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Hi, I am JenniferI am Korean- Japanese and proud.
I am a clingy person, so I need people who don't mind cling people.
I try very hard not to be judgemental.
I suck at waking up.
I have a two second attention span.
I laugh at the most corniest jokes and make them myself.
I have a lot of Jennifer moments. You have been warned.
I love being tan, so please get that suntan lotion away from me. :)
I can make a party animal look like a party pooper. :p
So, yeah, I'm just your average kind of girl... with a more than needed bit of craving for chocolate maybe? Yup... ♥
advice
I want to hang out with my friends more but every time I ask. No one will answer if they want to hang out.
I tried asking people but they say they are busy or something because of school and that we would hang out sometime later. Sometimes we do but usually we don't.
So it's break and I would love to get out... but what do I do?
I've been asking people for 3 days already and nobody will answer me.
Is something wrong with me? I didn't think I need anything wrong..
They said they should start acting more like friends but it hasn't happened.
Should I just give up and spend my days alone..?
Awww. Don't give up.
Be outgoing and get new friends. Talk to those 'friends' of yours in AIM and tell them anytime they could hang out, call you or something. If they call you back, they're real friends and they actually were busy, if they don't, well, either they forgot or they just don't want to hang with you.
Hang out with the ones that call back. Be friendly and fun so you'll be more wanted. Go to a lot of school dances to make new friends. Join clubs. Talk more. It really helps to make new friends that actually want to go out with you to places, like the movie theater or something.
Hope I've helped
-Jenny C
Ok im going out w/ his guy. We've been on and off for about 2 years now. Hes a junior and im a freshman. We both go to differnt schools and we hardly see each other. But i went to a football game w/ him and my friend came to hang out w/ me. And now she calls my man every day. And i keep telling her hes mine. And she doesnt lisen but me and my man barly talk anymore on the phone..
What the hell do i do???
What a bitchy friend!
What kind of friend would do something like that? This question you have to ask her, because what she's doing is totally wrong. Tell her, "I'M going out with him, NOT you, so stop it." If she keeps on calling him and all that, tell her, "I can't believe you care less about our friendship than you do about MY guy. I don't think we should be friends anymore. I never knew you were so disloyal." Point out to your 'friend' that what she is doing is wrong, and that it could lead you two into never speaking to each other again. Make her realize that she needs to STOP and go to another guy.
Hope I've helped
-Jenny C
okay. this is serously complicated so if u understand it well then awsum!! okay so theres this one boy and four girls are totally in love with him. four of these girls are my bffs. one of them is his GIRLFRIEND!! but every1s trying 2 break them up so they can have him. this guy is not hot and has no personality. also, hes serously dumb. how do i convince my friends 2 get ovr him and move on?
First, ask them WHY they like that boy. If they answer, cute: tell him, "Uh, no he's not. And looks shouldn't matter THAT much." If they say anything about his personality, like he's sweet or funny, tell them, "No he's not. Because_____________________ and he's totally dumb!" Fill in the blanks with reasons. Also point out that it's totally wrong to try to break people up. It's really bad. Ask them how they would feel if they were in a relationship with this guy and someone tried to break them up.
You have to get it to their heads for yourself. It won't really change their feelings, but it might change their minds into trying to get over him.
For the guy problem you have, smile at him friendly. Talk to him. Laugh at his jokes. Simple things like that could to a nice friendship.
Hope I've helped
-Jenny C
ok i am single my best friend has a boyfriend and she got him without any trouble i am friends with lots of guys and i am not trying to sound like a self involved whore but i have been told i am pretty and attractive(and not just by realatives) so could someone please give me some tips on how to find a boyfriend?
The number one thing to do: Flirt!
You said you have a lot of guy friends. Flirt with them! Be extra affectionate. Give them hugs. Show them you're trying to get from 'friend' to 'girlfriend'. Start one by one. Don't flirt with them all at once because then you'll be labeled as a HO. If the first one doesn't go well, there's another one!
Hope I've helped
-Jenny C
so i should contact to him nomatter what..i just want to know all the thing i feel for him is love,,yeh ofcourse i know what is love but i'm confuse between he & my ex..but i afraid he mad at me that why..but you know i can't feel it anymore everytime i think about him yeh..all the times i sure he did toobut i need some courage to contact to him ..will u stand beside me?i afraid he didn't like me anymore..well thanks you for your advice so much...
Be strong. =)
I hope everything goes well.
Okay,so it's another one of those 'internet friends' kinda things.
I was just wondering if there's any sure fire way to know if someone's real over the internet? I've known the person I'm talking to for nearly two years, and I ended up talking to them first, as in I emailed her about something off of a different website. (Sims)
I've talked to her on the phone before, but I'm not sure what to think.
