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my boyfriend is obsessed with my tits. he always wants to go up my shirt and see them and everything. we love eachother so it's not like im uncomfortable with it and i honestly dont care, so i guess my question is..why do guys like boobs so much?

To tell you the truth, I don't really know why boobs are so fascinating to males. My guess is that they're just a form of excitement. Really, there's no telling... Men are strange.
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...the guy comes inside the girls ass.
And after a couple of minutes they have sex again only this time he puts it one time in the ass...one time in the pussy, again and again.

Chances of getting pregnant?

I agree with the person that answered before me. The second the penis enters, there is at least some risk. However, recent studies show that anal sex can (very rarely) also result in pregnancy if the guy cums inside. The sperm can somehow make its way down from there to fertilize the egg. Sounds crazy, but if you Google it you'll see.
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how long does a tan from a tanning bed last, adn cost!?!? .....im real cheap but then again i dont want to have to go like every week for a tan, adn if thats the case ill just have to be chalky white......

When you tan in a bed, you have to build it up. Each time, you get a little darker. Some people actually go everyday. I don't think you will make much progress if you don't go at least once a week. They cost about $30-$40 a month depending on the place. You may want to try a tanning lotaion. A lotion is instant and lasts a couple of days. When it fades, you can just apply more. It will also be cheaper in the long run.

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What is the safest time for a woman to have sex?

During your period is the least likely time for you to have sex an not become pregnant. It may sound a bit odd or gross, but it's true.
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my boyfriend and I tried to have sex for the first time a few weeks ago and he couldnt get his penis in.does this mean im too tight?and what can i do to fix this?do we just keep trying until it goes in?

The person below me had that right ideas. If he fingers you before you try to actually have sex, you will become wetter and he will slide in more easily. Also, lube could help but I have never used that method. It will naturally be a little tough the first time, but you will loosen up with time.
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Okay so I am 14, and so is my boyfriend. We are so in love with eachother, and I know that. I really think I'm ready to have sex with him, but I feel like I'm too young. Can anyone tell me how they knew it was time? And what it was like? Thank you (:

I agree with the person below me. I was only 15 when I lost my virginity, but I was sure that he were both ready. If you're questioning it, chances are that you're not completely prepared. As for what it was like... If it is with someone you truly love, it is amazing. You feel even more close to the person than before. Just make sure that your feelings of "love" are mutual before you go that far.
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last year i tried out for cheerleading, and i didnt make it. and i know that soon, their going to have them again. and that would just be sooo much fun for me to be a cheerleader! to get to go to practice, and miss class to go to games, and plus, it will give me more popularity, but thats not what im in it for, im in for it because i like it. well, do you think that this year, i should still try out, even though i didnt make it last year?

I think it is definitely a good idea to try out. Try getting with a current cheerleader to work with you on things you need to know to have a better chance at making it. I am sure someone will be glad to help you. Good luck!
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is it possible to get pregnant if nothing comes out of a guy, no precum, no nothing? like my bf fingered me once but i wasnt ready for it so he stopped and now my irregular period is really late, and im worried, but i dont think thats even possible. he said nothing came out of him at all
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thanks

Don't worry, there is no possibility! I understand that you're worried, but don't be.
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Is it true if you get a physical for school since you have to do that every time you start a new school, is it true that doctors during the physical [or just in general by tests] can tell whether you're a virgin or not? Thanks [:

Getting a physical for school involves nothing like that. There are tests for doctors to be able to tell stuff like that, but they're normally done by a gynecologist for other reasons. Your physical won't have any record of your virginity.
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is it wrong for me to mastorbate im only 14 and i want to get a vibrator but i dont know how to with out my mom knowing help me!

love,
confused =/

Masturbation is completely normal at any age, and many doctors say it's actually healthy. My friend gave me a vibrator as a gift for a laugh and I just hid it in my room where I knew my mom wouldn't look. You are too young to buy one, but if you have an older friend or relative that you are close to, consider asking them to pick one up for you.
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I'm getting my haircut soon. I want to get my eyebrows done as well. I want to get it done on a school night, so my hair is done for the next day. Would it be a bad idea to get my eyebrows waxed for the first time when I have school the next day? I've tweezed them before, but never waxed. I just don't want them to be all red the next day at school.
Thanks.

