Hi, my names Melanie.
I'm fifteen years old.
I love fashion, hanging out with my friends,
and drawing and writing along with a bunch of other stuff.
I used to have an old account here that was quite known for awhile,
but I sort of just lost touch with it,
so I decided to make a new one.
I'll try and help you the best I can,
just hopefully I didn't lose touch with my good advice, haha.
And feel free to IM me with your problem too.
I also put my myspace in a link down below,
if you ever want to add me & talk.
But incase you don't see it or something, it's:
www.myspace.com/themelinat0r
Website: my myspace!
E-mail: melledisko@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Pittsburgh
Occupation: student.
Age: 15
AIM: mel le disko
Member Since: July 2, 2006
Answers: 1503
Last Update: August 9, 2008
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i m 16/f. i have mood swings all the time (not because of my periods either). i think that i am bi-polar no joke. i always cry over nothing and someday i dont. and i also get realy angry and violent over little things. i dont know what is wrong with me! does anyone know any signs of bi-polar or anything? please help (link)
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Here's a site that tells you of the sypmtoms and everything:
http://www.focusas.com/BipolarDisorder.html
Also, if you realize you have most of these syptoms, maybe try going to see a doctor and getting a test or whatever they do to REALLY find out if you are or not. Cause obviously a doctor would know better than any site.
I hope I helped.
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do you think its too soon? we talked about it last night (link)
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Too soon to.. flirt, or think about dating eachother?
If you want to just instant message me or something about this to make it easier, my screename is MEL LE DISKO.
But, if not, I don't think it's too soon to start flirting with him. If you're interested in him, there's nothing wrong with showing it. I've only known this one guy for like, less than a week and we flirt like crazy.
I hope I helped.
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so i was flirting w/ this guy last night online and i gave him my number and vice versa. and told him i MIGH text him if he was lucky (in a flirtacious way). well its the next night and i want to but wat should i say? it has to be flirty like along the lines that hes lucky i texted him and stuff but ask him also be something he can respond to (link)
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Hm.
I would just text him and be like,"You're quite lucky, you know that? ;]" Or maybe like,"Hey, guess what? You're lucky! ;D" Or something along those lines. Whatever or however you say that line, just make sure to add the winking face. That ALWAYS gives off hints of flirting and everything and makes you look cute and coy.
And then just continue the conversation from there however you want.
:]
I hope I helped.
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Im getting a filling tomorrow for a cavity!! Im really scared. Does it hurt? (link)
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I've had quite a few fillings done and to me, it doesn't hurt at all. The only part that slightly hurts is whenever they give you your shot in your gums to give you your novaccaine (sp) ; but I'm deathly afraid of needles so I probably make it seem worse than it is ; but even though I hate them, it still doesn't even hurt that much ; just a little pinch.
But during the whole procedure, your mouth is very numb and everything, and continues to be for quite some time after your fillings already done with. The only other "hurt" you might experience is sometimes ( depends on you and your teeth ) there may be some sensitivity, which is why doctors ask you not to eat and everything for a bit after it's done. But that goes away shortly.
So basically, you'll be totally fine! Maybe even bring your ipod, my dentists let me listen to mine to distract me while they're filling my tooth.
I hope I helped.
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so i like this guy i hardly know him but we've flirted online and he seems pretty interested and i am too. but the thing is i know it wont go anywhere. he drinks and smokes and does weed. i have never drank or done drugs or anything i am a goody goody but i still like to have fun! if this had happened a while ago i would be like ew no way but for some reason this guy has me interested in him. should i start backing away? i realy dont want to. could it work out even if he does drugs and im a good girl (link)
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I think it could work out.
Just whenever you two begin to date, let him in on it. Tell him right away that you don't smoke, do drugs, or drink or anything, and not to pressure you or try and get you to do it, because you won't. If he likes you enough, he's not going to force you into something you don't want to do. If he takes it badly and acts immaturely ; then you don't need him, and he doesn't deserve you.
Just ask him to please respect your decisions and maybe not to smoke around you so you don't start coughing and everything, and if he decides to drink, just make sure some water or something else if there for you to drink instead.
Remember, this relationship is about you and this guy and your feelings toward eachother ; and I think that's stronger than some weed and alcohol.
I hope I helped.
