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Q: ok tommorows my first day of school and i have a curling iron thing and a hair striaghtener.. if that helps.. its a new school..any ideas of what i should do to make a good impression
You could

1- Straighten you hair
2- Curl your hair
3- Wear your hair half up half down with a curly pony tail and curl the down part.
4- Wear your hair half up half down with a curly pony tail and straighten the down part.
5- Wear your hair half up half down with a straight pony tail and straigh down part.
6- Wear your hair half up half down with a straight pony tail and a curly down part.
7- You could wear your hair all the way up with a curly pony tail.
8- You could wear you hair all the way up with a straight pony tail.
9- You could wear your hair up and have two peices hanging down in the front and have the pony tail part straight and the two peices curly.
10- You could wear your hair up and have two peices hanging down in the front and have the pony tail part curly and have the two peices in the from straight.

Hope this helped.
♥ kayla

Q: what is the best black pencle eyeliner out there??
i want eyeliner that goes on smooth help!!
well the two eye liners that i use are revlon and mac. here are the links just so you know which ones. And there both really good and really easy to put on. And alot of other eyeliners if your wet them they will go on alot easier. But anyways here are the links to the two ones that i have found to be the best.


REVLON (in stores about 7 dollars for one found in cvs or basically anywhere)
http://www.amazon.com/Revlon-Timeliner-Eyes-Ebony-Pack/dp/B000H3D2LY/sr=1-29/qid=1157593871/ref=sr_1_29/104-6461119-3220708?ie=UTF8&s=hpc

MAC (12.50 can be found at macys and stores like that)
http://www.maccosmetics.com/templates/products/sp.tmpl?CATEGORY_ID=CATEGORY15101&PRODUCT_ID=PROD1457


hope this helped

♥ kayla


Q: Whenever I try to scrunch my hair it loks just... blah...are thgere any special mousses made for that or techniques to scrunching your hair? Because mine is straight n wavy-ish but gets poofy thanks!
http://www.sallybeauty.com/shop/140/140722

http://www.sallybeauty.com/shop/1391/322811

http://www.cvs.com/CVSApp/cvs/gateway/detail?prodid=303089&previousURI=/CVSApp/cvs/gateway/search?page=1^Query=curling^ActiveCat=65


http://www.cvs.com/CVSApp/cvs/gateway/detail?prodid=317458&previousURI=/CVSApp/cvs/gateway/search?page=1^Query=curling^ActiveCat=65


http://www.cvs.com/CVSApp/cvs/gateway/detail?prodid=342343&previousURI=/CVSApp/cvs/gateway/search?page=1^Query=curling^ActiveCat=65

http://www.cvs.com/CVSApp/cvs/gateway/detail?prodid=342184&previousURI=/CVSApp/cvs/gateway/search?page=1^Query=curling^ActiveCat=65


http://www.cvs.com/CVSApp/cvs/gateway/detail?prodid=339793&previousURI=/CVSApp/cvs/gateway/search?page=2^Query=curling^ActiveCat=65^startLink=1



http://www.cvs.com/CVSApp/cvs/gateway/detail?prodid=148697&previousURI=/CVSApp/cvs/gateway/search?page=2^Query=curling^ActiveCat=65^startLink=1


http://www.cvs.com/CVSApp/cvs/gateway/detail?prodid=691535&previousURI=/CVSApp/cvs/gateway/search?page=2^Query=curling^ActiveCat=65^startLink=1


http://www.cvs.com/CVSApp/cvs/gateway/detail?prodid=269122&previousURI=/CVSApp/cvs/gateway/search?page=3^Query=curling^ActiveCat=65^startLink=1

and use lots of gel and hairspray.


hope this helped

♥ kayla

Q: ok i want to know how i can get taller because i think that im kinda short for my age
Well I dont really think that there is a certain way to get taller for sure. But you could try to drink more milk. You could stay away from coffee because it stunts your growth. Try to stay healthy. And you might still grow. My Friend was in 9th grade and she wasnt even 5 feet. But she grew and now she is the same height as most people. I mean everybody grows at diffrent rates. Dont worry about it you will most likely get taller it just takes longer for you then some other people. it is completly normal.

hope this helped

♥ kayla

Q: Ok. I think my boyfriend is lying to me. First he told me he would be back from his dads Friday. It'd Wednesday and he still isn't here. I miss him like crazy. I talked to my best friend who is his ex. She told me that when me and my boyfriend talk on IM he sends her our conversations. I asked him about it and he said he would never do that to me. But a while ago he told me he was gonna move in like 2 years. Now I'm hearing he's gonna move whenever his mom just feels like getting up and going. He said he really doesn't know when he's gonna move. I love him. What do I do? Trust a guy who could be a bad boyfriend or dump the love of my life?
Well maybe something happend thats why he isnt home from his dads house. You could try to call him and ask him what is going on and why he isnt home yet like he said he was going to be.

