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Hey im an high school graduate and live in New Jersey where i give advice to all my friends and other people. I give great advice and i wiling to hlp all of you in your time of need. so if you need help remeber: Jazzy Got Da Answer

Jazzy**

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i like this boy who is my ex, he likes me back too. well i went around his way cause my friend lives around there and he was all over me. i didn't believe it would work out so we didn't go back together but then i thouht it might. then he started acting weird so i decided to leave it be. i sorta blamed his weirdness on me because i had acted funny but i can't understand.I still like my other ex who was sent away recently but will be back in september and that's the closest i've ever gotten to perfection.I am thinking about getting in touch with the one who was sent away in september but for now i want to know what i should do about the ex who was all over me. please help i rate high.

if you dont think it would work out then dont second guess your self if the one who was sent away was perfect than get in touch with him. leave the other ex alone.

Hope i helped

Jazzy**

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ok is it ok to have sex when your on your period?

it could get a little messy but it wont hurt you but you can get pregnant still. but the choice to do it is really up to you.

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So i've been talking to this guy named Greg for about 5 days or so and i think i'm starting to like him. And he likes this other girl because he talked to me about it because he needed someone to talk to and he keeps asking me if he should move on or wait and stuff like that. I dont know what to do because were just friends and i like him and i dont know if i should keep it a secret or tell him...

tell him because if you dont he's going to keep talking to you bout this gurl(and you really dont want to hear it been there) he may like you to but if he dont you have to promise to still be his friend.

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My friend is REALLY shy..and she wants me to help her get over it..and i have an idea..I'll take her to walmart and we'll just kinda walk around while my mom shops for groceries and she likes to sing and has "stage fright" so i figured what better way to kinda bust her out of her shell by walking thru walmart singing. The reason i say this is because she is shy singing infront of people..even with one person she gets nervous..i was hoping to get a second opinion on this..would this be too hard on her? i figured i would have her sing for me a little bit then maybe for my parents (or go around the block singing) and then take her to walmart..i'm open to suggestions if anyone thinks they have a better idea! Thanks!

i think you should start little like you and your parents then your friend becaus the walmart idea might make everything worst.


Jazzy**

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I'm 13, so you know the hormones are acting up. My favbe is fine when its warm out but when its hot (which is waht it is in NJ!) my face gets all shiny, greay, and sweaty. EWWW I look like a monster. Its all over my nose and chin. What products can be used? I've heard of oil absorbing cloths. Do they work and are they expensive?

the only one i know of is the one made by clean and clear and they works so well im in the (NJ HEAT) and they works for me

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How does a 14 year old obtain a social insurance number?

social security number ask your parents because you already have one they just have it

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i feel very frusterated and my lower back seems to have a lot of tension i am also questioning everything i do my faith sexuality so on and so on i do not want to feel this way what is wrong with me? why am i getting this feeling? has anyone else had it? please help me i have been feeling like this on and off since april.

i dont know how old you are but it seems to me that your gon througth the change. you may be developing into who you are. we all do it.

Jazzy**

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okay. so im having some trouble. im 15/f and i never have a boyfriend and i mean never. occasionally ill have some random ones pop up but i just never feel anything for him. They all tell me that im their 'little sister' and i just dont get it... I mean, [im not big headed or anything] im not ugly, i actually am very satisfyed with my looks.. i dont get it. like, i am very popular, not because of what i wear, because of how i act... i just dont know how to get and keep a steady bf... any suggestions?

thanks in advance

you have to stop looking the always come when you least except it so just be patient.

