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hi im lauren. im 15 & ive had experience with lots of stuff.. so i can answer pretty much any kind of question =]
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Me and my boyfriend have been dating for two months now. And of course we are kinda getting hot and heavy alot! well.. one day we were having oral sex and his penis size is like 3 inches (he told me that to). Well i'm not a virgin and we've been talking about having sex alot. but i don't know what to do because i think it's too small to pleasure me. and i don't want to mean or fake it.. so i really need help!
i would just give it a shot anyways. he could suprise you. dont fake it though. if it doesnt happen it doesnt happen.
I broke up with my 7 month boyfriend because my very best friend, who I trusted with my life, told me he was cheating on me. About three weeks ago I found out she was 'just kidding around' and I started sinking into depression because her and I are no longer friends and I lost my first love over a cruel joke.
I want him back, I'm still very much in love with him. Were still friends, we flirt but he flirts with anything and always has. I want so badly to just kiss him again, to be with him. I don't know what to do or how to tell him without scaring him off.
just explain the situation to him. tell him what your friend said and tell him you want him back. he should understand =)
female...
is alright to wax your armpits? cuz shaving doesnt really work out for me. what are some good at home kits to use and where can you buy them?
thanks
yes i think its alright. you can get them at like walgreens, target, walmart, anywhere like that.
tomorrow night i am spending new years eve with my boyfriend of 6 months. i am 21 and he is 24, so we can definetly go out for drinks but dont really want to since bars will be crazy. he is working till 10 and i am driving down from my house(45 mins away) and am thinking about renting a nice hotel for us. we were going to go out for dinner but everywhere closes at 10. i dont know what i can do. he is pretty clueless about our plans too so i am not sure whether i should get takeout before and suprise him, and maybe have some lingerie as well? i just dont want it to be boring and what not if we just stay in. any ideas on what to do? or know of any common restraunts open till atleast 12?
i want it to be special, but not too special or cheesy. i dont know what his friends are doing either but i think he`d rather it just be us since bars will be obnoxious.
help! thanks=)
alright well i have a few ideas. not sure if you will like any of them but i'll try =)
-take out sounds like a good idea
-or you could go to a drive through or something
-you could make him dinner at his house (if you can cook)
-lingerie sounds like a good idea
-hotel sounds like a good idea
-maybe you could rent the hotel room first and set up like candles and music and stuff before and then go pick him up and suprise him
-you could probably get food at the hotel
-see if he can get off work before 10? (doubt it)
I want to give my boyfriend a hickey, so how do I do it? Thank You in advance.
you just suck. basically you make out with his neck (or wherever you want to give him a hickey).
hello...well this kid i really like nd one of my best friends are always flirting...how can i tell if there doing things behind my back or they just do that in person..any sneaky suggestions?
please help!
jess
does your best friend know that you like this kid? if not you should tell her and maybe she will stop flirting with him. and you could just ask them if they are doing anything. i would ask the guy though hes more likely to tell you than she is. guys like to brag about the stuff they do.
heyy everybody!
for high school next year, our uniform is that we have to wear a skirt past our knees, and a collared shirt. does anybody know where i can find cute ones?
and just comfy skirts?
thank you soooooooo much!!
you could get polos from like abercrombie, hollister, aeropostale, lacoste, ralph lauren, etc.
On the first day back to school I'm going to make cupcakes and give them to my friends but how will i bring them to school so that it will: not be visible( which means stay in my pack pack so no other rude kid steals or damages them), not ruin their shape or form, etc?
that sounds like it could be kinda hard. you could bring them in a plastic/ paper bag. i dont think anyone will touch them. cookies might be easier to do because its harder for them to get ruined and you can easily put them in your back pack in like a ziplock bag or something.
So I'm having difficulty naming my grey female kitty. I've narrowed it down to a few names. I trust your opinions so let me know which one you like the best:
Pandora
Tabitha
Mabel
Scarlett
Paloma (Spanish for 'peace')
Stella
If you have any suggestions, that would be nice too. Thanks a lot!
i like stella (:
theres this song that i keep hearing but i have no idea what it called i think it goes like this:
she hit the floor
(she hit the floor)
she bang it low
(she bang it low)
low low low low low
thats the chorus
if you could help me and tell me what the song is i would be ecstatic thankss:)
low by flo rida
I'm fifteeen and a girl [:
me and this guy were going out for about a two years. we broke up in march of 07. ive been talking to him lately through texting and aim. everytime i talk to him i get the same feeling i used to when we were going out and he makes me feel alive. i know that sounds corny, but its amazing how much of a little girl i become around him. i can say stupid things no one else would get and we can practically predict what one other is gonna say. i honestly dont think me and him are done. i know one day we will get back together, and hopefully soon. theres a dance comming up at my school in febuary and I'm thinking about asking him. I dont hangout with him alot. more like i never hangout with him, and when i do it's pretty awkward. neither of us know what to say to eachother in person and i obvouisly want that to change. I think asking him to the dance would give us a chance to become not awkward around eachother and maybe give us another chance. Should i go for it or play it safe? any other suggestions? thankss! [:
i would just go for it. it sounds like you two arent done yet. the worst that could happen is he says no. but it sounds like he will probably be happy to go with you.
