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wut is the best way to get a rid of pimples or acne quickly? i rate!

pro-activ... go to

www.proactiv.com rly good stuff!

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okay i've had glasses for about..10/11 years and im 13 so yeah i've basically had glasses my whole entire life and im sick of it the problem is i have some thing called well idk wut its called lazy eye i believe. Yes, thats it. Anyways when i was about 4 i got surgery because my eye had slid vertically and horizontilly and now its only horizontilly and i called my eye doctor to get an app. today and they gave me an app. for January 10th @ 9:45am and i know i have to get surgery which i'm really glad and then i can get contacts which after i get contacts i'll be soo happy... lots of people think i'm pretty and i guess i am and if i get contacts with make-up and all they say i'll look prettier but most people are going to think im just gettin contacts to look prettier not everyone knows abut my disease and suggestions? or does any have a lazy eye? cuz i've always felt like im the only one

dont worry what other people think about why your getting contacts its not their business and your doing it for yourself not them

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okay i know this is stupid but i have this eyeshadow/liner thing and i really wanna wear it tomorrow for some reason but the problem is it gets all messed up like 5 min. after i put it on is there anything i can do to make it not get messed up? or do i just have to just keep reapplying it? thankz..

put this eye decreaseing base on your lids and it should stay on longer!

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Ok im 15 f and i was going out with my b/f for 6 months and then we broke up,but like 2 weeks ago he asked me back out and i said yes.When i used to go out with him, i would go to his house and hang out,but since ive been going out with him again my dad and his g/f wont let me go over there. they dont trust me, but i have never given them a reason not to, its not like me and my b/f sit around and make out all day,ya know? They said if i want to see him he has to come over here.but i want to go to his house i miss it.lol and ive tried talking to my dad and his girlfriend but they dont understand and i just cant win.

this may sound weird but tell him what yall do then..juss be like ok all we do is make-out you and your gilrfriend do it too no big deal..but he dont want you bein with someone right now maybe??,..or maybe when yall broke up your boyfriend gave him a reason not to like him...think about the possiblitys and ask them why not?!

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I'v always kinda knew that i was a lil distured inside cuz im usually always sad and never happy. I juss try to put on a happy face when im not home juss when im out or around my friends cuz no1 wants 2 hang around sum1 who's depressed all the time. But im so tired of being sad and feeling this way. I finally knew that i had sum serious issues today. There was a football game at my school but me and my two friends left during it cuz it was boring so we went to the mall. My mom picked me up 20 minutes late so i was standing there by myself but we got the exits confused. But when i was standing there i had a breakdown i juss wanted to cry. So instead i started punching the granet pillars infront of the mall to hold in my tears. Kinda self mutilation i guess. I dont wanna go to a therapist cuz every1 will think im crazy and i wanna kill myslef. Im juss tired of being so sad all the time. It juss seems lyk god put me on this earth to be miserable and to see how much i could take. Im tired of it...what should i do?

well go to the theripist but keep it between you and your family dont let everyone else know its not the business to begin with..but thats good that you wanna go and see whats happenin.. i say give it a try dont worry what other people say!

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OKay...well i have this frined and shes goin out with this boy ..and this boy seems to like me more becasue i trust him alot more and everythin and she dont ...but he wants to brake up with her and he is..but hes gonna ask me out..and then ma frined is gunna find out ..and me an her are like sistas it seems..so now i either have to say no or just to talk to him about it ..but idk i really like this boy too an i really wanna go out with him really bad..so plz help..ill rate you and write advice ..PLEASE HELp

-singed
Boys Probs

talk to him about it

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my cousin is really nice, but i think i might like him more than just family, is that wrong or am i just liking him cause he's my friend?
-clueless and creeped out

thast really wrong!...you shouldnt have feeling like that toward your family!..

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ok my friend really liked this one kid Jordan but hers black and shes white..and he asked her out and she liked him but she said no? she tells me that its because they're to close of friends but me and her are so close that I can tell when shes lying and it seemed like she was lying..so I think that she turned him down because shes black and because supposly people would make fun of her but they wouldn't..I dunno what to do becuase Jordan told me to talk to her but I dunno what to say..and if I believe her? please help!

shes probably telling you the truth tell her it could make the friendship and love life more special if she gets with him and if she likes him she juss needs to go for it!

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ok me and my boyfriend are close but theres this one girl we'll call her Ashley and like my boyfriend broke up with me 2 times with me for her and now we're together and hes broke up with her for me 3 times and when we are together *me and my boyfriend* we are together a lot longer than them..and "Ashley" likes him I found out but she promised not to interfere but I'm scared that if he finds out that she'll inerfere..what do I do to keep her away?

tell her hes yours and she needs to get over it..

