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how do i get my mom to let me wear a padded bra? like a push up one? (link)
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Tell her y u want one. Ask her how she felt about things like this at ur age.
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What do u think about a 14 yr old girl getting breast implants cause im like flat and all my friends are big. It makes me uncomfortable and i think they arent gunna grow cause my mom only has a's and so does all the girls on my dads side
What do i do?
~flatty~ (link)
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Well I think you need to no the consequences and what risks there are with the surgery. You also need to read about it and understand what u r doing is a big step. Its your decision. You also need to get permisssion from your parents. Also remember that ppl will talk about u if they find out. But do what is emotionally best for u.
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I'm afraid to kiss my boyfriend..everytime he wants to i back away. I knows it getting on his nerves..HELP (link)
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If u really love him kiss him. B ut do it for u not for him. Show urself u can face ur fears! aND IF U DONT LIKE IT THEN DONT DO IT AGAIN. Sry bout caps. Ne way good luck!
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my hubby's bday is on friday.. (he's my bf of 2 years but i call him my hubby n he calls me his wifey) n e ways.. he noes ma family is having sum problems now.. but i still need to get him a present.. i need sum ideas on wat to get him.. but i wanna get him sumthin cute but not expensive.. i dont noe wat to get! i already got him a card and i rote him a letter on how great he makes me feel and how happy i am im with him.. plez help!
angita (link)
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Well if u can tell me what state u live in I can recomend sum great jewelry stores that sell inexpensive but really nice mens jewelry
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i think that im kind of annoying to my friends. i always want to do something different, and sometimes i bug them too much about something. its the way i am, and sometimes its hard 4 me to be different. i have alot of friends, because my nature is 2 be nice, but if i know some1 for a long time i tend to get like this. what should i do? (link)
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jUST be who u r! Don't try to be different. unless ur friend has told u, u r probly not annoyin them. If they have nown u for a while, it probly dusnt bug them when ur like that. Hope I helped
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ok so i liked this guy but i never really met him but i heard through some people that he liked me back...that was last year and now i dont want to like him n e more and i dont but i cant stop thinking about him...what is causing this? and how can i make it stop? (link)
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I go thru this w/ every guy I like. It just takes time to get over sumone, eventually ull stop thinking about him and wont remember y u ever liked him
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i need to listen to some new bands... i love the ones i listen to,so i'd like something like them (the strokes, weezer, von bondies, and coldplay)
not rap (spare me), or hip-hop or anything. just rock... and i usually end up liking the bands that aren't very well known...
hear of some?
if so... let me know. (link)
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I'm really into dashboard confessional, Brand new, taking back sunday, Less then Jake, My friend and cuz really like Vroom(really hard to find their music but its awsome!) and I like Story of the year. Something Corporate's good too. You have prbly listened to alot of them but their really good. I know a bunch of others that i cant think of their names but I will go look and edit this answer! Okay Im back. definatly The get up Kids! They r really awsome! Also if u go to rock concerts listen to the openning acts, there always best!
