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My name is Jillian and if you've got a question, I'll answer it the best I can.
Gender: Female
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Age: 16
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Member Since: July 18, 2007
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What do you think of them? Im 16 and sometimes i want one really bad and sometimes idk. What do you think? Are tehy cute or not? I cant decide please dont say 'dont get it if you arent sure if you want it' beucase its not a permanent thing and can always be taken out
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I think they are really cool-looking. My friend just got one, and she said it hurt, but that goes away.



well i like this girl she does know i like her from me telling her from a love letter and then from alot of people and now i think she hates me i never asked her should i ask her if she likes me or not and go for it no matter what any one else thinks cause i dont want her to miserable and all her friends hating her for me talking to her or her liking me but when i wait to talk to her she looks pissed off at me and like she doesnt want to talk to me but i mean we look at ecother alot im a runescape person and shes a book person i guess u could say i love her alot but her friend and lots of other girls are trying to talk to me but i hate them all cause b4 they new i liked her they all hated me after school should i go to her locker and talk to her and walk out with her to the buses or wait by a door to talk to her and she works as a lunch worker so she cleans dishes for school during lunch should i talk to her then to god i bet she or her friends think bad about me please help me find out what to do (link)
I think you should go with your gut and just go for it. Life is short; take chances.

Maybe she's waiting for you to ask her out, and she looks annoyed when she talks to you because you still haven't done it. You never know.


I really like this guy,..we have been snogging each other since like march nd we are now best friends we both have mutual feelings for each other,.he does like his girls tho and trys to get in bout alot of them but will never get into a relationship,.he seems afraid of committment but recently he's stopped and the other night he asked if we could start going out because he reli likes me nd stuff so that was fine but then a couple of days later he decided to break itoff because he realised he didnt want a relationship i still don't know why but he assured me there isn't another girl,.i spoke to his best mate and he told me that he had never seen him that confused and upset over a girl in his life nd he got reli worked up about breakin up

so what do i do
'do i tell him that i want something to happen now cos if not he might loose me
'or do i wait and see how it goes

i'm soo confused
XxxX (link)
maybe he's used to being around a lot of girls for fun, but all of a sudden he's really actually fallen for someone (you) and therefore hes confused and doesnt know how to deal with it.

i think you should wait some more but if nothing happens for a while, move on.

also you should ask him whats truly truly going on.


(sorry if that was confusing)


Heyy
Im 16/f and i was wondering what the best skincare products and routines would be best for my skinn:

I havee
-open pores on the skin either side of my nose
-combination skin
- - grease kinda forms on my forehead chin and either side of my nose
-get tha odd random spot lmao
- bumpy skin/forehead

but good skin on the edges of ma face loll

Jus want something that will improve texture and look of skin especially pores..
Not bothered by price butt available in the UK pleasee

brands and varietys and products

thankyou xxx =DD (link)
Aveeno lotion is GREAT for the face. and the rest of the body, too. but it softens your skin and naturally freshens it up. and you just feel a lot cleaner after using it.

Also a lot of clean and clear products work great.



What are some different ways to eat white rice? I've tried it with vinegar, but I'm wondering other ways. I eat it often but I get tired of eating it by itself or with soy sauce. I'm just curious as to how I can spice it up and make it more flavorful. (link)
well you can always add some chicken to it. but other things would be like red peppers chopped up into it and maybe sauted(sp?) vegetables. you could always experiment with some different spices, too.



I've been trying to get healthier. I'm cutting out junk food and caffeine [except for coffee]. I just lack the motivation to do things. I'm finding it difficult to force myself to exercise, but it also goes into other parts of my life. I just lack the energy and motivation to do anything. It's effecting my schoolwork, relationships with friends and I'm tired 24/7 it seems like. Is there any way to change this? (link)
I've found out the key to having energy and being happy is A LOT OF SLEEP.

if you havent been getting 8-9 hours of sleep per night, i bet thats your problem.


try to eat foods that specifically give you more energy, google some.


I had freshlook colored contacts: brown color. And everytime i put them in my eyes, they burned. Is it because my pupil was to big for the lense at the time or is it not just that? What would you recommend best, acuvue colours or freshlook? Because im running out of my contacts and i would like the reg. contacts like acuvue oasis and colored contacts. What work better for you? (link)
whenever i put my contacts in they burn for like 5 minutes and then they're fine for the rest of the day. maybe you have the same problem- so just like deal with it and if they still burn after like 10 minutes then talk to your eye doctor about other brands. (i use acuvue)


so im basically in love with this boy and hes is honestly absolutly amazing he is my world (link)
hm i dont think theres much of a problem here, but if you cant stop thinking about how you have to make all of the moves you should really talk with him about it. he'll understand that it does bother you, and he sounds great so i think he'll understand. :)


Can I offer to be a volunteer somewhere where they don't advertise for volunteers?

As in, would it be odd to email them and offer to be a volunteer even if they don't have a history of taking on volunteers? (link)
Yes, you can volunteer anywhere. But don't go to a place like publix or something because..well that would be kindof stupid; I don't know why. Go to a place like a day care center or maybe a nursing home for elderly or a homeless shelter. You need to go somewhere where people or things are in need of help.


Sorry if in wrong catagory..

So when I fist got my period it was July 9 2007... I had it again in August, but not one at all in September... and now I have one in October 6th...

but shouldn't you get your period every month?
Will I never have a September period?

I'm not pregnant if thats what you think.. I'm a vergine.. (link)
Well, when you first start getting your period it's not as regulatory as it is normally. But as you get older, it regulates itself.

And if you don't get one one month, it doesn't mean that that month is period-free every year.

Some people don't get theirs every month even when they do grow up.

