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OMG! I don't have any friends anymore all the guys at my school hate me and my "friends" don't even talk to me. No one talks to me. and no i'm not a "loser". I had "friends" but they keep discludeing me! HELP?!

..well y did they stop talkin to you in the first place? get to the bottom of that and then work from there. or talking to them always helps. but theres got to be a reason that they just all of a sudden stopped talking to you

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f/13. school's pretty much over but i have a one hour day on friday june 24. i like this guy but i'm not sure if i should continue liking him over the summer. but i highly doubt that he would ever like me. last year whne i liked him i got over him during the summer, but then when school started i liked him again. do you think i should continue liking him this summer?

signed, summer lovin' doesn't happen so fast

i think, you should talk to him, cause theres no point in liking someone for so long and nothing ever happening, u got one life 2 live so live it -- plus if things fall through with him, you got the whole summer ahead of you, so have some fun

-- hope this helps -- x0x

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Well my friend invited me to her party shes having, and I told her I could go but now I really don't want too. There like renting the Excercist and I REALLY REALLY do not wanna watch that. I told my parents and they said just tell her you don't want to watch it...well my friend Carina would make me watch it and everyone else wants to and her dad would make me watch it too. And I like hate the one girl she invited and the other one is okay and the girl who I'm actually friends with can't go. And if I tell her honestly why I don't want to go she'll get mad at me(yes stupid i know). I don't know what I should tell her sooo could someone please tell me what to say?

just say you have other plans already, or that you cant get a ride..or that your parents wont let you go cause you have to do something 4 them -- be creative, but not 2 made up

hope this helps x0x

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wut is a 3 sum?

..when 3 people have sex together at the same time

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I'm going to sleepaway camp in about a week and I really want to maybe get a boyfriend there because when you go to camp you practically start over and can be whoever you want to be without the pressures of school. I've never had a boyfriend and I was wondering how I should flirt at the socials/dances. Also, how do you let boys know you exist and you WANT a relationship? Some just want to be friends.

i wish i went to camp to have that kind of oppurtuity, but thats besides the point. flirtings not that hard, but first u have to actually meet the guy, lol. i say, just go with your instincts. flirting comes pretty natural when you're feelin a guy, so it shouldnt b a problem. then, once you get to talking, tell him what you want. dont just come out and say it, you might freak him out, and subtle clues help too .. i hope this helps x0x

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Well my mom ALWAYS calls me a whore and a slut i dont know what to do about it. My dad wont talk so i dont know how he feels and it drives me crazy when she calls me that. I always wonder...well what if I really am...but no one at school thinks I am. Why is my mom doing this to me and do you have any ideas on what I can do to stop it??
thanks

i dont know you, but your probably not really a slut or a whore. Its a problem your mom is having and you might want to get her some kind of help, somehow. it might be hard for her to listen to you, but u have to talk to her and either work it out 2gether or take her to therapy or something -- thats just wrong -- hope this helps x0x

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Okay me and my boyfriend have been dating for 10 months now. Well I've stayed at he's house for the past 2 weeks straight, only been home 2x. My boyfriend loves that I stay there. He feels closer to me and he loves that feelings of having me around to make him happy and when he wakes up he LOVES to see my face sleeping next to hes..but ya whatever I have a problem though. He's little brother is really mean to me (only when he's friends are around) and he says I look like shit and I need to go home this isnt my house and im lazy and just bullshit. Plus he has a friend named trevor which is ALWAYS ALWAYS around him and he never leaves. he acts like its hes house and he tries to tell me to leave but i've been around way longer than him and I hate it soooo much, but im not going to go home because my boyfriend don't want me to..so what should I do about the other 2 guys and don't say "try to ignore them" cause trust me i have already tried that many of times.

have you tried talking to your boyfriend about it? maybe he has a suggestion for ya ..

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what if you are in the orchestra and can't get fake nails cuz it will mess up your playing..but i REALLY want some for school..so what should i do?!!?!

i dont have fake nails .. whats the point?

