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My breasts began to get bigger around May. I went from 22 A to a 28C in around a month. Now I have little purplish reddish lines on them. They look like little scratch marks leading from the nipple out on. I have the 3 marks on each breast. The 3 scratch marks are on one side of the nipple. What are these? Are they just stretch marks or something, will they go away ??? (link)
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They're stretch marks, and chances are..no, they won't go away.
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hey i really liked your advise last time.. can you help me again. this guy that i told you i'm getting to knwo and he already loves me.. well i'm falling for him.. but my friend thinks my ex really does still love me and that i should wait to see.. but i dont wanna wait and see because if i break up with this new guy i may not get him back.. i wouldnt want someone to break up with me to see if their ex still loved them.. that would hurt.. even more so this new boy really really likes me and treats me great... i dont know what to do.. please help.. (link)
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I've been in your exact same position. I was with my boyfriend for 4 months, and we broke and a week later I had a new boyfriend. BIG mistake. I ended up breaking up with him for my ex. My ex ended up hurting me AGAIN. If you've been hurt by him in the past, stay away and just let it go right now. If you're happy with this new guy, then stay with him and just see how things go. In time you'll realize what you really want, your ex or the new guy.
by the way, you can keep coming to me for advice if you ever need it, I love to help.
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Alright. So I've known this guy Dave for a wicked long time and for the past couple weeks have been really confusing. Let me explain. So we talked a lot and it always ended with a "I love you" and the other person would say it back. He wrote me cute little poems and everything and then I started to do it back and at the bottom of my aways it would always be like "I love you" So then he stopped all this in like the turn of one day and when I said "I love you" he didn't say it back but I noticed he always says I love You to everyone so then I started thinking this really wasn't serious. We did kiss and everything but I decided to ask him about it and he said I love you the same way you love me trust me but you don't want to get involved with me I'll hurt you. let me go lie down and think I'll call you later. And he left and then the whole weekend following that we didn't talk cause he was avioding me. So I cried obviously (i think he's the first person I've ever loved) and so he calls me 2 days ago and is like "I love you" and we started hitting it off again. But I don't know if anythings different and I don't wanna bring it up again but I really don't want to get my hopes up and get hurt again. What should I do? Thanks so much in advance and I rate 5s for everything that's not bs!! (link)
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Situations like this are tough and hard to figure out. It sounds to me like he honestly likes you alot. But try not to increase your feelings for him so soon. Keep talking to him, and if he wants to be with you, he will. Flirt with him, kiss him, do what you have to do to make him want you. Try to play hard to get a little bit, it makes guys want you even more. If in about a month nothing between you two change, then I would probably bring it up again with him and see what he feels then.
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My best guy friend's name is "Jay". I have liked him more than a friend for a really long time and Im too shy to tell him how i feel. He flirts with me, but it might just be "friendly flirting". I really dont know what to do, is there anyway i could let him know i like him without it being too obvious or anything else?
16/f (link)
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I usually just come right out and tell people that I like them. You should probably be honest with him, you never know if he likes you or not. Guys are sneaky and confusing. You can never tell what they mean by their actions. The flirting could mean he likes you, or it could be the kind of flirting that all guys do to all girls. Let him know your feelings for him, and see what happens.
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Ok..i love when guys play hard to get with me. Its just a turn on and everytime and guy does it..i like him even more. Well i used to like this one guy and he immediatly asked me out after he found out i liked him. That scared me and turned me off and i didnt like him nemore. Has this happened to anyone else. Please comment! (link)
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I don't know if this has happened to me or not, but I can see where you're coming from. Most girls like a challenge when it comes to guys and whenever a guy just automatically falls for you, it turns you off faster. There's nothing you can really do about it. It's just how you are, and how alot of people are. Don't go out with this guy if you don't like him. Wait for someone else to come along, there's alot of other guys out there..and alot of them can play hard to get.
