Hi everyone I'm Sean. im 14, very athletic and all of my friends come to me for advice so it gave me the idea of coming here to help everyone I can out. if you need me outside of advicenators you can look up my facebook: sean hoel or send me an AIM...but only if u neeed it cuz i dont want any spam lol.
Gender: Male
Location: St. Louis MO
Occupation: student attending school
Age: 14
AIM: metrostika26
Member Since: December 26, 2005
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Alright, so I have this friend. Let's call her Diana. Whenever I tell Diana something that I am excited about she just brings me down. She'll tell me "Oh my god, no one cares" or "Does it really seem like I care?", stuff like that. Sometimes she will even hurt me physically also. She always flirts with all of the guys I used to like or even my boyfriend. Diana is very beautiful and she knows it. All of the guys adore here and such. Sometimes she can hurt my feelings so bad that I just want to cry. I really am not trying to be mean about this but how can I help get our friendship back on track? Sometimes when I tell her things I feel like she's jelous. Am I the one doing something wrong? Please help me, this is making me go through a lot of pain! Signed, Best Friend is hurting Me (link)
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well i can name a 5 letter word taht would describe her. but that wouldnt help. i would tell her what shes doing and the effect it has on you and tell yur bf to tell her to stop flirting with him cuz hes not single or somethin like that. hope i helped.
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14/f okay well i was invited to my friends for new years with 5 other girls (plus her/the host). then my boyfriend invited me to his house for new years. i said that i already have plans with my other friend. and they both refuse to have a party together. i havent spent a whole lot of time with him since school, ive only seen him twice and i really want to see him. but i already made plans with my other friend. hes gotten mad that i havent seen him in a while and says i wont see him again til school. i try to make plans with him but when hes free im not and when im free hes not. 2 of the 6 girls that were invited to my friends house are going to my boyfriends house and another girl might be going to a completly different party. so that leave the 4 of us again. ive been hanging out with the 3 girls alot lately and i always have fun with them. i really want to spend time with my boyfriend for the new year but i know that ill have more fun with the girls. he (and my parents) are kinda mad and dissapointed that im not going to his house. what do i do about the situation. (link)
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well depending on the times of the parties cant u make both of them for a lil bit?
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My last relationship didn't end well. My ex broke my heart and it was just horrible. Since then, I haven't had a boyfriend because I never let my feelings show and push any potential relationship away. I'm so scared of falling for someone and having them not catch me. A certain boy has come along and he's very interested in me. He says it's not fair I compare him to my ex and assume he's going to hurt me too. I can't help it though and I'm scared I'm going to push away this great guy, who I actually like. How do I let go of this fear and take a chance? (link)
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I understand how you feel. There are 2 different kinds of people theres the good people who stand by your side and are people to live laugh and love with and there are bad people who can be complete assholes. i think giving yourself time till you meet someone that diserves you hence one of the few good people. but like i said time will let your fear of pain go then when you feal very comfortable around a guy hopefully good things will happen. But then theres reality. a relationship will eventually come to an end and ive had to face that reality more than once. but you also got to look at it this way.all the time of happiness you would have would outweigh the short time of sadness you would have.
i hope i helped
SxExAxNx
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okay all my friends always say knock on wood or i guess im going to have to knock on wood. and i never know quite what they mean. so could someone tell me what it means??
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Alls it means is like a thing you say after your overconfident or cocky meaning if you say im gonna hit that jackpot or i hope i get the jackpot you would say knock on wood as of acting to not jinx yourself.
lol thats kinda hard to understand but o well i tried.
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Do you think 13 is too young to get felt up? thanks (link)
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yo u still havnt told me your sn for this meanie.....lol anyway its around 1 30 and im bak on and yur signed off.
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ok, i'm turning 16 soon, and my parents said that i could get whatever car i wanted as long as it was under $40,000 and met the following criteria: it had to be Japanese/European(they don't like American cars), it had to be reliable, and it had to be safe. i was wondering if i could get some suggestions on what to ask for (link)
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I would get a beautiful red ford fiesta....jk
i would get a subaru impreza or a mercedes S,C,or E class.
