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I'm depressed, lonely and upset.
Nothing has ever happened to me. I've never been raped. I've never been molested. Whatever. But now that I'm developing into an adult, I see that I care about no-one but myself. Not even my parents. I only look out for myself. I'm narcissistic, vain, a jerk and mean. I don't know what to do with myself. I could care less if I have friends or not. And I could care less what happens to them. I'm really antisocial. I get angry for no reason. I never had a boyfriend, so it's out of the question...I CAN'T get a boyfriend. And whenever I try to force myself to be social, it fails. I can't be social. And I fear talking on the phone.
Please help. I don't know what to do with myself. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
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the first step to resolving your problem is KNOWING that you have a problem.. and obviously you want to change for the better so your on a good stream... the first thing i would tell you to do is start writting all your feelings down.. it could potentially help or it could be nothing.. but it's a try.. obviously you want to have friends so you can't tell me that you dont' care if you have friends or not because if you want to be social then you want to have someone you care about... i think you feel unwanted or something and your just an idependant person and only depend on yourself and not others which is good to a certain extent but you have to know where your boundaries land.. try talking to an adult or someone you trust... you can talk to me too if you would like.. and i'll try to figure out something that you would do to become unlonely.. i think your selling yourself short. you CAN get a boyfriend as much as you CAN get friends. you just have to find yourself and show people who you really are.. and that you want to care abotu other people and nto only yourself
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Well, if you know you have some issues you should work on them :] Like when you feel like you're doing a selfish thing, stop and think and turn it around to be selfless.
Do some self-reflect time and start noticing the good things about OTHER people.
There's not much else i can tell you...most of this stuff you'll have to discover on your own.
maybe watch some movies of people that are self-less and great like...Forrest Gump or The Guardian. You could make some mental notes on things that people like that do to be self-less and great.
I hope I helped :/ Have hope!
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