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ok im j/w is constantly biting your lips until they bleed then biting them more or always pickiking at scabs until they;re completley off a bad habbit like cutting? i know itz a bad habbit, but is it ANYTHING likr cutting!
Thanks a bunch! :D
~*jemmy*~ ((ps i DO NOT cut))

Well, biting your lip is normal but to make them bleed and then bite them again? I'm not so sure. But picking at scabs til they come off is normal because I've babysat kids all the time and they've picked at scabs and then my friends do, and i probably still do but i havent had a scab in a while. im pretty sure picking at scabs would be nothing like cutting. Cutting is worse.

Try to stop with the lip biting...


*hope i helped*
xoxo Julie

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I really, really like this guy Andrew. He liked my other friend, Xochitl, but he might still like her...I tried to hook them up, but she rejected him. I gave him all sort of ideas. But he came up with a sweet idea of making her a necklace. Andrew and I became good friends, and I started to have feelings for him. I want to ask him out. There is only 4 days left of school though! I was thinking of writing something special in his yearbook. Like, kind of asking him out. What should I write? Or should I tell him face-to-face that I like him? I can't make up my mind!
13/f

I think you should write a note to him saying you like him and you want to go out with him and sign your name with a little heart. :) then you could write something like "I have some stronger feelings for you than you thought" in his year book or in the note or something.

good luck!
*hope i helped*

xoxo Julie

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My best friend's name is John.. and see we dated once for about 4 months, but then broke up and since then have become really, really tight.. Recently, people have been telling me that I've been majorly flirting with him (but thats just the way we are.. but people have been commenting on it recently, like somethings different about it) and I've sort of been daydreaming about him.. But see I really don't want to like him like that because we have such a great friendship and I don't want to sacrafice it. What do I do?

if you dont want your friendship to die down, then you should just leave it as it is, but if you really think you can keep this guy, then i say go for it! it all adds down to you, my friend.

*hope i helped*

send me more questions!! xoxo Julie

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I am going to Australia in July 2006 to play soccer and represent the U.S. in the Youth Friendship Games. Unfortunately, the opportunity is ratehr expensive. about $6,000. I have a year to come up with the money, that means earning money, having fundraisers, and getting sponsers. I am 14 years old, female and live in a rather small town in southern Maine. Can you please give me ideas of companies who might sponser me, ideas of how to earn money, fundraiser ideas?
I REALLLY want to be able to go on this trip. PLEASE HELP!! If you want to know more about the program or want to talk to me more directly answer this and let me know and leave your email. That way I can email you. Thanks to anyone who answers!

~Cathy~

well I'm not sure on some of that but here are some ways of making money!


1.) your never too old to make a lemonade stand!
2.) car wash fundraiser
3.) babysitting
4.) Mow people's lawns
5.) yard sales
6.) selling things


well, *hope i helped* i'd be happy to answer anymore questions you may have, just send them to Julie174! :)

xoxo Julie

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Why is sex such a big deal?

to some people, sex is a big deal because their afraid of being inpregnated or their just afraid. Some people thing sex is NOT a big deal because they've done it many times.


*hope i helped*
i'd be happy to answer anymore questions you may have, just send them to Julie174

xoxo Julie

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okay so this is my long story short. theres this guy i liked in 5th grade currently seventh grade i've known him like FOREVER ! in fifth grade he cheated on me and this year at haloween i went to my friends party and he asked me out i said i didnt know so he was all over in every way he could be so then a month later she had her great grandmoms 80 birthday party and he asked me out again so i said yeah because i liked him and we made out a couple of times and then another month later he asked me out nd i said no allthough i like but hes a MAJOR PLAYER !! and i think i love him everytime we pass eachother in the hallways we look at eachother then lookaway i think he likes me but is afraid to admit PLEASE HELP ME !!

well since im the first one to answer this question, i should be rated a 5. well anyway, i think you should give him one more chance and if he does his "playa" thing. dump him and if he asks you out again, says no automattically. hes not worth wasting time on.

*hope i helped*

i'd be happy to answer anymore of your questions, just send them to Julie174!

xoxo Julie

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Hey,
Ok well 3 years ago i was at my beach house and my dad told me i had a half sister, Elisabeth. He said that she was coming down to visit and like the rest of the family wanted to meet her, like EVERYONE in my family was there. So she came, and she was sooo beautiful and we saw eachother and ran and hugged ^_^ We were so happy knowing we had a sister cause our whole lives we wanted one! so she saw ALL of the family and was upset, she thought it was going to be just me and my dad *big surprise for her* so then we switched aim adresses and numbers and we still talk, but she never talks to my dad anymore and dosent want a relationship with him now cause he was bugging her to go to college. This year she's enrolling but i dont get to see her- at all.. all cause of my dad *whom i live with* and she dosent even know my mom, so it's hard for us to even BE sisters. Does anyone know what i can do to cope with this Fued?!?! Thanx a bunch, i'll rate REALLY, REALLY high for good advice *tear* ... thanx!

*Jill*

k since im the first one to answer this, i should be rated a 5. lol. just kidding. i think you should talk to your sister and tell her he didn't kno all those people were going to be there and if she could come back and see you, it'll just be your dad and you.

*hope i helped*
xoxo Julie'


i'd be happy to answer any more of your questions.

