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Age: 13
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Me and my boyfriend want to go away sumwhere. We want to go with another couple too. We are from NH and Hes 19 and I'm 18. Most hotels at the beach wont rent to us because were not 21. Does any1 have any ideas of where we could go if your from the area thats nic ebut not wicked expensive. I know theres camping but are there any good cmaping spots? Thanks!! (link)
I'm pretty sure it does...


ok well 3 weeks ago this realllly hot guy *tai* came came over and hes a senior & im a sophomore. well hes the guy that every girl wants bc hes funny and freakin soo hot its unbelieveable. but so he came over & we had un protected sex and idk i was 2 weeks late for my period then i had it. but i heard that u can be pregnant & still have ur period. the only reason im sooo worried is bc i had been pregnant before (but had a misscarriage) and i had the same feeling that i was like before. im so scared cuz i mean im only 15 and i cant be pregnant again. wut do u think i do???

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go to the local clinic and get checked! if you are take the pills! also you could get an abortion, but my cousin who is 18 said she wasnt ready but next time she gets pregnant she'll have it.. anyways she said it hurt really bad but you could try it.. if ya need anything else let me know!


Well I am a 20 year old female and lately I been wanting to have a baby. So when I ask my boyfriend of 4 1/2 years he was like no because he had to babysit his 6 nephews all the time. So what should I do? (link)
I think you should wait a little while, i'm only 13 but i know you should wait until your married, it'll be better for you and he'll probably be ready. Talk to him about that and see how it goes! if ya need anything else let me know!


There is this guy i like in my Social Studies class. Everyone says he is really nice. I would go up and talk to him, but he is alwayse with his guy friends. They kinda intimidate me. So should I ask around about him (see if he is single, or even interested in me) or should i wait to see if he will come up to me?
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I think you should forget both and go up to him! be like, can i talk to you for a minute? are you single! can we hang out sometime! just go for it girl! if you need anything else let me kno!


okie.well i like this boy.we just started talking and now i like him even more. i know that he like me to. but i want 2 know.if me being 14.turning 15. and he being 12 turing 13 is really bad 2 even think about goin out with him?

14/f (link)
hun, nothins rong with that! i'm turning 14 and i like a guy whos turning 12.. age is nothin but a number! give him a chance! go for it!


im 13/f never made out with a guy and i feel so...unloved lol! is there sumthin wrong with me? where did i go wrong?!? (link)
nothings wrong with you its just you havnt found "the one", like the perfect guy for you!! theres plenty of fish in the sea!! who would wanna date a fish tho.. well anyways keep looking for the right guy for you!!


ok a kid that really liked me asked me out and i think i said yes because i felt bad and now i wanna dump him but i still want to be close friends i dont know what to say to him i dont know what is worse dumping him and making him feel bad or going out with someone i only like as my freind.....and to add onto this all i think i like his best freind... please help me this is a very awkward situation... (link)
You said yes out of pity!! how dare you!! jk.. :D umm i think you should say, i really really care about you and want to be ur friend but maybe not more right now, we can try it again later, in a few weeks, i just dont think its the right time right now.. can we be how we were before?? also go with what your heart tells you too


okay my friends ( a girl and a boy) are in a fight and everytime i talk to the girl she alwasy says so have you talked to him?? What should i say?? should i tell her i did or not!! they are in a big fight and i don't wanna ruin my relationship with this boy, because i really likehim...i mean really like him!! Any suggestion?? :(

*Stuck -n- Middle* (link)
Dont get in the middle, tell both of them you really care about both of them and you dont want to hurt your relationship with them both.. that they need to sort this out on their own, try something like that.. if you need anything else, ask!!


ok when people have sex ....does the guy all have to insert it... or does it just "go in" when they lay on top of each other...is it lyk a magnet effect...or something? (link)
no he has to insert it, theres no magnets involved


question for everybody that asks questions on advicenators: How come you dont rate somebody after they answer your questions? it doesnt take a lot of effort and its a quick little thank you for their response. It helps the advice giver to understand how well they answer certain questions. I think everybody should rate out of pure politeness...Just curious as to why most people dont..?? (link)
i have no idea.. that is a good question...


Ok im 13 and ive never made out wit a guy (ima gurl) and my best friend always does things b4 meh and she just made out wit sum1 and now i feel like a loner. wat do i do (link)
its not a competition, your 1st kiss/makeout will come soon enough, when the right guy and the right time comes along you'll know, dont rush into it! your 13! many years to go! you'll know when its right, but for now, dont think of it as a competition


hey i have these new black adn pink sneakers theyre mainly black but i was jus wonderin wut could i wear wit it cuz like i personally think it looks weird if im wearing shorts with it or a skirt with it i feel like i should b wearing pants with it all the tym... wut do u guys think? (link)
I think maybe a hot pink shirt or a black shirt with hot pink on it and black and hot pink jeans, like all match.. its your choice but i think that would look best


I'm trying to lose a little weight and I'm hungry right now. What are some healthy snacks I can eat? (link)
You should try fruit salad, or regular salad, try veggies and dip, another way to lose weight is to go running and go to the gym and exersize. Those might help.. also smoothies and malts are good. Stay away frum fast food and greesy foods


Please, if you have an answer, help me. Especially guys, they might understand:

The thing is, I have this guy cousin who is 15 and I was hanging out with him 2 months ago, and he really has gotten quite groovy looking since the last time I saw him. Infact, he is absolutely gorgeous. ANd he is the funniest guy I know, and amazingly fun to be around. And I love him as part of my family, but when I went to visit him in London, I realised that I think I have feelings for him. But I don't think he has any for me...then again, I don't understand how guys are...but he talks about sex with me all the time, and I have seen him pretty unclothed...and he was comfortable with that. But I don't know...is it wrong that I like him, and is it unusual? And how would I know if he likes me or not? (link)
He is your cousin and is related by blood.. maybe you just see him as a regular guy, you might be thinking of him like that and imagining him as a good friend. He is probably your best friend, and he probably is a great guy, but he is related by blood. You enjoy hanging out with him but maybe you should try to like someone else, like talk to your cousin about it. Your heart will tell you what to do




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