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i know u took ur tyme to read my question n gave me information that u thought wood help but my best friend... one of a kind doesnt like hearing my problemz or solving them cuz itz not lyk i call her n start crying itz b4 i go to bed. if cried to her mayb then shed feel sry but i dont cry on command. shez one uf them ppl that u have fun with n laugh alot together but unless u cry shez not gunna give a crap bout my problemz. thank you by the waii. lol. plz c if u can still help me even though ive got no shoulder to cry on right now... i might sound okay but itz just on the outside... b4 when i asked that question i wuz readii 2 crii but i let it out n askd 4 sum help n it made me feel better. (link)
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I know what its like. B4 I talked to my best friend I talked to another friend who was the same way. I started to really handle things the wrong way. I tried cutting myself and it certainly dint help. U just need to find neone who will listen to ur problems and can undertsand. Just try telling sumone how u feel and whats happened. It can be neone, a family member, a random friend, a teacher, heck ill even listen! U just really need to talk to sumone! holding it in dusnt help. Do u have a pet? Talk to them! I know it sounds stupid but all u really need is sum 1 to listen. Tell me if I helped! If u need anymore just ask
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Ok my lifes not terrible or anything like that, but ugghh. Things can be so fricken tough. I have a good family, we're all together and nothings bad in that department. Im even really strong in my faith, but geese life can get to be so damn miserable. Just last year my cousin moved into the same town as me. Yep, same school, same grade, same frigen everything. And shes taking over as popular queen. Shes a little bitch that gets everything and has to be so girly and wear pink and be perfect. My opinion is shes damn ugly but whatever. Shes went out with every frigen guy in the grade and shes not done. Shes never satisfied. People actually tell me omg how can you be related to her. I dont even know... my response is gee idk how i got related to a mix of godzilla and the devil himself. To add onto the jumble my aunt (her mom) is always up my butt about us having a good relationship and crap like that. HOW CAN I HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH HER? I've tried time and again. I even started hanging around her crowd but they all hated me and couldnt wait to get rid of me and they would even tell her that nobody in their group really liked me. Total assholes. But the best part about her popular crowd is they all talk about eachother. So im done trying to have a relationship with her, she never showed up at my friend or family party when it was my birthday so she basically doesnt give a shit about me. Oh yes dont forget the lovely story about when my aunt came to my house on my birthday and started screaming at my mom and telling her how rude i was to my cousin(her daughter) and to everyone else and that i was a bad person and this and that, god it was miserable. I actually have an awsome crowd of friends and a wonderful best friend, and im always being told im prettier than my cousin and stuff, so im not jealous of her or anything. Shes gotten me in trouble from my parents so many times this year but my mom finally feels bad and has just realized who the girl really is. So all that being grounded for nothing. Anyway..she hates me. She always has. And my annoying aunt is always in my face and telling me to be like her daughter. The best part is that shes got two more daughters, one is my sisters age, so my sister goes through the same hell as me. Well anyway that cousin is the schools whore, biggest druggy in the world, and always lies to her mother about whos shes with. So thats damn screwed up if you know what i mean. And whenever we tell my aunt she doesnt really click with it. She just goes I trust her more than anyone in the world, when really she just loves lying to herself, why, well put it this way, its beyond my worldly knowledge. Then the youngest is going into 4th grade and boy is she a fun one. My mom always has to babysit her and shes the biggest brat on the planet. Shes nasty to our grandmother, screams cries and whines when she doesnt get what she wants, she makes fun of me (or tries to), and she never takes blame for shit. And boy do i hate her! Shes always going through my stuff and chasing me around and trying to do what I do. And yes i live in the same town as them. My relationship will never be the same with my aunt because I will and can never forgive her for what she's done to me. Its left a scar on me forever. Im sorry but what else is there to say. I was here way before my cousins were and now theyre always around me and telling on me and the one in my grade spreads rumors and makes different people hate me in my grade. And here I am, about to conquer another year of it. I used to love it where I lived. But now Im just scraping by. I want to get far away. Or live somewhere else. And I sure as hell cant wait to get off to college. I hate my school, my town, the community, I just want to be somewhere else. I love life, but not where I live. What the hell do I do before I go mad? These people are ruining my LIFE (link)
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I can totally relate to this! It's like my life except the girl isn't my cuz, shes my old best friend. I completly understand what you meen! I used to love where I lived and now I hate it. The truth is, ppl r afraid of ur cuzin. I no thats the story w/ the girl i no. Ppl r only nice to her cuz she can make neone with a social standing hate u. But in the long run, everyone is going to start to realize what a biatch she is. You just need to look forward to that day. Also, stand up to her! Next time she spreads a rumor about u or neone else u need to walk right up to her and say "You no thats a lie. Its a lie to yourself and eveyone else. So y do u do it? Y do u make up so many friggin comments about ppl? Is it bcuz thats the only way u can make friends?" U need to tell her how u feel without stooping down to her level. Also talk to ur friends about how u feel. It always feels good to tell sumone u no and love about this stuff. But the worst thing u can do is runn away from her and ur town. That wud just give her sumthing to talk about. I know it sucks but really stick up for urself! Good luck!
