about

yeah, i'm laura.
freshman, 14 almost 15.
idk what else to say..

advice

ya know how people are layering their shirts and everything nowadays? well i really like it but the thing is...i dont know how to really layer things without it looking weird. can someone help me and tell me like what goes with what? thanks

if youre wearing a polo shirt usually a white tank.

colors that go together:
brown with pink
brown with light blue
anything with white
pretty much any light color with the dark color (ex. light blue and dark blue)

no-no combos:
black with grey
red with green
blue with orange
green with orange
pink with purple (unless its a light purple)

you can usually tell when something looks weird with certain colors. like dont wear lime green and orange..yuck. if you think that something looks good, then go for it.

hope i helped =]

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say someone picks on you and such.. and makes rude comments, how do you stand up for yourself? because i dont have the confidence to go and say something if they were to say something to me or my friends? how do i gain the confidence to do this or what do i say? i dont want to sould like a prissy so any tips?

just be like GET THE F*CK AWAY FROM ME YOU PSYCO!! lol no umm..

just politely say please stop. if that doesnt work, dont let them know it bothers you because then theyll do it more. theyll eventually stop when they realize it doesnt bother you. good luck!

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Well, im very popular and stuff but like im not very pretty.
Ive never had a boyfriend and im pretty sure none of the boys like me,I just wanna make myself look alot prettier , ive got blonde hair and hazel green eyes and im tall.
Any tips that guys might long for?
And what are some things i can do to change my attitude?
im really loud and im funny .. sometimes.lol

try just some make-up, new clothes, and some new hairstyles. maybe side bangs or some layers in you hair would look pretty. stores like aeropostle, abercrombie, hollister, and american eagle are good stores. try to be more girlie. wear skirts more. but dont wear too much make-up because guys hate fake girls. and theres nothing wrong with being loud and funny. so am i =].

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I was just wondering if it was bad to straighten your hair every-day? I never do that since if i washed my hair and straightened it I`d leave it like that for two days, and then wash it again. So i just wanted to know if it will damage your hair to straighten every other day or every two days. My hair is pretty straight but it's frizzy, so i just wanted to know.

yeah you arent supposed to but i do anyway =]. i have damage control shampoo and conditioner so that helps if you do. if you can, get something like heat protection spray so it doesnt fry your hair as much. all straighteners will give you split ends but just get those cut off. for your frizz, theres this stuff from garnier fructise that helps smooth down frizz. its like "smoothing milk" or something. it works pretty good..my friend has it and so do i. hope i helped =]

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I'm the kind of girl who always though suicide was horrible and whoever even thought about it was physco. All my parents do is call me worthless and a f**king bitch and telling me to move out and my dad would even say he hopes I die. I get blamed for everything in this house and get told that I'm a lazy piece of s**t. They treat my little brother like he's perfect and can do no wrong. He can stay home from school when he wants and end up doing whatever he wants even though he stayed home. I stayed home on a 4 hour school day and now I'm grounded and not allowed to do anything. Everytime I want to talk to my mom about how I'm feeling she just goes on about how I'm a disrespectful b**ch and she tells me to move out. I told her I wanted to move out and now she won't let me and she said if I go anywhere she'll call the police on me and she'll send me away because she doesn't care. There's so much more to the story but I don't know what to do anymore. This has been happening to me for a long time and I cry at least everyday and I just want to kill myself now because I can't take this anymore. Does anyone have any advice? pleaseeee

15/f

wow umm your parents sound like assholes. they need help. i would seriously call the cops or child protective services. dont let people tell you that you are over reacting because you arent. good luck to you!!

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Well the guy i like has a girlfriend and i liked him for about a month and they were going out for about two weeks now, but i go to my brothers football practices and he stares at me and smiles.. and he knows i like him and my bother and him always talk about me.. i am soo confused i dont know if u likes me or if he is looking at someone else. what do i do to find out.. besides to talk to him?? Please help me!

if he has a gf and you say he gives you signs that he likes you, he might be trying to show you he likes you back. but i say if he has a gf, SCREW HER!! so what? every guy is available. maybe he'll break up with her for you. maybe you can get a friend to ask him if he likes you. if he says he does, that could show he is a player and that isnt good. but like i said before, he might be trying to make you jealous by having a gf. if he says he doesnt like you, flirt with him and piss off his gf =]. maybe he'll realize he does like you. good luck to you!