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there are a couple of girls i want to ask out, i have fun hang out with all of them, the problem is i don't know withc one i should ask out? (link)
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The most reasonable thing I would do if I were to be in your situation is I would go on a seperate date with each of them, and then the minute you get home, write down the pros and cons of each girl.
Seems a little mean, listing their faults and everything, but it'll help you out in the long run.
Then as the girls keep winding down and you feel you'd rater much be with two girls, then go on two different dates with them if you must to help you decide even more. Just think about what you want in the long run - who might be more commited, more fun, be able to have serious AND goofy conversation with? Who it doesn't matter where you are, you can chill and have a great time and think of her and your friends and if they'd get along. You know, those things.
I hope I helped.
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14/f. i hang out with guys alot and now girls think im a slut. does that seem slutty to hangout with mostly guy? im just friends with them, and i still hang out with girls too. this is really bothering mee. (link)
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No, just having alot of guy friends and hanging out with them does it, in any way, make you a slut. You haven't hooked up with them or anything, it's perfectly harmless.
They're probably just calling you one because they have their own insecurities within themselves, and to see you sitting there, talking and hanging out with guys with ease is probably making them majorly jealous because they can't talk to even ONE guy probably without blushing or freaking out or something.
I hope I helped.
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So there's this guy that's 29 and I'm really attracted to him, both physically and emotionally. We can talk for long periods of time without getting bored and we talk about anything and everything. He's funny, charming, polite, smart, handsome, responsible, everything I look for in a guy. We get along really well and seem to really click. We have fun doing whatever we do. The thing is, I'm 18. I think that's the only thing that's standing in the way of us taking this a step further. I personally don't have a problem with the age difference, but I think he does. What should I do? I really like him and can honestly say that I'm falling in love with him. (link)
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If you two really like eachother as much as you two say you do, an age difference shouldn't be that big of a deal. Sure it's somewhat of an age gap, but you're not breaking any laws, it's all perfectly legal, and like I said, age just shouldn't matter. There's some people with 2 year age differences, some with 10, some with 20. The only thing that matters is finding that special person and enjoying your time with them.
I would have a serious talk with him and just let him know how you feel about him. Ask him about the age difference, and if it bothers him, and ask him why it does. Then just let him know your thoughts and opinions on it. I'm not sure how long you two have been seeing eachother, but if it's a somewhat new relationship, sure, it might be a little strange to him at first, and hopefully over time if he really cares and likes you, he'll get adjusted to it, and it'll no longer linger in his thoughts of an age difference.
I hope I helped.
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how can i delete myspace? (link)
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Steps:
1. Go to your homepage.
2. Next to your default picture, right under "EDIT PROFILE", there'll be the words "ACCOUNT SETTINGS", click on that.
3. Right under where it says "Change Account Settings
NOTE: Changing your default email or name can make it hard for your friends
to find or recognize you on MySpace", there'll be three little links. The very last one says "CANCEL ACCOUNT", click on that.
4. It will ask you if you're sure you want to cancel your account. Obviously, click cancel.
5. Then, myspace should send a confirmation email to your email adress asking if you're positive you want to cancel it, and you just click the confirmation link, and your myspace should be deleted.
I hope I helped.
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how do i make my font bigger on myspace (link)
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What works with me is I use the code
( and then type whatever you want it to say here
If this code doesn't show up, because sometimes you can't type codes in anywhere without them actually working, so if it doesn't show up, then just message me again and I'll instant message you or something with what to type out.
I hope I helped.
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i think it is.alot.but thats my opinion.cuz my friend just took a break with her bf and i told her it was just the same thing as breaking up.i dont give a shit if ur getting bak together.thats just another excuse to break up with somein at the time.whats the effin difference? (link)
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Alright, well.
Taking a break is whenever.. well, you take a break. It's just whenever some people feel they might not be sure if they want to be in a relationship at the moment, or they're not sure how they feel about the person, so they just want to take a ltitle break for awhile and re-think their feelings and see where it goes from there, and if they want to continue dating them or not.
A break up is whenever you're totally over with, and you don't want to date the person anymore for whatever reason, lost feelings, etc. So a break is temporary ( then could turn permanent or not ) whereas a break up is just full-on over with.
I hope I helped.
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Do all girls like chocolate. And if they do do the like Dark or Milk better? (link)
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Not all girls like chocolate. Like some people love apples, and other hate them, some girls love chocolate ( like me ), and others might find it gross.