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this is what happened..
an hour and 10 minutes ago my phone rang and my caller ID said it was my boyfriend so i was all excited and im like 'hayy' and my 'friend' answers so im like what? She goes 'hey its ***** im at the mall with *my boyfriends name* ahahhaahahhaha ok bye' im like what the hell that was really mean and i start hysterically crying.
so i call my boyfriends phone and she answers nd im crying nd im like 'can i talk to *my boyfriends name*' and shes like 'why are you pist' nd im like 'because you call me and your like 'oh yea were at the mall and im with *my boyfriends name* and your not haha'
Im like 'can you put him on please' shes like no why are you pist' im like 'can you put him on please' nd shes like no nd im like can you just put him on! and she goes YOUR A BITCH and hangs up!!
so now im crying 10x harder
I call one of my good friends for support and when she answers i hear their voices in the backround talking about it so im like OMG SHES WITH THEM! I say 'are you at the mall' nd shes like 'yea why are you mad at *friends name*' nd im like 'is *my boyfriends name* there' shes like yea nd im like can i talk to him shes like r u crying? im like yea and then she screams '*my boyfriends name* YOUR GIRLFRIEND IS CRYING COME HERE NOW AND TALK TO HER!!"
I hear "*my friends' name* screaming NO NO NO DONT TALK TO THAT BITCH and MY BOYFRIEND IS LAUGHING!!!!! and she hangs up on me like taking the phone from him. so now im crying 10x than before
I call him nd hes like 'why is *'my friends' name* so pist at u' nd im like 'howcome when i ask to talk to my boyfriend i get called a bitch' and hes like 'i dont know because your being..nevermind im not gonna say it *our friends name* you say it' and hands the phone to our friend.
So then our friend says "why are you mad at *'my friends' name* nd i told him nd hes like ohh or whatever and my boyfriend gets back on the phone nd im like 'you know what go go be with them because i dont give a shit. go have fun'
He goes 'no' nd im like YES **** BECAUSE I DONT CARE AND NEITHER DO YOU SO HAVE FUN' nd he goes 'sorry bye' nd i hang up! that makes me 305894085940865 times worse because he doesnt even care
i was crying for so long. this is soo horrible! what should i do? and he always says to me 'what are you doing later/tomorrow want to hang out?' and im always like 'yeah' but we never wind up doing anything and now he goes to the mall with my best friends and he doesnt invite me, neither do me so called 'bffs'. im so effing upset right now. any advice? anything at all. oh and if you dont have anything nice to say dont say anything at all'
thanks for reading all of this. xo byee
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their either really mean bastard pranksters or your bf is just an asshole who likes making people feal pain. sorry for being blunt but this isnt your fault at all. good luck finding a new, better, more caring, stick by your side kinda bf cuz theirs only a few of them out there.
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Ok, i recently posted a "get advice" thing because my sister hates me, and wanted to know what to do about it. So i started to talk to my friend, Mel who is REALLY good with advice, and i went on and on on how horrible my life was and she said:
her: NO
her: don't even start on that "my whole life" shit
her: okay!
her: You life has sucked i guess
her: I mean, duh, you've had a family, and money, and you get anything you want. You have both parents who love you
her: My dad died on christmas eve, my family has NO money, my mom is depressed
her: my older brother won't move out
her: don't even start saying that your whole life has sucked
her: because you have NO CLUE what a sucky life is like!
and then she signed off. Now her away messages says "Yeah, pretty pissed right now. Don't feel like talking. Be back on later." and i totally can relate, but i just REALLY hope i dont lose her friendship. Like, she's really the only person who understands me, and has been there for me. I really dont want to lose her. And i thought since we were such good friends i could just sorta cry on her shoulder, when it turns out she was the one who wanted to cry i guess. What do i do? i called her house, but her brother said she was sleeping, although i really dont think she was. What i want to know is, 1. how do i know she'll still be my friend, and 2. what do i do when i need to get this off my chest? cause i obviously need someone to talk to :(
Thanx,
-Daddy's Little Defect (link)
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i think you need to apologize for offending her and tell her that you understand and how you wish this wouldnt hurt your friendship and say you just had a bad day. If she doesnt except your apology then thats her loss of a good friend. sorry if i didnt help but i hope i did.