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ever since summer started its been problem after problem. i guess its keeping me busy n itz better happening now the during school. but i dk. i break down at night n crym y self 2 sleep its getting bad but im the kinda person that can deal with alot happening but i dont like it. i dont know i think im really confused about wut to do n i need help. (link)
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It sounds alot like how the beginning of the school year was for me. I talked to my best friend about it and she really helped. At first I was hesitant to because I knew she had her own problems but it ended up working out well. We both told eachother how we felt and we really started understand eachother more. Maybe all you need is a shoulder to cry on. Also, find a new hobby or talent that you can work at and can keep you busy. Hope I helped and hope you feel better.!
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okay, i kno how to get songs n stuff, but here's the delio
okay, i want to put a certain song in my column... This Kiss by Faith Hiss
i went to IWEB music, they don't have it, and i went to that one site that started of wit Xanga, and they don't have it either
does ne1 kno where i can get that song for my column, and if there's a certain code i have to paste tell me the code, but if it's like iweb, and they give u the code then thats way better
Thanks, i rate!!!!! (link)
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Try going to www.lyrics.com when u get there look up the song or faith hill
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Ok my bestest friend iz havin boy trouble n i try n talk to her n tell her i kno how it feels cuz i have been through the same things but she iz alwayz like u dont kno how i feel!!! Dont u think if i've been through worse crap then she has then i do kno how she feels?????
confuzed (link)
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Your friend is prbly just really sick of this way. I know you wanna help but maybe you should stop talking about it with her. Also try not to talk about boys around her. Maybe boys like you better then her and shes jealous of that.
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how am i able to but a favorite columnists?
im having a bit of trouble!
angita (link)
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You go to the collumnist's advice page and click on make favorite collumnist. From there it tells you what to do
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Hey! Dis might sound realli dumb, but i wanna know how can i get a bigger but by not workin out or takin any pills..Lyke what kinda stuff do i have to eat.xox
From, Curious Stranger.
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Well the best thing to do is butt stretches. No offense but u can't really get a big butt by eating unless you want a big stomach. Try doing butt stretches! But most ppl r born w/ big butts.
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I started going out with this guy in Feburary 10th, broke up on April 5th the reason was I liked someone else which I didnt then I found out he went out with this other girl after a month he broke up with her because she kissed some other guy and he asked me out 2 days after he dumped her its been a month n 3 weeks. One day he had a girl over at his house "just friends" he said that she was their bc she was waiting for a ride, then my bfs friend got their we all hung out then he left n she went w him, when she was suppose to be waiting for her ride then another day we were in his room n hes like are you a virgan n I said "yes" then I asked him he said "no I just did it w one girl her name was christina" wat bf tells his gf the girl of the girl he fucked? Last my friend called me one day n we were talkin then she told me my bf and his 2 friends were their n my friends friend was also their n my bf was saying " i love you dont leave me I love you" to my friends friend then I called him to ask wat that was about n he said he was "fooling" around but I dont see why his friends werent doing that too n later he told me "shes was just my friend on the first day i got to school" which I dont think is true then he got upset because I was accusing him of who he loved n he said "I dont care if you belive me or not belive ur friend n not me" So am I like totally OVER-REACTING or WHAT SHOULD I DO? someone pelase help me I dont wanna be w the wrong person n not know it n the other thing is If I do break up with him I dont wanna REGRET it. Like the last time thank you... (link)
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You should dump him. He was acting fishy and you talked to him and he snapped. If you can't talk about things like that then it's not going to work out between you two, besides he shouldn't be "joking around" with girls saying loves them, especially if he's dating you! So I say dump him, hes not worth your time. Hope I helped and hope everything works out!
