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Q: What do i do if a guy friend who i dont like 'in that way' puts his arm around me in a 'more than friends' way and goes up the back of my shirt alittle, without hurting his feelings, letting him no i am not intrested. Also what do i do if a guy who i like puts his hand on my leg to let him know i like him back
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1. well, you kinda just have to tell him. just tell him you only think of him as friends. or, like the other person said, you can kinda shake him off, but i think that's more rude/mean than just telling him you don't think of him that way.
2. smile at him. or when you hug him, hug him real tight and hold on for a few seconds. or, when he puts his hand on your leg, put your hand on top of his and put your fingers through his. or pick his had up and play with it. or touch his hand, turn it over and hold his hand.
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Q: what are certain things i can do for a guy to get him going sexually. ya know :)
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kiss his neck, put your hands on his waist and work your way down, if you know what i mean, rub his leg, etc.
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Q: I would like your opinion. I have been with my husband almost 7 years, married 3. We love each other very much I know. But the first year of our marriage he became involved with his employee. He also admitted to me he was 'obsessed'. I don't know the extent of their relationship but they worked in a bar that allowed them to spend hours together late into the night. I know he would even puposely schedule her to work nights they'd be together.
During their relationship I found numerous photos of her on his pc, disk drive, and cell phone. He knows how much it hurt me and it almost cost us our marriage. A year ago he told me it was completely over and after that she quit her job.
It's been almost nine months since I know of him seeing her and we dont talk about her but recently I found several more photos of her on his computer. Do you think he keeps them for memories, thinking i'll never find out. I know they were not there nine months ago. Should I confront him and dredge up the past or leave it be and continue to hurt in private?
I think about this several times a day and sometimes cry about it.
I welcome any advice you can give. Please reply to my e-mail, I would appreciate if you not post this anywhere. Thank you.
age: 24
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bring it up. find out what he's up to. if you keep letting him "get away" with what he's doing, he's gonna be more and more confident that he can get away with more, and he'll probably hurt you even more. why hurt in private ? relationships are based on trust and honesty. if that's not happening, this relationship isn't. ask him why they're there. if they're new pictures, it must mean he contacted her somehow, otherwise, how would he get pictures again ? there's no point in staying in a one ended relationship where the guy is cheating on you and hurting you. no man is worth the pain. if he keeps this up, i suggest you get a divorce. if he'd cheat on you once, he'd porbably cheat on you again. if he can't tell you the truth, you're not gonna get anywhere with him, and again, NOBODY is worth the pain you're probably going through right now.
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Q: 16/f
my best guy friend jokes with me about being sexual with each other or having a relationship. can this mean anything or is it just joking among friends?
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there is a possibility he's trying to hint something to you. if you like him, show him you're interested. if you don't like him, wait and see if he actually tells you, then tell him you don't like him, but don't just tell him right off the bat because he might just be joking around and then you'd feel stupid.
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Q: I'm getting my nose pierced in a few weeks and I'm not sure which nostril I should get done. It would just be a bolt...my mom isn't letting me get anything else.
Everywhere I've looked hasn't mentioned anything about it, but does it matter which side you get pierced? What I mean is, does it mean anything like ear piercings do?
f/16
Thankya :)
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people tend to do it on their left nostril. it doesn't really matter, but some people do it according to the hairstyle. say you part your hair on the left - then you'd get the left nostril peirced, and if you part your hair on the right, you'd get your right nostril pierced. i suggest that when you go, you ask the person doing the piercing about which side you should get it on.
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Q: My bff is acting strange lately. She used to always want to hang out with me and our other friends but now, she attempts to sit with the "popular" kids and ignores us in the hallways. But as soon as we leave school she's like "wanna go to my house?" and we don't want to hurt her feelings by saying no. so we say yeah. But then once we get to her house she starts gossiping, which we(me and other friends) don't like. She talks about people. and sometimes we wonder why she does. She is turing into one of them(populars) it is getting old.
We know that the populars don't like her at all cause she's constantly saying "oh i am fat" and "my hips are HUGE" and no one likes that. So she is pretty much trying to become something that she probly will never be and we are getting anoyed.
Well my question is how can i explain to her that what she's doing is anoying us? i mean i tried telling her that she was annoying us but she says that "your a dork! you don't know what cool is! and what i am doing is the definition of cool" not even kidding she said that exact thing to me. And to our other friends and now they(friends) don't wanna be around her!!
What can i do before she loses all her REAL friends forever?
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tell her straight up. simple as that. find a way to get it through her thick head. if she still acts like that, she's not worth the effort.
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Q: kk so mostly every video uploading site thing won't allow more than 10 mintues or video. Not youtube, not zippervideos, not myspace, not tinypic. & i desperately need to upload this vid (289mb - approx. 14 minutes) because it's a birthday shoutout for my best friend & her b-day is today. any help? how can i upload a video that long? and where? thanks!
