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Okay every time I'm out in the mall I hear this same version of "Santa Baby". But when I look on itunes, there's like a million different versions, but not the one I keep hearing at the stores! I know that's not much help, but does anyone know who sings the one that's being played in the stores right now???

I'm not positively sure but it might be by Madonna or Kylie Minogue or Marilyn Monroe:]

I've been invited to a Christmas family gathering by my boyfriends family. It's a family affair, i.e. his whole extended family is attending. It's not a gift-giving thing, but I'm wondering whether I should buy some presents for his family, i.e. he has some really young brothers and sisters (6, 11, and 17). Would it be the done thing to buy them a present each? We've only been together 2 months. I don't want it to be weird or anything.

Thanks.

Honestly, I wouldn't bring gifts but I would bring a homemade treat for the children. Maybe s'mores or something of that sort.
Good Luck and Have Fun:]

last year i tried out for cheerleading, and i didnt make it. and i know that soon, their going to have them again. and that would just be sooo much fun for me to be a cheerleader! to get to go to practice, and miss class to go to games, and plus, it will give me more popularity, but thats not what im in it for, im in for it because i like it. well, do you think that this year, i should still try out, even though i didnt make it last year?

Of course you should! Have you ever watched the movie "A Cinderella Story?" Well if so, you would remember this; "Never Let The Fear Of Striking Out Keep You From Playing The Game." It means just because there is a chance you may not get on the cheerleading squad, always give it a try.

what are some good bands that are kinda uncommon. I know alot of bands so any ones that are known to lots of people ill probably already know and i need some new music. i like rock and stuff like that
thanks :)

Between The Trees
New Found Glory
About Last Night
Moxie Fever
AFI
underOATH
Hawthorne Heights
Nine Inch Nails
The Medic Droid
School Boy Humor
Renee Cassar
Making April
Jordyn Taylor

That's all I can think of:]

Hey im a 14/f
i have a boyfriend his name is Xavier and we just got together. and he said when we got together that if anyone asked i asked him out, even though he asked me out. and i said okay why? he said becuase he doesn't wanna lose his friends to a whore like me what do i do + me and my ex wanna get back together but i dont know how to brake up with xavier please help thanks in advance.

He called you a WHORE! He is such a jerk. Sorry but he needs to go. Simply tell him you are not a whore and you can do SOOO much better. I'm sorry hun but no girl should be deserved to be called that in any circumstance.

if im extremely out of shape is it possible for me to learn how to sing well? i get tired easily and i cant hit any notes :(

The problem simply can be because of your diaphragm. You could be breathing at wrong points. [Breathe like you are drinking from a straw] Play the song you are singing and check off the parts where there is a chance to breathe.

In many cases, the problem is the song. The song may be to high or to low. It usually depends if you are a soprano or alto.

TIPS;
*Massage around your jaw while puckering your lips. This helps your mouth become relaxed and more open.

*Do not try to imitate [e.g] Britney Spears voice. You have your own voice and depending on your age group, the sounding of your voice will be altered from others.

*Try some exercises to get you warmed up. Say things like "Momma Made Me Mash My M&M's" ; "Papa Papa Picked A Pot Of Peas" ; "So-e-o-e-o-e-o-e-YEWWW" ; or "Reach for the STAR" [star being high.]

Remember that singing is for fun not whether you're good or not.

so my mouse was dying, so i put the right kind of batteries in to get it back to normal. but then when the red light finally stayed on, the arrow wouldnt move on the screen. i've restarted the computer twice and its stayed in the same place. and the little connection thing that is for wireless keyboards and mouses is on and working fine. everything is plugged in and working fine. so why isn't my mouse working? it says its on and everything.
what do i do?!
im really sick of pressing tab for everything.

Well, I am no computer genius but I think it would be best for you to get a new mouse. They are relatively cheap and you can pick one up at wal-mart.

does anyone know any beautiful love poems with modern english, something teen couples today can understand, relate to and enjoy?

Here is a poem that I truly adore.

As Long As You're Near

The first time we met, I could see,
That you and I, were meant to be.
Your eyes were so gentle, your smile so true,
When you first held my hand, I just knew.

Now the time has gone by, through laughter and tears,
These days I shall cherish, for years upon years.
Those memories we have, shall never fade,
For those are the steps, that we have made.

That was the past, the future is near,
I anxiously wait, for what will appear.
New homes, more laughter, and children so dear,
Everything will be wonderful, as long as you're near.