So is there any way I'd be able to find out if this person's real or not (I've tried white pages, can't use that since she's too young).
Thanks for any help. =)
The only possible thing that could help you is if you and her both have a web cam. If you don't know what it is, it's this little device that allows you to see the person you're meeting up in the internet, If you have MSN or AIM, you can do it.
You can get one at an Apple store. But of course, she has to have one too.
Hope that helps
-Jenny C
yeh..i really want to know that he can understand me or forgive me i think he had a feeling about "its too early to say that"{i guess}i really want to tell him i like him so much..& can u tell me what is love?
Love can't really be defined, can it? It's just that bubbly feeling you have when you're hugging your little sister because she gave you a homemade gift or when you're around that special someone you can picture living in a house and having kids with.
If you're 16 and over, maybe you'll have experienced what love with another gender really feels like. If you're 16 and under, like me, I don't think you shouldn't really be worrying about it too much. When the time comes, you'll be sure about who you love. It depends on your feelings, not really anyone else's.
Hope you find yours
-Jenny C
hey, i like bands like the following. something corporate, story of the year, hawthorne heights, fall out boy, plain white ts, play radio play, penfifteen club, yellowcard, american hi-fi, the red jumpsuit, the afters, bowling for soup, hello goodbye, cute is what we aim for, my chemical romance, and panic! at the disco. can someone please tell me good songs by those bands or new bands that i could listen to. im getting bored of the same songs and bands.
I like some of those bands and I think you might like:
All-American Rejects
Green Day
Good Charlotte
Click Five
The Used
Sugarcult
Senses Fail
Matchbook Romance
Count the Stars
That's all I could think of.
You can go to music.yahoo.com and search your favorite music artists, and then when you find their page, scroll down and you'll find a lisst of Similar Artists. There might be bands that you haven't heard before, but are similar to the ones you like.
Hope I've helped
-Jenny C
Hi im 14 and im a girland i live in Arizona. Um iv'e been with this kid for about maybe 8 months now and my family doesnt like him very much. They think that he is bad for me and stuff but i love him very much. Iv'e been crying so much because my family has been giving me so much crap about him and i just dont know what to do!!
Tell your family the next time they start crap about your guy, "I don't care, okay? Maybe that's what you think! But I think he's sweet, cute, considerate, _____________." Fill in the blanks with adjectives that you believe your boyfriend to be. Tell everyone, "I think I have better judgement, because I'm closer to him and you've never even been with him before! I really like him and whatever you say isn't going to change my feeings, so why even try?" They are being such idiots about your boyfriend.
If they continue, ignore them. Try to act like you didn't even hear them. Don't listen to them. It's your feelings and opinion. Nobody asked them anyway!
Hope I've helped
-Jenny C
My boyfriend and I have been going out for three months and have known eachother for like 2 years. The thing is, we still haven't kissed yet! How can I hint to him that it's ok to kiss me and he can? Cause I will not mind! He has had other g/fs in the past too.
Thanks a bunch!
Kiss the boy first! Don't go overboard and passionately French him on your first kiss with him. Just kiss your boyfriend on the cheek and hug him. That'll show him. He'll probably get the message. If he doesn't, then start kissing him on the lips. Maybe he's not kissing you because he thinks you don't want to. Show him you want it!
Hope I've helped
-Jenny C
If you are deciding on weather or not you like a guy, is it true that if you kiss him, you will make up your mind? Has it ever worked?
That's not true. You kiss when you've decided already. Just trust your emotions is all I can say. If your heart starts beating faster for a boy, or if you act the slightest bit different than your usual self around a guy, that means you like him. Don't go kissing guys to find out if you like them. Because if it turns out you don't, you can hurt someone.
Hope I've helped
-Jenny C
I was with this guy Mike for 9 months and we were both very in love with each other. We even wanted to get engaged as crazii as that sounds, but we were that in love with each other. We fought just like every couple did and we each made mistakes. Then I made the mistake that ruined it all I gave this new boy Chris my number. Mike found out and exploded. I told him it was just if Chris needed a friend.. Mike didnt believe me. Then we crumbled. We tryed to date again but then I found a note he wrote to me but never gave me and after that we were torn. Its been a couple months since our break up but I can't let go. I cry myself to sleep most nights because I love him soo soo much. I am so stupid for hurting him. My question is, is there a way to make him see I've changed and need him in my life? Please help me. I cant go on without him in my life. We are still friends but I want him to be mine again. I know we were meant to be. So please I beg you help me
Tell this guy of course! In an e-mail maybe, or a letter. Tell him how you cry yourself to sleep with him in your thoughts and how you love him so much. Explain to him that you didn't mean to turn away from him when you gave your phone number to Chris. Tell Mike that he's your only one. Describe how much of a loss he is and how you feel about losing him.