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whats a good costume for a thirteen year old girl? my friend is going to a party and doesnt have more than like $5-$1O to spend on a costume, so possibly something she could decorate a tshirt or something for. thanks a ton!

well me and my friends were gonna be gangsters. you dont have to buy anything really..that is if you have an older brother. you might want to buy some fake $$$ though just to spice it up. just get some boy shorts, a baggy shirt, ghetto shoes, a straight billed hat, and whatever else you think would look good. hope i helped!!

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Well.. homecomming is comming up and i have to decide between these 3 dresses.. i love them all i just cant decidee!

http://img524.imageshack.us/img524/6091/dresseslx4.png

i like the first one. its a really pretty shade of pink.

♥ [[ redhead6154 ]] ♥

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What are some good hait styles you can do if your bangs are really short and you dont want to wear them down??

i would try side bangs, if they are long enough to do that. just part them to the side and spray them with some hairspray.

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if a male is 12 years old what is their avg. weight?

it depends on how tall you are. if you are shorter then you wouls weigh around 90?? if youre taller then i guess around 100?? i dont really know but im guessing around there somewhere. i have a friend who is 5'8 and is 12 and he weighs like 125. i have another friend who is 12 and weighs like 85 but hes like 4'10. sorry im not really the person to ask. hope i helped you =]

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i like this guy and im really good friends with him ..but i like him and i kind of want to ask him out. but i dont want to ruin our friendship or anything. and i dont know how to ask him out? advice please?

last year i went out with one of my really good guy friends and when we broke up we were even better friends than we were before. i think since you are friends, then it shouldnt ruin anything. it might even strengthen your friendship like mine did. and for the asking him out part, either ask him yourself or ask one of your friends to ask him for you. good luck =]

♥[[ redhead6154 ]]♥

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I was talking to my friend about this pep rally after school at our school on Friday. I was like do yo know when it is, are you going, an stuff lyk that. So I assumed maybe we would like go together or something, cuz we were talkin about it and like yeah. But now she asked my other friends to go and not me. Because my other friend told me that. Why is she doing that? What should I do?

well that girl sounds like a bit of a brat to me. she is probably doing it just to annoy you or shes jealous of you. i would just go and then when you get there go by your friends like its not a big deal. good luck =]

♥ [[ redhead6154 ]] ♥

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14/f/ freshman
i dont even know where too start.
uh, well this all start on the first day of school. i sit down in a seat with my reallllly good friend of 6 years, heather. we have a new bus schedule and it was the first day of highschool, so i was interested in any cute guys. one stop, had this really cute guy named steve on it. i only recongnize him from being on my friends myspaces. so a few days passed and then around wednesday the 13th i added him on myspace and i got his screenname hes a junior, heathers a sophmore, we started talking alot. and i started to like him. the only thing that sucked was that he had a girlfriend, we talked a little over the weekend and he told me to say hey to him on monday. monday finally came and i was sooo excitied, when i got onto the bus i told heather that i had been talking to him and she seemed surprised, because this kid is kind of popular. and so i could tell heather was like jealous that they dont really talk. anyway, me and steve had been talking this whole week and today heather got off at my bus stop, and we were planning on going to the mall. we were sitting in front of the computer and i as usual was talking about steve, and she knows i like him. we were on myspace and we saw that him and his girlfriend brokeup. i was so happy, words couldnt describe. i was talking to him and trying to make him feel better and stuff. heather says "we should tell him to meet us at the mall, i'd probably hook up with him" ....i dont understand how she could say that. and then she kept saying how cute he was. i didnt make the connection that she was starting to like him. after that she left and when we were talking online she said that she decided to go with her friend lilly. i got pissed at that too. so i decided to go with my friend alison, so i posted a myspace bulletin saying oh yay im going with alisonto the mall, and steve i-med me saying oh yay im going to ! lets meet up or something ! i was in suchhh a good mood and then it all fell down. first alison decides to ditch, and go over her friends, then heather callsme asking me if i am coming to the mall, and she also adds that she was sending steve messages back and forth, and she told me to read them, so i go on her myspace and she lied, she reversed everything, like she said that he said that he wanted to hang with her, and on themessages it was backwards. she was the one who wanted to hang with him. anyway so now im home, and im praying that they dont hook up. because that would ruin my life and my friend ship with heather.

