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Total Diffrent Christmas..= (
Okay my family isnt your average family... I have parents, and two brothers both like decades older then my. Scotts 19 turing 20 like 2 days after christmas and Jasons 17. I know this might sound mean but Jasons my favorite because I was like 5 when Scott was like 11 were complete oppisites. So when Scott got to old to wake up like 2 hours before opening gifts to go through stockings Jason took over waking me up. Well now Jasons 17.. and I have a feeling this is the last actual Christmas I have with Jason.. like old times. But I donno if he's even planing on getting up and I might just make him! =D But that and like we watch the marathon of A Christmas Story. We watch that movie atleast 15 times a Christmas and it hasnt gotten old.
But I donno Im like crying right now so humor me. We have traditions. And it wont be any fun without Jason. He's like a Dad now (his gf had a baby NOT HIS) but Jason acts like he is =D I love Miya.
But.. I donno he got rid of the extra bed in his room so I dont know where ill sleep. He has a huge bed I can sleep in it with him which i did when I was like 10 in a single lol fun times. But im not 1 anymore and jasons an adult now, practicly.. Feb 21 and he'll be 18! And ill be younger extremely younger. (same Bday.) This is the last christmas that will be like the rest. I want it to be awsome.. but im only a kid.
Should i talk to jason about this ask whats gunna happen?? Iwant this to be a memorable Christmas. How?
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okay well when you guys are alone just be like jason i wanna talk to you. and then just say what you wrote here. tell him you love him a lot and that you love the time you spend together. if he decides to go off to college maybe the weekend before christmas you, just you could go to his college if its not far away and do christmas shopping, watch the marathon and so on. things wont be the same and you need to realize that but you will learn to get used to this new way. ask him what he thinks and maybe you could come up with ideas together to make this a more memorable christmas. maybe get funny gifts for eachother and just joke around a lot, maybe play some pranks on your family together. anything that will help you remember christmas
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Hey there, I totally understand how you feel. I've been through that so many times. [I have a big family] I think the best thing to do is to talk to Jason about your feelings and maybe work out a plan for Jason to come home during the Holidays and spend some time at home with the family. Most colleges let the students have breaks during Christmas.
To make it a memorable Christmas, just make it like old times. Like you've been saying, you don't want it to be different so make it like the past Christmas's.
Have fun and if you need more advice, well...you can reach me at anytime you want:]
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