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Hi im 13/f and im just wondering when you cherry is popped when your having sex, is he doing to hard? or what, hod does it pop?

WHAT!!!! The meaning cherry only means like your virginity the first time you have sex your not a virgin no madder HOW hard he does it!! and its THE not DA i dont know if your black or not!!1 but learn how to spell

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ok i started for the 1st time on tuesday
but i had no tampon or anything and i had swim and then wednesday it stopped
and i saw today it came back

and ever since tuesday my tummy hurts a lot
and iono
i feel weird

can someone help


and tomorrow i have a swim meet TOMORROW AND IM PRETTY SURE ILLL STILL BE ON IT
SHOULD I WEAR A TAMPON ?

Ok swim practice, wear a tampon even though reseachers have discovered that water stops the flow of your period.
It could just cramps, but if your possitive it isn't ask your mother a couple questions about the pain your feeling.Maybe it runs in the family and is harmless.

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I have come to the point where I cant write, concentrate, derive pleasure from anything, have difficulty remembering things, have blurred vision, eyes seriously hurt, sometimes have severe headaches, most of the time dont know what I am talking especially with my elder brother. I have nt got father and mother I live my elder brother and his wife since 6 years. I am 26/M an MBA had a successful career but now since six months things have been deteriorating. I cant bear it any more. Plz tell me the easiest way to commit suicide which hurts less and is quick and doesnt make much of a mess.

There's no GOOD way! Killing yourself with bring you straight to hell! Don't you believe in life after death? All the problems you have now will fallow you into the after life, you may think now that it's the only was to turn, but people love you and ill give you my Email so you can talk to me if you like.I maybe half your age but it's best to talk to anyone instead of no one.
You may think your solving your problems but your creating them for ur family and loved ones.
You can't run away from your problems. Trust me I know, Can't hide for one day and hope for them to be gone. You need to face them, not let them concore you.You need to believe yourself and be strong..
Said4eva999@yahoo.com
My name is Katie and I also have a myspace if you want that.I may know nothing about you, but its not an answer and you shouldn't turn to it.

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Ok is there a way I can NOT have bad breath in the morning other then like brushing every three hours? My class is going camping and I just have TERRIBLE breath in the morning. Not like normal which is just pretty bad but ok, just so bad. It's worse then a skunk! (seriously I smelled a skunk b4 and it didn't even smell that bad for me)

Brush your teeth in the morning, it would be helpful

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I don't get why in high school some people called me a bitch even a few guys. I haven't done anything wrong or said anything really bad about them?

It's high school, thats what high school does, call them sluts and to F off.. its what u have to do

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ok, im 14/f.
my parnets are racist and always have been. my sis and i are the only ones out of 6 people in our family that dates out of our race. my ? is how can i get my mom into getting to know my black bf???? holla at ya snowbunny lata/./.
abby aka Az

Ok, i know its hard growing up in a racist family but there not ganna change there opinion on diffrent colors. Im glad your not racist but just tell them that he makes you happy and they should understand because they love you

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So my boyfriend said I could use his computer to edit photos of the two of us. While I was doing so, I threw one away accidently and went to the recycle bin to retrieve it. I found all kinds of porn movies that he had downloaded. It literally made me sick: especially since he and I took dirty pictures and made dirty movies that he has on his computer. Why would he want to watch other girls and not me? It makes me extremely jealous.
My question is: how do I bring this up to him? I was by no means snooping, but I think it might come of that way. I have a feeling he'll get defensive as well. I just need a place to start from. Do I tell him the story of how I found it? Do I just come out and say "You looking at porn is hurtful to me"? Thank you for the advice in advance.

Ok men look at porn as gross as it is. My Dad looks at it when my Moms in the same room! I'd be like why are you looking at this and not me? And stuff, I understand why your jelouse thats GROSS though. Hopefully he doesnt Dennie all of the movies u found...

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16/f

hey. i know i can always ask for you guy's help, because you've helped me a lot over the years =) today, i'm in a crisis, and I really need the help of someone who doesn't know the situtation very well. I'm sorry if this is kind of long, but, I need to get it all in there. So, I'm going to start fromt he beginning

There is this boy named JC. I've liked this boy now for a couple of years. But, it's not that I just like him. He's been my everything since I've known him. When I'm around him, it's like I can't even begin to put into words how I feel. This person is so important to me. I've written him a series of letters over the years, telling him how I feel about him. Recently, I've started a binder and I'm planning on giving it to him, without saying who it's from yet. I didn't feel ready to give it to him because he has a girlfriend. I know he doesn't really love his girlfriend because I know why he's with her. It has to do with their families and it's just a relationship of convinience. He just has her to say he has a girlfriend and their families know each other. It was just like convinient.