this is my question:
do i have a chance ? should i stay liking steve ? and should i still talk to heather ?

if you think i should still like steve.. then do you have any tips for me ?

thanks

this seems like a jealousy issue to me. i dont think heather likes steve at all. i think she is just jealous that you and steve are hanging out and she isnt. i would talk to heather. if shes really your friend she will let you have him. he was your friend first. i dont like heather. a real friend wouldnt do that to you.

redhead6154♥

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13/f
what are some fun hairstyles for school football games.
our school gets really into the whole school spirit thing, people paint they're whole bodies.

if you have any ideas of like ribbons or glittery things or easy to do styles. my hair is like shoulder length and my school colors are blue and gold.

thanks sooo much.
i need an answer REALLY soon.

well for my school games i bought this sparkly fabric from a fabric store in my town. you can cut it into a skirt, headband, or anything really. thats what me && my friends wear to them. im not sure if you can get it everywhere but you can look around for it at fabric stores. hope i helped =]

redhead6154♥

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Hi im a 13 yr old male and i like to wear girls panites thongs and bras...is there anything wrong with this , is this normal, is it like a sin to do it?
Thanks , answer asap please

umm yeah theres something wrong with that..its not a sin but its kinda weird if you ask me. i wouldnt tell your girlfriend that or she'll be freaked out. if you like doing that..well i guess go for it. but yeah its kinda weird.

redhead6154♥

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I've tried to stop drinking soda but going without the caffeine gives me headache. I've cut down on it so now its only once in a while but does anyone know a way to cut it out completely and replace it with something else???

i would try aquafina's sparkling water. it has carbonated water in it so its like pop but its not. if you get headaches, its most likely not from not drinking caffeine. actually, you get headaches from caffeine usually. just take some tylenol if you get a headache.

hope i helped!

redhead6154♥

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ok i blow dry my hair every night after i get out of the shower. and in the morning i straighten it. my hair looks fine right after i straighten it but after i get to school its a mess! i get so much frizz its not even funny. ive tried almost everything on my hair. i use a anti-frizz shampoo from dove and it doesnt seem to be working. i want to buy a chi but i dont know where to get one at. does anyone know anything i can do with my hair to eliminate the frizz? any shampoos and conditioners that work really well? and hair spray or anything? PLEASE HELP!!

well the reason its doing that is because youre practically torturing your hair. it cant take that much heat so it gets frizzy. i have this leave-in conditioner from garnier fructise that works really well. its like $8 i think and its in a bright green bottle. you just squirt some on your hand and smooth it over your hair. it smooths down the frizz. it works pretty good i think.

hope i helped!

redhead6154♥

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14/male


Ok so I have been doing crunches for like 2 weeks now and they are easy for me. But I have now decided to start doing push-ups but I have the hardest time with them. Anyone got any tips to make it easy or rather less frustrating!

THANKS XD

i would try putting your feet on your bed or something to hold them up off the ground. its alot easier to do them that way.

then when you think you got those down..try them on your knees instead of your toes.

another way you could do more would be just lifting weights. youll get stronger and be able to do more push-ups.

hope i helped!

redhead6154♥

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Everytime I feel like I'm getting comfortable with a new group of friends... something will happen that will make me feel like it's all a charade. I always feel like I'm on the outside looking in and I'm never really PART of the group. I don't know why! If anyone is in this type of situation hewlp me out... I'm so sick of feeling like I don't have real friends.

omg can i ever relate to you! at lunch im always sitting there while my best friend talks to other people and not me. she acts like im invisible sometimes. but anyway..

just make sure they know youre there and that you want to be friends with them. dont be shy just when you feel theyre ignoring you say something to them and get theyre attention.

good luck :)

redhead6154♥

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I am feeling really sad today. Something happened and I can't stop crying. How do I cheer myself up?

what i usually do when im sad is clean or workout. working out makes me feel better about myself for some reason. cleaning just takes my mind of things. sometimes i go in my room and put in a cd i like and dance around like an idiot to it. that seems to work for me. hope you feel better!!

redhead6154♥

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