It all depends on the girl what their taste in the chocolate is. I personally prefer milk chocolate or white chocolate.
I hope I helped.
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well, im in 8th grade and i think i like this kid in 7th grade. im not sure if my friends would be okay with me liking someone in 7th grade so i havnt told them/. over the weekend i spent like a whole day with him and some other people and we talked a lot and i really like him. another thing is that he might like my friend because whenever i like a guy they like her and its always that way and i hate it but tis just whgat happens. what do you think i should do.. tell my friends, stop liking him, try to get closer and talk more to him, what!!!!!! (link)
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Well first of all, who cares what your friends or anybody thinks for that matter? If you like this guy and he makes you happy, you should go for it ; and you're friends should be happy for you, too. Otherwise, they're not being very good friends, are they?
Also, you should just try hanging out with him more and getting to know him better. Everytime you hang with him, add a little more flirtng to it, to slightly hint your interested. Compliment him, maybe. Don't forget to make alot of eye contact with him, and just smile whenever he's around and just have a great time and show him how great you are. If he stills goes for your friend, he's a jerk, and it's his loss, and you know that. But just show you guys have common interests, and how great a time you guys'd have together if you dated.
And after awhile if you notice he's sending you signals of liking you back, then take a chance and let him know how you feel! You never know, this guy could be a great boyfriend, adn you'll never know unless you find out. We only live life once. :] And just tell him whenever you feel comfotrable enough, and how you feel most comfortable doing it ; phone, email, etc.
I hope I helped, and good luck!
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Ok theres this guy lets call him Alex. About a month ago he used to never care what people thought, was always nice, kept secrets, and in general was a great guy. But see the thing was he used to always sit with me and stuff and be near me and everytimeI talked to him he always asked me like 5 times who I liked. I never told him when he did. Then one day he was the nicest guy ever so I told him who I liked. Lets call this guy Sam. Anyway so I told him Sam and see Sam is like a popular guy (im also popular and Alex was well.....normal srry if thats sounds mean) hes nice, good looking and has a great personality. Now Alex never told anyone but ever since then he's started to change. He's gotten very annoying, hes become a jerk, has a big mouth, loves to bug me and acts like he owns the school. And it gets me really mad. Its like he's turned into one of the guys. (i mean the popular guyss that act mean) hes never been like this but he's changing rapidly and when I tell him about it all he says it "I dont care what you think! Anyway you guys always make fun of me so whatever!" I NEVER make fun of him. I never have. Why has he changed so much? (link)
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I know this is going to sound mean, but this just might be a cry for help, or, a call for attention, whichever you want to call it ; you know what I mean, though.
He might like you, and he figures since Sam is popular and so-and-so, he might be thinking that if HE were to act like that, and that's the kind of guy you're into, you might start liking him instead.
I think you need to have a serious talk with him about this. Let him know that you really care for him and love being friends with him and having a great time, but he's acting different now, more meaner and you miss the Alex you used to know. You've just noticed lately that he's been acting like he owns the school and whatnot, and it's bothering you. Or just something similiar ; just let your feelings out and let him know what you're thinking, he needs to know what's going on.
So just have a serious talk with him and see how it goes and what he says and everything. Just make sure you have a nice, calm tone of voice, and make sure he understands you're not trying to be mean or anything, you just miss the way he used to be.
I hope I helped.
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Okayy my best friend recently started to shop at hollister. So i thought i would get her stuff from there for christmas. But see im not really the "preppy" type so i wouldnt know what to pick out from there that would be cute and she would like. So what are some of the things you like. Pictures would be appreciated.
thankss. (link)
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Well, I don't shop their either, so I'm not sure how much of a help I would be, but I thought I could at least give it a try.
You can never go wrong with a gift card. Just buy her a gift card with a decent limit on the card so that way she can buy whatever's going to make her happiest and that she's satisfied with, and you did a job well done. :)
Also, you might want to check out the clearnace racks. Things can get awfully expensive in that store, and I'm sure she wouldn't mind whatever's in the clearance thing.
I went onto their site, and here's the clearance page:
http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/category1_10251_10201_12650_-1_12635
And all of those shirts look cute to me. Especially those DRAINPIPE HENLYEYS shirts or whatever they were called.
