want him to go. but i really miss him. i cant call him because of long distance. what should i do? help.. i'll rate 5's for sure!! (link)
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you can write to him, talk to him online. it seems like you really love him and thats great. but other then the phone the only things to do are to chat online or write a letter.
goodluck
brunnettecutie**
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ok i am going to the mal on friday to meet up with a close guy friend of mine. he used to think i didnt like him but i did soemthing that convinced him i made a shout on the radio dedicating a song and sayin that i love him, but anyways i like this guy a lot i meet him by a friend of mine she gave him my sn and we have been talkin on the phone and online all the time but on fridau we r plannin to go to the movies my best friend going wit just in case but idk i dont really care about looks he tells me he has the cute face but he has an average body which doesnt bother me but he wants somethin to happenin in the movies except i DONT have to do anything i DONT want to do.. he thinks i can give realy good head because i noe a lot about doing but never have done it be4 i want to try it but then i dont. a friend of mine who is older then told me it taste nasty and has a lot of taste of salt.. is that true?? if so how can you change the taste?? we r not plannin to have sex in the theater we r arent even goin to have sex at all... bc i am a virgin but what should i do?? if i back out of doing it how can i tell without making him think i hate his dick or stuff like that.. thanks! and me and this close friend are plannin to hook up on friday!!
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can someone give me some tips on giving head/ blow jobs and not websites (link)
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you dont have to do anything you dont wanna do. i would not reomend you do it bc im sure it does taste nasty. i have never done it b4 and it sounds like it tast really bad. but if you are going to do it you can drink some soda or chew gum when your done.
brunettecutie**
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this guy asked me out but hes like not prude(been kissed) and im am prude(not been kissed) and i told him ill answer him tomarroww and he said ok but he doesnt no im prude and hes gonna try to kiss me and i dont no how (link)
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when you first do it you just know what to do. i would not worry about it. your first kiss is always scary but u will know what to do. trust me.
brunettecutie**
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I've been going out with this guy for a month. I've never kissed or been kissed by a guy. I wanna kiss him and he wants to kiss me. But I guess i'm kinda nervous. He thinks I don't like him, But I really do! We've said I love you to eachother a few times and Idk. I really wanna kiss him but i'm scared i might mess up or something. Can anyone give me tips? I know it sounds stupid lol i'm 14.. and yeah i'm going out with a 12 year old. He's made out with a ton of people and I feel really stupid. Please help! (link)
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your first kiss is always scary. all these questions and worries run through your head. but once you start it, you just know what to do. you cant help it, you just know. so dont worry about it. u will be perfectly fine.
brunettecutie**
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