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A guy I was with for a year broke up with me. I don't want to mope around the whole summer.
What can I do to distract myself? I've tried lots of things..

everyday of the summer have somethign to do and with other people but honestly you not going to not be able to think of him and thats just real talk but atleats you wont mope around

Jazzy**

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Okay im 14/f(i just turned 14 MAy 6)And ive been talking to this guy (He just turned 16 like last weekend) Well i think our relationship is moving to the point of b/f g/f .... but like i need to find out a way to tell my mom about the ages without her flipping because my mom is very strict and i mean strict.. i mean ive never really had a boyfriend befor so i have no clue what to say and i cant not tell her because one of my sisters will tell her and i will be in deep crap... so how do i tell her about this guy without her flipping out... like exsactly what do i say???

all i can say is just be up frot an spit it out because honestly no matter what different ways they tell you to say it she stillm goin to flip out no matter what and that's just real tlak so just tell her get over with it.


Hope everything work out

Jazzy**

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okay me and my boyfriend has been dating for 3 months now. but we spend everyday together baicually we see each other at least 2 days or more.. so it feel like from both of our point of veiws we have been going out for at least 6
but we havent and we have kinda been you know moving fast in the sexual area i have liked him for 3 years and..and we kissed b.c we went out not make out kiss. but pecks and he went on some dates b4 we went out and now that we go out.. we have been going fast..... we are to the point that we are thinking bout ORAL!??!!
so is that bad can and relationship have too much lust me and him has talked about it he gets kinda annoyed everytime i bring it up because he says at least 3 times a day i love you more than anything/with all my heart... and.. i dont know
its the the oral that bugs me its the time period we have been dating. i mean its been 3 months it feel like forever....

is that good or bad?
and too much lust ruin out relationship
he says i can stop it if i want to.....

ILL RATE HIGH!

only 3 months slow down because whta is going to be for yall to do when ou do finally get to 6 or a year. if you guys love each other that much yall can slow down and wait. of course your going to think about yall are in love you want to do everything but just wait a liitle while longer


Jazzy***

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well im going out with this guy and i really do like him. Well my friends want us to kiss like really bad...dont ask me why but their just weird like that. Well anyways...we've been going out not that long though....only 2 weeks and 2 days to be exact. But we've been friends for a long time. Well i was just wandering if its too early and how to kno if it is and if he wants to yet. Cuz i kno i do..but i dont kno how to see if he does any help?
sincelry,
confused

when you and him are together say ( what would you do or say if i was to kiss you right now) and if he look like or it sounds like he want you to in the middle of him answering the question kiss him if you get the vine that he's not ready say o i just wanted to know. i worked for me it will work for you. i GURANTEE he's ready.

hoped i helped

Jazzy**

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i like this guy who likes me as well but the problem is........ im going to high school and he's staying in middle school. he might ask me out and i don't know if i should say yes, or just stay single for summer and find someone even better in high school. help please

this is tricky because i can say stay single and find someone in high school and you could miss out on a good guy. or i can say go with him and he turns out to be a jerk. so I say stay single for the summer and if you guys are meant to be their will always be another chance.

hope I helped

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im almost 16. ITS LONG BUT PLEASE READ IT I NEED HELP! alrighty well me and this girl had NEVER really liked each other. but then this year we became BEST FRIENDS. well she did some really slutty things and talked behind my back and was just very dramatic and i hate drama. so right now shes like trying to appologize to me and stuff. the only thing is i dont want her as a friend AND I LIKE HER EX BOYFRIEND. which she says shes still madly "in love" with. but shes going to a different school next year. and i want to be able to date whoever i want. and she told him he "CANT" talk to her friends anymore. shes like crazy. so is this guys off limits? cause im not firends with her and i want a new start and i feel like this relationship would be good 4 me....sry this was so long.

gurl please he is NOT OFF LIMITS because the rule is your bestfriend or close frriends she isnt either you want a new start go for it.
you will never get anywhere in life if you live according to someone else.

Hope it works out for the best
Jazzy**

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ok so there is this really really nice guy who goes to my church he is a good friend and stuff and i kind of like a little is that a bad thing or if i tell him do you think our relationship will change i am not sure!

is not a bad thing but is your realtionship going to change is a chance that you have to see if your willing to take. honestly it do change when people found out that people like them more than friends.

