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[Name] Stephanie
[Nickname] Sparkles, Pimpalicious
[Screen name] x p l i s i t 15
[Birthday] 2/15/89
[Age] 16
[Astrological sign] Aquarius
[Location] New York
[Sexual Preference] I like guys, lol
[Marital Status] Not married but ive got a man
[Religion] Athiest, haha j/k. Catholic
[Eye color] Blue or green, depends on light
[Height] 5 8
[Shoe size] 8
[Parents still together] Yep
[Siblings] None
[Pets] A dog and a rabbit
[In school/graduated] High School Sophmore
[What do you drive] I dont yet, but ive got an eclipse sittin in my garage waitin for me when i get my permit!

Stephanie In a Nutshell: Im 15, i have a boyfriend named kevin who is very hot(and a soccer player *grins*) i play basketball and run track-distance only, i suck at math, i hate school, and im a huge flirt!

If ya got questions for me drop em in my inbox!

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ok i was woundering doesnt the live strong thingz come in different colorz besides yellow ? cuz i saw dis guy in my class had a purple nd red. nd they have them anything nike ? thanks

Yeah, they make ones that arent live strong. The ones ur talkin about are basketball ones. They say things like "team" and "baller" on em. I have a pack of em, blue and green ones. But i couldnt find em in stores anywhere! Ur best bet to find em is on ebay or something. Oh yeah, i think they made pink ones for breast cancer awareness month.

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what are intervals i have nvr heard of thoes and have played 4 a long time? can u tell me and n e other exersizes u can use?
-kla

ive played for like 4 years and im goin into my 5th season but on varsity this year, and ive done 3 years of AAU. And i run track in the spring which is where i learned about intervals. Intervals are where u mark out a distance, we usually do these on the track. The whole point of these things are to wear ur body out to the point of exaushtion! So you mark out ur distance..ur best bet is 1/4 of a mile. Try to run that distance in under 40 seconds...and make sure u run em with like really fast. But what u do is u only give ur self one minute before u go and do it again! Do it like 5 times..give ur self a 2 minute break then do a couple more. This should make u really tired but theyr gonna make u alot faster. Another thing u think u should try to work on is buliding up ur leg strength, after all..when ur playin defence ur legs get hella tired! Id mesure out like 20ft of space in ur backyard..or if u have a long driveway that works too. Do a series of these things in kinda a jogging type thing-butt kicks..jog and bring ur feet up and hit ur butt, high knees...when ur jogging bring ur knees up as high as u can, short skips..do em really fast and keep the skips tiny, long skips..ur goin for distance on these, and do some lunges..im pretty sure ur gonna know what those are. Another suggestion i have...join track in the fall. its gonna teach u some skills to help prepare for sports. Ive been doin track since i was in 7th grade, im in 10th right now and plan on doin it again.

Hope ive been able to help ya hun! Anymore questions just leave em in the inbox.

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i play basketball really good but i need to improve in getting faster. Does anyone have a clue of what i can do to maybe improve in getting faster?

Ok, if you know what ladders are (also called suicide..) try doing those. Also, id messure out an area about the size of a basketball court and give ur self a time limit to sprint from baseline to baseline...start with 10 seconds...do it 3 times..then drop it to 9 seconds..do it 3 times and so on. This is what my bball coach has us do. If you know what intervals are try those. If you want more explanation feel free to leave ur questions in my inbox.

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My Ex is one of my best friends now and I have a new Boyfriend and He has a new Girlfriend... But today at lunch he pulled me aside and said this:
"If we were together again, like we were at one time, would you try harder to make it workout?" Now This has me seriously confused and I dont know how to take it So I just replied "I dunno" Wat did he mean?

I think he might want to give it a second try..personally ive never beenin in this situation, but i think he wants u back.

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hello! I'm your friendly neighborhood moderator! I deleted your question! why, you may ask? BECAUSE WE ARE NOT YOUR BRAIN. DO YOUR OWN WORK.

Hello, all i wanted was just a little help!

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Do you believe in Long Distance Relationships? Like, if you talk to them online and you talk to them on the phone and stuff, and your still in your preteen-early teen years. Do you think its bad?

How long of a distance we talkin here? The farther it is, the worse it is. And they are wicked stressful. I think you should try to avoid long distance relation ships, it hurts less letting the person go than not seeing them for months at a time if not longer.

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i just want yalls opinions. do u thing black and black and white and white and mexican and mexican ect. should only get married? or should they mix. ok thanks.

Personally i dont think its an issue if your truly in love with the person.