It will be no problem to wax your eyebrows and go to school the next day. They are only red for a couple of hours.
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I was just wondering, when you give a guy a handjob..do you have to use like a lube? does it feel okay without it cause it seems like it wouldn't feel that good

Many times, giving a handjob isn't planned, and there is no lube around to use. Most guys still enjoy it. I have never used lube for a handjob.
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I have a steady boyfriend and we have had sex many times. I just don't feel a spark though. We want to try new techniques and stuff. Any ideas?

If you do stuff more spontaneously, it will make things more exciting. The risk of getting caught is very daring and it gives you a rush. In my living room, there are two couches. My mom was laying on one and my boyfriend and I were on the other. She was watching a movie not paying attention, so we actually did it right there with a blanket over us. It was funny and exciting because we didn't know if she'd notice, or what would happen.
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Sorry this will be kind of long.
I'm 15/f in my sophmore year at high school, and most of the girls in my school seem to have this mentality that if you don't have a guy or haven't had sex then you aren't normal. They use the phrase "You have to test drive the product before you buy it". Does that mean I have to put out just to be considered date-able, and pass school does that apply for any relationship? Even when I'm older?

Thanks,
AAf

Please do not lower yourself to their standards. They say these things because it's new to them, and they want to sound more experienced and cool. I'll bet that half of them are virgins themselves. Wait until you find a guy you really like, and give yourself to him when you know oyu love him.
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does anyone have any fundraising ideas? it needs to be something kinda small, cause its for girl scouts, and we dont have to have anything huge, but we still want it to be fun.

You could hold a car wash. Many public places will allow your group to hold it in their parking lot. My cheerleading squad hold them at McDonald's every year. These are usually very beneficial.
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is it possible that i'm pregnant? me and my boyfriend always have safe sex. the condom NEVER breaks and we always check if it broke or not. but yesterday night, when we were doing it. the condom broke. it didn't break when it was inside of me, it broke near my vagina. when he hit my lip.. well i call it "lips" cause it looks like it, it hit my lip, then i broke. but he told me he did cum or anything, not even a little bit. he told me not to worry because he's positive that i'm not pregnant and because he's a safe boyfriend. but i HAVE to make sure.. am i pregnant? what should i do?

You are probably not pregnant. It is always better to use condoms and also be on some sort of birth control. Most importantly, don't rely on the pulling out method. My boyfriend and I tried that, and I am currently pregnant. Although I am almost certain you're not pregnant, the only way to tell is to be tested.
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what diseases can yoju get from blowjobs? and whats a discription of them. please helP! whats the safest way to do them

Many STDs are able to be caught from oral sex, such as Herpes, etc. If you Google this, it will help you a lot.
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my boyfriend of 2 years and i recently just started having sex. we bought condoms, and he still pulls out before he comes to be extra careful. however, i'm still paranoid. i want to go on birth control but i DO NOT want to tell my mom. she would freak out and probably forbid me from seeing my boyfriend. (my whole family has waited until marriage) so i was wondering how i could get birth control without actually going through my mom who would in turn go through my doctor. also, are there any other options besides the actual pill? i've been told it costs about $35 dollars through planned parenthood .. thanks!

At my local health department, they give birth control for free. I am not sure if they require parental consent. I think if oyu called your local health department, they can help you with all of your questions.
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when my boyfriend feels me up sometimes i get cold and you know what happens. well do guys like that? or do they find it unattractive.thanks

I don't think in this case you are necessarily cold. I think it is more that you are excited or "turned on." Your guy probably likes this, because it is a sign that he is sexually exciting you.
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so i shave my "down below" because i hate hair. and i do but there is still like little black ones that you can see and it grows back in like two seconds. is there anyway that you can get the hair all the way off and keep it that way longer? thankss

Waxing lasts longer, and looks nicer. It doesn't leave the razor burn and other annoying things. Although this is painful at first, you get used to it.
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