The IM conversations it might be that his ex might still have feelings for him and might be trying to break you up. Or he might just be lying. Next time you talk to his ex girlfriend say did he even send you the part about "make something up that you didnt talk about" and if she says yes you will know that she is lying.

If you figure that out then i think you can decide on wether you want to dump him or not. He might not be the love of your life. It might feel like it now but you may find someone better who you love more. I know that seems impossible to you to hear now. But it is possible.

And if you want to trust him its up to you and i mean i would go with your gut feeling if you think that he is lying and not being truthful you could tell him be like i dont think you are being truthful with me and i dont think i want to be with someone who isnt being truthful. And you could just try and talk to him about the way you feel and tell him that his ex told you that he sends your conversations to her. im sure you will figure it out.
Good Luck!

hope this helped

♥ kayla

Q: yesterday i went for about a mile long run and 3/4 of the way through, i started feeling a really bad pain in my lower stomach. the pain felt REALLY similar to the cramp pains i get when i have my period. it also felt like i had to go to the bathroom. so i ran home quickly, came home and went to the bathroom and i couldn't even get up for 10 minutes because the cramps hurt so bad. i ran again today and it happened again, only not AS bad, but it still hurt. usually when i go running, i take water with me. these two times i didn't. could this be the cause, or do you think it's something else?
I would suggest that next time you go running take water and see if it happens again and if it does you should try and see a doctor. It could be your appendix, or you could be getting your period, or you could have pulled a muscle running and then you stress it when you run. You could always try laying off the running for about a week or maybe two and then you could go back to it.

hope this helped

♥ kayla

Q: This boy & I fight a lot, over the dumbest things. Like I'll jokingly say something slightly rude, and he'll take it so so so personally and not talk to me for a week. We are extremely close, and getting in these small fights about every week stresses me out badly. Is there any tips you can give me on how to avoid these fights? (And he jokes too, I just don't take it as bad as he does)
You should try to talk to him about it and tell him that you hate fighting with him over these stupid little things and that you dont want him to take every thing so personally. And that you are only joking with him about some things that you say and you should let him know that because he might think that you mean it seriously and it might hurt him because you too are so close. He might just be more sensitive about these things than you are So you should try to talk to him about it and tell him that your not being rude and your only kidding with him. You could always try to be less jokingly kinda rude to him because he might take it the wrong way. You could always after you say something that might seem kind of rude and your just joking you could say you know im only kidding *name* you know i lovee you!. that would most likley make him feel bad. and you could tell him that when you two fight it really stresses you out and you just dont want to fight anymore.. i know what you mean about fighting with a guy over stupid things and then having it be stressful. If you have anymore questions ask me :)

hope this helped
♥ kayla


Q: Tomorrow is my first day of school and i want you advice on how i can get "big curls".

thankss
XO000
well you could try using a thick curling iron.. which would create big curls or you could try using normal curlers. Braiding your hair and sleeping on it also creates curls but that might not exactly be what you want because sometimes it can turn out weird looking..

hope this helped
♥ kayla

Q: I use Cover Girl TruBlendliquid foundation which works really good, but it doesn't last long. Half way through school, I look in the mirror and it's all un-even and splotchy looking. I also get very oily on my forehead, nose, and around my nose. I don't think I have an even skin tone either. So does anybody know a toner that will help my skin even out? And what is a long-lasting makeup that will last atleast 7 hours while I'm at school?
well im not sure about the skin toner thing. but im almost sure that if you dont use like self tanner or anything your skin will be all the same color. and if you dont use anything like that then you could always get some lotion that will kind of make you more tan but its not self tanner. Like I think dove has one out its like regular lotion but it says touch of sun or something like that. Im not exactly sure about it but my friend used it and said it worked..

