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Q: does anybody know how i can download a song for free without limewire.

go to cdzinc.com and search for the song you want to download and it will play through windows media player.
~Maegan~

Q: i have a school dance this friday i can either wear a mini skirt from abercrombie but when i dance it might fly up or a pair of faded ripped jeans from abercrombie also i either have a collared white shirt or a pink and white tank top that go together what should i wear?

go with the jeans and the pink shirt. both pieces are comfy and you don't have to worry about people seeing anything while you dance.
~Maegan~

Q: How do you make a screensaver by painting it on your computer?

go to start on your screen. then click on accesspries. under accessories there will be paint. clik on paint. paint your pic. then when your done, save it. them you can select save to desktop.
~Maegan~

Q: We have a school dance this week and i want to sneak my boyfriend in that goes to another school. But i dont know if he wants to go or if i will get into trouble. So should i try to sneak him in and risk going home or not even try?
Thanks

i wouldnt even try because there's a chance you iwill have to pay the consequences. someone tried that at my school and they got suspended. i wouldnt even try.
maybe you could ask your proncipal if yyour mom writes a note or something saying that you will take full responsiblity for his actions he might let him go.
hope it goes ok!
~Maegan~

Q: My boyfriend's brother's funeral was today and after it was all over with he wanted to go to Astroworld (an amusment park). I thought it was totally unappropriate because I thought he should have been with his family. But, I went anyways, for him. His brother had committed suicide and my bf never had any room in his life for suicide. Still though, it was his brother, ya know? Do you guys think that it was weird that he wanted to go there after his brother's funeral?

he mite have wanted to go to have fun after the horrible event. people do weird things after a loved one dies. he mite have wanted to do something different to escape the gloominess.
~Maegan~

Q: this is the girl that asked u about the whole mike thing(about us hanging out and what not) but anyways i wanted to start out by saying thanks for the help..it meant a lot! but anyways i have another problem! well last night i talked to him and it went HORRIBLE! i imed him and was like this is a little weird and hes like yeah i know what you mean..so then i was like what do you mean, why do you say that? and he was like same reason as you probably, why do you? and i was like well all my feelings came back and he was like its just weird thats all (well if his answer was gonna be the same as mine and he knew that..i know..why was it totally different..doesnt make sense..dunno if he was hiding something or what) well then i asked him why he did it and he said i suck and i was like well why do you say that? and he was like cause i do i wanted you to stop me..i was like what the heck you wanted me to stop you from kissing me when you know i love you..it just didnt make sense to me..how could you seriously do that to a person? so then i was like do you like doing this to me and he was like no no no no no and i was like why do you? do you like me crying all the time? and he was like no actually i find it kind of annoying! so i was like you know what fine sorry for being annoying and sorry i came into your life ill just leave! well he ended up blocking me for like 30 minutes and took me off his friend on myspace! i know i reacted a little harsh but after him being like this for 9 months and even telling me 6 months after we broke up he loved me..it causes a lot of pain!ive told a lot of my friends i give up and im done cause i know i deserve better! but they keep saying we know he loves you, you can tell he just doesnt wanna admit to it! but no one knows but him! i told them hes not the one crying all the time but they said you dont know that..and i guess they have a point! i guess my question is what do i do from here? do you think hes playing hard to get or scared to tell me his feelings? should i give up or what? sometimes i just think it isnt worth it anymore! thanks so much

i think you should try to get his friends to find out what he thinks about you. most likely theyll know because guys talk about all the stuff they do with girls. i have more guys as frends than girls so i know what they talk about. i think he might be playing hard to get or just saying what he thinks he feels. i dont think you should give up until you are absolutely sure he doesnt like you.
the reason you shouldnt give up is that he wouldnt have come on to you like that if he didnt still have feelings for you.
~Maegan~

Q: what are some good sites with questions that you answer like... fav color, eyes, hair, clothes, music, ect.??

these r some good ones:http://www.kwiz.biz/simplesurveys/do-survey.php

http://www.kwiz.biz/simplesurveys/do-survey.php

~Maegan~

Q: k for halloween i'm being a cowgirl. i have a cowboy hat and stuff but i'm just not sure how i should wear my hair. it's not very long.. it just touches the top of my shoulders when it's straight. i was wondering if i should put it in pigtails or if i should just leave it down? what would go with the 'cowgirl' theme more? thanks

put your hair i n braided pigtails like the cowgirl from toy story. it will loook cute.
~Maegan`

