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I was wondering if anyone has the Inspiron B130 laptop from Dell? If so, does it work well? Does it give you any problems? I'm 16/f, I would use it for AIM, Myspace, and school work pretty much. Also, how much did it cost you? Did you have to pay extra for other things? (link)
i actually am using it now and i just got it from graduating high school. it works really well.. its fast and easy to run. its very useful and it has the programs already set up such as microsoft word and encarta. i don't know how much it costs though.

-Bess


What is the age that guys usually bring their girlfriends to their house to like, meet their parents and have dinner and stuff? (link)
it doesn't really matter what age that you can go over to your boyfriend's house to meet his parents. i think it depends more along the lines of how long you've been going out and how serious you each are about your relationship. good luck on meeting his parents!

-Bess


ok so im 15/f and i really like this guy and i've liked him for acouple months but we're not in any classes together this year so we never see eachother anymore! i really want to find a way to hang out with him but i have a twin brother and they're pretty good friends and i dont really want him to know that i like him. haha so do you guys have any ideas on how i can find a way to hang out with him! thanks! (link)
well if your brother and you are cool you should be ok to tlka to him because thats a brillant way to get to know him very well from your brother. don't be embarassed just tell him and maybe even invite the guy over the house.


ok my boyfriend is about 20 and i'm about 16 and my supposelly home girl is telling him that im messing around on him with his best friend but im not and i guess he's believing this because he doesn't want to talk to me or his friend honestly i'm not the type to be doing something that bad and i don't want to break up with him because i liked him for three years and i dont wanna hurt him in ne ways (link)
well don't take take this to offense but don't tell us tell him. tell him what you jsut said that you don't want to hurt him and that you love him and that he means the world to you and that that guy means nothing.



Hi there =]
I'm 14 (if it helps?) Well we all know HALOWEEN is coming up soon. I'm trying to get ideas on what to do for a costume. I kind of want something 80's inspired. Maybe something like an 80's hipster girl with the crimped hair and such. Any ideas on what to wear, how to do makeup, where to get this stuff, etc. If you have any pictures for inspiration? Also i'm on somewhat of a tight budget. (link)
http://www.inthe80s.com/halloween.shtml
http://www.mydivascloset.com/magi80cofor4.html
http://www.80s.com/default.html

here are some websites on the 80s. have a blast!


I'm looking for contemporary songs that have the themes of either
A-peer pressure
or
B-finding good, true friends
This is for a paper that is a big part of my grade.

I'll rate high for any ideas at all. (link)
You've Got A Friend- James Taylor
Friends- Bette Midler

sorry! these are kinda of old songs but they are about friends!! :)


My mom is starting to get REDICULOUS. First off, a couple weeks ago, I stayed home from school because I was sick. She grounded me for 4-5 days. Then on wednesday, I came home from school 1 1/2 hours early because my back hurt and I was practically in tears and then on the way home she told me I was grounded for the weekend for coming home early. Does anyone else find this rediculous? I was supposed to go to a dance tonight but then she told me no because I came home early on Wednesday and said I was faking and it was only "period cramps" even though I have my period at the end of the month. Can someone please tell me something to do?? I'm starting to get depressed because I can never do anything anymore. (link)
i would sit down and talk to your mom and just ask her why she doesn't seem to trust you anymore? if she asks you why would you say that? say i don't know maybe its because you don't believe me when i'm sick or that i pains in my back and then you ground me!! have you lied to her lately have you maybe done something to make her wonder? i don't know tlak to her and see what is going on. Communication is the key!!


Okay so it's my last year in LA, my hometown, and I want to make a really good impression at our Halloween party (9th grade, high school) Lots of cute boys to impress, and I want it to be something original but sexy. Not a whore, or anything blatantly stupid and cliche like that. I would do the Sid and Nancy thing with someone, but turns out I've got no one!! Any ideas? (link)
i dunno. maybe like a playboy bunny??! ummm... you could be a devil or something. like an angel?? i dunno watch mean girls cuz that seems to be a good movie that has good costumes in it. hope you have fun!


Ok, so there's this guy i like at school. He hangs out with this other girl at school and she's really mean, and this guys nice. How do I get around him if the girls hogging him and with him every second of the day? (link)
well how much do you know about this guy? i think you should become friends with him first. maybe ask him if he wants to come over your house and chill with your friends and you. or maybe ask him to call you sometime talk to him on the phone and see what happens.


I have a OLD friend but really concerned about her. She is just 12 and she went to her B/Fs today. She won't stay at her dads (parents r split up) and she always stays at her moms. I guess she wants people to think she iss cool I don't know. She acts like a prep and she NEVER calls her dad or anything and you know it hurts his feelings and she hasn't been to her dads in 2 weeks and when she did go she stayed in her room. Her dad and my sister (who is married to him LOL) have been VERY good to her. I mean my dad doesn't even care about me and she doesn't know how luccky she is. What can I do. Thanks (Please no smartA**es) (link)
OK first off no offense but its her life let her do what she wants even if its wrong she will realize in the long run she did wrong. as for the relationship with her dad there might be something there that she doesn't want anyone to know about and if she doesn't hang or go over her dad's house thats her choice.