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i'm pretty sure you can upload it on veoh. (veoh.com)
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Q:
My boyfriends sixteenth birthday is coming up in a month. I already know he is getting a car,so getting places won't be a problem. Coincidentally his birthday is also Our 0ne year anniversary too. he is more of the music type, not really into sports.
what i had planned is:
1. making him a cake the night before.
2. that day, taking him out to a nice sushi restaurant for our one year/ his birthday.
3. now i just need to take care of a gift,
something meaningful. but yet something he will like.
any suggestions?
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well, i suggest burning him a nice cd or getting him tickets to see his favorite band or something.
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Q: hey!
Just got my ears pierced, I know you're not supposed to take the earings out for like six weeks because they can close up, but I was wondering why you cant even take them out for a few minutes to clean them. Can they close up that fast?
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well, i got my ears pierced and i took one out a week later. it was really hard to get it back through and it hurt again and it was bleeding and it swelled and stuff, so maybe it does start closing up really fast. i think the main problem is that if you take it out, it can get infected really easily. just don't take it out. clean it with them in, just like they say.
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Q: can someone tell me about that bloody mary legend with the mirros and stuff
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Queen Mary and Queen Elizabeth were half sisters. queen mary killed a lot of people. i think queen elizabeth did too. anyways. they were fighting for the throne and queen elizabeth killed queen mary. now, supposedly, if you say bloody mary three times in the bathroom alone with the lights off, you'll see her in the mirror.
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Q: Oh, I'm so mad right now! I'm going to this high school football game with one of my friends, and this one guy from our school asked if we wanted to sit with him and his friends at the game.
Well, my friend's guy friend said that the guy that wants us to sit with him and his friends is going to pretend to hit on us and embarrass us in front of all of his friends, which make up a good portion of the 8th grade!!!
What should we do? I wanna reverse this prank...
What do you think? Any ideas?
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Q: I'm wanting to re-do my room with something completley original. I was thinking 90's hip hop with bright colors like orange and blue. I've been searching on google and I typed in "Hip Hop Duvets and Bedding". I got absolutley nothing! Does anybody know where I can find something like that?
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check out http://www.pbteen.com.
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Q: my friend has been feeling sick often, he can't sleep that much anymore, because he does. last time, he went to sleep at 9 pm and woke up at 5 pm and threw up. and he just threw up like... 30 minutes ago also. >.
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i don't think its food poisoning, but it could be the stomach flu. have him go see a doctor.
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Q: does anyone know where i can get a cute bedspread online?? websites would be great! thanks
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annaslinens.com has some pretty cute stuff for good prices.
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Q: what are other items u can masterbate with other than the bathtub faset or a brush handle?
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a string of pearls/other round beads. just stuff them in there &pull the out. the speed at which you pull them out &the size of the beads just depends on you.
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Q: i had to go to the bathroom and i held it it for like an hour then i fiannaly went now my stomich really hurts. not like gas pains like wieird cramp only in one area. my lower left side. it really hurts.
what happneed/ what do i do?
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something might have happened to one of your kidneys. go see a doctor asap.
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Q: I got my nails done about 5 weeks ago so they are looking uglyyy right now. my natural nail takes up half of the tip.
my questions are:
-should i trim them? then let the rest grow out?
-can i still get fill ins after they are already this grown out and get them shorter and have my nail the same length at the acrylic?
-should i just get them taken off?
thanks in advanced.
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just get them taken off for now. if you have acrylics on for too long, it messes up your natural nail really bad.
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Q: well my brother has this friend and his name is josh. i really like him like that and i think he likes me back because my mom can tell when he comes over he always looks at me,taks to me,sits with me,and we have lots of fun together but my brother wont let us date and he wont ask me out because he is afraid of what my brother will do but my mom says go for it.and i really want to but ther is this other guy that i like named eric and he moved away but we will go to high school togeather in like two years should i wait for eric or go for josh now?
im 15 and female help me,
chira
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just go for josh ! who cares what your brother says. live your life the way you want to, not the way others expect you to. take your chances now. waiting two years for one guy with no guarantee is stupid. go for josh, and once eric comes back, well, you'll have to wait and see what happens then.
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Q: ok here are the details:
im thirteen and will be fourteen in november
im normal, not anorexically skinny.
i skip a meal every now and then though, but only because i wasn't hungry
but im not anorexic.
i mostly over eat :]
but anyway, the problem:
i got my first period in march; and it lasted for a week.
its been five months, i havent changed anything about my health or my diet, and i havent gotten it since. i havent told my mom, because im hoping it will just come back.
im kind of worried, is this normal?
what do i do?
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well, i wouldn't worry about it. it happens sometimes. you're young, and you just started getting it. mine took about 3 or 4 years to regulate. if you're worried, just talk to your mom about it, but i wouldn't worry about it.
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Q: Is it true that when you smoke a cigarette you get a "buzz"? Is it like a buzz you would get from drinking or what?
Also how many would you have to smoke to get it?
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the first couple of times you smoke, you just get like a lightheaded feeling. once you get used to it, cigarettes just help releive stress.
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Gender: Female Member Since: January 23, 2007 Answers: 334 Last Update: December 23, 2010 Visitors: 16105
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