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Ok my boyfriend is turning 13 and i really love him and he loves me but hes birthday is coming up and i wanna get him a good gift any ideas?

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hes not really into sports or anything like that but hes not a skater

hmm hes a idea...fuck him :)...that will make him happy..but im sure since your both 13 you havent even been past 2nd base..ohh wait your in love.

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okay i am trying to make a rock cd with only emo and punk rock on it... (im a rock kinda girl) and i was wondering what are some good emo or punk rock bands these are ones i have so far

-halifax
-senses fail
-taking back sunday
-finch
-fallout boy

any others? thanks i'll rate 5's for some good bands :-D

here are some good bands:

sex pistols
New Found Glory
Blink 182
Alkaline Trio
NoFx
MxPx
Taking Back Sunday
Something Corporate
Yellowcard
Simple Plan
Sum 41
Rufio
The ataris
Dashboard Confessionals
Maroon 5
Modest Mouse
Thursday
Saliva
Seether
Smashing Pumpkins
Smile Empty Soul
Socialburn
Homegrown
Stone temple pilots
Story of the year
SwitchFoot
Goldfinger
Fountain of Wayne
The starting line
Dropkick Murphys
Less then Jake
Riddlin kids
Bowling for Soup
My Chemical Romance
Matchbook Romance
The Used
Senses Fail
The All American-Rejects
Green Day
Box Car Racer
Brand New
Good Charlotte
Coldplay
From autumn to ashes
Saves The day
Sugarcult
Afi
Catch 22
Count the Stars
The Donnas
Jimmy Eat World
Misfits
Rancid
Ramones
The Vandals
Weezer
Yeah Yeah Yeahs
Get up Kids
The Early November

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I'm 17/f. My boyfriend of 2 years and I are going to a concert this summer and I really want to lose my virginity to him soon, so I figured why not that night? After the concert, I was wondering how I could somehow initiate it or give him a sign that I want to have sex with him THEN? I dont want to kill the moment by discussing it beforehand because I know it'd make him AND me feel uncomfortable knowing. I want to let it happen on it's own without making it seem awkward. How do I initiate the moment?

well if talking about sex with eachother makes u uncomfortable then maybe you guys arent ready to do it

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hey.. im a 23/m... my mom and my xgirlfriend are like really close. well, we all live at a campsite and we are all really close, there's like, a bunch of friends living together, but i dont really have to explain that. well, they are really close because we've all known eachother since we were like 6, and all the older ones were like, 40. anyway. well, i really think i still like her, a little, but we broke up because i came in drunk and she got upset, and well we were gonna get engaged but it didnt work out. nd now her and my mom are really close and its bothering me a little, because now im all awkward around her, even though ive known her my whole entire life.

well if u think you still like her then apoligize to her for coming in drunk. atleast become friends again u guys have known each other for to long to just never talk again.
i hope everything works out

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My mom is 45 and shes been havin some mood swings. Like she'll offer to take me shopping then the second we get there she'll start yellin cus I tried on a few clothes, She's done this a few times, like if i ask for friends to come over she'll ground me.
Is she goin through Menaupuase? Or is something else wrong?

umm it might be, but im not to sure she might still be a little to young for that but who knows, im no doctor. maybe you should sit down with your mom and see wats up
hope i could help

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I saw a post when you replied to a girl who had razor burn when she shaved down there, and you said to use nair. doesn't it say you shouldn't use it on the bikini line? do you think it would be safe anyway?

no it doesnt say you cant use it on a bikini line. you can use regualr nair or you can get a special kind for bikini line

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I just shaved my pubic area for the first time, and now it itches really bad when I walk!! What can I do about this?

you can try cortizone one (if thats how its spelt). next time you shave downt there make sure you use a brand new razor. or even better use nair.
hope i could help

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What are good campaigning ideas. My friend is running for social committee for our school and we need ideas. We've made flyers and pins.. what else could we make?

uhh maybe you could make some cookies or browinies or something like that and take iceing and right vote for(whatever your friends name is).
hope i could help

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hey. how do you get one of the star ratings by your name thing whenever you look through the columnists thing? do you have to have a certain number of ratings or something? thx

yea the people that give you advice have to give you high ratings
hope i could help

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ok, condoms...
good or bad?

good. deffinatly wear one. you could get a disease or a girl pregnant if you dont.

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Does your child have to be a certain age to let them stay home alone for about 2-3 days? Just wondering because me and my husband's 25th year anniversary is comming up and I want to get out of town for a few days just the two of us. I was wondering if it is legal for me to allow my 14 year old to stay home alone for a few nights.

umm im not really sure b/c i dont know where you live, but i know in new york you have to be like 16 to stay home alone im not sure. but im 14 and i stay home alot by myself and never has anything happened. but i also know b/c i am a 14 year old you should probly get someone to stay with her, i know 14 year olds. i dont know she might not be like me but if my parents left me alone for a few nights i would be haveing a party or some friends ver or a guy.