Q: *this may be kinda long sorry! but thanks for taking the time to read this*
*well me and my ex boyfriend "mike" have been broken up for 9 months now! we talk about once a day or sometimes every other day! we have hung out quite a few times..and this is where the problem starts
*last night he came over and picked me up at my house around 10! he lives like 30 mins away from me so the whole time we were driving he was just kinda flirting with me..like making fun of me and stuff! well we were going to his friends house to get him and then gonna go bowling but his best friend was there and he doesnt like me so we didnt go there..instead we just went to mcdonalds! he kept asking me if i wanted something but i said no! well he got something and while he ate we sat in his truck and just talked..he kept staring at me and i was like what and hes like can i not look at you! and he kept calling me turtle lip which is what he called me when we went out! well then we left and went to his house and i started playing with my hair and
he was like whats wrong? i was like nothing and hes like what are you thinking about and i was like nothing and he was like dont lie to me i know better..well i didnt wanna talk about it! so we get to his house and he undoes his seatbelt..he looks at me and goes do you think it would really work out? i was like i really dunno and he was like honestly and i was like i dunno maybe! well i told him i was cold so he moved the thingy in the middle up and came and cuddled with me! well he was rubbing my feet for a while and he knows i love that! then he layed his head on my chest and was listening to my heart beat! well then he looked at me and was like can i bite your lip and i was like why and he was like i want to so i was like sure..so he did..then he layed his head on my chest again and just stared at me and was like can i kiss you so i was like i guess so we kissed! and that happened quite a few times! he kept trying to hold my hands and hold me in his arms! well i got up for a sec so he laid in my spot! well i was like fine ill go in the back and he was like no lay on me so i did! the seat belt thing was in my way so i went to the back..so he came back there with me and of course we cuddled and ended up messing around! weve hung out several times before this and weve never touched eachother like that or cuddled/kissed or anything! well then it was 1:30 and his dad was like you need to take her home! ya it seems awesome i know..but heres where it doesnt make sense! today he was on AIM and imed him (he was away though) and i was like you know things are gonna be hard now cause i cant get over him at all..and he signed off so i was like what the heck! so i got on myspace and he was on so i was like whatever cause sometimes it just leaves it on! then again later i got on it and he was on it again but he wasnt on AIM so i felt like he was avoiding me! so i called him and was like why are you ignoring me and he was like im not im watching a movie ill ttyl so i was like whatever! and he hasnt been on AIM all day..sometimes hes not but its kinda weird! i dunno if its just me or if hes ignoring me! i guess my question is what should i do? let go or keep trying? keep in mind he is my 1st love but i have been trying for 9 months.. how do you think he feels? do you think he really likes me and is scared to tell me or fall me or what? ughhh someone please help me! thanks so much

i think you should approach him in a situation where he cant avoid you. like show up at his house or something. then ask him about yall's relationship. i think he feels like he wants it to be the way it used to be between yall but better and more. i think he does like you but is afraid to actually use those words to tell you. maybe he feels like it was a mistake what he did with you and wants to make sure it is really what he wanted to do. i hope it works out. if you still need more help drop me one.
~Maegan~

Q: hi im in algebra to and ihave this really hard math problem its a word problem and i was wondering if any one was out there that is really good in math and if you are please help i will rate high THANKS SO MUCH

im pretty good at math. im in algebra too.
~Maegan~

Q: Is Irish a Language?

yes
~Maegan~

Q: WHAT iS THE WHiTE GUNK WHEN YOU POP A PiMPLE.? BECAUSE WHEN i POP MY PiMPLES A LiTTLE WHiTE THiNG SQUEEZES OUT WHAT iS THAT..?

it is the core or the pus that was in it.
~Maegan~

Q: Hey, I need a bunch of songs....about friendship. Thanks!

~Brina

friends forever by vitamin c
~Maegan~

Q: Okay well I'm a freshman in high school and I need to do a science fair project again. I'm not sure what I should do because I want something easy. This project has to be an experiment and I have to work on it for the next 4 months so anyone got some ideas? Please and thank you!

do chromatography. it has to do with ink and stuff. i did it in 6th grade. it was really ez!
~Maegan~
drop 1 in my inbox if u want to kno more

Q: okay well i wanna repaint my room. i have a purple rug and a purple comforter and i want to add green in there. oh and i have purple curtains..and a purple lamp..but then i have a purple and green picture frame and then a green picture frame. so i want my room more green. like a light lime green. what are some like patterns i could do to my walls. they have like a top and a bottom. like theres a divider in there..if you know what i mean. so like i could put one color on top and another on bottom..help pleaseee. sorry about the length

you could paint your walls purple and have the base boards and thecrown molding green.
~Maegan~

Q: I love Rock. like TAKING BACK SUNDAY!! their my favorite band. I have hazel eyes, my name is Rachael, and i need a new screen name! Please help. I rate 5's for all help. NO STUPID ANSWERS PLEASE!!! and by the way, please remember that AIM sn's can only be 16 characters long.

rachael luvs rok
taknbaksunday1
~Maegan~

Q: The family have purchased a blackmoor fish to keep a goldfish company that my youngest son won at a fair last week.
To accommodate them we have also purchased a 15 litre bowl, pump and filter.
Both are feeding well however the small goldfish appears to be chasing the larger blackmoor around and nipping him. The poor blackmoor is having to hide and we've noticed he's started to develop tiny white spots all over him.
I've put him in a smaller bowl away from the goldfish, do you know what the white spots are? How can we help him and will the fish settle down together?

the white spots are called ick. ick is a sickness in fish. if you dont take care of it it will kill all of your fish. you can treat it by putting drops of ick medicine in the water so many times a month. you can by the medicine at walmart, petsmart, or petco.
~Maegan~

Q: i love making brownies and i have a great receipe What do i do with it?

make your brownies for frend and family parties. stik your recipe by the dish with your name on it and people mite pik it up and decide to make it after tasting them.
~Maegan~

Q: I was just wondering if i'm like mentally okay. I'm like super sound sensitive as in i can hear alot of noises and all but i'll focus in on one and it'll start to really annoy me. Then i'll start getting mad all of a sudden and it'll bother me even more. The same is when people move alot or scratch or anything it bothers me so much i get like steaming mad. I also have really bad mood swings. My family gives me a hard time about them but i can't control them. I just get mad and all. Is there something wrong??? No stupid answers plz. I'll rate high for good ones. Thanks.

you might have bipolar. you shjould get it checked. my brothers and my dad have it and there is medicine that makes it less extreme.
~Maegan

Q: Hi. Yea. I'm like 140 pounds, 5'2, and 14 years old. I like think I'm fat, because I have a belly (big). I despratly need to lose some weight, but I don't know how. Do you have any suggestions? Thanks.