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16/f. my religion tells us not to have sex until we are married, and i plan on sticking to that. im possibly going to a get a boyfriend soon though, and i dont know how to tell him that im waiting. what are some excuses of why i cant have sex with him besides my religion and i dont want to?
Honestly, you shouldnt even have to tell him that you are waiting till your married because its part of your religion. The only thing you should have to tell him is Im waiting till marriage and if he does not except the fact that you are waiting then maybe hes just fit to be your friend.
If you arent with this guy then how do you know he will go into this relationship expectinf sex. If thats the situation then there are guys o0ut there that want you for you and not for sex.
kim:)
how do i put a picture/icon as a caption on my pictures?
http://whateverlife.com/picturecaption.php
kim;)
okay so me and my friend had sex ( with 2 diff guys obviously) lol and we think were pregonent and we dont liek abbortions what should we do!?
Well first off quit freaking out over this.
Take a pregnancy test and if the results show that you are infact pregnant then you Need to tell your parents. Yes its not what even young teenager wants to do but you have to because you need to see a doctor. Because you will need to keep the baby healthy
Im glad your not choosing Abortion because its taking life away from a child.
your next option would go through with the pregnancy and either put the baby up for adoption right away or keep the baby.
If you are pregnant you will have to think about the future also. Such as will you have enough money to raise a child, how about a house for the baby to live in?
If you have any questions just ask
kim:)
i had sex with my boyfriend but i didnt bleed afterward am i still a virgin?
no your not a virgin.
If you had sex your no longer a virgin.
not everyone will bleed you might have popped your cherry doing something else without knowing you did. Even running or excersing.
Iam a 17 female and i've had sex with several different guys all my boyfriends at one point.I have sex like 4 times a week with my present boyfriend and i think i may be pregnant what should i do?
First off stop having sex with every guy you are with.
And first take a pregnancy test. And if its positive you need to tell your boyfriend and your parents. i know it may be scary or the last thing you want to do but you need to because you will need to start going to the doctors.
if you have any questions just ask.
kim:)
Me and my boyfriend want to have sex 14/f. i am a virgin, and i dont know where we will have it. please dont say im too young, im really ready, but i just dont know where to do it.
so i was wondering if you could share stories from your first time
Alrite.
I not going telling you that you are not ready but i am telling you that the majory of young teenagers that have sex that young do it because they think they are ready because they really like their boyfriend. having sex first the first time should be shared with the love of your life. And the person you have sex with at the age 14 is probly not going to be the guy you marry unless you are extremely lucky.
Once you have sex and lose your virginity there is no going back and you just have to live with it.
Well honestly if you were 100% ready for sex you would know the first place to have sex would be in a bed and obviously either your house or his house. With no parents at home. You choose.
beforre you have sex you should think about the consequences. As known as pregnancy and diseases. And i bt you didnt think of either of those. because not very many teenagers do.
but if you decide to have sex either way then go ahead. I cant stop you and no one else can but more power to you hun. But use protection.
kim:)
I had washed some clothes and put them in a laundry basket for a while. Now I see mold on them! Is there anything I can do to get the mold out? Please help, I will thank you so much!!!!
that really sucks but Oxyclean works really good. I know you probly have to go buy it unless you use it already. I suggest buying the powder oxyclean and when you go and wash them with oxyclean. Only wash a small load at a time and put a scoop of oxyclean in and fill the washing machine up with the water but dont put the lid down that it soak for 10 min or so. The put the lid down and let it finish. Doing that should get the mold out and you clothes will be fine.
kim:)
Lately, I can't log in to MySpace. The page loads and everything, but when I give my information and click 'log in' the page just loads forever, and doesn't do anything. It's not my anti-virus or firewall or anything, because it's disabled. Do you have any suggestions?
Myspace is one of the most visited sites on the web. Knowing that, alot of people are logging on and looking around all at the same time. Its busy i would just wait a little while ive been logging on fine so it shouldnt be log before its fixed.
kim:)
This is something I've been wondering about...
My parents don't allow me to date until I'm well over the age of 16, and don't allow boys to call, or anything like that.
The only place I am safe from their constant watching is at school.
What is a good way to keep a relationship, in highschool, on the DL?
I was thinking "bathroom breaks", or taking a different way to class, etc etc.
15, female.
Tell your parents that you are calling "a friends name" but actually call your boyfriend. Just you probly want to keep the conversation short just in case they come in and ask you and you accidently say his name.