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you probly think im being silly but im not its the truth and it really hurts, im just gonna come out and say it, my mum doesnt love me and im being serious she says she hates me but perhaps she doesnt she might like me but there is no mother love there she talks to my sisters mates more then she talks to me and when she does talk to me she just nags at me and yells i dont have any bond with her and it hurts me when i think about it i know she loves my sister cause she shows her love she buys her everything but that aint even the problem i mean i dont mind if she would rather spend her money on my sister its just that she never hugs me or helps me threw things when im upset when im ill i cry in my room on my own i wish it wasnt true i sometimes block it out and just say to myself that im being silly and its not true, but then some small little thing will triger it off again like it i see my mum hugging my sister or something like that my mum never takes me anywhere and she wil never talk to me about anything i feel alone even when im with a load of people i just feel alone inside all i want is my mum to show me some love sometimes to hugg me some days to hold my hand when im ill and to show me she is really my mum and not some stranger i no this sounds stupid and dont laff but sometimes i cry in my bed and put my arms around me and pretend it my mum telling me everything is alright :( i think its time i faced up to the truth

oh my god! Thats so sad! i have a tears in my eyes!!! I think your mom loves you. I think just cuz she wanted a girl kid and she gets along with your sister more because shes a girl too. but dont think your mother doesnt love you. there is no mother in the world who doesnt love all their kids. sometimes i feel the same way for a long time until my mom surprises me with some way of showing love. she loves you no matter what.

hope i helped
i'd be happy to answer anymore of your questions. im here to talk to. i'll always understand.


xoxo Julie


p.s.God loves you.

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okay thers this guy i like alot alot alot!! and i think he might know.. but im not sure... well we were talking online and we got along so well!! and then i talked to him on the phone for a little bit (maybe like 5-10mins) and he seemed sorta mad/iritated/tired...so i told im id talk to him later... but then i called him the next night and he never answered... i saw him in calss and he completly ignored me!! i was like ummm hello?! so i was really upset!! well i like him a lot and i have no idea what i should do to make him think of me as a really good friend/ girlfriend... any tips?? and also how can i keep him interested??

*he broke up with his girlfriend of eight months in like dec i think... so hes gettng over an ex (possibly)

but please help me out on this!! despreatly need help!! thanks!!

i think you should tell him you like him and do everything he likes to do so he wont become irretated. *hope i helped* i'd be happy to help with any more questions you may have.

xoxo Julie

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If You have ance between your eyebrows and then your pluck your eyebrows, then the acne goes away over time, then you pluck again, can the tweezers be infected and cause the acne to come back when you use the tweezers?

thanks so much in advance! sorry thats so confusing!!

-KeLsA-
:)

I'm not sure...but you should try these tips:
wash the tweezers before you pluck. Use acne cream. Clean the tweezers really well. Add a little acne cream to the tweezers. Maybe use a Q-tip and put a little acne cream on that, and rub in on the pimples and then pluck. I hope I helped! I'd be happy to answer anymore questions you may have!

xoxo Julie

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it's not that i'm a shy person, but I often get stage fright. sometimes when I have to perform a play or skit, or when I have to go in front of my whole class and all attention is on me, my body starts to get really hot and like my face, chest, and arms will turn red. I just wanted to kno if other people are experiencing that too.. and how can I prevent this from happening??

thanxx

I'm shy and stage fright. But, maybe you should say your speech in front of family members or friends who wont make you nervous and do it over and over again and then try it at school. then with plays, you could ask the peoples to turn on some fans or something. Pretend nobody is there. and if that doesnt work, im sorry. I'd be happy to answer any other questions you may have. thanks
xoxoxo Julie

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I need someone who is a vet/and or can help me.
I have 3 sick kittens coming to my house that need treatment for these problems -
Upper respitory infection
fleas *
eye infection *
possible earmites

My mother can treat ones with * next to them since she is a vet tec. No animal hospitals are open at this time and the SPCA wont take them in since they are too much to handle/care for. I dont need sarcastic remarks this seoncd and if your any help at all, I will give you a 5. Thank you, meg

You should bring them to a vets office. even though its night. You should get them to the vets tomorrow right away!! I'm sorry I couldn't help. I could of helped with the fleas cuz my cat had them but I'm sorry I can't answer all your questions. I'd be happy to answer any other questions you may have. Thanks

xoxoxoxox Julie


good luck to the kittens!

I'm a big animal luver!!

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I'm going to start eating right to stay at a perfect , healthy weight area. Does anyone have any like Menu's for the day ( or any websites that would have some ) that a 13 year old girl would accutally eat?
I'll rate high for good help! xOx (btw, im not fat I just wanna lose a few excess baby fat pounds maybe 3-5)

heres something i picked up



morning: eat some low-fat cereal with 1% milk
snack: eat something like a granola bar
lunch: eat like some sort of sandwich like peanut butter or turkey.
snack: something like a gronola bar
dinner: meat products some nights, fruit, vegtables, and avoid fast-food resturants.

every morning, eat breakfast or something, and REMEMBER YOUR VITAMINS!! :) hope i helped.

send me any more questions u might have!



xoxo Julie

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what are the babysitting costs? what should i charge? thank you..

you should charge about $2.15 for kids over 8 and about $3.00 for kids 7 and under. Hope i helped!! send me more questions please!! lol.


xoxoxo Julie

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ok..I'm babysitting now and these kids are out of control!!! I can't get them to settle down! any tips? PLEASE HELP!

you should try playing a queit game with them like duck-duck-goose or hide and seek or set them down with some snacks and watch a movie. rated G of course. lol. well, hope i've helped. send me any more questions you need answers for! :-)
xoxo Julie

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