if you dont know what lotion im talking about

http://www.cvs.com/CVSApp/cvs/gateway/detail?prodid=304249&previousURI=/CVSApp/cvs/gateway/search?page=3^Query=lotion^ActiveCat=65^startLink=1


http://www.amazon.com/Dove-Shimmering-Lotion-Brighteners-Bottles/dp/B000E0DUKI/sr=1-15/qid=1157590927/ref=sr_1_15/104-6461119-3220708?ie=UTF8&s=hpc


http://www.amazon.com/Banana-Boat-Moisturizer-7-5-Ounce-Tubes/dp/B000FTT3FY/sr=1-328/qid=1157590673/ref=sr_1_328/104-6461119-3220708?ie=UTF8&s=hpc


im not sure about the last one but the first two im sure of the first one like 100% and the second one too.


and a really good foundation is the origins one. It is like 40 dollars but it is worth it.. it works really good and stays on long. well unless you like rub your face alot or sweat alot then no matter what it will come off eventually... but the origins one is really good.

heres the website for it so you know which one is really good.

http://www.origins.com/templates/products/sp_shaded.tmpl?CATEGORY_ID=CATEGORY5723&PRODUCT_ID=PROD110

they have lots of colors too. to blend with diffrent skin tones.

hope this helped.

♥ kayla

Q: Okay,This isnt about me.

My friend likes this guy and he likes her too (he is 3 years older than her too) and she thinks he is using her and i think she should give him a chance but he told other girls he doesnt want to get in a serious relationship so what should she do?
Well i think that your friend maybe should talk to this guy about if he wants to be in a relationship and that she has heard from other people that he didnt want to be in one. And she should maybe ask him if he really does like her or if he is just using her.. Or You could always act like you got into a fight with her and you could talk to him and say something bad about her and then be like yeah do you even like her or are you just using her.. You know what i mean? just to find out the truth that he might not tell her..

hope this helped
♥ kayla

Q: Like what would happen if i overdosed on pills . like on purpose.. wha would actually happen to me ? Like would i die right away , would i pass out , be weak get sick .. ? what ? k thanks =]
you would start to feel strange and then you would pass out and then you would most likely die and if someone found you then you would get your stomach pumped. And they would most likely send you to see a theropist.

hope this helped

♥ kayla

Q: A phone is an important electronics in many lives. So when you have a phone, you want a good fun phone if you can aford it.
Who has a razr?

If you do, answer the below of you can! Thanks a ton.

1. When you talk on the razr, does it feel weird? Maybe a smaller phone will be more comfortable for my small hands?
2. Does the color peel off? Heard it does if you don't have a colored razr.
3. The cover thing (the flippy thing) does it break off easily?
4. Whould you recomend this for an average 14/F (No one is normal though)
5. What are the prices? (I have T-mobile)

THANKS SO MUCH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Adios
1- When I talk on my phone it does not feel weird. and i have small hands as well. so i dont think it would be too akward. maybe a little strange feeling at first but you will most likely get used to it.

2- Well i had a pink rarz phone and the color never peeled off. and my mother had a just plain silver razr phone like the first ones that came out and the paint on that has not peeled off.

3- the cover thing does not break off easily well unless you try to snap it off then it will obviously break like any other flip phone. Mine has gone through major damage and the flippy thing is not loose at all. unlike my other flip phone that i had before that.

4- I would recomend it to any one who is 13 or older. because someone younger doesnt really need a cell phone or at least not a razr phone.

5- the prices can range to 50 dollars to maybe about 150 dollars. i am not sure because i have cingular. it would depend on wether or not you already had a cell phone and just wanted a new one (in that case it would be more expensive) or if you wanted a brand new phone with a brand new plan and all it would probally be less money...

hope this helped

♥ kayla

Q: i am 13 and i pretty much have alota zits, but only on my forhead. i wash my face 2 time every day AND use acne medication. its working well, but i really want something to get rid of them FAST or some kinda cover-up that will hide them reallly good. any suggestions?
if you can get some kind of sea salt spray it basically gets rid of pimples over night. Im not so sure if this would work for you but you could always try. It wouldnt hurt.

hope i helped..
♥ kayla

Q: What is a budgie? I`ve seen like 5 questions on here asking about them!
a budgie is a birdd..

http://www.tjorvar.is/assets/images/budgie.jpg

http://www.zille.com/gates/images/collage.jpg

http://www.fluffies.org/budgie-9.jpg

http://www.parrotsociety.org.au/articles/images/budgie.jpg

hopee this answers your questionn..