As for bathroom breaks. It works but you dont want the teacher to think you have a really bad bladder problem. So just go like once a week in each class. And make sure you both go at the same time.
you can take a different way to class but dont be late for class. Or he can meet you at one of your classes and you can talk then he can head back to his class like a minute before the bell rings
Tell your parents that you need to be at school early Like (15 min or so) to talk to a teacher or make-up a quiz. And you can tell them that you need to stay after for about 30 min.
If he lives close to you then just tell your parents that you are going for a walk and go to his house. Or tell them you forgot a homework sheet at school and you need to get it from a friends house ( and you are willing to walk there ).
Thats all i can think of.
kim:)
Can a 7-11 sell a minor (15 to be exact) the Sports Illustrated Swimsuit Edition?
Well i work at cvs and people buy magazines all the time. Including sports illustrated. I dont know of any law stating that a 15 year cannot buy It.
Have fun
KIM:)
how do you make out i know this might sound weird but i would like step by step instructions so that i will be thought as a good kisser.
I pulled this off a website:
This is the most popular type of kiss. This involves touching your tongue with your partner's and it can be quite a pleasant experience. There are a few tips to create a great french kiss.
Open Lips - Open your lips "slightly" more than you would during a regular kiss. This makes it easier to place your tongue in your partner's mouth.
Tongue - Place the tip of your tongue on the tip of your partner's tongue. Do not force your tongue too far into their mouth. If you wish, you can play with their tongue by circling theirs with your own, running the tip of your tongue along theirs, darting your tongue in and out of their mouth teasingly, or running the tip of your tongue along their teeth or roof of their mouth. If all else fails and you're still unsure of what to do, just use your tongue the way your partner uses theirs. Have fun with it! Explore!
Lips - You may explore different ways of using your tongue. Try running the tip of your tongue over your partner's lips. Do this slowly and gently, just using the tip of your tongue.
http://www.sagazette.com/howtokiss.html
kim:)
Do you have WiFi?
Do you have a Nintendo DS?
Do you have Animal Crossing Wild World?
Do you want to be my friend?
We could build a town together. :)
Yes, like the person below said: this is an advice column not a site where you ask people to play games or just to talk to you. Ask some of your friends to get the game. Or go in a chat room and find somewhere in the chat that has this game. Im sure there is someone in a chat that has this game.
kim:)
what are some stores that you can buy like plain black sweat pants at
or like any color.
im 14/f and i want to wear them over like sports pants after a soccer game just plain ones with nothing on it.
Walmart,kohls,sears,target,kmart.
just about any place with clothes.
kim:)
Okayyy. I quit my job that I only had for about a week, because I was completely miserable there. And once I told everyone they tell me that I'm lazy, and that I'll never make it in the real world. and the thing is, I'm not lazy at all, I work my ass off. How can I get this people to leave me alone, and convince them that I really quit that job because I was miserable and unhappy?
If you do this when you get older they are 100% corret about you not making it in the real world> When you grow up you Cannot be getting jobs and quitting them.
If they dont believe you when you tell them that you were unhappy and miserable then just dont talk to them anymore.
If you talk to them outside of the job then they should know that you are a hard worker. Prove them wrong and get another job that you can be active ,like work alot.
If they keep telling you that you are lazy them just tell them to shut up or ignore. dont let them affect your life.
Well I wrote on the fabric bookover and it leaked through I guess and got on my book. It was in sharpie. Is there anything that could get it out?
That happened to me before. If the textbook is like smooth then if you rub with your finger or a napkin where the sharpie is then there is a chance it may come off. When i say rub it off you will be doing that for a while not just 5 min.
kim:)
You can try nail polish remover but it may take some color off the cover. so only use a little of it at a time and put it on a napkin on straight on the book.
I would like for anybody to find me great websites where they have any cheap desks. Anywhere below $140 is great!!
The links I already searched in were:
OfficeDepot
Walmart
Target
But you can double-check for me (That would be nice)
The kind of desk I am looking for is one that is not for computers, most importantly. Just a regular desk. Another detail is that I would like is natural wood. I am NOT looking for small, metal desks.
So please at least find me some links for the cheapest desks. It would be AWESOME if you found ones from stores such as: Walmart, Kmart, Staples, OfficeDepot, Target, and HomeDepot (some are only in selective areas) but I'll accept deals from internet companies and deals.
Thanks in advance!