Sometimes, I have tried to get over this boy. But, I don't really want to get over him. When I'm ready to tell him, I'll tell him. But, I've had boyfriends, other guys. But, I mean, I got my first kiss when I was 14. I was there with this boy, who took me to eighth grade prom, and I wasn't just not going to kiss him. Besides, I had felt bad because, well, you know, imagine if I hadn't kissed anyone now because I was waiting for him, and he was there with his girlfriend. I would feel awful, and I would feel worse if I saw them together and I had never had a first kiss waiting for the boy who has a girl sitting on his lap, right?

So, I have a boyfriend now. He's a very sweet guy, and I like him a lot. These two boys go to different schools, rival schools. haha. But, yesturday we went to this fair at JC's school. I went because that school is my school's brother school and I wasn't going to miss it just because my boyfriend didn't want to go to the rival school fair, but he ended up going. So, we found this little hut in the school and we started making out and he gave me hickey. I was there with him, and some other people. So, my best friend texts me and tells me she couldnt find me, and I told her we found a spot. So, my mom drove us home, because I'm learning how to drive, and I don't like driving at night, because I'm still learning. He goes to this thing called paintballing and he lives with his grandparents, so usually his grandpa takes him. But, he didn't have a ride because his grandpa took the car with him on a business trip. So, he called this kid, to pick him up, so he could sleep over at his house and take him to paintballing today.

my mom sees the kids and totally freaks out. I see the kids and totally freak out. I'm so scared, it's not even funny. These kids were bad, and like really bad. So I send my best friend a text message saying, listen my mom and i are really scared of these kids, i don't think my mom wants me to be with him anymore, and that i needed help covering up the hickey what should i do? and I didn't send the text message to my best friend. The message, BY ACCIDENT was sent to my boyfriend. So, when he gets it, I had to make up some lame excuse that I switched phones with this kid, but now everyone is mad. I just want to fix this and I don't know how. I couldn't stop crying yesturday and I don't know what to do. I really really want to fix this. please can you give me some advice on this?

Thing is, last night, at 2 in the morning when I was crying, I called JC. I called himand I was about to tell him everything. But, he was sleeping and the phone was off. So, there we go. Anyways, I don't know if this is important but, please please help me

Please and thank you

Wow... a lot to this story and I hope I can help.
First- I wouldn't give him the HOLL binder because that would be kinda akward. Wait a week.. and in that week give him a letter everyday then on Monday of the next week give him the binder. Im thinking it wont be so overwhelming.
Second-Get rid of his girlfriend.Real girlfriend or not. Its not far for the girl and you need to sqeeze between them..lol.It'll be easier.
Third-If you love this boy you need to tell him. Just think of life without him in the years.... Sucky huh well tell him and if he likes you back! Thats a fairytale waiting to happen....
Hope I helped
Katie!

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wher do i go to get cheeked about vaginal burning and itching . i need help as soon as possible. and a way so my mother doesn't find out

you both loseing ur virginity wouldnt madder... like clean yourself better and shave downward when you shave yourself

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i personally dont see what is so bad about drugs! maruana(sp) and weed and everything. i would never try it because my parents would freak out, but why is it illegal? all it really does is make you high, which is exactly what alchahol does! if drugs are illegal, alchahol should be aalso!w/ what is the difference? someone please explain to me and why drugs are so bad?

Weed is illegal because its a weed that the government cant tax and the rest is pretty bad and it would seem stupid to band one drug and not them all so

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you know tyra's panty party?

well i missed the part on how to not make your thong show. can someone fill me in??

thanks.

ps. it doesnt have to be from the tyra show

One big way is just keep your pants up lol just kidding. Most people wear then jacked up like a little above there stomachs and they dont wear there pants up there so it shows maybe you could pull the strings a little lower then normal.... im not sure tho but i do hope i helped ive been yelled at by teachers about undergarmits showing so :) hih
hih- hope i helped

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I have blue sofas and my boyfriend doesn't want to throw them out.
But we're redecorating so im gonna have to work with them.
I have no idea what colour (for the walls) that will go with the sofas.
We have hard wood flooring. And I don't really want any bright colours.
Does anyone have any suggestions?

u could refunish them like decorate verything else then what goes with teh walls and stuff....

