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too much LUSTT
okay me and my boyfriend has been dating for 3 months now. but we spend everyday together baicually we see each other at least 2 days or more.. so it feel like from both of our point of veiws we have been going out for at least 6
but we havent and we have kinda been you know moving fast in the sexual area i have liked him for 3 years and..and we kissed b.c we went out not make out kiss. but pecks and he went on some dates b4 we went out and now that we go out.. we have been going fast..... we are to the point that we are thinking bout ORAL!??!!
so is that bad can and relationship have too much lust me and him has talked about it he gets kinda annoyed everytime i bring it up because he says at least 3 times a day i love you more than anything/with all my heart... and.. i dont know
its the the oral that bugs me its the time period we have been dating. i mean its been 3 months it feel like forever....
is that good or bad?
and too much lust ruin out relationship
he says i can stop it if i want to.....
ILL RATE HIGH!
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Hi, for starters I think 3 months is'nt long enough to be deciding for Oral sex. Maybe an extra 3 months before you consider doing it. A relationship should have many feelings and desires involved, but most of all it needs:
Love
Respect
Honesty
For it to work. Yes, having lust wich includes sex is a big part in it, but love and being a friend has even more. Limit your lust. Create more love, love is affection. Don't mistake love for lust. Too much lust could possibly ruin a relationship if the other partner does'nt want it as much as you do. Just think love love love. Love, honesty and respect are the only 3 major things that you need. For lust to happen, you've both got to love each other, not have oral sex because of what he looks like or what he might have to offer you, but first, love which includes affection. Once you can be a friend to him and love each other, then really your ready to take on the next step, Oral sex. Do you understand what I mean? Let me know how it gets on. Daniel.
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I totally understand how your feeling because I myself have been going out with my boyfriend for like 3 months, and it does feel like we've known eachother forever!
So i'm basically using my experience as an example; yeh me and my boyfriend have talked about having sex/oral, and eventhough we say we love eachother, i'm still really thinking about whether to take it to the next level or not.
So all i'm saying is, think about what YOU want to do,and i mean really THINK ABOUT IT, because saying your in love and showing it are two different things. It's ok to have the feelings that you may have right now, but you need to do what makes you comfortable, and that's what i'm thinking about at the moment.
Well I think i've said too much,
Just take it easy and see how it goes and you'll be fine. :-)
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only 3 months slow down because whta is going to be for yall to do when ou do finally get to 6 or a year. if you guys love each other that much yall can slow down and wait. of course your going to think about yall are in love you want to do everything but just wait a liitle while longer
Jazzy***
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You are still at the 'honeymoon' period of your relationship and it is normal to be all over each other. In time your sex life will settle down to be less frantic.
Oral sex can be wonderful to give and to receive but personal hygiene is absolute. You both need to feel as comfortable as possible with each other so that you can let go and enjoy giving and receiving oral sex.
You will probably need to experiment a bit to begin with and that is also part of the fun. Don't get too hung up on what you both look like down there either. We are all different and we all like different things. Have fun.
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