Also note, it is ok if it's ten or twenty dollars over, but I am just aiming for sales, discounts, and deals to help me spend as little money as possible. So cheaper ones would be the best ever!! =)
well i found a few. Im not completely sure if these are what you looking for.
http://www.walmart.com/catalog/product.do?product_id=3139013
http://www.walmart.com/catalog/product.do?product_id=4183654
http://www.sears.com/sr/javasr/product.do?cat=Furniture+%26+Storage&pid=00823754000&vertical=HSWR&subcat=Office&BV_UseBVCookie=Yes
http://www.officedepot.com/ddSKU.do?level=SK&id=703610&D=2%20Desks&No=20&Dx=mode%20matchallpartial&Nty=1&Ntx=mode%20matchallpartial&Ntt=Desks&N=100000&uniqueSearchFlag=true&Nr=100000&Ntk=all&An=text
http://www.officedepot.com/ddSKU.do?level=SK&id=394644&Nr=200000&N=256071&An=browse
hope these help.
kim:)
Ok...here's the scenario:
My uncle worked for ING and he's an awesome person, he's a people person and a go-getter. Well, at ING they sponsor a family every year and they usually get about 300$, well my uncle, being the awesome person he is says that if they raise over 1000$ he'll shave his head...
...later in the year right before his big bonus...
...wednesday: this guy calls in to tranfer his account and he forgot his pin so my uncle tells him "sorry i cant attend to you then, its store policy" so the guy's all like omg i cant remember im going to lose so much money...so m y uncle gives him the randomest hint that only he could get cause if some stranger called in...he would have never have guessed...so yeah...(all calls are recorded)
...friday: this is the day where they coun t all the money for that family thing...this year...guess what...they raised more than 1000$...so my uncle gets his head shaved...ok heres the messed up part i need advice on...
...OK NOW THEY TELL HIM OH BY THE WAY YOU'RE FIRED FOR WHAT YOU DID ON WEDNESDAY!...WE'RE GONNA EXCORT YOU OUT NOW!...he didn't even get to go to his desk to get his stuff....like seriously if it was that bad they should have escorted him out on wednesday right after...anyways so yeah...i think they did that because they wanted to save the money that hwould have recieved in his bonus...wtf is going on here?
I'll appreciate your help...ALOT!...for my uncle's sake...
As much as your uncle and you dont want to believe it but he broke the law. When you work somewhere especially at a place that keeps personal information such as bank info, telephone numbers, names and etc.. YOu are never allowed to give information out unless you know for certain that the person on the phone is the person he/she is claiming to be.
Your uncle knew very well that he was not allowed to attend to this guy over the phone but he did because the guy said hed lose money. What happens if that was not the guy but he did guess the pin number?
I highly doubt they wanted until friday to friday to fire your uncle just to save money. Maybe they dont check the phones every single day. Maybe the only check them on fridays. Just like stores with video cameras Almost all stores have them but they usuallyonly check them when something happens in the store or on certain days.
i know its hard for you to understand why he got fired but you need to understand giving out information like that is against the law. Be happy the police didnt get envolved with the whole situation.
Your uncle should be able to go back and get his stuff.
kim;)
where'd you get your layout?
i got it from photobucket.com
ill give the URL that you will need if you plan on using the back ground.
http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Spaz-A-Taz/stars.jpg
heres the picture of it.
http://s16.photobucket.com/albums/b16/Spaz-A-Taz/?action=view¤t=stars.jpg&refPage=all&imgAnch=imgAnch54
and here are some other cute butterfly layouts.
http://s16.photobucket.com/images/search/butterflies/
16/f
I'm running out of date ideas... I really need some unique (inexpensive) ideas! anything would be greatly appriciated. :)
bowling
mini golf
take a walk downtown
Share a Sundae on Sunday
Walk in the Park
http://www.onlinedatingmagazine.com/features/creativedateideas.html
hope these help you.
kim:)
okay i have this thing in my mouth, its not really a sore, it's an annoyance. its not painful, but its there and i can feel it. basically its this tiny bump and it feels like a bead when you touch it with your tongue. it looks almost like there's just spit there, but it's not. its clearish and very small and circular. it's on it, meaning it's raised, and its on the front, on my bottom lip, inside my mouth by my teeth. any ideas??
thanks!!
Sounds like a canker sore. I found a website you can look over and itll tell you you can do. If its hurting at all just take an advil.
http://familydoctor.org/613.xml
kim:)