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Hey. I love giving advice. I enjoying giving advice about the sexual things, I've been thinking about getting a degree to be a sexual education teach or, or a sex therapist. I my second best would be friendship[s] and relationship[s]. I am 21yrs old. I have a pit bull named Zip. I work at a middle school as a nutriton assistant. I have 4 god children, 1 boy, 3 girls.

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Alright. How old do you have to be to get an abortion? I know that you can get it done at any age, but do you have to have a parent with you or can you have an adult 18 or older?

I'm 14. I'm not sure if I'm pregnant or anything. Just incase. And I don't really need you to tell me that I'm a slut, skank, or whore because I had sex with my boyfriend of a 1/2 year. I would like someone that has had an abortion to answer this question, if that's possible.

Thanks alot,& I rate.

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sweetie your 14 there is no one that will give you an abortion at your age...i don't look down apon you..but if you think your pg you need to talk to your mom, if you where my age or older. this would be totally diff. but you are to young. i didn't even think about having sex untill i was 16 and that is still to young. hun if you think you are pregnant then talk to your mom. she may get really pissed off. but you need to know. this is serious only bC of your age.

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can you have sex while your pregnent?(serious question, no smart answers please.) all fives.

my best friend is pregnant and the doctor told her and her boyfriend that they can still have sex. so the answer is yes. you can.

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I just signed up for an xanga and i wanted to know if you know any websites with codes. I mean codes for like different texts, pictures, music, playlists, and other things in a xanga!! Please Help! ILL RATE 5!
thank youu
:)

i knew alot the most i can give you though are music sites. only bC ihaven't been on my xanga infor ever.


http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=x_music_x3
http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=XaNgA_MuSiC
http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=music_galore

i us the last one the most for all my music.

for image hosting if ya don't have sites for that

i us
photobucket.com
or
imageshack.us


http://webmonkey.wired.com/webmonkey/reference/color_codes/
color codes.

http://heathersemple.myknet.org/sprayz/effects.html
random HTML help.

that is the most i could give ya hope it helps.

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How can u finger urself sorry about such an ovious awnser but i get kinky a lot and i dont want a guy to do it to me yet thanksss

I RATE HIGH!!!

xoxo

hm well since ya don't want a guy to do it yet (which is a good thing cuz then you can learn to what you like and then tell them...guys like that) this one is a lil hard for me. just mess around w/ your self alot kinky is good cuz it will help ya learn alot about what you like. us things to pleasure yourself mayeb the end of a hair brush or something big and round.

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Me and my GF have been going out for alittle, like 3 weeks, and this is my first like real GF, I just wanted to know... how do i start a kiss?

sorry if i'm late on this.
but it'll just happen.
that's really the best i can think about giving you right now.

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I feel so weird asking this but i have no idea how to make out like does it come naturally or what?....female

comes natural. i mean its a very nervsing thing at 1st. but i made out w/ my best friend(guy) one time just for him to help me learn. and now all the guys think i'm really good. lol. but just go for it don't be nervous.

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ok what would happen if i like a 19year old and i am 13 years old and my mom and dad know abut him and i known him all my life and hes like my brother and both of our parnets kno we are going out would he still get charged for sagitory rape?

yes it would. but the only way this could happen is if yall get caought. and also if your paretns knew about yall having sex then they would probably not like it and posibably get him in trouble. so my advice is to be SUPER CAREFULL.

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Okay, I'm on birthcontrol. But, when you're on bc do you have to use a condom? And can he cum inside you and you still be safe? I"LL RATE 5's!!!

i would advice you to us a condom also. cuz my best friend takes bc and she never wore a condom w/ her boyfriend. and well she is pregnant. so it's not a 100% safe.

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for myspace. you no were it says ONLINE and that lil person... well peeps are changin it now, and i would like to no how...i rate high.... thx in advance

http://www.chasebadkids.net/

that web site will do

and it's what most of the people are using

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for myspace....how do you get the hearts to fall...i rate high....thx in advance

go to this website

and it will help you w/ most of the my space help you need....

http://www.chasebadkids.net/

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13/m

ok. ive been goin out with this girl for 2 months and i wanna kiss her bu ti dont know what to do to get to that point. we hang out everyday at this place that alot of our friends go to. should i kiss her there?. or there but somewhere private. what should i doo??

depends on the kind of kiss you would like to give her, the pecks are good in public, but if you want to "make-out" w/ her do that in private bC no one really wants to see that. so mostly cute little pecks are good for public if you get what i'm saying!