Also, maybe even buy her some perfume from their store. The smaller bottles are a semi-reasonable price, and I think in my opinion, smell SO GOOD. I have a friend who shops there, and I love her perfume to death.
Also, on the page, I've just found a lnik that says "Perfect Gifts" for the holidays. :]
http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/category1_10251_10201_12617_-1_12552
So check that out, and that page has a lot of nice, cute looking things too that I'm sure your friend would love.
I hope I helped.
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everyone on myspace says 'hollerback'. what does that mean and can you maybe use it in a sentence so i can understand it better. thanks :] (link)
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"Hollerback" basically means to respond to someone.
Like, if someone were to call you and leave the message,"Hey, just wanted to know where you were tonight, uh, I don't know just hollerback at me."
Which is them basically saying "Hey don't know where you were but just call me back, leave a message."
I hope I helped.
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so i have a problem. i'm in love with my boyfriend. and he tells me all the time that he's in love with me.
well... today he told me that he never wants to get married or have kids. what should i do?
have you guys heard anyone say this and then change their mind?
please let me know. i need advice ASAP. (link)
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Yes, I've heard plenty of people say this before.
It all depends on the age, though. If you and him are in high school, most kids are going to probably be like that. They figure,"I'm young, I'm going to have fun, I don't want to be old and settled down," and whatnot, but as their age progresses and they become more mature and realize that they need to grow up, they might realize that they infact DO want a family and everything.
People's minds can change about this all the time. I'm only fifteen and I've debated wether or not I want to be a mother whenever I'm older. Cause I'm always switching through the good points of kids, and then the bad, which is probably how guys view marriage and family and whatnot.
If you two are in High School or whatnot, just give him some time. Maybe have some talks with hm about it every now and then, and just see what happens and if his mind changes.
But if you two are in say, college, or older? Then I would have a serious talk with him about where he finds this relationship going since you want marriage and children, and he doesn't. And see where it goes from there.
I hope I helped.
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okay well at my school dances nobody really dances. its more like theyre each others stripper poles. im not really that type of girl who dances like a whore. i dont want to look like an idiot though. what should i do? (link)
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I am the same exact way.
What I usually do at the dances is I just slightly shake my hips and move my arms around, kind of like the others are doing, except... alot, alot cleaner, haha.
Also, alot of people also talk at dances so I tend to stand there alot anyways and talk more to my friends then dance so while we're standing there talking, I'll tap my foot or something along with the music.
I hope I helped.
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I used to hang out with this boy Chris over the summer. It was really fun and I started to like him. Then after summer, we kind of stopped talking. A few weeks ago, he IMed me and we started talking again and making plans to hang out. Our conversations are so good..theres never an awkward silence. He's really outgoing in real life, too. Like I always see him with girls..but when he sees me all he says is, "Hey!" and even though he says it really nice, he doesnt try to make conversation like we have online..what should ido? (link)
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Sometimes guys can just be this way ; alot of my guy friends are, at least.
Whenever it comes to hanging out in person it's great cause you can really talk to them, see them, there's no distractions or anything. But whenever it comes to internet, guys just don't seem to want to talk as much as girls do. Most of my guy friends tell me they don't really even go on the computer just to sit there and talk to people like we do ; they're there to play games or check their email or something else.
Try just continuing the conversation with him, and if you notice he's still not talking that much, talk to him about it. Just be like,"Hey, I've just noticed. Whenever we're together, you're extremely outgoing and everything, but on the internet you seem less talkative. Why is that?" And just see what he says.
If talking to him on the internet isn't working, how about talking to him on the phone instead? If you don't already have his number, just tell him you'd really like to talk to him on the phone sometime and ask for his number, and then see how the conversation goes over the phone.
:)
I hope I helped.
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whenever i go on aim and look at my friends and people's aim profiles, i always see something that says "lets go get some shoes" what does that mean? please don't say ask them. (link)
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There's this video on this site called YouTube.com, and it's a video about this guy ( at least I think a guy ) whose dressed as a girl, and he sings a really funny song about shoes and getting them and buying them and everything, and it's just a funny video altogether. And in the video, he/she sings "let's get some shoes" repeatedly.
Yeah, it's quite a popular video now.
But, I would send you the link for the site, but this computer doesn't allow me to watch videos.
I hope I helped.
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