Alright. So I've known this guy Dave for a wicked long time and for the past couple weeks have been really confusing. Let me explain. So we talked a lot and it always ended with a "I love you" and the other person would say it back. He wrote me cute little poems and everything and then I started to do it back and at the bottom of my aways it would always be like "I love you" So then he stopped all this in like the turn of one day and when I said "I love you" he didn't say it back but I noticed he always says I love You to everyone so then I started thinking this really wasn't serious. We did kiss and everything but I decided to ask him about it and he said I love you the same way you love me trust me but you don't want to get involved with me I'll hurt you. let me go lie down and think I'll call you later. And he left and then the whole weekend following that we didn't talk cause he was avioding me. So I cried obviously (i think he's the first person I've ever loved) and so he calls me 2 days ago and is like "I love you" and we started hitting it off again. But I don't know if anythings different and I don't wanna bring it up again but I really don't want to get my hopes up and get hurt again. What should I do? Thanks so much in advance and I rate 5s for everything that's not bs!!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Kristen03 answered Friday December 2 2005, 1:03 am: Situations like this are tough and hard to figure out. It sounds to me like he honestly likes you alot. But try not to increase your feelings for him so soon. Keep talking to him, and if he wants to be with you, he will. Flirt with him, kiss him, do what you have to do to make him want you. Try to play hard to get a little bit, it makes guys want you even more. If in about a month nothing between you two change, then I would probably bring it up again with him and see what he feels then. [ Kristen03's advice column | Ask Kristen03 A Question ]
Docholliday answered Wednesday November 30 2005, 1:40 am: Wow, well I just imagine he was confused about where things were gonna go. Eventually you are going to have to ask him what was up with that whole thing, Imean he can't be all wishy washy with you all the time, thats not a very healthy relationship, and you deserve to have a healthy relationship and be happy. Don't be blunt about asking him, be suttle bring it up in casual conversation, if he gets all weird, tell him that you deserve to know. Good luck [ Docholliday's advice column | Ask Docholliday A Question ]
Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content. Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.