Jazzy** i would take the chance whats the worst that can happen

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I was talking to one of my friends (a guy) and we were talking and he told me he likes me. I liked him to but he had a girlfriend. the next day on messenger, he told me that he just told me he liked me because he was being nice. About two days later i left for a trip but he emailed me to tell me that he just broke up with his girlfriend. I got the email and talked to some of my friends and they all said that he told them that he likes me a lot and is going to ask me out. He didn't say anything about it for about a week, then i just emailed him and asked him if it was true (we are good friends anyway). he won't reply to my emails if they have anything to do with it, and anytime we talk it is just as friends. Should i ask him out? What should i do if he won't talk to me about it?

i definetly wouldnt ask him out because you dont want to embarrass yourlf and right now it seems as though his mind isnt made up. so i would just sit back and wait he's coming trust.

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so me and my boyfriend have been dating for a couple months and i love kissing him. and i always want to. we havent done it that much though. and its because i am a nervous wreck every time. he was my first kiss and weve never really made out or anything and he knows that im nervous and that he was my first and he knows i think i have no idea what im doing and he trys to make me feel better about it but i still cant help it. i want to make out with him but i dont know how to or how to get over the nervous thing. please dont say just go for it cuz i wish i could lol. any help you can give would be GREAT!!

you know what i had this problem too when it came down too it ijust let go and didnt hold back take all your feeling you have for him and put it into you guys kissin and i bet it will be a kiss he WONT EVER FORGET. trust me


Jazzy**

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I have these two friends and they both lie at times. To me at times...and well one day they were asking weight. And I said I'm 160 and she said 120. now she's pretty fat and she can't in no way be 120. I was really stunned at her effort to lie. I don't want to confront her but she makes me feel like i can't trust her again.

What do I do? help me please cause it relly hurts me she lied.

maybe you should be her friend to a limit because it may not happened yet but her lies may get you in some troulbe that you cant get out of. and believe people lie about their weight 24 hrs a day

Jazzy**

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I`m 15/f and im inlove with a 19 year old. It`s not that much of a difference but some people think it is. My parents wont let me see him because of his criminal record / past with drugs. What should I do? How can i find ways to be able to see him?
Ive never felt so special in my life and im so happy when im with him. sometimes when im in the car with my parents I start crying cause they dont understand how much i love him and they dont care.
how can i sneak around and find ways to see him please help me!

you may not like this and you may give me a bad ratin but this is just real talk hes TOO OLD for you and he make you feel special because your young honey this isnt real love. sorry but im 18 and my b/f is only 19 rethink this and your parents are usually right even though you dont want them to be.

Jazzy**

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ok so here is a conversation i had with this guy that i like and i can't figure what exactly he meant in his last text message so i'm gonna type the whole conversation and i want you to tell me wat you think he means. I'll rate 5's to everyone that gives me an opinion. O and my name is *Debbie* and his is *Nathan* And this conversation was at 11:30 last night.

Nathan---how about we give what we both want a chance and see how good we really are together. hit me back adn let me know what you think you might like.

Debbie---in shock didn't reply for a minute

Nathan---are you going to text back anytime soon i would really like to know what you think before i go to sleep, i guess i could just call you.

Debbie---Well depends on what you really want.

Nathan---You know what i really want what is it you want.

Debbie---No i don't think i know what you want.

Nathan---I want you and you do know that what do you want, I wouldn't mind there being an US but that would be up to you. but what do YOU want.????

Debbie---(i sent this one to the wrong place)I want there to be an us to.

Nathan---are you there can i get a response please, just leaving me hangin ain't cool you know. I will call you in the morning but i want you to text me.

Debbie---I sent it to your phone instead of your screenname but i want to be with you.

ok this is where i get confused.

Nathan---i never got it but *that's good* i'll call you later ok.

Are we dating? What does *that's good* mean?

Thanks signed
really confused

really confused, i think thats good might mean your dating but you dont want to make an ass out tyour self so just send him a text sayin that you wasnt sure what he meant so are you and him dating

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