So, don't worry c:


alright well every time i shave my legs i always get razor burn on the inside left of my right leg and the inside right of my left leg.. i have tried different razors and different shaving creams but i always get it in those spots.. and i have kinda white legs so it shows up a lot and i dont no why i get it can anyone tell me why i get it? and how i can prevent it? also after i shave i have tried putting lotion and baby oils on but that still wont work either, and i always use a new razor so that cant be it? pleaseeeee help! (link)
That always happened to me, too.

You could use an electric shaver instead, it like NEVER cuts you and it doesn't give you razorburn because there is no soap or water involved.

Another suggestion would be using the "Intuition" shavers. The razor on those are completely surrounded in soap so you can't get razorburn as easily.

Also, shave in the shower. Razorburn often appears when your skin wasn't wet enough, but if you're in the shower, it will be constantly wet. :D


can you tell me how i can make my breasts higher naturally? or could you tell me exercises that will make them bigger? (link)
There isn't an excersise that will make them do that :/

I would suggest a push-up bra. :D


Alright, my class and I are doing this group project about 'First Intermediate, 7-11th Dynasties, Achievements and Pyramids' project.

It's due this Friday but I can't find no good sites having to do with Achievements and Pyramids.

My teacher said if one person doesn't have this done by Friday, the whole group would get a 0. And I don't want to be the reason.

So does anyone know where I can get GOOD sites for (Ancient) Egypt, 8, 9, 10, and 11th Dynasties on Pyramids and Achievements?

THANK YOU SO MUCH! (link)
well, i dont know any sites...but i recommend going to the library at your school or the city library. they are sure to have books on it, it's worth a try i suppose :/


i heard a funny thing by dane cook and it was about him naming his first child and it wasn't even a name it was just a sound like where you roll your tounge.. the sound that that makes

anyways, can anybody help me find that clip/video? (link)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6B2b50MyZjM

sorry for the stupid drawings it came with o_O


im making a video of my friends and i over the years and im adding music, i have a few songs but i need a few more, i want something to describe us, were funny and crazy, but i want it to also have nice lyrics...maybe

i love country but the others dont really so im think no country... and no like emo music either

thanksssss (link)
what about that graduation song? where it goes "as we go onn we remember. all the times we. had togetherr. and as our lives change. from whateverrr. we will still be. friends foreverr." i think its by vitamin c?


how do i hide my top whatever without getting a different layout?? thanks (link)
in google, type in "hiding my top 8" or whatever and they will give you sites with codes for it.


Ok so this is my personality I'm outgoing and very LOUD I LOVE TO LAUGH ! Ill laugh at anything and I can be random I like to stand out and sometimes tend to crave center attention =) so there's this girl in two of my periods in highschool this year and she's been talking a lot of crap about how I'm so annoying and how I laugh at everything (which is not true I do know when I'm forcing it and when its the right time to laugh) and its just been pissing me off because she didn't even take the time to get to know me yet and we've been in school for a week and already she's talking shitt its beautiful how she can say stuff behind my back but can't confront herself to me well anyways she stares at me a lot its really weird and I don't want to sound conceided but I think she envies me because she'll only talk shitt on the days I dress nice I KNOW REALLLY WEIRD HUH? what should I do??? Please don't tell me to talk to her about it because I already did today and she still does it and she denied it please help I don't know what to do with her anymore! (link)
ignore her; she obviously has some insecurities about herself. don't let this one girl's opinions stop you from laughing or being yourself :]


I am choosing between two outfits for the first day of 8th grade. I want to look mature in my outfit yet fun. One thing i'm not sure about in these outfits though is the miniskirts. I want to give a good first impression to my teachers, and not give the new kids and younger kids the impression that I dress slutty.Do you think they are too short? I can't wear shorts because all my shorts are old and too ratty to wear that day. Oh by the way, you can't see the shoes so in both i'm wearing gold metallic flats. Also, how should I wear my hair?

1. http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=5412now...
2. http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=4t77i4x... (link)
they are both really good first-day-of-school outfits...

i'm thinking maybe the first? i'm not quite sure XDD


I'm 13/f, and I have an overprotective mom. She can't leave me home alone for 15 minutes. I was going to my friend's house. I told my mom that my friend's babysitter was going to be there, which was true, and my mom didn't believe me. She followed me to my friend's door and STUCK her head into the house, and looked around. I was SO embarrassed. She could have at least asked my friend if her mom was home or something. And I'm going to my friend's house soon and I'm so scared that my mom will follow me to the door again. My mom never used to be so overprotective. HELP!! How do I get to calm her nerves down? I live in a town where nothing bad has ever happened. (link)
You have to gain her trust.

Make her feel comfortable with you being with a friend alone or home by yourself.

Show her your responsible, and she'll slowly let you do more independent things.


Nothing has ever happened to me. I've never been raped. I've never been molested. Whatever. But now that I'm developing into an adult, I see that I care about no-one but myself. Not even my parents. I only look out for myself. I'm narcissistic, vain, a jerk and mean. I don't know what to do with myself. I could care less if I have friends or not. And I could care less what happens to them. I'm really antisocial. I get angry for no reason. I never had a boyfriend, so it's out of the question...I CAN'T get a boyfriend. And whenever I try to force myself to be social, it fails. I can't be social. And I fear talking on the phone.

Please help. I don't know what to do with myself. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. (link)
Well, if you know you have some issues you should work on them :] Like when you feel like you're doing a selfish thing, stop and think and turn it around to be selfless.

Do some self-reflect time and start noticing the good things about OTHER people.

There's not much else i can tell you...most of this stuff you'll have to discover on your own.

maybe watch some movies of people that are self-less and great like...Forrest Gump or The Guardian. You could make some mental notes on things that people like that do to be self-less and great.

I hope I helped :/ Have hope!




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