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mii boiifriend is turning 13 and i met him on 4th of july and his birthdaii is on july 26th... ((but)) i have no ideal what to get him.. i dont really kno what he wants cuz everytime i as he says he wants me for his birthdaii... ((*aww*)) soo does aniione have anii really good ideals... i'LL rate you!
lOvE aLwAii'z,
xAmiiEx (link)
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You should get him movie tickets and go to the movies w/ him. That way he gets you and a present!
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Ok well latly i have been living with my aunt lissa ( we'll call her that ) but me n' her never get along so i moved in with my aunt barbara.. I love'd living with her because we get along good n' shes really nice n' everything but shes always making me babysitt and i can lyk barely ever go n' do ne thing.. well i get a certain ammount of money a month ( for my aunt to raise me ) and so my aunt lissa gave that money to my aunt barbara to use it on food n' clothing for me for back 2 school- but instead i kno my aunt had to pay her house rent ( she rents a house) and i kno she used that money for it.. and shes in a really bad fincial situations n' problems, and when my aunt lissa found out that shes been " taking advantage of me n' not paying me for babysitting " she wanted me to live back here with her- i guess we get along better but i really liked living with my aunt barbara except the fact that she took the money i get n' took advantage of me babysitting.. And shes mad at me and i dont think she'll talk to me since i did tell her recently lyk a week ago b4 i had to move back to my aunt lissa's that i was happy living there.. i dont want her upset or mad at me and i wanted people's opinion's on if i did the right thing.. PleAse Help i'd appreciate it soo much n' ill rate you!
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I know u want to live with your aunt barbara, but shes usinng you anf getting mad at you for something thats not your fault. The truth is, if you want to live with her you have to stand up for your self and tell her how you feel. You also should try to work out your differences with your aunt lissa. Hope I helped!
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HeY ! well im 14 and i weigh 86pOunDz or sumfin liek that .. buh i know its around 80 is that good enuff? im scared that if its not .. then something mite happen . buh u know i eat ALOT !! i just dont gain weight .. and im reeely skinny ;) hehe .. soo yehhh heLp?
xOxox maya xOXx (link)
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As long as you know u r eating enough then you are fine. I know someone like that. She is 14 and really tall and skinny but she eats alot! But thats just the way her body is. but you know you should talk to your doctor about it.
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i like this guy so much ever since october 30th 2002 and like its been abt 2 years now .. and i dont know wut to do . i went out wif him 6times before .. buh hes wif one of my friends now . buh like were more like enemy's now . i mean im her friend and i want her to be happy buh i dont think she wants that for me cuz i cut myself and like she does too . but at least she's happy i mean i told * dan * how i feel and still . he still sayz i love paulina and shyt ! and i hate it i mean .. wow i kryed so much over him iono wut to do anymore !!
plzz help me !!
xOXo maYa xOXox (link)
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If he says he loves her then hes not worth your time. You need to move on, I know it may be hard but u have too.
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ok well i really really and i mean really like this boy.. we have like a connection and crap but he loves this other chick and it really hurts and i mean him and i flirt all the time and crap and i think i am starting to love him but i don't want to ruin anything with him and that girl cause they have a history but i really don't know what to do cause i am soo confused and like yeah idk!! and i just am soo confused and i ahh am going insane! But i def think he is better off with me cause that girl won't treat him right at all!!
sighned... HELP ME I DONT' HAVE MUCH TIME! :0 (link)
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you really need to just tell him how you feel. You have a crush! If he's worth your time he'll talk to you about it. If he isn't worth your time don't worry because there will be more guys who you like just as much. I think everyone has had a crush like this. But I say go for it and tell him how you feel, who knnows maybe he's playing hard to get!
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