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me and my ex bf nate went out for almost a year and i just decided to break up with him all of a sudden. sometimes i think it was the biggest mistake of my life and sometimes i think it was the best. he says that he's 100% over me and i tell him im over him to but i dont know if i can be over him. he was the first guy i ever fell in love with. he was completely devestated when we broke up, abut he's over me now and i dont know what to do. i still love him, im just so confused. what do i do?

well why did you break up with him in the first place? .. first analyze that, and then decide where to go from there

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what are some good websites for graphics of "Copy the Code" for my advice column!
i have already had diamondrains.com, starlightmks.com, and ticklishdesigns.com!
pleaase help! i rate high for anyone who wont leave rude comments!!!

mygen.co.uk -or- www.pimpwebpage.com


how this helps -- x0x

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I've been losing alot of weight lately & I hate how it's leaving stretch marks. Any pointers?

Its because you've been loseing wieght too quick. they have a lot of creams for stretch marks, so that might help, and also be sure to mousturize, because thats why you get them in the first place.

hope this helps -- x0x

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Is there any other website where you can get your pictures rated other then buddypic.com, there website doesnt except my pics. Thanks.

try www.myspace.com .. youll have to set up an account but its free

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Is it safe to give a cat oatmeal and milk human form,and the best way to see what is going on inside a cat's stomach is it by drawing blood or x-ray?

well different cats have different reactions to milk. some may throw it up and get sick, and others will drink it like its water. but to the ones that throw it up, you have to stop feeding them it because they can die. And may i ask whhyyy you want to see whats in a cats stomach? it just seems a little random..

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MY FRIEND IS ON DRUGS NOW HE TOTALLY RELYS ON IT he thinks its impossible to get off it he does pot and alcohol and HE CUTS HIMSELF HOW CAN I HELP HIM?!

you need to get him help. if hes relying on drugs to get him through life he's going to go nowhere and you obviously care enough to ask for help here, but you need to get him help from a professional or at least someone older you can trust in..

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My question: Is it rude to correct someone who uses a word incorrectly if they made the mistake while giving a compliment? I sent my boyfriend an e-mail. I concluded the e-mail with "Your Hot" signed by my name. My boyfriend responded to the e-mail. He concluded his response by italicizing "You're Hot" signed by his name. At first I thought he was emphasizing how he thought that I was the one who was truly hot in the relationship until I realized he was pointing out to me that I had misused the word "Your."

nah, i dont think its rude, i think he might have been trying to be funny but it just got to you. Tell him you thought it was rude and see what his response is. i mean, i use the wrong grammer and spelling all the time, not on purpose or anything but by accident, and yes, it annoys me soo much when people correct me. its like, get over it .. you kno?

hope this helps
x0x Lea

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ohk my Q' is what do you have to do to be able to do the crossed out letters on aim ? cause i wanna put it in my profile ! thnx

highlight what u want striked out .. right click to fonts -- in the bottom left, click the box next to the word strike out and hit ok ..

hope that helps!

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When I was younger I used to be really skinny because I stayed with my cousins a lot and we were always swimming, running around, or riding bikes. Since then I've gained a lot of weight cause I haven't exercised much. My stomach is flabby and my thighs are kind of big. I want to tone down before school starts up again in August.. so does anyone know any exercises I could do? I'm not saying I'm fat or anything but I've gained about 20 pounds in the past year and I just wanted to tone down some. Thanks. :)

I also have another question about this. I love to dance & I have about four movies that have dancing in them. Does dancing help tone you down any?

Dancing is definatly good exercise because i've danced for 13 years and it seriously works as good exercise .. its a cardio workout andd an endurance workout.

But if you want to do more, try some different variations of crunches thatll work all parts of your stomach. also jogging or walking for a long period of time helps a LOT.

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hey.. im a 23/m... my mom and my xgirlfriend are like really close. well, we all live at a campsite and we are all really close, there's like, a bunch of friends living together, but i dont really have to explain that. well, they are really close because we've all known eachother since we were like 6, and all the older ones were like, 40. anyway. well, i really think i still like her, a little, but we broke up because i came in drunk and she got upset, and well we were gonna get engaged but it didnt work out. nd now her and my mom are really close and its bothering me a little, because now im all awkward around her, even though ive known her my whole entire life.

the only thing thats making things awkward is you. you think you have to be but you dont. just talk to her, thats all. once you get everything out in the open yall can work things out and things wont be so awkward. and if you really do like this girl, youll stop drinking if she dosent like it .. y are u drinking anyway, and y did she get mad in the first place? think about it..

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