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What do you think about a guy that you ask over on a date, and he continually disses you?
I invited this guy over that I had liked for a long time.
I have a small but clean and nicely decorated appartment. Well he would say mean things about it, like when his tea got cold I told him I could zap it in my microwave and he said sarcastically "oh you have one of those"? Then when I asked him if he wanted to watch one of my movies he said "oh, it's the movie queen,". But the way he said it wasn't complimentary. Then he started asking me questions about my finaces! I kept trying to enagage him in conversation by showing him pictures but he looked completely bored. I felt very uncomfortable. I thought if I guy was into you he would say things to make you like him better. But the way he was acting it's like he was purposely trying to make me not like him.
Why do you think he was acting like this? He's still trying to be my friend. What should I do? (link)
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Stay his friend. But talk to him about the way he feels about you. You don't want to hold on to something that isn't there.
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There is this lad in my school who is 3 years older than me. i have liked him for ages now, i have been his friend for ages aswell. If i told him i like him i don't know what he will say, i don't think he likes me, if i say something and he doesn't like me i will fell like a fool, i have no idea what to do about it. please help me i am confused. (link)
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Tell him you like him, admit your feelings. He may like you two, and by hiding your feelings..you'll never know. Be honest with him.
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Ok so this guy started to like me but i didnt like him...he started to like me the very first day we met and then the second day i started to like him he found out by my friend!!! And well he asked me out and i said yes!!! Do you think i should have waited or did i do the right thing?
Thanks in help!!! (link)
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You may have went a little too fast, but if you like him and he likes you, it shouldn't really matter. You don't want to hurt him though, so give it time. If you feel like it's not working out, just give it a couple weeks and things will change. You two need to get to know eachother, then see what happens in the future. As for now, stay with him.
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my boyfriend of 3 months broke up with me for no reason at all.. well i love him.. but i am trying to get over him. i met this other boy and he already loves me.. but hes going way to quick. and i still love my ex. what should i do? i dotn wanna hurt this guy. (link)
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I know exactly how you feel. Whatever you do, do NOT lead this other guy on. But maybe you should hang out with him and flirt and stuff with him..it gets your mind off of your ex. Once you think you're ready to move on, talk to this other guy and maybe you two can go out. The only to get over someone is to move your feelings on to someone else.
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my best friends boyfriend likes me what should i do ? (link)
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It depends on a few different things..1, do you like him? 2, how close you and your friend are? and 3, who does he like more? ..If you like him and he likes you, talk to your friend because that isn't fair for her. Tell her about your feelings for him, and his feelings for you. If you and your friend are REALLY close, then maybe you should let go of the boy..no boy is worth losing a friend over. And if he likes you more, then he shouldn't be with his girlfriend because she will end up hurt. I think you should talk to both of them about the whole situation. Tell the boy that it's not right what he's doing to her. And tell your friend that he likes you.
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I really Love this boy and I thought he loved me back but....idk....ok we go to the same school and have to switch classes with each other...between classes I talk to him EVERTIME!...he used to talk back but now he just looks at me and rolls his eyes at me and walks away!...WHAT THE CRAP?...HOWRUDE RIGHT?...but anyways when we go to load the busses he trys to talk to me and wonts to hug me bye...(when his friends anit around!)...and when we get home he calls me...(SOMETIMES)...most of the time i have to call him. But one day when I called him his mom said "hunny is this kayla again??!!!!!!!?"!!!!!!!!!he was caught he told me he never talks to any other girls but just lastnight he tells me he talked to his x(which he dated for 1 or 2 years..not sure)MAkes me mad again but i try to hold it all in...BUT THREW THE DAY HE INGORES ME UNTIL WERE GOING HOME...ITS LIKE HE IS USIN ME...WHAT DO I DO BREAK UP WITH HIM OR JUST WAIT??...OR Belive him??..I Belived him once and he was lieing to me but like they say..(THERES ALWAYS THAT ONE SPECIAL PERSON IN YOUR LIFE THAT NO MATTER HOW MEAN OR WHAT THEY DO TO YOU YOU CANT LET THEM GO..)FOR ME IT HAD TO BE THIS BOY!!WHAT DO I DO???....PLEASE LET ME KNOW ANYTHING WILL HELP
*THANKS ---RaScHeLle!!---* (link)
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You definetly can't let go over something so silly. Just for talking to his ex, is no reason to be mad. I know it makes you jealous, it would make any girl jealous. But you have to let it go and pretend that it doesn't bother you. Talk to him about this Kayla girl, his ex. And see if he still has any feelings whatsoever for her. If he does, wait about a week and see if things change..if not, I would break up with him. Unless you really do love him! If you love him, you can't get rid of him. hold on to him while he's there. You don't want to regret anything in the future.