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I am trying to get some really cute skirts... Do you know of anyplace that has cute summer/winter skirts that are cheap? I am trying to get a style and I have found I like the vintage. If you could give me the websites or even the names of some stores, that would be more than helpful !ThAnKyOu!
~*~mAdDiE~*~

umm u could try:
aeropostal
wet seal
pac sun
marshals
american eagle

hope i could help

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Hey everyone.. i need names for my older sister she's pregnant again and she wanted some different names that are forgein or just something unique.. well we liked the name Nevaeh which spells Heaven backwards but she dont know anymore names and we also would like middle names and we need both boys and girls names.. so please help ill rate high thanks in advance...

umm you oculd try babynames.com
or go to google and typeing in babby manes might help
sorry i couldnt be more helpful

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ive known this guy for 4 years and about 3 weeks ago he said that he likes me and it was weird for him beacuse it was in a sexuall way. i dont really know what that means but is there anyways that you can help me understand? i really like him too its just that he seems to want to go further than im really wanting to and we have talked about it and he isnt gonna push me into anything. but i was just wondering, does he really like me or just want some bootie? ya know. he always tells me how beautiful and gorgeous i am and that he thinks im so hott and all i just dont know if her really does like me. can you help? another thing, he got very mad at me becuase he said i broke a promise to him b.c i told my friend about us and we werent even going out. he kept telling me that thats how i make him not want to be around me anymore.. what should i say besides im sorry??

he likes you in a sexual way, i think just means that he likes you as more then a friend.
and to see if he really likes you or just wants you for bootie, dont let him get any bootie untill you have been going out for a really long time, if he sticks around that means he most likely likes you.

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Me and my old not quite boyfriend got in a fight because i had hickys on my neck and i said they were from one of my g/fs and he found out i wAs lying and he wont talk to me.. Should i give him a call and tell him im sorry? Or what should i do i miss him.. And i made a huge mistake..

yes deffinatly call him and tell him, but i doubt he will care that your sorry, i mean what would you do if it was him that had the hickies and cheated on you. but just tell him that you care about him and it wonlt happen again, and dont let it happen agian.
hope i could help

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my friend and are are currently in a fight, you see she is an awesome friend and its a lot of fun hanging out with her and stuff. Lately she has been into this guy and she not being herself, she is ignoring me when he is around but yet she is always asking me to come chill with them. we had a huge fight on the phone and i told her i don't like her when she is hanging out with him and then she said fine then don't hang out with me and she hung up. what should i do??

simply you need to just tell her how you feel. thats really the easiest thing to do. tell her she needs to make time for you and him. and you need to understand that when people get older things change, and sometimes people start to hang out with other people exspecially when they like boys. but this doesnt mean shes forgetting about you, im sure your still her bffe. but you deffinatly need to tell her how you feel
hope i could help

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Does any1 no of any good websites to go becuase im bored (not bored.com)Thanx!!

www.quizilla.com
www.zenhex.com
ww.quizdiva.com
www.quizfarm.com/
www.bzoink.com
www.kwiz.biz.

or you can even try www.myspace.com...its pretty kool
hope i could help

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My boyfriend and I gave our virginity to eachother ( im 14 he 16) and the way we slept together was we snuck out of the house. I got caught and now I am grounded until June 18 now we got caught on April 25 and ever since then he was acting really weird like he didnt like me anymore and everything else but before april 25 we did it 4 times before that. and he acted fine but the thing is he didnt even get in trouble for sneaking out and hes acting really really really weird. like I talked to him about how he's changing and he said he doesnt know whats going on. so i asked him if he's still interested and he said "i guess so" then the next day i asked him do you want to be with me and he didnt answer then we almost broke up but we didnt and then i said to him i need you to be more affectionate and he said no. and hes not going to change or even try to.

This is very confusing but for people who understand me tell me. Should I break up with him? and what is wrong with him!!

I WILL RATE 5'S!! JUST PLEASE HELP ME!!

it is a little confusing so if my advice is wrong dont be mad im going to try. well its a fact that people change expesially guys. this guys doesnt seem like he wants to be with you anymore, if i was you i would brake up with him know atter how much you like him. if he likes you alot he will stop you from doing it. he already said he didnt want to be affectionate towards you that might mean he doesnt want to be with you, but he didnt brake up with you so he might like you who knows. but braking up with him and seeing if he wants you back may do the trick.
hope i could help

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im 14 and im a girl, well theres this kid that i like and he likes me too, but i dont think he will ask me out because hes afraid that i will say no. I dont know if i should ask him out or just wait to see if he asks me. what should i do?

uhh maybe wait a little longer but not to long and if he still doesnt ask you out then ask him.

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ok i feel really dumb asking this but what exactly is "feeling up"? could someone explain this to me plz? thanks a lot!

um its basically when a guy goes up a girls shirt and touches her boobs thats all.

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