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Okay, this guy asked me out and I really like him in all but he is shorter than me. Please don't leave well if you like him then it wouldn't bother you. I know that I need advice on how it won't affect me, if that makes any since?! PLease Help!!!

For gods sake, it doesnt matter if hes shorter than you! Give the kid a break!

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i used to like this guy now i dont like him any more but he likes me alot wut should i do?

Just tell him how it is, i know the truth can hurt but with some people the word hint just isnt in their vocabulary!

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Well, there is this boy in my school named Greg and he is going out with a boy named Shannon. I really like him and we are becoming really good friends and stuff. He is telling me stuff so i think we are on the right track. I have had a hige crush on him since 6th grade and we've yet to go out. I don't know what to do. Do i need to change my looks to get him to notice me?

Signed,
A girl in desperate need!

No, you dont change your looks for any guy! Never!

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ok lets make this as simple as possible.
i have a b/f..who i love with all my heart. i was at a afootball game with him tonight at the high school. he went to get food. my ex came over to me, who is now my best friend i gave him a hug and a kiss on the cheek. my boyfriend saw and is all upset. is that wrong of me? i don't see that as a problem! he is my BEST FRIEND! i hug every1 & it was just a kiss on the cheek..like i love him, hes my ex, yeah, but hes also a friend! does my b/f have a right to be so mad?! when he knows i only love and want him .. =/ thanx

Wow, well the kiss shouldnt have happened. The hug wasnt wrong! Hugs arent a big deal and he shouldnt be upset over that. After all this guy is your friend even if u two used to date. Your man should chill, especially if he knows u love him. Make it clear that u do and i hope this all works out for u two in the end.

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Why is it that all teenage boys only want sex, sex and sex? Are there any teenage boys, anywhere, that want a serious relationship? It's so hard to even find a half decent guy anymore. Don't guys just ever want to take things slow and want a girl for more than just sex?

Not all teenage guys want sex! Mayb u just have bad luck with finding the guy u want. There are guys who want relationships and usually there the last ones u expect, trust me i know. Your gonna find somebody!

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My parents nag me ALL of the time! Seriously, they bug the hell outta me and I am so sick of it! I think i might move in with my aunt, but i dunno how to break it to my parents. Also, anybody else have this problem? how do you guys deal with it? Thanks in advance!
~From, ME!

I know how this one goes. Mine do the same to me all the time, school and grades, personal life, friends...u name it they chew me out for it. I would temporarily go to ur aunts..for a couple weeks until they realize how bad they make u feel. If they feel bad that theyve driven you to leave and want to stop nagging u 24/7..go ahead and reason with them. Then move back in. Hope i helped hun

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Anyone know websites for homecoming dresses? I've checked jcpenny's, macy
s nordstroms and those department stores..but anything else?

Try Deb...they might have something..

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okay there is this guy who is in my class and lately he has been hitting me and tapping my shoulder and stuff ...he is a great guy!! people were like ohh my god get a room and stop flirting you 2!! how do i know if he really loves me?? what should i do??

This is just typical guy behavior huh. If you like him, joke around with him, poke him, tap on his shoulder and walk away...at least do something.

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okay ive been going ou with a guy for 2 days now and i cant stop thinking about him..i think about him all the time everytime i close my eyes all i see is him..when we have to say bye on the phone..i wanna say i love you...but im not sure...could i be inlove??

Wow, 2 days...dont say it. hes gonna think ur a freak, trust me, ive been there. Wait a few weeks, if it lasts a few weeks. And i think ur in lust, not in love.

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We Just Moved Into A New House And We Bought It. So My Mom Said I Can Paint And Decorate My Room However I want. I Dont Know What I Should Paint It Though. My Favorite Colors Are Pink And Purple. And I Love The Playboy bunny. Does Anyone Know Where I Could Get Playboy bunny stuff? Or Pink Stuff For Your Room? Thanks.

Spencers is a great place to find playboy stuff, i got a couple things from there once.

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ok i'm grounded for a month ( no joke its been 2 weeks) and my frndship with ma best friend is fading away. i yell s0o much i lost my voice for 4 days and evrything. at this point i dnt wahna live nemore ! i'm losing it ! helpp me

Ok the grounding sucks but u can get over it. I even got grounded from the computer, the phone and being outside after i got home from school. And i had a boyfriend...so just think, its not that bad. Your friend is prolly gonna be there for u when ur done being grounded. And dont worry bout loosin ur voice, it comes back!

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I love you Stephanie!

Thanks, I love you 2.
I have a feeling that kevin wrote that...

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duz anyone know if crunches really make u lose weight???? or do they just make ur stomach flatter?

I dont think they do anything for weight...

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