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Heyy! I'm the girl who was going to NYC with my crush this weekend. I'm really pissed at my effin MOM because she called his family up and said that it wasn't a good day cuz my dumbass sister had a birthday party!!!! I'm really disappointed because I have been counting down the days til we go! I really shouldn't have set my heart on this!! How do I make the 11 days i have to wait go by faster?! (link)
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Try not to think about it so much, I know it's hard.. but you'll just have to get over it, some parents are like that. It can be tough sometimes. Maybe in the 11 days until then, you can talk to your mom and change her mind. If that doesn't work, just hang out with your friends to keep your mind off of him.
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ok im 13/f and me and my bf have been goin out for like 3 weeks now and our birthdays are really close (3 days). he dosent have money so he felt bad he didnt get me anything... i mean REALLY bad. so bad that one of my friends told him i was crying over it! he stil feels bad but honestly... I DONT CARE! i mean sure it would be nice to get something from him but yea i dont care. well heres the thing... he said hes going to get me somthing for x-mas and i shouldnt get him anything since he didnt get me anything for my birthday. but..... he said that about his birthday present that i gave him, i didnt want to get him one b/c it would make him feel bad but then everyone was like "omg its not going to make him feel bad! get him somthing!" so yea i did.
i dont no if i should get him anything. PLZZZZ HELP!!!!
if you think i should then tell me what i should get him.... i have already heard about gift cars (but i cant do that b/c thats what i got him for his birthday), CDs, music, but i need a lot more ideas!!!
HHHHHHHHHEEEEEEEEEELLLLLLLLLLPPPPPPPPPPPPP!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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I would get him something. Just a little something, maybe a movie or a cd. And a Christmas card. He definetly should have got you something for your birthday though. But just because he didn't, doesn't mean you have to get him back by not buying him anything for Christmas. Christmas is about giving, so give. Hope this helps.
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Ok My So called best friend Amber (as you have probably herd recent stories) beyrayed me!. Well I came to school this morning and she was like "Omg! The worst thing happend this morning! It's even worse than Billie Joe Armstrong Dying!" and I was like "What?" And she said "Plzzzzz don't be mad at me! Plzzz!" and I said "WHAT???" and she said "I woke up this morning liking Kody (MY EX THAT I LIKE!!)." and I was like "What!?!?" and she said "I Don't Know! I just Do!" and to make it worse she asked him out without me knowing and he said he would think about it. So they flirted and they talked and poked each other and Finally she asked him again and he said he didn't know. So she said forget it. And he used to talk to me cause we went for the friend deal and now because of her he ignores me! I Don't Know What I did Wrong!! He used to flirt with me ALL the time. So I made up this story that I Might be moving and when we were walking out to the bus I was like "Its SOOO COLD!!!" and He was like "Its not as cold as its gonna be in ________(the place)." and I was like "Yeah" so..... WTF is up with him! I Never done anything to him! (link)
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Guys are dumb and confusing. Trust me, they only get worse. It doesn't sound to me like he likes this girl, or he would go out with her. Maybe he's over you now, and that's why he doesn't flirt with you anymore. As for Amber, she doesn't sound like a very good best friend. Try to flirt with Kody in front of her to make her jealous. Jealousy is probably the worst feeling you'll ever feel..it'll teach her a lesson she needs to learn.