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Does anone know any songs about cutting yourself.... im going threw soome hard times right know(i dont cut)but i think if i here songs about cutting i wont do it
Thanks! (link)
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ohio is for lovers-hawthorne heights
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well there is a problem as you know or i wouldnt be here. I was talking with my gf and then i came to this website and red what she said about me. she obviously likes her ex too but she doesnt know who to pick. i love her and i would do anything for her but she doesnt see that in me. she said that it seams like i dont care and shes nothin special to me but ahh.... it just makes me sad. i really dont want to break up with her please help. p.s. i am a 14 yr old MALE (link)
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nope her name isnt sara and were the hell did that come from
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ok well im 13.. and there's this guy i think i love.. but i dont wanna love him cause i dont wanna get hurt..im not sure who he is anymore thoiugh.. but like when i first met him.. i knew he was special.. i could just tell.. and like all my problems, worries, and cares just go away everytime he holds me in his arms.. the only problem is.. he doesnt love me back.. well i dont know if he does..because we went out for like 2 days and he said he really just wanted to be friends.. but he told my friend he loved me and his cousin told me he was thinking about asking me out later on this year.. but im really not sure how he feels towards me.. and i feel cheated .. because i opened up to him and let him know how i felt and what my feelings were towards him and i know i was making a mistake but i couldnt take it so i made it clear to him that i loved him.. and he knows i love him..and so much between us has happened.. i dont know what to do anymore
please help me!! i'll give u all 5's
your advice is GREATLY appreciated!! thanx (link)
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wow that sounds familiar ik exactly wut u mean. i think you should go up to him and ask him how he feels about you but you gotta be alone with him. if you love him tell him that you would risk alot to be with him and if hes to chicken to ask you out, you ask him out. o and when you read this could you write some advice for me its under the subject MY GF cuz i think a girl could give better advice on it then a guy. i need help with that situation too but anyways good luck to you and i hope everything works out.
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okay well im 14 and my boyfriend is 16. we've messed around and stuff but we havent had sex. the other night he told me that his step mom was talking to him and said that he should be careful because my parents could say that he has been doing stuff to me and he could get in big trouble. is that true? i thought the only law was anyone 18 cant do anything sexual with anyone under 18. i dont want to get him introuble so i want to know if what his mom said was true. i rate 5's (link)
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yur 14 yur still a minor slow down a bit u got a whole life ahead of you and at the rate yur goin thats only gonna be 30 more years. you shouldnt defile yourself just to stay with yur bf. as to the law no you wouldnt be breaking any laws. you might get disowned from yur parents tho. so u gotta pik yur life or yur bf
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what are some really good classic hits that everyone knows but never knows who sings them?
ex: Super Freak. who sings that?
those are the type of songs im looking for. please and thank you!
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there is "If i ruled the world" by tony bennet
"boulevard of broken dreams" also by tony bennet
and alotta sinatra and other peeps like that
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My height is really starting to get me really angry, for a girl, i guess i am actually TOO tall. Im 15 and im around 5'10'' and every single day someone just has to say something about it and it is really just making me angry the comments and the slurs and juswt everything and its so complicated, its not something small because its not something i can change, people always make fun of me and whenever im with any of my friends i feel so left out because when we take pictures when we have to stand up together i just feel like a giant cuz the rest of them are normal and everyone always makes fun of me. Its upsetting me so badly. Im always known as the tall girl and i just feel so left out I cant handle it because everyone ALWAYS says stuff and i cant ignore it and every time someone does it builds up inside of me. I just want to feel normal. I cant get into modeling etc..so what should i do to make myself feel better about myself? and i dont have any tall friends to hang out with to make myself feel..more fit in. Any suggestions on what to do? (link)
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well i get made fun of for being short cuz im 14 and im 5 3. i just let it go and not really care about it. if they see it doesnt affect u then they will stop
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Okay, well let me first describe the boy I think I like. Lets call him Z. Alright, well Z is a really nice and all around cool kid! But, he likes me and evrything, it's just he also thinks other girls are also hot. He has gone out with other girls and when he was going out with them, he would call me sexy and stuff, so when he was going out with other girls, he was also flirting with other girls too. He's nice to me and I go a lot of places with him. I'm not even sure if I really like Z a whole lot.
Well my question is, should I go out with him? Or do you think he would flirt with other girls, too?
sorry if its long = )!
thank you. (link)
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First off i know exactly how you feel. The same thing has happened to me before and is happening to my friend but she wont listen to me.... anyway thats besides the point.
If this guy is off flirting with other girls too just as much as you he probobly is thinking "im a stud im gonna go flirt i dont care who with" im saying if u went out with him then he wouldnt be very faithful to you...im talkin out of experience. he might cheat on you or he might dump you when u need him most. My advice is to not go out with him unless your okay with being hurt.
HOPE IT HELPS. best of luck to yah
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