- Cristy Smith -

For more poems like this, visit
http://www.lovepoemsandquotes.com/LovePoems.html

i've been seeing this hoodie,and i really liked it. doesn anyone know where i could get this hoodie?

link --

http://i19.tinypic.com/6wpdlzb.jpg

maybe this if the other link wont work?:

http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=6wpdlzb&s=1

thanks a bunch

OH! I saw one at Nordstorm that looked exactly like that but in a different color. Bring the picture there and they'll help out:]

i have like 11 pairs of jeans
but since its gotten cold i can only wear about 3 pairs,
because the rest are skinny jeans.

and the only shoes i have that look good with skinny jeans besides flip flops are my high top DCs. thats really it.

so any other ideas of what to wear?
or a style of shoe and where to buy them?

thank you thank you :D

Since the winter season is here, how about some cute boots. They go good with jeans expecially if you like to wear casual clothes. I say if you got a nice brown vest, with a white shirt underneath you can wear that with brown boots[with the jeans].

Flats are totally in so if you got some, go out there and flaunt 'em! If you like the multi colored ones, just get one to match your jacket, sweater, coat, or shirt. They are cute, affordable and almost in every store possible!

You can get cute shoes at Urban Behavior, 5.7.9, Payless, American Eagle, Abercrombie and Fitch, Old Navy, PacSun, and DEBS.

Good Luck!

Okay my family isnt your average family... I have parents, and two brothers both like decades older then my. Scotts 19 turing 20 like 2 days after christmas and Jasons 17. I know this might sound mean but Jasons my favorite because I was like 5 when Scott was like 11 were complete oppisites. So when Scott got to old to wake up like 2 hours before opening gifts to go through stockings Jason took over waking me up. Well now Jasons 17.. and I have a feeling this is the last actual Christmas I have with Jason.. like old times. But I donno if he's even planing on getting up and I might just make him! =D But that and like we watch the marathon of A Christmas Story. We watch that movie atleast 15 times a Christmas and it hasnt gotten old.
But I donno Im like crying right now so humor me. We have traditions. And it wont be any fun without Jason. He's like a Dad now (his gf had a baby NOT HIS) but Jason acts like he is =D I love Miya.
But.. I donno he got rid of the extra bed in his room so I dont know where ill sleep. He has a huge bed I can sleep in it with him which i did when I was like 10 in a single lol fun times. But im not 1 anymore and jasons an adult now, practicly.. Feb 21 and he'll be 18! And ill be younger extremely younger. (same Bday.) This is the last christmas that will be like the rest. I want it to be awsome.. but im only a kid.
Should i talk to jason about this ask whats gunna happen?? Iwant this to be a memorable Christmas. How?

Hey there, I totally understand how you feel. I've been through that so many times. [I have a big family] I think the best thing to do is to talk to Jason about your feelings and maybe work out a plan for Jason to come home during the Holidays and spend some time at home with the family. Most colleges let the students have breaks during Christmas.

To make it a memorable Christmas, just make it like old times. Like you've been saying, you don't want it to be different so make it like the past Christmas's.

Have fun and if you need more advice, well...you can reach me at anytime you want:]

I'm was wondering, is it better to brush or floss your teeth first? It probably doesn't matter, but I'm not sure...
Please only answer if you really know, not just a guess.

My dentist always says to floss first.
♥Mz.JENNiFER

hey so my homecoming is in less than a week and i need a hairstyle!! ok i have long brown hair that reaches to like my breasts, its straight, and its parted to the side, and my bangs reach the end of my ears, and my hair's layered.

any ideas?? also pictures would be great too... thanks!!!

Here are a few sites that may help you :D
http://www.promhairstyles.net/
http://www.2promhairstyles.com/
http://www.2promhairstyles.com/prom-hairstyles.shtml
http://www.beautyriot.com/category.php?id=64
http://www.promadvice.com/
http://www.promadvice.com/hairstyles/how-to/prom-hairstyles-pictures-updos.shtm
http://www.prom-hairstyles.org/homecoming-hairstyles.htm

Hi I am stuck between two guys.Jake and Wesley they both are cute,funny,and smart. I have more in common with Jake but Wesley loves sports and sports are more than half of my life.I am dating Jake but Wes is my best guy friend. Jake doesn't act like my boyfriend but Wesley would if we went out. But I talk to Jake like I've never talked to a boy before on the phone. WEsley has football,baseball,and basketball. Both theyre moms love me.So plz I beg you tell me who to choose Wes or Jake I am stuck between them.Also I talk to Wesley in school a lot and Jake never talks to me he always talks to Trevor his friend.WEsley shares test scores with me he helps me with my homework and he even explains part of football to me.

Wow. It seems you have quite a tough decision. Wesley seems more intimate but Jake seems nice, too. To tell you the truth, I can't answer your question. This is something that you have to chose. It's one of these questions where you get the "just follow your heart" answer. I know, totally Disney. If I were you, I would list pros and cons about every guy. I know that I might not be helping but I can say that this is the best advice I can give to you. Feel free to inbox me again.
♥Mz.JENNiFER

Well internets getting kinda boring
All i do is go on msn and i have an imvu website www.imvu.com and i like decorating my homepage and all but i get sick of it and please dont tell me to go on myspace and facebook and websites like that lol well i was just wondering is there any good sites to go on ?