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14/f I wasn't sure what category to put this under. My brother's friends (17 years old) are quite horny but more so towards me. Last weekend I was getting a piggyback ride from one of my friends and 2 of his friends spanked me! Is this normal? I don't think they're gonna try anything on me because my brother would freak out. It doesn't bother me that much, almost at all. Should I be worried about this?

nope guys just like some ass

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what is the exact purpose of the gyno? I know that they look at your parts and crap, but what the hell are they looking for in general? do all people go there?

~thanks~

to make sure your healthy..any STD's and such..i think

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Okie, here's a little background...my guy and I have been dating for almost 11 months, and we're really serious.
Recentlyish, my mom's been focusing on EVERY little "mistake" my guy makes. For instance, today he was late picking me up for school and she kept saying "I hope he's really coming, because you missed the bus and I'm not driving you." and stuff like that., and I wanted to smack her...Lol. I HATE that she keeps doing this. She takes the tiniest things, like lateness, or the way he's so tight with money and turns them into huge flaws.
I pointed out to her that she makes me think she doesn't like him, and she tells me she's just "looking out for me" and "making sure I see things/the whole picture". Honestly, the only thing I see wrong with him is that he snores on his back...
My guy also thinks my mom has issues with him, and I suggested maybe HE should talk to her about the impression she's giving off, but I doubt he'd do it unless I bothered him about it enough.
The thing is, I've been really careful with this relationship and am able to take myself out of the picture and see what's going on because I want it to work more than anything.
The confusing thing is, mom says she actually likes him. I don't understand her. How do I get my mom to shut up?

your mom seems like the "father figure" in a way because she dosent want you to grow up and get rly serious (or so it seems) juss tell her you growin up and she needs to stop with the comments

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Do yall think that there is someone for everyone? because right now im thinking that no one is right for me ... i mean every guy i date or "talk" to isnt the right guy and ive never had a longer relationship than 3 weeks! please answer! -kayla

well depends on how old you are..?? because if you like 11-23 (maybe younger or older..) you kno you havent had the time to meet a bunch of different guys and if your in elem.,middle, or high school you see the same guys everyday not a varied amount just wait you'll probably find someone!

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Ok there's this guy that I met a little less than a week ago at a party and he asked me for my number. The next day he called me and I invited him to come to the haunted house with me and all my friends. He lives in another town but it's really close... like he walked to my house. Anyway.. after the haunted house we all went to my house to watch scary movies and me and him were like all cuddling and shit and we wound up making out.. I feel like I've known this guy forever and we have so much in common.. So i guess what I'm tryin to say is that is it bad that we hooked up the day after we met?? he even told me he loves me already ..
--confused

nope its not bad but just dont believe him when he says he loves you...but dont feel bad yall were both attracted to eachother and well its your desesion

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Well therfe is this boy that goes to my school that ik really like but one of my close friends like him also....what should i do.....my friend that likes him really thinks that they might have something togetherf......and i dont think thatg i am all that attractive.....please help!!!

find out who he likes and if its you go for it but if its your friends..wait your turn i guess

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i've got a cold. i've seen ads on TV for little strips you wear on your nose to clear it up, but what are those called? Where do you buy them?

thanks

grocey store..."breath right" or sumthing

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When was 13 i made a terriable mistake...i got pregnant by a 16 year old boy....i though that the boy and i had true fellings together that i could share my bodyh with him....but you see what thatg leed to...i was afraid to tell my mother but i told my sister and she paid for tol get and abortion she still hasnt told my mom and i am paying herf almost all of my allowences to pay her back...ever since thatg day of my abortion i feel like a killer...am i?????pleases help...

yea you are you killed a child who didnt get to live because of your mistake..you open your legs you need to pay for the price..but thats my point of view!

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OKAY will people plllleaase stop asking weight loss questions? i mean if god wanted you to be skinny youd be skinny right? and i hate to see/hear people saying they are anorexic or belimuc ( spelling ? ) because you dont need to diet if you can get out of a chair and breathe! ^ NOT TO BE RUDE :) HAVE A GREAT DAY!

true but some "obease" people dont know when to stop so they need more help and the anorexic thing is probably for attention!

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I was wondering, how you do the "smudged" eyeliner?

Thanks

smudge it..?

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Okay. As you all know Halloween is coming up and I have a problem. Halloween is on a Sunday, and my mom set a curfew of 9:30. (that aint cool!) What can I say to make her let up on the lame curfew?

HELP ME!!!!!!!

just tell her its halloween..your tryin to trick-or-teat not come in at 9:30..tell her you'll get up on time and not be tired even if you have school!..even if you are..lie to her..lol

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