Q: Hi, I'm looking to buy a mp3 player. I want one that is at least 1gb. Which mp3 players get the most bang for your buck? I'm on a tight budget, but I still want one that is good quality. thanks.
well the ipod shuffle is 99 dollars.. it is 1gb and holds 240 songs..
ipods are good quality..

if you are willing to pay more the ipod nano is 149 dollars.. and it has 1gb and holds 240 songs..

also SanDisk has ones that are inbetween the price of about 60 dollars to over 100 dollars..

if you go to a circut city they have mp3 players too..

hopee i helpedd


Q: my friend invited me to go to this lake w/ her and her friends next weekend and i thought it was okay at first, but then she started telling me more about it. she said that the lake is her friends grandparents and hes the one who wants everyone to go. hes 19 tho and im 15 and i just think its sorta weird u kno? my friend is 15 too but if we both go there will be 6 people there 3 girls and 3 guys. the rooms are seperate so it shouldnt be too awkward bu i have a bad feeling about it. last night my friend invited me to the movies to go w/ him and her and i said no she was like " he'll meet your parents if you want him to he said hed give you a ride" but im here thinking why does he want to meet my parents, he hasnt even met me! then i was on the phone with my friend last night and i was telling her about it and she was like dude!!! he likes you! b/c 2 of our friends told her he did and he had one of them as his number 1 on myspace i asked my friend why and she said its b/c he liked our other friend and he did the same thing to her and apparently he dates alot of young girls. i just think its really freaky, what do i do? should i go next weekend or not, and why does this dude like me, i dont think its just like a lie because i was talking to the girl who initially ivited me online and she was like ya he said hed pick you up i think he likes you and later was when my friend said he did. i dunno am i over reacting??? please help!!!!! (sorry this is sooooo long!)
i dont think your over reacting..
i mean he is 19.. and you are only 15..
and it sounds to me that he does like you and this is not a lie or anything..

i think you should go to the lake with your friend and maybe just see what happens.. and if the guy tries anything be like why do you like me? i dont even really know you..

but if you dont want to go.. dont go.. your friend will understand if you tell her the reason why you dont want to go..

if you do find out for sure that he does like you.. (which you kinda already have) you could try and talk to him and be like well i dont really want to date anyone right now (well that is if you dont want to date him) and say to him i think it would be cool if we could be friends.. or something like that..

hopee i helpedd... goodluckk


Q: Hey,
What are some good 14/15 year old girl movies that is pg-13, pg, or g??
here are some movies that are popular.. and are rated pg-13, pg, or g

napolean dynamite
elf
bring it on
bring it on again
scary movie 3
the princess bride
save the last dance
the breakfast club
both tomb raider movies
Mr. and Mrs. Smith
The Notebook
cheaper by the dozen
the perfect man
Pirates of the Caribbean
50 First Dates
Mean Girls
The Stepford Wives
Flightplan
Charlie and the Chocolate Factory
Ice Age (the first one)
The School of Rock
Miss Congeniality 1 and 2
Guess Who
The Forgotten
How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days
Meet the Fockers
Monster-in-Law
The Ring
The Grudge
Boogeyman
Radio

hope i helpedd


Q: Hey i was just wondering if anyone knew of a good example of a halfhead and a fullhead of highlights...i cannot seem to find a website or picture that really shows the two styles.
-THANKS A BUNCH =)
http://www.hairbychristine.com

http://www.elitegrouphair.com/script/gallery.asp

http://www.fotosearch.com/photos-images/highlighted-hair.html

http://beauty.about.com/od/hairstylephotos/ss/haircol_4.htm

http://www.prohairdesigner.com/photo_gallery_highlight_and_color.htm


nott much.. but hope it helpedd somewhatt..


Q: 14/f i play music (sing & play guitar/piano) and lots of it i would call country music. most kids hate country music, i know! but i love it. i really want to have a carreer in music but i don't want all my friends and people i know to be hating the type of music i play. should i just go for it or should i change my style a little, more pop or rock or something? please tell me your thoughts on any of this. thank you! i rate
well first of all im 15 and i loveee country music.. but that has nothing to do with your question.. so on with the question part.. i dont think you should do diffrent music just because your friends dont like it. i mean plenty of people like country.. i would not change your style because your probally most *comfterable* (spelling) with country music.. so just stick to it..


hopee i helped


Q: what is the minimum time i need to wear my retainer? i've had my braces off for a few months. my retainer is so uncomfortable :( is a couple of hours a day good enough?
well when i got my braces off they told me to wear it all the time for like a few months or so.. and then after that they told me i only had to wear it when i slept. so if you wear it when you sleep you should be fine..... and probally wont have to wear it any other timee

hope i helpedd


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