I'm 16 female. && I think I have a great body! That pine skinny look is out, and what I look like is in! Big boobs, nice stomach(a little baby fat) nice legs. But that thing is, I dont know how to really show it off. I'm 5'4, 5'5 with shoes, 148lbs, play sports, cheerleader, but I dont act like it. I wear hoodies, and jeans more then 95% of the time. Even tho I know my body looks good, I dont know how other people feel. My friends tell me all the time, that I have the best body they know, and they wish they had it. But whenever I wear like a hollister shirt(tight) I feel fat, bc when I sit I have that little baby fat. Im not sure what Im asking, but what do you guys think? && if you think I should start dressing up more, give me some ideas of what to wear?
Here are some messurements.
height-5'4-5'5
weight-145-150
pant size-6 or 7
shirts-M or L
bra-34-36D
&& if you want a picture of my body, Ill send one, only if you can really help me.. thanks! =D
i dont think missbananafontana took into account that since you play sports and cheerlead you probably have a lot of muscle, which weighs more than fat, so you probably arent overweight if youre happy with your body. it sounds like you want to tone your abs or something. do sit ups every night. maybe wear some cute dresses or something. or pretty shirts with jeans instead of hoodies.
I don't have big boobs, I'm kinda/pretty much flat chested, and I don't have like the biggest butt, and I haven't had a bf yet because they all want girls with big boobs and who "put out" I'm not like that. So would a guy go out with me??
If any guys, even girls could make me feel better (I don't want sugar coating kthanks) and if you're going to tell me that there is someone out there for me and I'll find him one day, don't bother.
--thanks in advance :\
*if it helps, 15/f*
all guys arent like that. i agree with you though most guys go for the whores that have big boobs. its because theyre easy. if its right in front of them and they dont have to work for it guys are just like 'okay sweeet'. eventually they will get tired of it and realize that sometimes the chase is the best part of getting a girl. some guys are also able to see past what a girl looks like and like her for her personality. you will find a guy someday. i had a few boyfriends in 8th grade and i was like completely flat then, even though most girls werent. i wouldnt worry about it too much. if it really bothers you trying wearing a push up bra or a padded bra. it will make your boobs look bigger and make you a little more confident.
Last night my boyfriend drove me home, before I left we started making out and then he stopped and said he thought we needed to be more open about "this" and so I asked him what he meant and he just said nevermind. I can't help but wonder what he was talking about. Anyone have any ideas?
okay i think he could mean a few things..
1. he wants to know how far you want to go with him. like he wants to know his limits, what you will let him do/ do to him, etc.
2. he wants to know if you like making out with him or whatever. if hes good, what your opinion is, what you like, etc.
3. he wants to do that more in public, he wants to be more open about showing physical affection for you
I'm 15 and just recently got my period
(Yes, I know I got it pretty late.)
I've only had it about 3 times now, but I HATE it.
I can't stand it. It makes me feel like I can't do anything with it.
Since I don't like pads, I wear tampons, but they're always popping halfway out.
(Which is weird because I'm not using a big size or anything.)
I constantly have to go "adjust" myself and I never
feel like going anywhere because I'm afraid I will leak.
Does anyone have any advice?
Any kind words would be appreciated right now.
i hate pads too. and yes getting your period sucks. it doesnt sound like your putting your tampon in far enough. you need to make sure it goes like all the way up. haa but maybe you need a smaller size? i wouldnt worry that much about leaking. just make sure you change your tampon enough and you should be fine. ive never leaked. dont let your period stop you from having fun!
is it true that if you download songs off of linewire for free it gives your computer viruses?
umm yeah a lot of ppl i know got viruses from limewire. if you get some type of protection for your computer though you should be fine.
So for the past two months, I haven't been going to church every Sunday, like AT ALL due to a fight that my aunt and my mom had and I got sucked in their problem making my relationship with my aunt nonexistent. This morning, I said sorry to my aunt and we're OK now but the church is my problem because there's a lot of nosy people at church questioning WHY I haven't been at church. What should I say? I can't tell the truth because it's really stupid and ridiculous and I don't want them to see me as childish and an immature brat. But on another note, I don't want to lie under God so... if there is such thing as a "true lie" can you please give me advice on what I should do? Thanks.
its none of their business why you werent in church. just tell them you couldnt go. if they question you any further just tell them its personal and you dont really want to talk about it. nobody can make you share information you dont want to share.
my boyfriend and i dry hump (have sex with underwear and shorts on) and after i got home i was looking in my vagina kinda and there was this white stuff (cum-ish) and i wiped some of it out...should i be worried? is that a sign of anything? or is it just because i got excited?
umm it was probably from you not him. i wouldnt worry about it too much!
i was born on jan 19 and im confused on whether i should consider myself a capricorn or aquarius or a little both.. cause i seem to have both traits.. and im not really like traditional capricorns though im not ALL like aquarius either.. or is all this astrology stuff a load of shit?
okay i think all of it is just a load of shit. but if you choose to believe in it you could just consider yourself 1/2 and 1/2 or something.
What happens before a guy sticks it in??..do they get hard or are they still "soft"? and i have gotten fingered b4 (2fingers) and does it really feel like that?...and will i bleed badly?
most guys are hard.. its kinda hard to have sex if the guy is soft. and i wouldnt know but i dont think it feels the same. it depends on the girl.. some girls bleed badly and some dont bleed at all. your cherry might already be popped from sports, tampon, etc.