There are tons of fun websites to go on. For instance, there is xanga.com & aim.com & zwinky.com & tons more. Good Luck:D
♥ Mz.JENNiFER

i was just wondering where i could find some cute quotes or lyrics from songs about stuff like .. being so much better off .. you werent worth it.. ya know stuff like that after a breakup or if you guys no any thatd be great ! thankss!

Oh, well where I go for quotes is xanga.com. Here's a link:
http://search.xanga.com/searchgroups.aspx?q=Quotes
♥Mz.JENNiFER

Ok me and this girl that i have hung out with 3-4 times fell in love then i had to move away now im moving back and we want to spend every waking moment with each other but im afraid things might get okaward how can i prevent this? and if it has already started how do i stop it, im 14 male by the way and she is, 15 female

Heh. This brings back memories. One time, this boy I really liked liked me. So we would take walks with each other and we would talk but once in a while, there would be this huge silence. I was waiting for him to break it, but of course, I ended up doing it. If things get awkward just ask her how she's been and how everything is [trust me, most girls LOVE to talk, I'm one of those girls] or just tell a funny joke. Another thing you can do is compliment her. If your as random as me, you'll find something to say at the spir of the moment :D
♥ Mz. JENNiFER

This guy and I have been talking on aim for forever. We were really tight, and he liked me... i also liked him. I know him because of my friend Jen. Well, Friday, I was with Ron and he didnt hold my hand or anything. When he left, I was telling Jen how it went. She kept asking me questions witch was making it seem that I he didnt like me, and it made it seem that i was obsessed with him. So i said he didnt have a 6 pack at all. Jen told him I said that... and he is really pissed off. I can't stop crying. Jen is TRULY sorry, I belive her. I want things to be the same between Ron and I. He liked me all until this happened. What should I do?

Hmm...if I were you, I would explain to Ron everything. After all, relationships are built on honesty :D
♥ MzJENNiFER

When I straighten my hair, it can be perfectly straight. But I don't have time to straighten it every day. When I go to the hair dressers, it stays straight until I wash it. When I go to bed after straightening my hair, it kinks out at the bottom over night.

Is there any UK products that will help my hair stay straight so that I don't have to straighten it every day?

Since I live in the US, I am not sure about the UK products but I will give your questions a try :D

What I recommend is The John Frieda Collection. One time I was straightening my friends hair for a dance. Her hair is really curly, like banana curls. We had a half an hour to the dance so I put some of the Frizz Ease to help reduce the frizz. Then i straightened her hair in less than 25 minutes! It may not work for you but give it a try. Here's the site: http://www.johnfrieda.com/index.asp?gclid=CL3qwp_n_44CFQE5UQodl3BBxA

Another Good Product is Garnier Fructis Sleek & Shine. It is in a green bottle with orange writing. My mom uses this every day. Since she has wavy hair, and doesn't wake up up until last minute, she uses this product and just straightens her hair for about...15 minutes.
http://www.garnier.co.uk/_en/_gb/fructis/index.aspx
http://www.garnier.com/fructis/

Another thing you can buy is a ceramic straightener. Those are very cheap and can get pretty hot :D

Also try L'oreal hot straight. it comes in a hot pink bottle. you can get it anywhere. Put it in when your hair is damp or dry and then straighten it. Put more if needed.
http://www.ciao.co.uk/Reviews/L_Oreal_Studio_Hot_Straight_Cream__5812738
http://www.auravita.com/products/AURA/LORE15790.asp

This might help you too,
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20071007090942AAxUFds

Best of Luck, Oh and tell me what happens!
♥Mz.JENNiFER

THe guys in my grade either dont no me or think im annoying. I think i just talk alot but wutever. Can someone please give me tips to look sexy and stop being annoying! or any confidence boosting tips.thanks=D

Well, I personitally think you should never change for someone, for they should like you for who you are but I will answer your question with the best of my abilites. :D

*Wear maturer clothes that make you look older. Keep in mind that you don't want to look like your playing dress up so don't go over the top with the pearls and everything. Don't try to copy them models but go about your own style. I think you should mix and match with the clothes you have. For instance, if you have a white tank top, wear it with a cute blazer or a hoody [zipper up looks best] like from HCO or Abercrombie or Aeropostale, ect.

*Try not to talk about yourself that much. I know for a fact that some boys like to have their share in talking. Try to be funny and sweet yet sincere. If there is such thing. :D I always like to joke around with boys because I like to make them laugh.

If you need more tips, please do not hesitate to message me. I love mail :D ♥

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