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IF your credit card number is stolen and used to purchase items. Is there anyway to get that money back or prove you didnt buy those goods?

insurance... and shut off the credit card so no one can buy anything pone it anymore

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O.K. well you here people like saying they want to hit 2nd base in a relationship.... what does that mean? like what are all the bases & what do they mean?

1st Base- Kissing
2nd Base- Making Out
3rd Base- Sex

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i like this guy.. BUT HE IS SUCH A MAN WHORE..he always has girls around him. im a cheerleader and im pretty good looking i guess.. and when im around HIM he makes me feel special.. kind of like he likes me a little.. but when i see him.. he is doing the same thing to other girls!! so i have compitition with alot of other girls... HOW DO I WIN HIM!! 15/f

Don't even bother with him. He's pulling the same moves on you all, he's fooling with all of you.Even if he does like you what if the next new cheerleader comes with bigger boobs and butt your then nothing...It's a one way road to pain and a huge broken heart and I dont't think anyone would like to see that.

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im 16 and im 4'11 and i weight 107 pounds and i want to gain more weight in my breast and butt ; are their any types of foods that will help ? or workouts i could do ? thanksz

CHOCOLATE!!!! will work in the butt area but u dont want flubb in it so do like butt crunchs and in the boobs i heard if u push then into urself that it makes then bigger

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ok so im 13 and i live brockton mass. i want my belly button pearces and i cant frind a place that will do it for the age of 13..pins and needles will only do it of your 14.. help asap

there are kits u can do at home which work the same i did my ears that way..... that and vermont does it if ur moms there and sighs paper work and stuff but it may be a far travel

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i like this guy but ive never hung out with him. weve just talked online. and yes i do know him in person. he has this gf and so i dont really want to like him but i cant help it and last night everything went wrong. me and his gf got in a fight and so now hes mad at me and deleted me as a friend on myspace and so we dont talk anymore. and so my friend sent him a messgae saying some stuff and he requested me but i was really mad at him and didnt approve him. but now i think i made a big mistake. wat should i do now?

mesg him saying ur sporry and explain what happened and regquest him

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does anyone know any tips to make the area under my eyes brighter? wen i wake up, its really dark and i look gross =[

or any eyeshadows i can wear to make my eyes pop?
(i have brown eyes.)

PINK with brown eyes pink is awsome not some hot pink a nice suttil pink would work awsome with brown eyeliner trust me it works

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In my opinion, I don't think I have a bad personality. I'm not stuck up, I don't cause any drama, I'm honest, I can keep secrets, and I'm nice unless someone gives me a reason not to be. I mean, I can be "mean" sometimes with guys except I'm kidding and they know it. I'm not shy, but I'm not incredibly outgoing -- I'm just normal there. Plus, all of my friends say I'm hilarious. Most of my friends, who are girls tell, me I'm pretty and I've had some of my guy friends tell me I'm "hot". I'm not stupid, but I'm not a genius. Since pretty much everyone but me cares about this at my school...people say I'm popular (I hate that word and I don't care about "popularity" just to make that clear). The thing is, I've never had a boyfriend -- NOT ONCE. I don't get it. Every single one of my friends has at least had ONE boyfriend sometime in their life, but me. No, I don't only want one cause "everyone" has one. In your opinion, does it sound like I'm doing something wrong? Why can't I get a boyfriend?

Oh goodness, your doing nothing wrong. You cannot let a guy know your desperate, they'd want you in bed on the first night. Keep doing what your doing I bet you someone likes you but is afraid of what you would say.You should be awsomely nice to everyone so people like you more and guys are like "wow she's awsome!" and then you should get a boyfriend. I dont think your snotty what so ever, there is nothing wrong with so dont let the guys get the best of you just dont become one of those slutty girls who wear there shirt down to there belly button just to be noticed. Guys actaully dont like that cause it makes you look easy. Stay a virgin till your married because guys want something no one else has had. Ok i dont know how I got on the topic of sex but it doesnt madder what your friends have had or have now. Be yourself cause someone out there likes you like that.
:)I hope i helped:)
Katie

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