As for the whole boyfriend thing i would leave that alone if i was you because what she does with her boyfriend is not anyones business and yes she maybe 12 but she is a teenager and she has the right to privacy.

most girls when getting into the teen years want their mothers not fathers because its much more comfortable to talk to your mothers and hang out with them then their dads. but not to say that you don't need a dad but its more likely that maybe at this time in her life she NEEDs her mother more right now. she probably still loves her dad though and nothing will or could ever change that!


okay so last night i woke up at like 3 and i was really nugry but i didnt want to go downstairs to grab something so i tried to go back to sleep...in the morning i had like a really bad stomach ache...then i was hungry so i went down to grab something but its like hard to eat...im hugry but i dont want to eat...wut with that? (link)
i think i know what you mean i get these stomach pains and i want to eat but i can't because you feel that you might get sick. you might be coming down with a cold or something or maybe you have a bigger or small appetite then you did before. i would consult a doctor!


i think im pushing people away but i dont know why. ive only liked a couple of guys in my lifetime (im 17/f) and what happens is i really really like them, but then when they start to like me back, i begin to find them repulsive. for no reason at all. i dont understand. nothing about them changes at all, i just decide that i hate them. why do i do this?? (link)
its normal everyone does that. i too push guys away when they get to close because i'm afraid i'll get hurt or rejected in the end. no one wants to be rejected but thats life everyone is rejected once on awhile. you probably do that to guys because you want to protect yourself and not get hurt which is totally understandable.



i don't think my b/f loves me any more he seems to be so distant lately and like he can't keep promises . he says he going to call but doesn't. i think he might even be cheating on me , it's not like a normal realtion ship he lives 3 states away i need help . (link)
long distance is tough and it can make things tough i would maybe just stay friends for now. cuz long distances are tough to keep!



there's this guy I like. We're both 13. He has a g/f. Recently, he discovered I like him (I've been trying to hide it). Suddenly, he's demured a little around me. I mean, we're still friends and all, but it's different. How can we be the way we used to? I know I don't have much of a chance w/ him. (link)
i wwent through the same thing with my friend kevin. i told him i liked but it never really worked to make a long story short. just try and chill as much as you can he should be cool about it. but honestly its gonna take awhile for you guys to be friends again, and it may not be the same again oyu maybe even closer than you were before like me and my friend kevin. and if doesn't want to hang than that his problem you don't deserve to be treated like crap. hope everything works out and if you need to tlak i'm here just leave an letter in my inbox.


Hey advicenators!
have anyone ever organized a 5k run/walk to raise funds for anything?? i want to organize one in my hometown to help hurricane Katrina victims with the money going to the red cross. i dont have a lot of money to start off with and i was hoping someone could help me find a place, time and give me some pointers. thanks! (link)
hey! i'm a senior in high school and i'm currently doing my grant for a concert to raise funds for also hurricane katrina. what you should do is talk to some companies in your community and see if you could get granted for this fundraiser you'll be doing. bring it up at city hall bring the idea to the table and see if you community can help you out in anyway. if you need anymore help just leave something in my inbox.


why is it latley i feel bloated like everytime i eat it doesn't matter if it's alot or a little.like today i drank a mountian dew and i felt bloated.it's not my period cause i just had it 2 weeks ago. (link)
its normal to feel bloated after you eat, i feel bloated after i eat too. its normal don't worry you'll be fine in a couple of days.


how should i ask a guy to homecoming?
we've been tiptoeing around the idea of going together for a while, and i figure i might as well just ask him already so i can keep life simple (link)
GO FOR IT!!! you better hurry though cause there maybe other girls who will ask him. so go for i and ask him already that is if you still wanna go with him?? which its sounds to me like you do. HAVE FUN!!


is there any way i can get a guy to like me kinnda fast ..like give me some tips on how to get him to like me
thanks (link)
well it seems to me your trying to force a relationship and thats wrong because in the end you'll realize that the relationship is fake. but if you want him to like you just be yourself don't change for him.


how can i tell if a girl likes me 13/m if it helps
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she will mostly want to spend plenty of time with you she may even compliment you on how you look or maybe how your do in school or a sport. the point of it is is that she'll want to spend every moment with of every hour of every day. if you like her i would suggest flirting back.


if you have ever had laughing gas like when you had stuff done on your mouth, can you tell me what its like please?! FAST (link)
my sister had laughing gas i think you just don't really know whats going on i think it feels like your knocked out but not entirely.




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