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there are these gurls that wanna beat me up and i cant fight what do i do?? (link)
Tell a grown up.enven tough it sounds childish you should before you get hurt.


i have a lot of guy friends and they come over to my house a lot (along with other friends who area girls) and sometumes they are like all over me. Sometimes like during the day or something they'll even do it in front of my mom and little sisters. They say stuff like "youre soo sexy" and even stuff about my as.s.. it's really akward around my family.. but i dont want them to think im trying to get rid of them.. how should i talk to them about.. should i even say anything? lol thanks (link)
I have the same problem with a boy(except he dosent say the stuuf infront of my family)he says things like"Since youve been bad I am going to fuck you hard tonight"or"I am going to smack that big ass of yours"or"love you".You should tell him to stop.Even though I tell him to stop he dosent You might get luck and he might stop:)


how can i brake a bone a mean break it not sprain it ireally want to know and plese only comment back if you are going to help me i rate high for advice that is useful dont give me advice like why would you want to do it i need something that is garenteed to work.

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it could be any bone but fingers (link)
You can:
Fall of your roof
Get ran over
Fall down your stairs in a realy dangorus way


well im seeing this guy and he might have a girlfriend he said he's on a break with her but do i believe him or not ? (link)
Well if he says hes on a break from her he might be on a break from her or he might not(you know guys).But just follow you heart.:)


o0o0o0kkk well my best friend.. i get the feeling she doesn't like me and I REALLY WANT TO CHANGE WUTEVER IM DOIN WRONG but the thing is i dont no wut im doin! wut should i do to help our frendship here???

i rate high!
*~!desperate for help!~*
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Have you you told her you have the feeling that she dosn`t want to be your friend?Mabe its just a phase pepole go to in friendship.But if its not and she tells you she dosen`t like you cause of somthing you do but you like it about yourself you can always make new friends.


I was wondering which whitening system would be best, Crest or Rembrant? Thanks! (link)
I think crest would be the best


my aunt suzy died last night and i could have sworn i saw her walking through the house late last night! what does that mean?
PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!! (link)
I think it means your seeing her spirt,or your just imaging things.


My boyfriend's mom is such a BITCH. I know that sounds mean, but its the truth. He broke up w/ me and we got back together. We are together now but I haven't talked to him in 2 weeks because everytime I call she is like he's out side mowing the grass. I called 2 days ago and she said he's outside mowing the grass. I call back 3 hrs. later and she starts yelling I TOLD YOU HE'S OUTSIDE! I am very sensitive and I was like like ok. (I almost cried because she keeps yelling at me) I called back today and she said HE'S MOWING THE GRASS! Is there a way he can find out his mom is being mean to me without me telling him? If I tell him he'll tell his mom. (link)
Well the only way for him to know his mom is being bitch is to tell him(but without the bitch part).Try asking him why dose his mom do that.If you don`t tell him you may never get a cance to talk to him.I hope everything works out:)


My best friend jade is getting mad at me because i am freinds with this girl kayla who she got in a fight with. now she wont talk to me unless i stop being kaylas friend, and then we
stoped talking, now yesterday she called me saying that she wants to be my friend again should i forgive her?
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Well it sounds like she wasn`t being a good friend to start with if she wanted you to stop being Kaylas friend.But if she wants to be your friend you should tell her to stop acting like that.:D


Why should i be happy with my height? (link)
You should be happy about your height for many resons.If your small or tall it dosn`t matter.Because you can do many great things with your hieght.So be proud of your hieght.


I get mad really easily, and people notice. How do I control my temper before it gets way out of hand? (link)
I am just like that so don`t think your the only one.Some times you need to take a big breath and calm down.But if you don`t start controlling your temper you could have a heart attack or high blood presaure.


im 12 nd i like seriously smell! i shower daily, i put on a lot of deoderant in the morning (7:00am) nd body spray. but when im in skewl, about 9ish i STINK! its SO embaressing cause im like that the whole day! I HATE IT!!! please help me!!! :( (link)
You should talk to a doctor about this.The doctor may have edvice for you.


Dear advicenators,

Age:13
grade:7th going into 8th
I have a father that abuses me but i really don't know what to do i've tried being sucidal but it didn't help at all i also know if i consult the police he will deny it and he will abuse me even more so what should i do? (link)
A parent should never do that to any child.If he gose too far and you get bruses then you should tell the police you`ll have evidence and he can`t deny it?


At the moment, I am studying for my math exam. my teacher was nice enough to give us a study guide to fill out. I have a few things that I dont understand:
What is 39% of 500?
What percent of 64 is 3.2?
60% of 85 is what number?
What percent of 85 is 1.7?
What number is 150% of 26?
What i 40% of 400?

Not only do I not understand them, I dont know how to do them! So could someone PLEASE EXPLAIN ot me how to do them? (link)
You should listen more in school to know this.And if i give you the answer that will not help you learn more.


Hey uhm im 13..and im not the u kno most preppiest girl out there. I have black hair and brown eyes..I want sumthing to do with my hair cuz im tired of being so tomboyish. Im not the skinniest girl so does ne1 have ne tips on how i can be a little more girly without being preppy? (link)
I think Its cool to be preepy Its what the world realy needs.Girls who are girly sometimes are preepy.But if you want to be girly without being preepy just try not to act preepy and if you can`t your stuck with it.


But the problem is I don't know how to ask for it. My dad is so completely clueless when it comes to me & my mother is not around. I've told him I'm depressed & that I think about killing myself all the time. But how do I straight out tell him I want to get help before I actually try to kill myself? (link)
plese don`t think of doing that.you should go see a conseler or someone like that.How do you think your famly would feel if you realy did that?


Heyy im already in 10th grade and im only 5'0!! I dont want to be this short anymore!!! Is there any Way i can Grow @ least 3 inches! (link)
Well I don`t know about you growing 3 inches but what I do know you should be proud of your size.


Okay, I asked a question a while ago saying that I went to the movies with my guy friend & that there were hints that he liked me. Well, I got alot of great answers so thanks to everyone.

I've decided I want to tell him that I have feelings for him. If I don't, I know it will be on my mind ALL summer. Anyone have an idea on how I could go about doing that? (link)
No problem.Its my job.Hope you had fun.:D


you know those sad short stories...some are long...and sometimes people have them in their profiles? in xangas, myspaces, and i dont know, just a lot of places. are there any websites you can read a lot of them on? i think their fun to read :o) a lot of them are about bf's and gf's and like one of them ends up dieing in a car accident or something. just a lot of sad things, but yeah. thanx! (link)
I don`t knoe any websites but to get help go to websites like:google,ask,yahoo,and other websites like that and type in what you need.


my parents are way overprotective. like my friends are allowed to stay out til 11 or later, and i have to be back before dark! what can i do? (link)
Mabe your parents still find you as a child.So try to be more responsable in front of them.




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