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ok so im dating this guy ;; i REALLY like him and he likes me too ((obviously)) ;; but we live in diff. states and his mom is kinda wierd bout the whole thing ;; if anyones ever been in this situation or knows what i should do ;; reply to this ;; PLEASE ;; i rate 5s ;; ♥chassi (link)
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I've never been in this situation, but I know people that have. Long distant relationships can be rough. And so can moms, lol. Tell him how you feel about his mom being weird. Maybe he can talk to her about things and she can change. Good luck with everything, and I hope was some help..
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My boyfriend called me a hoe and i dont know wether 2 be mad @ him or wat? i mean he did call me a hoe and im not a hoe. I dont understand. and that shyt is mad fucked up. (link)
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Maybe he was just being sarcastic? If not..Tell him you don't like that and not to do it again. He should say sorry, if not..he's not worth it.
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ok so there is this guy that i have known since third grade and i have always kind of liked him but now i like him more. last year we were in alot of the same classes and yea he would talk to me but he didnt really give any clues that he liked me. now we are on the same team but we have no classes and i really want him to notice me but he is always busy talking to other girls((there not even on the same team as him))
he is kind of cocky so i dont want to seem like a freak if i do get him to notice me...so if anyone has any good adivice or thoughts please tell me!! (link)
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Most guys are cocky..that's probably why he talks to so many other girls. He sounds like a flirt to me. But you should definetly tell him how you feel about him, just let him know that you like him and maybe he likes you too, you never know.
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ok, i'm friends with this guy who has a g/f. But, he gives me signals that he likes me...For Example..I've been at my friends house while he's been there twice. Each time, we've layed either in the road or on the trampoline looking at stars. He asked me at school when we were gonna look at 'em again. I said "who knows?" and he told me that he looked at 'em over the weekend and he thought about me! He always hugs me and smiles at me when he sees me in the hall at school. Today, I saw him and he walked right by me, but i looked at him and he held out his hand and held it for a min. I'm confused...he has a g/f but he gives me hints! what's going on? (link)
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Guys are sneaky. I think he probably likes you. You should ask him about his girlfriend, and next time you two look at the stars, say "I don't think your 'GIRLFRIEND' would like this" and make sure you emphasize girlfriend. lol, Trust me..it'll get him thinking. And after you say that, giggle a little bit and then look at him to see what he says. Let him know that you like him.
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I liked this guy soooooooo much for like 2 years..and one of my so called "friends" told me he liked me and that he was gonna ask me out and i was SOOOOOOOOOO Happy..but a few days ago my best friend called me and told me that everything that my other so called friend told me was all a lie and i was bawling my eyes out forever..I like him sooo much and i dont know what to do (link)
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wow, I can relate to your problem..majorly. I liked someone for two years too. It's tough, especially if they don't feel the way you do. I thought I loved him, but I didn't. The best thing for you to do is talk to him. Tell him what your "so called friend" said, and then tell him what your real friend said. See what he has to say about that, and make sure that he knows you like him. Being honst about your feelings is pretty much all you can do..you just have to hope he feels the same way. Good luck, hope i was some help for you.
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i like this boy. i don't know if he likes me. he's cute, smart, and funny. i like this boy so much. i don't know what to do or say. can u please help me. i will rate high. thanks
sincerely,
someone (link)
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Talking to a guy you like can be tough. But you have to get over the fear of rejection. You should talk to him and tell him how you feel. You never know, maybe he likes you too. Just say something along the lines of "I don't expect you to say anything back, or feel the way I do..but I like you. I just want you to know that." it puts pressure on the guy, but it gets the point across. If he tells you he likes you too, then you can just see what happens. Good luck!
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