If he ignores your letters or IMs, tell him face-to-face. Use emotions. Be over-dramatic. =) But don't overdo or you'll end up looking like a freak.
Just explain to Mike how much you care. Compliment him. Tell him how much your life has changed every since he slipped out of it. He'll be touched if he's a caring guy.
Hope I've helped
-Jenny C
we known each other about .since last december 2rd..I met him after i broke up with my bf,first we only friend,yeh my feeling for him"just only friend"he listen my heart broken problem ..tell me strong for that & the things which can ease my pain.2 weeks later he told me he crush on me.i said its too early to say that but i tell him i like him.he really care about me i know that & i do too.well i really like him,he showed me the good way,teached me how to strong,he understanding me about all the things i did.but now he didn't contact me anymore..i don't know why?i really want to know why..he didn't tell me anything..i'm so confuse..
Well, one thing you should've done is to ask him. First on an e-mail, AIM, letter, whatever. Tell him you like him a lot and that you feel neglected that he is not contacting you. If he seems to be ignoring them, then talk to him face-t-face.
Probably it's because he lost interest in you. This guy chased after you, but you didn't exactly let yourself be caught. He was tired of going after a girl that doesn't share his emotions. He's probably trying to get another girl. If you really care about him as a crush, then tell him so and tell you'd really like to go out with him sometimes. If you don't, tell him you'd still love to be his friend.
Don't shrug it off. Talk to him.
Hope all goes well
-Jenny C
I've noticed that none of my makeup has expiration dates, but I've read in magazines and other places that you're supposed to throw out mascara after about 3 months, foundation after about a year, etc. because the makeup does go bad. Well, the thing is, I got this really nice makeup kit for Christmas about 3 years ago and it contains about 50 different shades of eyeshadow. Now this makeup costed a lot of money, I still use it quite often, and I haven' even began to use it all. So, since I heard that you were supposed to throw out eyeshadow after awhile, I was wondering if I could still use this eyeshadow even though it's pretty old? Would it be harmful if I did? I use it a lot and I seem to be fine. But, will it eventually cause eye infections or something?
If you just started using it recently, then I don't see how yucky bacteria and icky micoorganisms could've gotten to it, but yes, you're risking having an eye infection by wearing the eye shadow. Eye shadow expires 6 months through up to two years, and you've had yours for 3 years.
My boyfriend and I have been together for about 9 months. The first part of the relationship was long distance, so I didn't really think anything of it when he seemed uncomfortable. But, looking back, from the beginning he seemed hesistant about having sex with me. It was I who initiated our first time together and he just didn't seem as eager as I did. And to be honest with you, I can count how many times we have had sex in all of that time. I would say, and this is being generous, about 20 times, maybe, and as of now, I can't remember the last time we did it, maybe 2 months ago. He is very affectionate in other ways, but when it comes to that, he just doesn't seem that interested. Its always some excuse. I used to be on him about it everyday, asking questions, but now I don't say anything and I think that he is happier with that. I have never had this problem before, my last boyfriend loved having sex with me, but now sometimes I doubt my ability to please someone sexually. Another thing is that he never compliments me. Ever. I always have to say something first. Even on my birthday, of all days, I was looking good and he didn't say anything until my roomate said something. I feel that I have tried to talk to him and approach this situation in an adult manner, but I feel jilted. He never presented this side of himself before we started dating. I even asked him if he was gay. Nothing. And I see him checking out other women so I know that he is attracted to females. I feel that I am too young to give up my sexual life and not just on a physical level, but what it can help nurture between man and woman who love each other. I am not ugly, I just finished modeling not even a year ago, I am not overweight, I am not a prude in bed either, I don't stink. I feel I have tried everything and its frustrating to see someone that you love so happy not to be close to you, but want to be up under me all the time, just not that way. Should I even bother to stick around and see what the problem is or just leave now.
You sound like you'd be on every guy's wanted list. Maybe this boyfriend of yours isn't right for you. You try to please him. You be affectionate. You're a dream come true of almost every guy... but maybe just not his.
Maybe your boyfriend doesn't realize what he would be missing out on if you weren't his. Show him! Tell him that you guys should meet other people. Most likely, your boyfriend will think you mean it as, "I already did." When your boyfriend asks why, you'll know he cares in someway. This is when you get the chance to talk to him. To tell him why. Don't be harsh. Tell him you want to keep the relationship spicy, but tell him why you're about to give up on trying.