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how often can i go to indoor tanning salons? what's the most often i can go?

ask the people at the tanning bed you go to

but it's like a law or something that says you can't go more then once a day

bC of health risks

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is there a certain size dick needed to pop a cherry? like how many inches?

nope not at all

length doesn't matter hun

the "cherry"

is a like hm. how to put this a thin skin right at the bottom of the whole, and when a guy puts his penis in your vagina, then it rips and thats the "pop cherry"

most of the time, if you get fingured enough or wear a tampon it will "pop"!

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Hey ive heard people saying grinding what does it mean in a sexual way?

ok well it's really not in dancing, it's what the girl below said

but also, another thing people could us it as is, dry sex or, sex with your close on, it's like rubing your area on each other on way that feels good, some guys don't like it cuz it hurts the penis, but alot of girls like it cuz it hits the right spot on them

i hope you understood what i just said!

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my boyfriend and i are sexually active....

would all the stuff be the same.....if my boyfriend, best friend , and i want to have three way sex? Does anybody know any moves and stuff????? thanks ill rate high

also how do you finger yourself. sometimes i have urges and i heard that will help you....14/f

ahh, oh. Em. Ge. sweetie, your only 14 please don't start expermenting like this now, wait till your a lil older, mabye 16 or 17, cuz you'll be more mature at it, i don't know you that well or at all, but please don't do that now, and not trying to lecture you, don't be EXTERMLY sexual active with your boyfriend, just wait another year or so. cause you never know what could happen!

also, with the threesome thing, don't do it if your a jealous person, and be sure your EXTERMLY close with your best friend and that you can trust her, cause you never know what could happen after that, the whole he cheating on you, and stuff like!

if you have more questions just iM or something

kk girl!!

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ok.... well i have been going out w/ this boy for about 4 months now and i really love him alott!!!! so i am 14 and goin into high school and yaa. so and latley my boyfriend has wanted to go to 3rd base w/ my (down muh pants) i no he is ready and i trust him but i dont now if im still to young or if i should jus do it or wait mann i am so confused ill rate 5

sicne you confused, then don't do it, wait till your completely ready, also i don't think your to young, just don't have sex, cuz when you get to be about my age ((16 soon to be 17)) and you look at the lil kids that you know, you'll be like your to young to be doing that, and then you think about it and your like WOW that's how old i was my 1st time doing this or that, but yeah, just do what you feel is right!! ps. it might hurt a lil, cuz my good friend her 1st time was the other day and it kind of hurt her, but all girls are diff. when it comes to that!!

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what is cyber sex?? and how do i do it?

(my bf wants to do it while hes in a illinois)

wow Cyber sex, i us to do that kind of stuff when i dated boys that lived in other stats, it's really not that fun, but that's only my opion, but mainly cyber sex is when yall are only basically talking dirt to each other and saying what your fatiscy are and what you would do to make em come true, like going into detail, like say he wants to have sex on a 4wheeler you just go into detail of how you would do that, like start off as we would drive through the woods till we get to a praviate place, and then kind of say play by play how you would turn him on and remove his clothes, do you understand what i'm saying?
hope i helped!!

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if you shave "down there" and you go to the doctors for a checkup or somethin then what will they say to you? can you get in trouble?

lol wow!!

ok no that want say anything to you, alot of people shave down there, i mean it really isn't a big deal!

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Do you think oral sex (giving head, eating out) considered sex in a way or not? Give reasons please!
Thank you!

ok oral SEX, i mean it all depends on how you look at it! everyone has a different opion!
it all depends on how you look at it, Sex is when the penis goes into the vigina, no it also depends on your religon belifes, cuz some ppl beleive that oral sex is also a sex, mainly it only what YOU want to believe

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So thers this guy I like and I only get to see him when I go camping. Well Last year he didn't come bck and said he was sorry he couldn't come see me and thsi weekend he danced with me (slow danced) and was all close and singing into my ear and he rode the 4 wheeler with me and was holding onto my legs. But he also danced with my mom like that. Does he like me or what? I rate high

don't get w/ him he will break you hear!
hope i helped

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