If you tell him you two should meet other people, and he just agrees... he just lost interest in you. Flirt with other guys. You're sure to attract at least a hundred! =)
Good luck (not like you need it, heheh)
-Jenny C
Ok here's the thing, I no I'm not a lesbian because I get turned on by guys and I love to "hook up" with them, but I do things with girls and I get just as turned on... I don't like dating girls I just like having sexual incounters with them... I think it is a stupid question but I wanna know.
--Syd
You are, in some ways, bi. By having affections towards girls as equally as you do to guys, you are bisexual.
And it's not a stupid question. So don't worry.
Hope I've helped
-Jenny C
I have a problem. Ok so everything is going well I have a boyfriend and I was happy with him and our relationship was going well. He's always so sweet with me and I feel safe with him. Ok so yea yesterday we were talking online and out of the blue he writes "its over bitch!". I was so shocked he never said those things to me before. Then like about an hour later I write to him and he writes "what the fuck do u want?!". I thought I was going to die when I read that. Then that person wrote that, that wasn't him it is one of his friend online in his screenname. And then he said he was going to block me and he did!. I don't know what to think. Should I believe that person?. I don't know who it was. And if it is his friend wat right does he have to end our relationship like that?!. I'm so confused please help a.s.a.p. Thanks!
Stop talking to your boyfriend over AIM. Talk to him face-to-face and ask him about this. Tell him that things were typed in his screenname and you want to go what's going on. Tell your boyfriend you suspect his friend is behind it, and let him know you don't think it's very funny.
-Jenny C
my mom and dad just died. i bearly had the strength to write this, but i am sooo sad, what should i do? I feel like i should be dead to. please, help.
Maybe you aren't the God-believer, but I suggest you "talk" to them. You don't have to close your eyes and go "amen" or anything, unless that'll help you feel better. You could just lie in your bed and whisper to them how much you miss them and love them and everything, or just say it all in your head. Tell them about your feelings in whatever way you want to. Try to make yourself feel closer to them. Wear your Mom's pearls or have Dad's ties.
Also, think about what your parents would feel if you killed yourself for them. They would have intense guilt. Your parents would want you to live long and work hard in the future. They want to see you be successful in life. How would you do that if you die??
Being depressed is normal, but you should try to work off all that grief you have. Smell sweet-scented candles, take nice warm buble baths, eat fudge, do anything calm and relaxing that'll lift your spirits up. I'm sure your parents want you to be happy. If you're depressed, they would be too. So make them smile by accepting the fact that they're gone without tears. It'll be hard. But it's possible. =)
Hope I've helped
-Jenny C
~~~in reply to feedback~~~
You have some kind of attitude... cursing someone out for trying to help you. I suggest you take anger management.
Sorry if you were an Atheist, but you don't have to believe in God to talk to your parent spiritually, you know.
Even if you're such a female dog, I'm sorry your parents died. =) Okay? Hope you get over that.
With lots o' love,
Jenny C
~~~~~~~ so there is this guy that used to like me and i used to like him 2...and we knew we liked each other but couldnt go out!!!!
then he asked my full time enimy out!!!!!!! ahhh\\\
What should i doo
you have already helped if u reply
It depends on why he asked your enemy out.
If he asked your enemy out because he had real feelings for her, then I suggest you do nothing and just move on. It's hard to move on, I know, but just remember that there are more than million other guys than him out there in the world. And most of them are single ;)
If he asked your enemy out to make you jealous, then, well, that's stupid. What's the point? Try not to show envy, because then he'll give up on making you jealous and eventually dump this girl. Meanwhile, hit on other guys. Try to get your interest to someone else.
Hope I've helped
-Jenny C
my little sister Dana is turning 13 early next month and we don't know how to celebrate it but we want it to be special. she'd do a sleepover but our mom won't allow it. she's thinking of a party but she dosen't know what theme to use. what do you guys suggest? please help. thanks in advanced.
Go to a movie theater and watch a movie of her choice. Buy buttered popcorn or chocolate for her as you watch the movie.
Buy her gifts, of course! Maybe a nice pair of Uggs or a sweater for the winter. Maybe a CD from her favorite singer. Spoil her rotten! =) Get her a simple but cute and sweet card if you really don't have money.
Just do something simple at home... like play music (if you bought her a CD, play that!!)) and just go wild! Have chips and soda!
Play fun games... like Twister or maybe Truth or Dare. I played those kind of games when I was thirteen, I remember. Start a pillow fight! It doesn't have to be at a sleepover!
Make desserts. Bake cupcakes or make sundaes or something else. Get M&Ms, kisses, sprinkles, frosting, strawberries, whipped cream or something and have a contest where the cutest cupcake or sundae wins something small and cute!
Have fun
-Jenny C